由恒大动漫产业有限公司制作的104集原创动画片《生日梦精灵》已于近日在中央电视台综合频道播出，不仅取得了不俗的收视成绩，而且引起社会话题的广泛热议。

By evergrande cartoon industry co., LTD., production of 104 set original animation[Birthday dream elf]Already in recently in the China central television broadcast the comprehensive channel,Not only achieved good performance ratings,And cause social topic widely hot debate.

　　《生日梦精灵》系列动画内容以生日许愿为切入点，讲述了居住在云朵之上、天空尽头的生日城堡的快乐精灵们，为真实世界的小朋友实现生日愿望的故事。在观众感受着影片带来的爱与快乐的同时，片中所凸显的孩子教育问题的缺失同样令人深思。

[Birthday dream elf]Series animation content to birthday wish as the breakthrough point,Tells the story of live in above the clouds/The sky at the end of the castle birthday happy elves,For real world children realize birthday wishes story.In the audience feel the film bring love and happy at the same time,The film highlights children education problem is also lack of thinking.

　　如何教育孩子？这始终是家长和学校的难点问题，也是社会关注的热点问题。部分孩子身上存在的心理脆弱、迷恋网络游戏等问题，让不少学校和家长感到束手无策。其实，尽管出现此类现象有多方面原因，但必须有大人们在教育孩子的过程中值得反思的地方。孩子们需要自尊、自信、自由，而家长和老师需要转变观念、调整心态，才能对症下药。要孩子这样，不能那样，说教过多，而平等对话不足，这样的教育必然进入不到孩子的心灵。施教者和受教者只有角色的差别，没有身份的高低，任何居高临下的心态和语气都很难与孩子产生良性的沟通。因此要做好孩子的教育工作，就要学会蹲下来，走进孩子心灵，与孩子平等对话。

How to education child?This is always the difficult problem in parents and schools,Is hot social concern problem.Part of the children existing psychological fragile/Be infatuated with network game problems,Let many schools and parents feel helpless.In fact,Despite this kind of phenomenon have the various reason,But must have adults in the education of children in the process of place worthy of reflection.Children need self-esteem/confidence/free,And parents and teachers need to change the idea/Adjust state of mind,To suit the remedy to the case.To have children so,Can't do that,Sermon too much,Equal dialogue and insufficient,Such education will inevitably enter the less than the child's soul.The instructors and instructed only role difference,No identity of the high and low,Any commanding attitude and tone are difficult to produce with children benign communication.So to do the child's education work,You need to learn squat down,To go into the minds of children,Children with equal dialogue.

　　倾听孩子的心声，有经验的父母会采用蹲下来倾听的方式，通过这种方式的对话来了解孩子的感受，是非常非有价值的一种方式。与孩子说话，为家长提供了一次了解和教导孩子的机会。立即倾听孩子的谈话，有助于赢得孩子的信任，这样孩子才会把所有的事情都告诉家长。了解孩子们头脑里在想什么，是一件非常重要的事情。

Listen to the child's voice,Experienced parents squatted down by the way to listen to,In this way the dialogue to understand the feelings of children,Is very not valuable a way.And children to speak,For parents provide a understanding and teach the child's opportunity.Immediately to listen to children talk,Help to win the trust of the children,So that the child will put all the things to tell parents.Understand the children mind think,Is a very important thing.

　　其次，在和孩子的沟通中，要学会尊重孩子，保护孩子幼小的心。孩子最初的受人尊重的感觉是从父母那里得到的，尊重别人的意识也是在日常生活中经过多次的训练、教育，不断地强化而逐渐建立起来的。据儿童教育专家介绍，尊重孩子，要做到以下几点：要尊重孩子的基本权利；要遵循孩子成长发展的自然规律；要尊重孩子的独立人格和自我意识；要给他们一定的自由空间；要正视孩子间的差异。尊重是促进孩子良好发展的重要因素，家长要认识到，孩子再小也是个独立的个体，要和孩子建立民主平等的亲子关系。

secondly,And the children of the communication,To learn to respect children,Keep children young heart.The child first respected feeling get from their parents,Respect other people's consciousness is in daily life after many training/education,Constantly strengthen and gradually set up.According to children's education expert introduction,Respect children,To do the following:To respect children's basic rights;To follow the children to grow up the natural law of development;To respect children's independent personality and self consciousness;To give them some free space;To face up to the differences between children.Respect is to promote the good child development important factors,The parents should be realized,The child again small is a independent individuals,To children and the establishment of a democratic equal parentage.

　　蹲下来，和孩子对话，这是走进孩子心灵的前提。而要做到这一点，大人们不仅要放下大人的架子，同时要先学会蹲下来。在教育孩子的问题上，教育的内容固然重要，但教会大人学会教育孩子同样重要。

Squat down down,And children dialogue,This is the premise of go into the minds of children.And to do this,The adults should not only put down the adult's shelf,At the same time must first learn to squat down.In the education of children,Education content is important,But the church adults learn to education children equally important.

　　一部优秀的动画作品，带给孩子们的不仅仅短暂的欢乐，同时能开发想象力、培养幽默感，更重要的是让孩子们了解真善美、确立正确的人生观。动画，其实就是以孩子的视角看世界。梦精灵在动画中实现着孩子们的生日梦想，在现实生活中，家长往往就担任着梦精灵的角色。在孩子们羽翼未丰的时候，帮助他们实现生活中的点滴愿望，陪伴他们成长。和孩子一起观看《生日梦精灵》，学会蹲下来和孩子交流，做最合格的父母。

A good animation works,Bring the children not only brief joy,At the same time can develop imagination/Cultivate a sense of humor,More important is to let the children understand the true/To establish a correct outlook on life.animation,In fact is with the child's perspective the world.Dream elf in animation realizing children's birthday dream,In real life,Parents often is holds the dream elf role.In the children fledgling time,Help them realize the life intravenous drip desire,Accompany them grow.And children watch[Birthday dream elf],Learn to squat down and the child exchange,Do the most good parents.