近期虐童事件频发，幼儿教师教育尺度成为备受关注的热点。从山西太原5岁女童被老师打了70记耳光，到浙江温岭幼师揪住男童双耳提起离地10厘米，到山东东营幼儿园教师针扎多名幼童被刑拘……每一件幼儿园虐童事件都让人揪心愤怒。是个别幼师人性冷漠、素质低下，还是这些孩子真的骄纵任性到要让老师如此对待？

Child abuse event recently frequent,Preschool teacher education scale become the focus of concern.From shanxi taiyuan 5 years old girl was the teacher played 70 slap in the face,To zhejiang possessing fine seized boy's ears from the ground to 10 cm,To shandong dongying kindergarten teachers needle more than children were XingJu……Each piece of kindergarten child abuse event let a person come anger.Is individual fine human indifference/Low quality,Or these children really proud capricious to let the teacher so treat?

　

　家长A轻微处罚可以接受 Parents A mild punishment can accept

　　闵行区的朱小姐认为老师适当的轻微惩罚，家长是可以接受的。有时，自己的孩子做错事时，家长都会很生气地打他的屁股，更何况管理那么多孩子的老师呢？朱小姐说，中国古代教书先生也是用戒尺来拍打孩子的手背以示惩戒的。当孩子做错事时，轻微的体罚有必要。

The minhang district, ms.zhu think the teacher appropriate mild punishment,Parents is acceptable.sometimes,Their children do something wrong,Parents would be very angry and beat his butt,Besides management so much? The child's teacher?Jenny said,Mr. Ancient Chinese teaching is to use a ferule to beat the child to the back of the discipline.When children do something wrong,Slight corporal punishment is necessary.

　

　家长B拒绝冷暴力和体罚 Parents B refused to cold violence and corporal punishment

　　黄先生说，幼儿教师最重要的就是事事为孩子着想，幼儿园的幼教师，必须要具备两种功能，一个是教育，另一个就是看护。这个年龄段的孩子心智上不成熟，需要老师花时间去陪伴和引导。若有些孩子真是做了出格的事情，必须批评，但绝不能伤害他们，不论是心灵还是身体。这种伤害经过时间的累积，会对孩子今后的人生造成影响，甚至形成人格缺陷。

Mr. Huang said,Preschool teachers' the most important thing is to think everything for the children,Young teachers in the kindergarten,Must have two functions,One is the education,Another is the nurse.This age children in mind not mature,Teachers need to take the time to accompany and guide.If some children really do extraordinary things,Must criticism,But can never hurt them,Whether mind or body.This kind of harm through the accumulation of time,The children in the future life of the impact,Even form the personality defect.

　　教会孩子自我保护 To teach children to protect themselves

　　孩子的心灵是脆弱的，他们希望得到支持和理解，每一句鼓励的话语，都会使孩子信心百倍，每一句粗暴的呵斥，都会伤害他们的尊严。轻易地否定孩子，对他们的能力表示怀疑，对孩子造成的伤害是非常可怕的。“傻、呆、笨、坏”，在孩子的心中是非常严厉的判决，将他们变成了一个家庭或学校的“另类”，在与周围环境格格不入的同时，他们的心灵世界也会因此而一片灰暗。作为家长，父母要让孩子知道爸爸妈妈是爱护他们的，是他们坚定有力的支持和最坚强的后盾，任何问题都可以告诉家长。

The child's soul is fragile,They hope to get the support and understanding,Each sentence words of encouragement,Can make children as much as one hundred times more confidence,Each a rough hoot,Will hurt their dignity.Easily deny children,Their ability to doubt,The damage to the child is very terrible."silly/stay/stupid/bad",In the child's mind is very harsh judgment,Will they become a family or school"alternative",With the surrounding environment fit at the same time,They mind world also will be so gloomy.As a parent,Parents should let the child know that mom and dad is good care of them,Are they strong support and the most strong backing,Any question can tell parents.

　　首先，家长要告诉孩子，必须尊敬老师，因为我们相信绝大多数老师都有很好的职业素质，真心为孩子。教育孩子在课堂上不要调皮捣蛋，不要跟老师作对。

First of all,The parents want to tell the children,Must respect the teachers,Because we believe that the vast majority of teachers have a good professional quality,Sincerely for the children.Education child in the classroom don't be naughty monkey,Don't resist with the teacher.

　　其次，一定要告诉孩子，别人的哪些行为是伤害他的，哪些行为是对他不好的。告诉孩子当他受到不公正对待时，该怎么做。如果受到老师欺负和虐待，回来一定要告诉爸爸妈妈，不要因为害怕而不敢说。保护孩子是全社会的责任。星期8 小镇专家 田文霞 secondly,Be sure to tell the children,Others what behavior is hurt his,What behavior is to his bad.Tell the child when he was when injustice,How to do.If by the teacher bullying and abuse,Be sure to tell mom and dad come back,Don't because of fear and dare not say.To protect the child is the responsibility of the whole society.Week 8 town TianWenXia experts