乘公交车遇心动男生 女孩网上发帖寻找 Take a bus in cardiac boy girl online for Posting

　　《非诚勿扰》最近新增加了一个“爆灯”环节，女嘉宾以此方式大胆向男嘉宾示爱。近日有一个女孩在南京西祠胡同上发帖，寻找自己几天前在公交车上偶遇到的一位心仪的男生，有网友将此称为“网络爆灯”。

[If you are the one]Recently the new added a"Explodes the lamp"link,Female guest hereby bold to male guest make love.Recently there is a girl in nanjing on XiCiHuTong post,Find yourself a few days ago on the bus come across to the right of a boy,Have net friend will this called"Network explodes the lamp".

女孩网络寻找心动男生 The girl network looking for cardiac boy

　　前天晚上8点多，金陵晚报记者浏览西祠胡同，发现了一则“寻人”帖子，内容如下：

The day before yesterday at 8 o 'clock,Jinling evening news reporter XiCiHuTong browsing,Found a"without"post,Content as follows:

　　“今天出去办事情，坐55路公交车。那个男生是站着的，听着歌带(戴)着耳机，有看我几眼，彼此有好感。我是穿灰色卫衣的，下身是黑丝袜、迷你超短裙，(脚穿)骆驼色的高跟鞋，跨(挎)着一个蓝色的包包，坐着的，披着一头黑黑的长头发。我是在明故宫站下的。(事情)是发生在2012年11月7号下午三点多钟。如果你看到了此贴(帖)，请尽快跟我，联系手机号码13913XXXX49。”

"Go out today to do things,Sit bus 55.That boy is standing,Listen to the song(wear)headphones,A look at my eye a few,With each other.I am wearing grey guard clothing,Private parts is black silk stockings/Mini miniskirt,(Foot wear)Camels color high-heeled shoes,span(ku)A blue bag,sitting,With a head of black long hair.I am in the Ming palace station of.(things)Occurs in November 2012 7 minutes at three o 'clock in the afternoon.If you see CiTie(for),Please me as soon as possible,Contact phone number 13913 xxxx49."

　　传统观念里，向异性求爱，男生一般主动，而女生一般被动。经常有男生在公交车上遇到心仪的女生后，借助网络发帖、求助媒体寻找对方，但从上述帖子内容来看，居然是一名女生寻找男生的，其ID也表明了自己的性别。

In the traditional concept,Anisotropic courtship,Boy general active,And the girl general passive.Often have the boy on the bus meet the personwe will know after girls,With the aid of network post/Help the media for each other,But from the above post content to see,Actually is a girl looking for boys,The ID also shows that their gender.

　　上述帖子是11月7日下午近5点发出的，发出后的开始两三天里，只有个别网友跟帖调侃几句，显然对帖子内容的真实性表示怀疑。这也不奇怪，网络信息良莠不齐啊。“惨淡”的情形延续到11月13日中午，随后帖子迅速“火爆”起来。“引爆”帖子的正是发帖者本人，11月13日下午1点多，她连续跟了8个帖子驳斥网友的质疑，声称自己所讲述的是真实的。接下来，这则帖子受到无数网友的“围观”，截至昨晚金陵晚报记者发稿，跟帖数量超过了300条！

The post is on November 7, afternoon nearly 5 points issued,After a the beginning of the two or three days,Only individual net friend gentie poking fun at a few words,Obviously to post the authenticity of the contents of doubt.This is also not strange,Network information: the good and bad are intermingled."Is pale"Case continue to November 13, at noon,Then post quickly"hot"up."detonate"Post is the bonusgiven is I,On November 13, more than 1 PM,Her continuous with 8 post refute net friend's question,Claims to have about is true.The next,This is the post by numerous net friend"onlookers",As a reporter last night jinling evening news,Article 300 the post exceeding the number!

公交车上的对视 Bus at

　　到底事情是不是真的？前天晚上8点多，金陵晚报记者试着拨打网帖留的手机号码。“您好。”一个年轻女孩的声音传来。

What thing is true?The day before yesterday at 8 o 'clock,Jinling evening news reporter tried to call and leave for the mobile phone number."How do you do."A young girl's voice.

　　按照前天晚上的约定，昨天中午12：00，金陵晚报记者来到明故宫地铁站，一个女孩走上前来：“您就是徐记者吧？”女孩身高165厘米左右，长头发，穿着休闲外套。

According to the agreement of the day before yesterday evening,12 at noon yesterday:00,Jinling evening news reporters came to clear the Forbidden City subway station,A girl came to:"You are xu reporters it?"The girl height 165 centimeters,Long hair,Wearing leisure coat.

　　女孩拒绝透露其全名，只说自己姓谷，目前在明故宫附近一家票务代理公司上班。

The girl refused to reveal its full name,Just a surname valley,At present in the Ming palace a nearby ticketing agent company work.

　　谷小姐向金陵晚报记者讲述了其“艳遇”经过。11月7日下午2点多，她外出办事回单位，应该是从环北市场那一站，上了一辆55路公交车。这条公交线途经中山东路，最终开往马群。公交车上的乘客不算多，谷小姐上车后坐到车后半部右侧第一排靠走道的座位，随即低头闭目养神。也不知道过了几站路，车上的乘客渐渐多了些，有些乘客只能站立着。谷小姐偶尔抬头向前望去，正巧与一位男生“对上眼”了，两人对视了起码三四秒钟的样子才分开目光。

Miss valley to jinling evening news reporter tells the story of its"affairs"after.On November 7, more than 2 PM,She was running errands and back to the unit,Should HuanBei market from the station,A car 55 bus.This article through zhongshan east road transit,Finally to the horses.Bus passengers isn't much,Miss valley car blowback to car on the right side of the first row after half an aisle seat,Then in repose with eyes closed down.Also don't know a few stops,The passengers gradually some more,Some passengers can only stand.Miss valley occasionally look up look ahead,It happened that with a boy"The eye"the,Two men looked at each other at least three or four seconds to separate the appearance of eyes.

　　谷小姐回忆当时的情形。“当时我突然感到身体里一股暖流上涌。”她告诉金陵晚报记者，“他就是我喜欢的男生！”

Miss valley memories happened at that time."At that time I suddenly feel the body is a warm current upwelling."She told jinling evening news reporter,"He is the guy I like!"

　　“我的心跳得好快，真想上前去跟他说话。”但少女特有的羞涩与矜持，阻止了谷小姐的冲动。也就一两站而已，明故宫车站到了，她站起身来，从后门下车。下车后，她忍不住回头，可惜车辆已经走了。

"My heart beat so fast,Really want to go talk to him."But girl peculiar shy and reserved,Stop the miss valley of impulse.Also a two station just,Ming palace to the station,She stood up,To alight from the back door.Get off,She can't help but look back,But vehicles had already gone.

觉得男生对自己有意 Think of the boys he would be interested in

　　谷小姐告诉金陵晚报记者，她上的是旅游学校，同班的女生，要么在校期间，要么工作后，纷纷谈起了恋爱，现在唯一“单”着的就她一个人了。她并不是不想谈恋爱，但是她期望的是那种一见钟情的恋爱，特别反感那种通过相亲方式结交男友。上学时班级里大多数是女生，仅有的几个男生，都不是她的“菜”，参加工作一两年了，就是没遇上一个让她动心的男生。

Miss valley tell jinling evening news reporter,She is on the tourism school,Class girl,Or during the period of school,Or work,Have talked about love,Now the only"single"Is she the one.She is not don't want to fall in love,But she expected is the kind of love at first sight,Special antipathy that through the way to make friends with her boyfriend.To go to school in the class when most are girls,Only a few boys,Are not her"food",To work out for a couple years,Just can't meet a let her killer boy.

　　手捂着发烫的面颊，谷小姐匆匆跑回单位，按捺不住内心的激动，悄悄跟女同事说了自己的遭遇。几个姐妹也数落了她一通：“你应该跟着他到马群底站，下车后说不定有机会聊聊呢。”听了同事们的建议，谷小姐决定发帖寻找那位男生：“给自己一次机会吧。”在她看来，遇上了自己心动的男生，女孩主动一点有什么不可以？

The hand over the burning cheek,Miss valley rushed back to the unit,Can't restrain inner excited,Whispered to female colleague said what had happened to her.A few sisters also scolded her a call:"You should follow him to the horses base station,After get off maybe have a chance to talk about it."Listen to the advice of his colleagues,Miss valley post decided to look for the boy:"Give yourself a chance."In her eyes,In his heart of boys,A little girl active what not?

　　之所以敢于发帖寻找那位男生，是因为谷小姐觉得对方也有意于自己。在公交车上与那男生对视时，她从对方眼中读出了欣赏。当两人挪开目光后，她用余光发现，对方还在搜寻着自己。还有，当她站起身来下车时，她感到那男生在盯着自己看，似乎有太多的不舍。

The post to search for the boy,Because miss valley is also intended to see each other in his.On the bus and the boys when eye,Her eyes from the other read the appreciation.When two people removed after eyes,She found with peripheral vision,Each other still searching for yourself.and,When she stood up to get off,She felt that boy staring at his watch,Seems to have too many give up.

　　11月7日发帖之后，连续五六天，每次谷小姐外出办事，总会停留在明故宫站一点时间，望着一辆辆经过的55路公交车，期望能看到那个让自己魂牵梦绕的身影，但每次总是失望而归。

On November 7 after Posting,Continuous or six days,Every time miss valley running errands,Always stay in Ming palace stood a little time,Looking at the YiLiangLiang after 55 bus,Expect to see that let oneself heartstring figure,But every time always disappointment.

有人打电话冒充 Pretend to be someone calls

　　既然要找人，总得留个联系方式。谷小姐一开始想留QQ号码，可又担心无聊的人不停地发信息。最后她决定留手机号，这样就算有人打电话过来，她感觉不对头立即就能挂断。她告诉金陵晚报记者，再过几天，如果自己心仪的那个男生再不联系，她将停掉这个手机号码。

Now that want to look for a person to,Have to leave a contact way.Miss valley a began to want to leave QQ number,But worry about boring people constantly send a message.Finally she decided to leave your phone number,So even if someone call,She feels wrong immediately can hang up.She told jinling evening news reporter,In a few days,If you admire in the heart that boy don't contact,She will stop this mobile phone number.

　　11月7日下午发帖后，谷小姐的手机响个不停。她告诉金陵晚报记者，有好多个男的打来电话，声称自己就是她要找的男生。但是，她简单询问几句，对方就露出马脚了。更多的男人飞语给她，表示就算自己不是她要找的人，也希望跟她“交朋友”。烦不胜烦之下，谷小姐编辑了自己的帖子，特别指出自己偶遇的那位心仪的男生属于清秀型的，警告那些无聊的人不要再来骚扰他，确定好再来联系她！她并再次表明自己的心迹，称那位男生是她第一次遇到，“我不想错过！希望老天给我一次机会！”

On November 7, in the afternoon after the post,Miss valley of cell phone rang nonstop.She told jinling evening news reporter,There are many a man phoned,She claimed that he is looking for the boy.but,She simply ask a few words,Each other just gave the game away.More men FeiYu to her,Says even if he is not she want to find people,Also hope that with her"friends".Bother very vexed under,Miss valley edit their posts,Special points out his stray that the right boy belong to comeliness type,Warned those boring people don't came to annoy him,Sure good come again to contact her!She and again showed his stated,Say the boy is her first met,"I don't want to miss!Hope that god give me a chance!"

　　谷小姐希望借金陵晚报透露那位男生更多的信息。那个男生25岁上下，175厘米左右，不胖不瘦，脸型线条也比较柔和，全身上下干干净净、清清爽爽，一看就是那种有教养的人。她在55路公交车上遇到他的时候，他上身穿着好像是白色的衣服，斜背着一个黑色的挎包。还有，那个男生当时好像使用的是苹果手机，颜色记不清了，但他当时戴着的耳机是白色的。

Miss valley to borrow jinling evening news said the boy more information.That boy and 25 years old,175 centimeters,Not fat or thin,Face line is soft,Body clean/relaxed,A see be cultured man.She was 55 bus met him on time,He dressed in the upper part of the body is like white clothes,Oblique carrying a black bag.and,That boy was like use iphone,Color can't remember,But he was wearing headphones is white.

网友们佩服女孩的大胆 Net friends admire the girl's bold

　　谷小姐说的是地道的南京方言。她告诉金陵晚报记者，自己是1990年后出生的，南京土生土长的女孩，父母均是南京企事业单位普通职工。

Miss valley is the real nanjing dialect.She told jinling evening news reporter,He is born after 1990,Nanjing native girl,Parents are nanjing enterprises and institutions ordinary worker.

　　在谷小姐跟帖一再强调自己所说的事情是真实的之后，众多网友纷纷跟帖评论，说如今的女孩真的好胆大，追求真爱真的好勇敢。

Miss in the valley gentie emphasized what he says things are true later,Many users to post comments in succession,Said today's girl really brave,The pursuit of true love really brave.

　　无数网友给予谷小姐祝福，一起在网络上大声呼唤那位男生快点出现。然而，直到昨晚金陵晚报记者截稿，她还是没能接到那位“男主角”的电话。谷小姐告诉金陵晚报记者，如果那位男生出现了，她会问对方是否喜欢自己。“如果他说喜欢我，我就会毫不犹豫地跟他交往。”她口气坚决地说。

Numerous net friend give miss the valley of blessing,Together in the network calling out to the boy come soon.however,Until last night, jinling evening news reporter press,She didn't receive the"actor"telephone.Miss valley tell jinling evening news reporter,If the boy appeared,She will ask that if the other party like themselves."If he says like me,I would not hesitate a moment to communicating with him."Her tone said resolutely.

　　也有一种情况。如果那位男生已经有女友了，那么谷小姐将怎么做呢？她对金陵晚报记者说，如果是那样的话，她就会请对方权衡自己的感情，等其与女友分手后，她仍然会义无反顾地跟他牵手。当然了，如果那位男生已经结婚了，那么她将放弃这段感情。(来源：金陵晚报 记者 徐统余 张清源 报道)

There is also a case.If the boy has had a girl friend,Then miss valley will be how to do?She to jinling evening news reporters,If that is the case,She will please the other weigh their feelings,Such as its and girlfriend after break up,She still will be duty-bound to hand in hand with him.Of course,If the boys have got married,Then she will give up this relationship.(source:Jinling evening news reporters more than XuTong ZhangQingYuan reports)