妇科炎症、性病、意外怀孕、人流致日后不孕、分手后心理创伤…… Inflammation of department of gynaecology/Venereal disease/Accidental pregnancy/People in the future to infertility/After break up psychological trauma……

　　专家建议：性接触莫急于一时，须考虑后果并懂得自我保护 Experts suggest:Sexual contact not anxious to at that time,Must consider the consequences and know how to protect themselves

　　广州中医药大学第一附属医院心理科副教授 谢海燕

The first affiliated hospital of guangzhou university of Chinese medicine mental division XieHaiYan associate professor

　　广州医学院第三附属医院妇产科医生 蒋亚玲

The third affiliated hospital of guangzhou medical college in the department of obstetrics and gynecology doctors JiangYaLing

　　新快报记者 梁瑜 通讯员 张秋霞 黄贤君

New express LiangYu reporter correspondent ZhangQiuXia HuangXianJun

　　大学生性观念开放的说法看来不是空穴来风。近日，新快报记者对广州101位在校大学生所做的调查显示，两成大学生表示已有婚前性行为经历，近六成大学生表示完全不介意将来伴侣是否为处子之身。但前不久，国家人口计生委发布的一组数据显示，中国每年人工流产多达1300万人次，其中25岁以下女性占一半以上，大学生成为人流“主力军”。专家指出，大学生性观念开放可引发身体和精神的健康问题，包括未婚先孕、人流影响日后生育等，正确性观念除了学生个人培养外，学校、家长更有责任引导，学生也要学会自我保护。

The college students' ideas and open view it seems not invented.recently,New express reporter in guangzhou 101 college students do survey,College students have twenty percent said premarital sex experience,Nearly sixty percent of college students said completely don't mind the future partner for his debut whether the body.But not long ago,The national population state family planning commission issued a set of data display,Every year China artificial abortion as many as 13 million people,Among them 25 years old the following women accounted for more than half,College students become people"Main force".Experts point out that,The college students' ideas and opening up can cause physical and mental health problems,Including premarital pregnancy/People affect later fertility, etc,But in addition the students correct concept of personal training outside,The school/Parents have the responsibility to guide more,Students also learn to self-protection.

　　

镜头 lens

　　大学时意外怀孕堕胎，导致婚后不孕 University when he accidentally pregnant abortion,Cause infertility after marriage

　　因为结婚多年，始终怀不上宝宝，老公质疑Jelly年轻时曾经做过冲动且不顾后果的事，虽然不敢明说，却时不时说出带有埋怨味的质疑。Jelly因为被说中要害，也不敢回嘴，只是脸上常常梨花带雨。

Married for years because,Always bosom not on the baby,The husband questioned Jelly when young had the impulse and reckless things,Although can't testified,But occasionally speak with blame flavour questioned.Jelly because be to say the key,Also can't answer back,Just face often pear flower take rain.

　　的确，Jelly在大学时曾和一位当时非常心仪的师兄拍拖并住在了一起。因为年轻气盛，避孕知识又有限，Jelly在大三时曾经意外怀孕，但她和师兄毫不犹豫地舍弃了这个宝宝。她虽然不愿意相信就是那一次人流手术导致了现在的不孕，但又无法否认那一次的影响。

indeed,Jelly in college have and a was so the right brother dating and live together.Because the young to accelerate,Contraceptive knowledge and limited,Jelly in the big three have accidental pregnancy,But she and her brother do not hesitate to give up the baby.Although she is not willing to believe that once the stream of people surgery led to now the infertility,But he couldn't deny that the influence of a time.

　　她为不孕问题求诊过几次，医生告诉她输卵管没问题，但宫腔粘连很厉害，因此为她做了十多次宫腔镜。无奈的是，宫腔能够恢复正常，但子宫内膜的问题解决不了，她不但没法自己怀上孩子，由于内膜受损严重，连做试管婴儿都无法成功。

She is attending the infertility issues a few times,The doctor told her fallopian tube no problem,But uterine cavity adhesion is very severe,So did for her more than 10 times hysteroscopy.Helpless is,Uterine cavity can return to normal,But endometrial problem cannot be solved,She not only can't his bear children,Due to the intima severely damaged,Even do test-tube baby can success.

　　

现象 1 Phenomenon 1

　　高年级大学生同居现象比较常见 The senior and junior college students' cohabitation phenomenon is quite common

　　在白云区某高校读大四的小芳告诉记者，身边的同学多是在大学谈恋爱。大一的时候，大家都比较腼腆，到大二、大三，小芳的舍友几乎全都交上男朋友了，周末的时候，两个女孩有时也会到男友的宿舍里“小住”两天。现在大四比较忙，舍友们基本在宿舍，但小芳的好友小美还是习惯住男友家，小美认为都大四了，同居也无可厚非，毕竟学校宿舍也挤了些。小芳还说，其他学校也有这种现象，在学校附近宾馆酒店开房的男女生也占一定数量，高年级的同学较多。“也试过撞到一两个熟人，当时有些尴尬。”对于大学生同居等现象，小芳认为，虽然现在大学生性观念是开放了，但同居还是早了些，如果性知识并不是很全面的话，也可能会对今后的人生造成伤害。

In the middle of a university read senior small fang told reporters,The students around in the university is to fall in love.Big one time,You are shy,To big/junior,Small fang roommates almost all hand in boyfriend,When the weekend,Two girls sometimes to boyfriend's dormitory"coming"Two days.Now senior is busy,Give up the friends basic in the dormitory,But small fang good friend xiao mei is still used to living boyfriend home,Small beautiful think all the senior,Co-habitation is not,After all school dormitory also crowded some.Small fang said,Other schools also have this kind of phenomenon,Near the school hotel check in men and women living also account for a certain amount,Senior students more."Also tried to bump into one or two acquaintances,At that time some awkward."For college students' co-habitation wait for a phenomenon,Small fang think,Although now the college students' idea is opened,But cohabitation or early some,If sexual knowledge and is not very comprehensive words,May also be the future damage to life.

　　“早在十多年前，大学生性观念开放、大学生同居的现象已经出现了！”广州中医药大学第一附属医院心理科副教授谢海燕接受新快报记者采访时称，她最早发现学校里一些台湾学生在校外同居，渐渐地，部分大陆学生也如此。在广州，一对对的大学同居情侣频繁出没在大学附近的城中村。更有高校老师称，广州高校集中的大学城，一到下午5点便成为空城，就是学生跑校外租房住，这其中，有一部分是学生情侣在校外租房同居。

"As early as ten years ago,The college students' ideas and opening up/College students' cohabitation phenomenon has appeared!"The first affiliated hospital of guangzhou university of Chinese medicine mental department associate professor XieHaiYan accept the new express reporters said,She is the first to find some Taiwanese students in the school at an off-campus cohabitation,gradually,Parts of the mainland students also so.In guangzhou,Pair of college couples living together frequent haunt in university nearby villages.More college the teacher says,Guangzhou university city college concentration,A to 5 PM will become empty city,Is the student ran outside to rent a house,the,Some is the student lovers in the questionnaires.then cohabitation.

　　“来做人流的病人，的确以未婚的年轻人居多，这其中，大学生所占比例较高，占一半左右。”广州医学院第三附属医院妇产科医生蒋亚玲告诉新快报记者，医生通常不会问对方是否学生，但有的学生自己表明要做手术必须向老师请假，结合年龄，不难猜测到其身份。

"To do the people of the patients,Indeed to unmarried young people is in the majority,the,College students' high proportion,Accounted for about half."The third affiliated hospital of guangzhou medical college in the department of obstetrics and gynecology doctors JiangYaLing tell new express reporter,Doctors usually won't ask whether the other students,But some students show that to do surgery must leave to the teacher,Combined with age,It's not hard to guess to its identity.

　　

现象 2 Phenomenon 2

　　乱用避孕方法，大学生成人流“主力军” Abusage contraceptive method,University generation people"Main force"

　　因为一个月来阴道经常出血，该来的月经也没来，阿思在表姐的规劝下来到医院妇科看病。刚开始，对医生的问诊，她表现得小心翼翼，只问月经紊乱，该吃什么药。在医生的反复询问下，她才承认，自己一个月前和男友发生了“第一次”，这一个月来，两位年轻人热烈如火，平均每天一次，她也因此吃了很多避孕药，她猜，月经紊乱是不是避孕药的正常反应？接诊医生问：“吃的是什么避孕药？”“就是事后药啊！”原来，阿思每次一同房完就吃紧急避孕药，这一个月来吃了二十多天！因为过大的剂量导致严重副作用，造成了月经紊乱、阴道不断出血。

For a month to vaginal bleeding often,This come menstruation also didn't come,Think of the o in cousin to down to hospital department of gynaecology see a doctor.Just began to,To the doctor's interrogation,She behaved very carefully,Only ask menstrual disorder,This eat what medicine.In the doctor's repeated ask,She was admitted,A month ago and boyfriend happened"The first",This month to,The two young people warm like a fire,Average once a day,She also therefore ate a lot of contraceptives,Her guess,Menstrual disorder is the normal reaction pill?Accepts the doctor asked:"Eat what pill?""Is the drug that afterwards!"The original,Think every time after her o eat urgent prophylactic,This month to eat more than 20 days!Because big dose cause serious side effects,Caused menstrual disorder/Vaginal bleeding constantly.

　　蒋亚玲对记者指出，大学生相对于中学生，虽然性知识要了解得多一些，但仍有限，存在不懂避孕、太过冲动而忽视自我保护等问题，乱避孕、意外怀孕的例子不少。“大学生最爱乱用的避孕方法就是安全期避孕、体外射精和乱吃紧急避孕药。”蒋亚玲称，这三种都是失败率高的避孕方法，不值一试，有不少大学生就是因此导致意外怀孕，而不得不做人流。

JiangYaLing to reporters pointed out,College students' relative to the middle school students,Although the sexual knowledge to understand a little more,But still co., LTD.,,Exist not understand contraception/Too impulsive and ignore self protection problem,Disorderly contraceptive/Many examples of accidental pregnancy."College students' favorite abusage contraceptive method is rhythm/In vitro ejaculation and eat urgent prophylactic."JiangYaLing says,These three are the high failure rate of contraceptive method,Isn't worth a try,There are many college students is therefore lead to accidental pregnancy,And people have to do.

　　

原因 reason

　　人有我有，学校和家长疏于性教育 People have I have,The school and parents failure to sex education

　　“大学生性观念越来越开放，这一现象存在是有原因的。”谢海燕指出，最主要的原因是大学生远离家长的管束，经济条件也比读中学时候宽松，大学前由于备战高考而被压抑的心灵，一下子得到了释放。“大多数学生在中学时被家长勒令不准早恋、更不能同居，一旦恋爱也是被父母压制的，进入大学放养后，或者远离家庭，家长鞭长莫及，老师也无暇顾及，对恋爱甚至同居的渴望便一下子爆发出来。”她称，有的大学生是找精神寄托，如恋爱等，有的大学生则是通过同居寻找生理的满足和快乐。

"The college students' idea more and more open,This phenomenon exists for a reason."XieHaiYan pointed out that,The main reason is that college students from parents of the bundle,Economic condition is better than reading middle school time loose,Before the college entrance examination for college because and repressed mind,Suddenly got the release."Most of the students in middle school are parents ordered not to early love/More can't live together,Once love is suppressed by the parents,Enter the university after stocking,Or away from home,Beyond the parents,The teacher also too busy,To love and desire to live together and out at a draught."She says,Some college students are looking for spiritual reposing,Such as love, etc,Some students is through the cohabitation looking for physical satisfaction and happiness.

　　“要说大学生性观念开放的根源，撇开社会因素，我认为是学校和家长的问题！”谢海燕认为，学校的性教育缺失，家长只在出事后帮孩子处理事情，平时却不愿或羞于与孩子谈论性观点，导致孩子对性的理解有失偏颇。香港非常重视孩子的性教育，他们会用漫画来浅显易懂地对学生进行性教育，不同年龄层的孩子了解水平不同，他们就会传授不同层次的性知识。她很遗憾地称，虽然很多专家呼吁学校重视性教育，但目前来看，从小学到大学，性教育水平仍非常低。“家长通常在孩子意外怀孕了，带孩子去人流，或是孩子引起性疾病、性异常时才去解决问题。”谢海燕称，目前大部分家长的观念仍然很传统，不支持孩子同居，却又羞于与孩子讨论性，但社会上与性相关的信息铺天盖地，其实，家长们想避避不开，不如跟孩子正面交流。

"To say the college students' concept of open source,Apart from social factors,I think that is the school and parents problem!"XieHaiYan think,The school of sex education lack,Parents only after the accident to help children deal with things,Usually it does not want to or shy away from and children about sex views,In children for sex biased understanding.Hong Kong attaches great importance to the child's sex education,They will use a simple cartoons to the students' sexual education,Different age children understand different level,They will teach different levels of sexual knowledge.She is very regret to say,Although a lot of experts called on schools pay more attention to sex education,But so far,From primary school to college,Sex education level is still very low."Parents are usually in children accident pregnant,Take children to people,Or children cause sexual disease/Sexual disorder when it to solve problems."XieHaiYan says,At present most of the parents' ideas are still very traditional,Does not support children live together,Yet ashamed and child about sex,But the society and sex related information blots out the sky,In fact,The parents want to avoid avoided,As children with positive communication.

　　要说大学生本人，也有责任。有的大学生认为不恋爱不正常，为了不落后，而找个人拍拍拖。“人有我也有，为了恋爱而恋爱的想法，让不少大学生忙于恋爱，继而同居。”

To say I am college students,Also have the responsibility to.Some students don't think love is not normal,In order to keep up,And to find someone take dating."People have I also have,In order to love the idea of love,Let many college students are busy with love,Then cohabitation."

　　

身体伤害妇科炎症、性病、意外怀孕、人流 Bodily injury inflammation of department of gynaecology/Venereal disease/Accidental pregnancy/people

　　“医生，一会儿千万别告诉我老公我以前怀过孕做过人流。”因为不孕而求医的庞女士，心里虽然知道多年不孕很可能与大学时做过人流有关，但为了维系婚姻，面对丈夫她怎么也不能透露半点缘由，但医生的眼睛是蒙不住的，她只能提前拜托医生不要说漏嘴。

"The doctor,For a while don't tell my husband I've had conceived pregnant abortion."For infertility and seek Mr Lady,Heart although know years infertility is likely to be relevant in college abortion,But in order to sustain the marriage,In the face of the husband she could reveal the reason,But the doctor's eyes are not covered,She can only advance please doctors don't spill the beans.

　　在同居寻找生理快乐的过程中，很多大学生没预计到同居后可能引起的一系列问题，也不知如何处理。首先，多数大学生同居情侣租住在城中村，环境糟糕，卫生差。“很多大学生还不太懂照顾自己，更不懂照顾两个人的起居饮食，生活比较散漫，饮食、休息都比较混乱，没法保证基本的身体健康。”谢海燕还称，大学生们避孕知识仍然贫乏，可能会觉得买避孕套麻烦或羞于购买而放弃使用避孕套，转而自己算安全期，避孕失败的几率很大。一旦怀孕，他们又可能选择自行购买药物流产。但药物人流有严格的时间限制，并非每个人用了都有效，而有效的人可能铤而走险又有下一次。

In the cohabitation looking for physiological happy process,A lot of students do not expected to live together after may cause a series of problems,I don't know how to deal with.First of all,Most college students' couples living together to rent in the villages,Environment bad,Health difference."Many college students don't quite understand take care of yourself,More don't understand to take care of two People's Daily life diet,Life is on the loose,diet/Rest is chaotic,Can't guarantee basic body health."XieHaiYan also said,College students are still lack of contraceptive knowledge,May feel to buy condoms trouble or ashamed to purchase and to renounce the use of condoms,Instead he is safe period,A good chance of contraceptive failure.Once the pregnant,And they may choose to purchase drug abortion.But drugs people have strict time limit,Not every person with are effective,And the effective people may rush in where angels fear to tread and have the next time.

　　“值得欣慰的是，大学生对人流的危害多少知道些，经过一次人流一般会有自我保护意识，频繁人流的不多，而且多数会接受医生的建议，改用适当的避孕措施。”蒋亚玲告诉记者，一次人流会导致5%的不孕几率，反复人流的伤害更明显，等到想生孩子却怀不上甚至出现习惯性流产。

"It is a comfort,College students to the harm of people how many know something,After a time people usually have ego to protect consciousness,Often a few people,And many will accept the doctor's advice,Use proper contraceptive measures."JiangYaLing told reporters,A people can lead to 5% chance to infertility,Again and again the people hurt more apparent,Wait until want to have children but bosom not even appear habitual abortion.

　　除了意外怀孕，妇科炎症也容易发生。蒋亚玲告诉记者，年轻人生殖道黏膜的抵抗力较差，更容易因为性行为感染炎症，轻的如阴道炎、宫颈炎等，感染上行还会得盆腔炎、输卵管炎，反复盆腔炎易导致不孕。过早开始性生活，阴道炎、宫颈炎的发生率高，很多人因为感觉“那里”不舒服到医院，一检查就是阴道炎，而且由于年轻人对性生活不加控制，用药期间继续同房，阴道炎反复的情况也屡见不鲜。“不孕病人中七八成有人流或药流史！”她称。

In addition to accidental pregnancy,Inflammation of department of gynaecology is easy to happen.JiangYaLing told reporters,The young man genital tract mucous membrane resistance is poor,More easily because sex infection inflammation,Light such as colpitis/Cervicitis, etc,Infection ascending will also have to pelvic inflammatory disease/salpingitis,Repeated pelvic inflammation easy to infertility.Early start having sex,vaginitis/The incidence of cervicitis high,A lot of people because of a feeling"there"Uncomfortable to the hospital,A check is vaginitis,And because the young people to sex without control,During the course of medication continue to wife,Vaginitis repeated situation also common occurance."Infertility patients seven eighty percent with people or medicine flow history!"She says.

　　此外，若是不慎重，不安全性生活导致感染性病，也有可能。“有个女孩，因为白带多而来就诊，我们给她做了常规检查，发现HIV阳性，她因为不洁性生活而感染了艾滋病，她才20出头啊！”

In addition,If you are not careful,Don't safety life lead to infection venereal disease,May also."A girl,Because leucorrhoea much and to see a doctor,We give her to do the routine inspection,Found that HIV positive,Because she is not clean sex and infected with AIDS,She just 20 s ah!"

　　

精神伤害心理不成熟，分手后产生精神问题 Spiritual damage psychological immature,After break up have mental problems

　　晓潇和男友的相遇，是在大学一年级刚加入学生会时，因为两人相遇颇有童话色彩，晓潇觉得自己的缘分到了，甚至把男友当作日后结婚的对象。在男友的请求和怂恿下，在大二的下学期，两人搬到校外租房同居了。当然，这是瞒着父母做的。同居的一年半时间里，是晓潇最快乐的日子，男友还对晓潇允诺，大学一毕业就迎娶她。可大四实习后，男友有了别的想法，希望能先做事业再结婚，两人为此不断争吵。后来，男友也不回“家”了，晓潇则听说对方在外有了“小三”。果不其然，男友毫不讳言有了新欢，并要求分手。当初信誓旦旦的情郎毫不留情地要离开她，弱如林黛玉的晓潇，竟拾起茶几上切苹果的水果刀，刺向了男友的胸膛。

XiaoXiao boyfriend and meeting,Is in the freshman year just to join the student union,Because two people meet quite have the fairy tale colour,XiaoXiao feel predestination arrived,Even as the boyfriend in the object of marriage.In the boyfriend's request and egged on by,Sophomore year next semester,Two people move to questionnaires.then cohabitation.Of course,This is from parents do.Cohabitation of one and a half years time,XiaoXiao is the most happy days,Her boyfriend XiaoXiao of promise,She married soon after they graduate from college.But senior year after the practice,Her boyfriend had other ideas,Hope to do business to get married again,Two people quarrel to constantly.later,Boyfriend don't back"home"the,XiaoXiao is heard each other out a"Small three".Sure enough,Call a spade a spade a new boyfriend,And asked to break up.At the beginning of the assurance swain relentlessly to leave her,Weak competitors of the dai jade XiaoXiao,Have picked up on the tea table cut the apple fruit knife,Stab to the boyfriend's chest.

　　谢海燕表示，她曾做过高校生的心理咨询，学生来问的心理问题，各年龄段有不同。“大一的多数来问怎么知道别人喜欢自己、怎么向心仪的人表白等，大二、大三的学生则爱问失恋、单相思的问题，大三、大四的学生问的是该不该接受别人包养、感情该不该断和意外怀孕如何处理等问题。”但是，最让人担心的是，这类经历可能引起的心理疾病。专家称，大学生同居除了由于意外怀孕和感染疾病等可能带来对身体健康的影响外，还可能带来精神、心理上的不良后果。“同居与试婚类似，缺乏责任约束，两人可能很容易就分手了，这可能带来之后的情感问题。”谢海燕称，有的人同居分手后，对当年同居的经历非常后悔，以致引发了抑郁、偏执、偏激，甚至报复杀人或自杀等行为。

XieHaiYan said,She had done university student's psychological consultation,Ask students to psychological problems,Each age has different."Most of the freshman to ask how to know that others like yourself/How to do the right people, etc.,sophomore/Junior students love asked brokenhearted/Unrequited love problems,junior/Senior students ask is this shouldn't accept other people's apartment/Feeling this should not break and accidental pregnancy such as how to deal with the problem."but,The most worrying thing is,This kind of experience may cause mental illness.Experts say,College students' cohabitation in addition to due to an unexpected pregnancy and infection disease may lead to affect the health of body outside,May also bring spirit/Psychological negative consequences."Cohabitation and trial marriage similar,Lack of responsibility restraint,Two people may be very easy to break up,This may bring after the emotional problems."XieHaiYan says,Some people live together after break up,On the cohabitation experience regret it,That caused a depression/paranoid/extreme,Even retaliation murder or suicide, etc.

　　

专家提醒 The expert reminds

　　一时冲动性交同居均不可取，应先考虑清楚是否能承受后果 The impulsive into cohabitation is not desirable,Should be consider to be clear about whether we can afford consequences

　　谢海燕对记者表示，她认为大学生应始终以学业为重，但同时，她赞同大学生谈恋爱，甚至可以有边缘形性行为，如拥抱、亲吻等，但不能有性器官的接触，对待性交必须很慎重。她称，不应人有我有地为拍拖而拍拖，而且要有时间、行为、情感的约束，说管不住自己是不可能的。

XieHaiYan told reporters,She think that college students should always to school as heavy,But at the same time,She agrees with college students fall in love,Even can have edge shape sexual behavior,Like hug/Kiss, etc,But can't have sex organ of the contact,Treat sexual intercourse must be very careful.She says,Should not have I have for dating and relationships,And if you have time/behavior/Emotional constraint,Said tube could not help myself is not possible.

　　她称，在大学的生活中，学习的应该是能力，并重视应有的体验。“既然读大学，就该老实过好校园生活，包括与同学住在同一屋檐下，在外租房、同居便没了这一体验。”与大学同学住宿舍、生活在一起，也是一种提高能力的过程。

She says,In the college life,Learning should be ability,And pay attention to right experience."Since college,The honest good campus life,Including and students live under the same roof,Rent out/Cohabitation and didn't the experience."And college students live in the dormitory/Live together,Is also a kind of improve the ability of the process.

　　“性接触带来的后果他们能否处理是一项挑战，同居带来的问题更多。大学生虽然是特殊群体，虽然是成人，心理性成熟和社会性成熟是滞后于生理性成熟的，仍应受到保护。”她认为，虽然性成熟提前了，但社会性成熟却推后了，很多人读完书出来年纪偏大，但对人际关系、工作、身体、婚姻认识成熟较晚，心理上也不太成熟。恋爱到极致很难不产生性的需要，可以不可以发生性接触，要看自己能不能处理这可能带来的问题。“不要一有这样的想法就不顾一切地接受，要给自己足够的思考时间，考虑清楚才决定。”

"The consequences of sexual contact they can deal is a challenge,Cohabitation bring more problems.College students are a special group,Although it is adult,Psychological sexual maturity and social sexual maturity is lag behind the physiological mature,Still should be protected."She thinks,Although ahead of sexual maturity,But social sexual maturity is postponed,A lot of people read books out partial big age,But on interpersonal relationship/work/body/Marriage know mature late,Mentally is not quite mature.Love the most difficult to do not produce sexual needs,Can not can happen sexual contact,Want to see oneself can handle this may lead to problems."Do not have such idea is desperate to accept,Give yourself enough time to think,Consider to be clear about decided."

　　蒋亚玲也持相同观点。她认为，大学生应该有正确的性观念，要了解接触性可能有什么后果。有的大学生年龄偏低，年满18岁之前，不应开始性行为，这是生理和心理不成熟决定的：生理上容易因性接触而得病，意外怀孕、人流会产生不良的心理影响，不少人日后会后悔当初的不慎重，影响日后的婚姻、家庭。18岁以后，则要学会自我保护，一旦发生性行为，必须在安全的情况下，以减少对自己的身心伤害。“男性是不喜欢使用避孕套的，女孩要保护自己，不要怕丢脸，可自备避孕套。”

JiangYaLing also hold the same view.She thinks,College students should have the correct sexual concept,To understand contact sex may have what result.Some students age on the low side,Before the age of 18,Should not start sexual behavior,This is physiological and psychological immature decision:Physical easy for sexual contact and diseases,Accidental pregnancy/People will produce the bad psychological effect,Many people in the future will regret not careful,Affect later marriage/family.After 18 years of age,Should learn to self-protection,Once the sexual behavior,Must be in safe situation,In order to reduce the damage to his body and mind."Men are not like to use condoms,A girl to want to protect themselves,Don't be afraid of losing face,Can bring your own condoms."

　　

专家支招 Experts move

　　大学生适用避孕套避孕 College students' applicable condom contraception

　　认定对方是你的终身伴侣，两人发生了天雷勾动地火的事，巫山云雨，什么才是最适合他们的安全避孕方法呢？蒋亚玲提议说，大学生最适合的避孕方法是避孕套。

Thought the other is your partner for life,Two people happened day ray hook moving their things,Related to sexual,What is the most suitable for their safety contraceptive method?JiangYaLing suggested,College students' the most suitable contraceptive method is a condom.

　　她指出，对大学生来说，吃周期避孕药（每天一粒），很多人无法坚持，导致漏服，可能导致意外怀孕；上环不推荐未婚人士使用，还有后期感染、输卵管堵塞的可能性；避孕针则容易导致内分泌混乱，也不适合大学生人群。以下是目前的一些避孕方法比较：

She points out that,For college students to,Eat cycle contraceptive(Every day a grain of),A lot of people can't insist on,Lead to leakage suit,That could lead to accidental pregnancy;The ring is not recommended unmarried people use,And later infection/The possibility of tubal blockage;BiYunZhen is easy to cause the endocrine disorder,Also not suitable for college students' the crowd.Here are some current contraceptive methods:

　　避孕套（安全套、保险套）

condom(condom/Insurance set)

　　优点：是目前最为普遍的避孕工具，它在避孕的同时也可以预防艾滋病等性病的传播。

advantages:Is the most common contraceptive tools,It in contraceptive also can prevent the spread of sexually transmitted disease such as AIDS.

　　缺点：避孕套是采用天然乳胶制成的，有些人使用后会发生过敏反应，而且会影响两性生活的舒适度。

shortcomings:Using natural latex condom is made of,Some people use will happen after allergic reaction,And will affect sexual life of comfort.

　　适用人群：安全套没有特定针对的使用人群，尤其推荐哺乳期的妈妈选用安全套作为避孕方式。

Applicable people:No specific condoms to use the crowd,Especially recommend lactation mother choose condoms as a contraceptive way.

　　短效避孕药

Short-acting contraceptive

　　优点：按规定服药，避孕有效率达99%以上。新型短效避孕药的雌激素和孕激素剂量比较小，增加体重等副作用减少，除避孕外还有调经、治疗痤疮等作用。

advantages:Medicine in accordance with the provisions,Contraceptive effective rate was up to 99%.New type of short-acting pill estrogen and progestogen dose is small,Add weight to reduce side effects, etc,In addition to the birth control and regulate the menstrual function/Treatment effect such as acne.

　　缺点：不可漏服，可能出现短期肠胃不适等，新型短效避孕药减少了血管收缩与血栓的副反应。

shortcomings:Not leakage suit,Possible short-term intestines and stomach discomfort, etc,New type of short-acting contraceptive reduced vasoconstriction and thrombus side effects.

　　适用人群：目前没计划生孩子或已过哺乳期的母亲推荐使用，尤其适合没有生育的已婚女性

Applicable people:At present no plan children or has been lactation mother recommended,Especially suitable for no birth of married women

　　口服长效避孕药

Oral long-acting contraception

　　优点：服药少、作用时间长，一个月经周期服用一次就可以达到避孕效果。

advantages:Medication less/Action time long,A menstrual cycle taking a can achieve contraceptive effect.

　　缺点：服药剂量大，药效缓慢释放，副作用相对比较大，且停药后不能立刻怀孕。

shortcomings:Dose big,Slow release effect,Side effects is relatively large,And after withdrawal can't immediately pregnancy.

　　适用人群：建议没有生育过的女性最好不要服用长效避孕药。

Applicable people:Suggest not given birth female had better not take long-acting contraception.

　　安全期法

Safe period method

　　优点：计算安全期成本低，又能使两个人更加亲密无间。

advantages:Calculation safety period of low cost,And make two more intimate.

　　缺点：失败率高达14.4%-47%，即使对于月经非常规律的女性而言，由于气候、饮食、情绪、环境等的变化，排卵时间也会发生波动，甚至发生额外排卵。因此安全期这个词容易误导大家，其实安全期的方法一点都不安全。

shortcomings:Failure rate is as high as 14.4% - 47%,Even for menstrual very regular women,Due to the climate/diet/emotional/The change of environment, etc,The time of ovulation will happen fluctuation,Even happen extra ovulation.Therefore safe period this word easy to mislead you,Actually safe period method not safe at all.

　　适用人群：仅适用于月经周期正常、长期生活在一起、并能正确掌握推算安全期的人使用。

Applicable people:Is only applicable to normal menstrual cycle/Long live together/And can grasp calculate safe period people use.

　　紧急避孕药

Emergency contraception

　　优点：在无防护性生活或避孕失败后的一段时间内，可以作为补救手段防止妊娠。

advantages:In initiating unprotected sex or contraceptive failure after a period of time,Can be used as a remedy means to prevent pregnancy.

　　缺点：所含的激素量大，对人体伤害也很大。一年内服用不要超过3次，1个月不超过1次。

shortcomings:Contains large amount of hormone,To human body harm is very big also.A year take not more than three times,1 months does not exceed 1 time.

　　适用人群：是一种临时性的补救办法，不能作为常规性的避孕方式。

Applicable people:Is a temporary remedy,Not as a regular contraception way.