讲座中的彭晓辉教授（右一）。本人提供 The professor lectures PengXiaoHui(right).I provide

　　前日，著名性学家、华中师范大学教授彭晓辉在重庆医科大学开展的讲座中表示，“建议大学将学生活动中心还给学生，可开辟交友约会场所。”这一言论引发了众多网友的关注，也有不少人质疑这会让人“有被监视的感觉”。当事人回应表示，“我的一切想法都是基于学生的。大学里恋爱交友太普遍，营造一个单独的小环境，为学生谋福利也是应该的。”

The day before yesterday,Noted sexologist/Central China normal university professor PengXiaoHui in chongqing medical university lecture said,"Suggest university will the student center back to students,Can open up dating dating sites."This speech caused many users to pay attention to,There are many people doubt it will let a person"Have the feeling of being watched".The parties response said,"All my thoughts are based on the students.The university love making friends is too general,Create a single small environment,For the student welfare is also should."

　　

事件回放 Event playback

　　

“应设交友约会场所” "Should establish dating dating sites"

　　“建议大学将学生活动中心还给学生，可开辟交友约会场所。”前晚，彭晓辉在重庆医科大学开展了一场性学讲座，与数百名大学生现场互动。

"Suggest university will the student center back to students,Can open up dating dating sites."The night before last,PengXiaoHui in chongqing medical university launched a sexology lecture,And hundreds of college students' field interaction.

　　彭晓辉认为，现在大学生谈恋爱不稀奇，但校园里每一个地方都可以说是公共场合，没有一个真正私密的空间独处，不少情侣为避免被抓现行，不得不走进黑暗的、安全性低的隐蔽处。

PengXiaoHui think,Now college students fall in love not curious,But the campus every place can be said to be public,Not a real illicit close space to be alone,A lot of couples to avoid being caught the current,Have to into the dark/Safety low shadow.

　　“这是不科学的，学校可以把活动中心腾出来，开设成一个交友约会场所。”彭晓辉建议，该场所可格成半封闭小单间，让学生情侣自带蜡烛、电脑、游戏来谈恋爱，既安全，又能方便学校监管。

"It is not scientific,The school can put the activity center to make,Open into a dating dating sites."PengXiaoHui Suggestions,This place can case become semi-enclosed small room,Let the student couples take a candle/computer/Games to fall in love,To be both safe,And convenient school supervision.

　　

学生观点 Students view

　　

反对派：像被校方监视 The opposition:Like the school monitoring

　　对此，湖北经济学院会计专业的大三女生钱雅丽表示，如果以官方形式将某个区域划分为恋爱场所，会觉得自己受到了校方的监视，会很不自在。

this,Hubei economy academy accounting professional junior girl QianYaLi said,If the official form a region is divided into love place,Feel the school by the surveillance,Will be very uncomfortable.

　　同系女生李子研说，“校园里算得上是情侣密集地的地方已经够多了。没必要这样做，恋爱双方自己注意一下就行了，何必弄得那么麻烦。”

Homologous girl LiZiYan said,"The campus is are a couple densely place already have more than enough.No need to do so,Love both sides her attention once line,Why get so trouble."

　　支持派：可少影响单身学生

ZhiChiPa:But little to affect single student

　　而武汉大学工商管理专业大三学生刘延却是另外一种看法。刘延介绍，自己学校的校图书馆就有专门为情侣而设的座位，这样真的很人性化，为情侣一起学习提供了方便，也很大程度减少了对单身学生学习的影响。“如果我们学校有这样一个地方，那就再好不过了，就不用在夏天热、冬天冷的恶劣环境下谈恋爱了。”

And wuhan university business management specialized junior student LiuYan is another kind of view.LiuYan introduced,Their own school the school library is designed for lovers and set seat,It's really very human nature is changed,For couples study together to provide a convenient,Also greatly reduced the rate of single students' learning effects."If our school has such a place,It would be better,Don't have in the summer heat/Winter cold bad environment fell in love."

　　

对话 dialogue

　　

质疑，说明有人关注这个问题 question,That people pay attention to this problem

　　“我的一切想法都是基于学生的。大学里恋爱交友太普遍，营造一个单独的小环境，为学生谋谋福利也是应该的。”面对大片的质疑声，彭晓辉认为。

"All my thoughts are based on the students.The university love making friends is too general,Create a single small environment,For the student seeks the welfare is also should."In the face of the big question sound,PengXiaoHui think.

　　彭晓辉解释，前两年还有些学校聘请勤工俭学的学生在校园里巡查，以“校园文明”为名，见到情侣约会在一起，就站在人家的身边，直到把人家拆散为止。这是非常笨而且愚蠢的管理模式。现在大学生恋爱，已是一种普遍且正常的现象，与其打击拆散，不如正确鼓励并引导。为了学生安全，也考虑到实际需要，从降低大学生恋爱成本的角度出发，为大学生提供合适的恋爱交友环境也是可取的。

PengXiaoHui explain,Before two years still some schools employ part-work and part-study system of students on campus patrols,to"Campus civilization"name,See dating appointment together,They stood in their side,Until the somebody else so far apart.This is a very stupid and foolish management mode.College students' love now,Already was a kind of common and normal phenomenon,Blow apart with,As the right to encourage and guide.In order to students' safety,Also takes into account the actual needs,To reduce the cost of college students from the point of view of love,Provides for the university student the right love making friends environment is also desirable.

　　长江商报：有网友质疑，在公开指定地方谈恋爱没有谈恋爱的感觉，他们觉得这是一种监管，而不是提供方便。另外，所谓的单间，是否会导致学生行为过于“亲密”？

Section of the Yangtze river:Netizens question,In publicly designated place to fall in love not love feeling,They think it is a kind of supervision,Rather than provide convenience.In addition,The so-called single,Whether it will lead to the behavior of students too"close"?

　　彭晓晖：首先，这只是提供方便，也是一种自愿行为。其次，我说的是半封闭式的，也就不存在行为过于“亲密”的问题；最后，面对这种质疑，我个人认为，越质疑，越讨论，越好，说明有人关注这个问题。这是提供方便，不是监管。从大学生恋爱成本来说，这种自备蜡烛，自带咖啡的方式，是浪漫又经济的，这不存在对学生的监管问题，这也仅仅只是一个建议。

PengXiaoHui:First of all,This is only provides the convenience,Is also a kind of voluntary behavior.secondly,I said is semienclosed,Is also not exist behavior too"close"problems;finally,Face this kind of question,Personally, I think,The question,More discussion,better,That people pay attention to this problem.This is to provide convenient,Not supervision.From the college students' love for the cost,This kind of auxiliary candle,Take coffee way,Is romantic and economic,It's not the existence of students' supervision problem,This is only a suggestion.

　　长江商报：您提出这种想法的根据是什么？是不是有过这方面的调研？是基于一个什么目的？

Section of the Yangtze river:You put forward this idea according to what is it?Is there the aspects of the research?Is based on a what purpose?

　　彭晓辉：我并没有做过什么调研，这是逻辑上的理解，现在天气越来越冷，大学生约会无去处，非常尴尬。现在大学生恋爱已是很普遍的事，这是考虑到大学生的实际需要。我这个想法提出的目的，就是想要大学生交友也约会的情况下，达到思想品德和正确恋爱观的相辅相成，是基于大学生谈恋爱方便的前提，也是出于大学生恋爱无去处，安全上的考虑，也是便于校方对学生的管理，对学生对校方都是有益无害的。 PengXiaoHui:I have not done any research,This is the logical understanding,Now the weather is getting cold,Colledge students date no place,Very embarrassed.Now college students love already is a very common thing,This is considering the actual needs of the college students.I put forward the idea of purpose,Just wanna make friends also college students under the condition of the date,To achieve moral character and correct the love, supplement each other,College students is based on the premise of the easy to fall in love,Is also out of college students' love for free,Safety considerations,Is also easy to school students' management,For students to the university are beneficial harmless.