大学生们纷纷写下爱情心愿 College students have write love wish 南京高校版“非诚勿扰”，场景很简单 Nanjing university version"If you are the one",Scene is very simple 场面很感人 Scene is very moving

　　

不要车、不要房就是想谈一场单纯的恋爱 Don't car/Don't room is'd like to a simple love

　　日前，一场由南京师范大学、南京理工大学等省内五大高校联合举办的研究生交友联谊晚会，在南师大的校园里上演。晚会模仿当红的相亲节目《非诚勿扰》进行，十余名美女研究生现场选择心仪对象。

a,A by nanjing normal university/Nanjing university of science and technology etc province five university jointly organized the graduate student to make friends fellowship party,NaShiDa in the campus of the stage.The party imitate the most popular to program[If you are the one]for,10 the beauty graduate student the right choice of object.

　　与电视节目不同的是，本场晚会上看不到横流的物欲，也听不到做作、出格的炒作论调。浪漫、温馨、知性，成了当晚的主旋律。晚会仿佛把很多人又带回了感情真挚的上世纪80年代。

And the TV program is different,The party can't see flow worldliness,Also can't hear affectation/Extraordinary hype arguments.romantic/warm/intellectual,Become the theme of the night.The party seems to many people and back to the sincere feelings of the 1980 s.

　　(记者刘浩浩)

(Reporter LiuHaoHao)

　　

现场 field

　　

气氛热烈 Atmosphere of

　　

两女生争抢人气最旺的男生 Two girls for the most popular boy

　　当天晚上5:30，南京师范大学仙林校区西区大学生活动中心人头攒动，热闹非凡。

That evening 5:30,Nanjing normal university xianlin campus of college students' activity center crowded at the west end,jollification.

　　6点，万众期待的校园版“非诚勿扰”终于上演。来自南京师范大学等高校的15位漂亮的女生，依次走上台前，成排站列。

6,Much-anticipated version of the campus"If you are the one"Finally put on.From nanjing normal university and other universities and a beautiful girl,In turn to seat,Rows standing column.

　　根据活动规则，女嘉宾将有三次机会留灯或灭灯，决定男嘉宾的去留。

According to the rules of the activity,Female guest will have three chances to leave lamp or lights,Decided to male guest's future.

　　“大家好，我是来自南京林业大学的张野，今天本来是来为我的朋友加油的。但既然有这个机会，我也想寻找下自己的缘分。”在几名男嘉宾陆续登台以后，当天人气最旺的张野，凭着一段深情的朗诵，立刻获得了全场的最高人气。

"hello everybody,I'm from nanjing forestry university ZhangYe,Today was supposed to come to for my friend gas.But now that have this opportunity,I also want to search for his own fate."In several male guest in succession after the stage,The day's most popular ZhangYe,With a deep feeling of reading,Immediately received the highest popularity.

　　经过三轮的考验，最终共有5盏灯为其而亮。

After three rounds of the test,Eventually five lamp for its and bright.

　　暂作思考后，张野上前灭掉了三盏灯，最后留下来的正是他先前所选的心动女生3号和11号嘉宾。现场气氛顿时high到了极点，“在一起！在一起！”台下观众开始大声高喊。

As a little after thinking,ZhangYe forward destroyed three lights,Finally to stay is he had chosen cardiac girl 3 and 11 guests.The atmosphere immediately high on top of the world,"together!together!"The audience began to shout loudly.

　　“虽然这样，我还是想争取一下。”出乎意料，11号女嘉宾此时并不打算放弃，她说自己对古典文学一直很感兴趣，刚才听了男嘉宾的深情朗诵，马上有种怦然心动的感觉，“我觉得我们应该有很多共同语言。”

"Although such,I still want to fight for it."unexpectedly,11 female guest at this time is not going to give up,She said to classical literature has been very interested,Just listen to the male guest deep recitation,Immediately have a feeling of heartache,"I think we should have a lot of common language."

　　随后，她现场演唱了经典歌曲《枉凝眉》，以期男嘉宾的“回心转意”。而3号女嘉宾也不畏挑战，满含深情地朗诵了一首《致橡树》作回应。现场顿时硝烟味弥漫。

then,She live singing classical songs[Frowning in deep sorrow],In order to male guest"Come round".And 3 female guest also not challenge,Full of deep feeling ground reciting a[To oak]response.The smoke smell immediately.

　　“我觉得做人做事要有始有终。我对3号的第一印象不错，觉得眼缘很重要。”短暂迟疑过后，男嘉宾依然坚持选了自己的心动女生。而全场的气氛，随之也被推向了高潮。

"I think person by halves.I to 3 first impression is good,Think eye edge is very important."Short after hesitation,Male guest still adhere to chose their cardiac girl.And the atmosphere,It also is pushed to the high tide.

　　

嘉宾 guests

　　

选拔条件 Selection conditions

　　

只要是单身就行，没有任何条条框框 As long as it is a single line,No rules

　　当天，其他的几位男嘉宾也是十分主动和热情。按照规则，在活动开头，每名男嘉宾出场会放一段自我介绍的视频，然后现场做补充介绍，最后是男女双方互相提问。

The day,The other several male guest is also very active and enthusiasm.According to the rules,In the event the beginning,Every name male guest appearance will put a self introduction video,Then do the supplement is introduced,Finally, men and women both parties ask each other.

　　第一位来自南大的陈晨才华横溢，尽管未能坚持走到最后，但一首动情的《我愿意》依然引得台下观众尖叫不已。第三个出场的南理工男生，一上场便获得女嘉宾们的青睐，虽然过五关斩六将也终难逃灭灯厄运，但他凭着勇敢的表白和坚持不懈的精神，最终依然获得心仪女嘉宾的芳心，牵手离开。

The first comes from its ChenChen talented,Despite failing to insist on to the last,But a sentimental[I would like to]The audience screamed at that still.The third out of south boys,A play gets the favour of the female guest,Although overcome all the difficulties in the way also end up the lights doom,But he with brave profession and perseverance,Finally the right still get female guest heart,Left hand in hand.

　　“15名女大学生中，13人来自南京师范大学，都是学校研究生各部门上报的。”南师大研究生会联络中心主任姜流芳是此次活动的发起人之一，她告诉记者，另外还有两名女生，分别来自中南民族大学和南京音乐学院。她们是在微博上看到活动预告后，主动报名参加的。

"15 in female college students,13 people from nanjing normal university,Is the school graduate department reported."NaShiDa graduate will contact center director ginger remain is the activity of one of the sponsors,She told reporters,In addition there are two girls,Were from zhongnan university for nationalities and nanjing music college.They are rich in micro see activities after forecast,The initiative register to attend.

　　而参加活动的五名男嘉宾，则分别来自五所高校，都是各高校研究生部门以推荐的方式产生的，“选拔的条件很简单，只要是单身就行，没有任何条条框框。”

And participated in the activities and five male guest,From five universities respectively,Is each college graduate department to recommend way of produce,"The selection of the condition is very simple,As long as it is a single line,No rules."

　　当晚，活动共持续了大约两个钟头的时间，记者看到，活动全程，没有任何炒作的迹象，所有的大学生嘉宾都很认真和谨慎，仿佛就是在选择自己的人生另一半。

That night,Activities were lasted for about two hours of time,The reporter sees,Activities the whole,No signs of hype,All the students are very serious and careful guests,As if is in the choice of your life the other half.

　　在活动中间，男女嘉宾双方会互相提问，以加深了解。记者注意到，所有大学生的提问都很中规中矩，最关注的主要是对方的兴趣、家乡、性格等内容，对于物质方面的东西，从头至尾几乎没有涉及。

Among the activity,Male and female both sides will ask each other,To deepen our understanding.Reporter noticed,All university students' questions are very regular,The most concern is mainly interested in each other/home/Character, etc,For the way of material things,Almost from beginning to end is not involved.

　　

感悟 feeling

　　

活动策划 Activities planning

　　

希望学子能体验到纯真爱情 Hope that students can experience pure love

　　“当天我全程看完了晚会，真的是非常受感动。或许现在社会上充斥的高富帅配白富美的论调，已经让很多人不相信爱情了，但是当晚，我看到了最简单质朴和不掺杂任何杂质的相亲，让我很受触动。”研究生小郑十分动情地告诉记者。

"That day I read the whole party,It is really very touched.Perhaps now in the society riddled with GaoFu handsome BaiFu beautiful arguments,Have let many people don't believe in love,But that night,I saw the most simple plain and doping any impurities to skin,Let me very be touches."Graduate student small very emotively told reporters.

　　“当天你会发现，大家选择另一半的标准其实非常简单，首先是第一印象，其次就是个人的魅力，这是在接下来的才艺展示和互相问答的过程中，能够感受到的。”当晚全程观看晚会的研一女生小刘，有些动容地说。

"The day you will find,You choose the other half standard actually is very simple,The first is the first impression,Secondly is personal charm,This is in the talent show and the process of question and answer each other,Can feel."The night watch the party research a gorgeous girl xiao liu,Some moved to say.

　　小刘告诉记者，这种没有任何利益顾虑和物质化倾向的恋爱，可能是七八十年代很常见的，但是现在已经成了凤毛麟角。这充分说明，大学是个象牙塔，同学们的内心还是很纯真的。

Xiao liu told reporters,This does not have any interest concerns and materialization tendency of be in love,May be the s and s is very common,But now it has become a rare breed.This fully shows,University is a tower of ivory,The students heart is pure.

　　“举办本次活动，我们预想的是为单身的研究生们，提供一个交流联系的平台，让他们找到属于自己的缘分。预想是能产生两对情侣，结果产生了三对，基本上符合预期的期待。”作为本次活动策划人之一的姜流芳说。

"Hold this activity,We expected to single is graduate students,Provide a communication platform between,Let them find their own destiny.Presupposition is can produce two couples,The result of the three,Basically accord with the expected looking forward to."As one of the event planner of ginger remain said.

　　姜流芳告诉记者，文科和理工科学校男女比例失衡，以及高学历女生要求过高，都导致高校研究生群体的择偶境况不容乐观。举办这样的活动，就是希望他们在步入社会之前，可以体验到纯真的校园爱情，树立起正确的人生观和爱情观。

Ginger remain told reporters,Liberal arts and science and engineering school men and women imbalance,And the highly educated girl overstretch,All lead to college graduate student group marriage situation is not optimistic.Hold this activity,Is hope they are to enter the society before,Can experience pure campus love,To establish a correct outlook on life and love view.

　　这种校园相亲虽然纯真美好，但是未来的感情，能否经受社会风气的侵袭？

The campus to pure good though,But the future feelings,Whether it can meet the standards of social conduct invasion?

　　对此，活动另一位负责人表示，一段感情能否长久受到各种因素的影响，有过纯真爱情经历的人，在走上社会的时候，抵御各种不良风气的能力肯定更强。以后，类似的活动会继续开展下去。

this,Activities another person in charge said,A relationship can be long by various factors,There have been pure love experience,In the step into the society,Against all kinds of bad style ability must be stronger.later,Similar activities will continue to carry on.