陈元震 ChenYuanZhen一家人在苏州的小区。 陈宪生 提供 The family in suzhou area. ChenXianSheng provide全家福。 薛马义 摄 family. Xue MaYi perturbation

　　苏州“家教牛爸”辞职在家教孩子 16岁的大儿子考上英国剑桥

suzhou"Tutor cattle dad"Resigned in tutor children 16 eldest son admitted to Cambridge

　　他是我国首批40名公派留美的MBA之一，为了教育孩子多次辞职又多次找工作

He is our country the first forty public school leave one of the MBA,In order to education children many times to resign and many times to find a job

　　下过乡、当过兵，24岁那年成为文革后恢复高考的第一届大学生，毕业后二年，又被选拔成为我国首批40名公派留美的MBA之一。40岁时，成为世界500强企业大中华区总经理。其间，多次辞职回家，变卖房产，专职“家教”，带领两个儿子游学新西兰、加拿大、美国。去年，他陆陆续续只在学校上过小学六年级的16岁的大儿子，被剑桥大学录取。昨天，扬子晚报记者在苏州工业园区某高档小区独家专访了这位传说中的“家教牛爸”陈宪生。

A village/As a soldier,24 years old become after the cultural revolution to restore the college students of the first,Two years after graduation,And be the first selection has become China's name and leave the uniersity of MBA.Forty years old,Become the world's top 500 enterprises general manager of the greater China region.meanwhile,Multiple resign home,Sell the property,full-time"tutor",Lead the two sons travel New Zealand/Canada/The United States.Last year,He only in the school hall on elementary school sixth grade of 16 years old son,Be admitted to the university of Cambridge.yesterday,Yangzi evening news reporter in suzhou industrial park a high-grade village exclusive interview the legendary"Tutor cattle dad"ChenXianSheng.

　　

经常辞职的爸爸很“牛” Father is very often to resign"cattle"

　　

文革后恢复高考的第一届大学生 After the cultural revolution to restore the college students of the first

　　

我国首批40名公派留美的MBA之一 Our country the first forty public school leave one of the MBA

　　据陈宪生介绍，他1954年出生在北京，父亲是军人。小学毕业后，遭遇文革。和当时的很多孩子一样，他15岁下乡，18岁当兵。1977年，在他24岁那年，他成为文革后恢复高考的第一届大学生，考入太原重型机械学院(现为太原理工大学)。四年本科毕业后，他被分配至大连重型机器厂。1984年，他又被选拔成为我国首批40名公派留美的MBA之一，1985年，被派往纽约州立大学学习管理。1年半后，他回国返回原单位上班。但已经不适应国有企业的管理方式。不久，他便辞职进入当地一家外资企业，1990年，他再次辞职南下深圳闯荡。

According to ChenXianSheng introduced,He was born in 1954 in Beijing,Father is a soldier.Primary school after graduation,Encounter cultural revolution.And then a lot of children,He is 15 years old to,Eighteen years old soldier.In 1977,,In his 24 years old,He became after the cultural revolution to restore the college students of the first,Was admitted to taiyuan heavy machinery institute(Presently for taiyuan university of science and technology).After four years of undergraduate course graduation,He was assigned to dalian heavy machinery works.In 1984,,He was elected become China's first name and leave the uniersity of MBA,In 1985,,Was sent to New York state university management.1 year and a half after the,He returned to return to former unit to work.But is not adapt to the state-owned enterprise management mode.soon,He will resign into a local foreign capital enterprise,In 1990,,He resigned again make south shenzhen.

　　陈宪生告诉扬子晚报记者，当时的深圳很多地方还是农村，但深圳对人才相当饥渴，像他这样有留美背景又有生产管理经验的人，相当受追捧。经过几次跳槽，短短一年多的时间，他的月工资就从500元一步步涨到了1万多元，一个月的工资是他在大连重型机器厂几年的收入。“当时我们厂长的月工资好像也就50多元。”与此同时，他的职务也从质量副经理升迁至公司总经理。

ChenXianSheng tell yangzi evening news reporter,The shenzhen many places or rural,But shenzhen on talents quite hungry,Like him have a beautiful background and production management experience,Quite by chase after hold in both hands.After a few time to find new job,Just more than a year's time,His monthly salary is 500 yuan from step by step up to 10000 yuan,The salary of a month is he in dalian heavy machine factory several years of earnings."We were like the director's monthly salary is fifty multiple."meanwhile,His position from quality deputy manager promotion to the general manager of the company.

　　“当时深圳的7家上市企业，我曾参与管理过两家。其中，我还参与华源公司的上市。”1994年，大儿子陈元震出生，由于夫妻俩工作繁忙，陈宪生夫妻将孩子送到东北的岳父母家抚养。1995年年初，由于各种原因，他选择辞职，并移民新西兰。随后，他们把大儿子陈元震接到身边生活。

"At the time of the shenzhen 7 public listed companies,I participated in management in two home.the,I also participate in the present company listed."In 1994,,The first son ChenYuanZhen was born,Because the job is busy couple,ChenXianSheng husband and wife send their children to the northeast in-laws house raising.In early 1995,Due to various reasons,He chose to resign,And immigration New Zealand.then,The eldest son ChenYuanZhen received the life around.

　　

辞掉工作，卖掉房产 To quit working,Sell real estate

　　

他带着两个儿子开始游学生涯 He took his two sons began studying career

　　“虽然我们都有心理准备，但当我们从机场接到大儿子的时候，我们还是傻了眼！”原来，虽然只是时隔一年多，当陈宪生夫妻俩再次见到儿子的时候，原本想象中那个闪烁着好奇的大眼睛，身体结实而又灵活，随时准备蹦蹦跳跳的机灵鬼，却变成了眼前胆小怯生，身体绵软，足不出户的“小姑娘”！

"Although we all have mental preparation,But when we received the first time from the airport,We still silly eye!"The original,Although only after more than a year,When ChenXianSheng couple when seeing her son again,Originally thought that the flashing curious eyes,As hard as nails and agile,Ready to leap to jump of a deep card,Have been changed to the timid fear of strangers,Body soft,housebound"The little girl"!

　　“对于抚养孩子的我的岳父母来说，只要孩子不感冒、不冻着、不伤着就是成功，就是胜利。”1997年，小儿子陈艾黎出生。一年后，陈宪生夫妻决定卖掉新西兰的房产，带着两个儿子开始他们的游学生涯。“我认为，在孩子三岁之前，父母应该不遗余力的把孩子带到大自然中去，像动物一样的与大自然亲密的接触，大自然不仅能引起孩子们的好奇心，增强他们的想象力，更能激发他们的创造性。”

"For raising children for my wife's parents,As long as children don't catch a cold/Not frozen the/Don't hurt is success,Is victory."In 1997,,The younger son Chen rewi alley was born.A year later,ChenXianSheng couple decided to sell the property of New Zealand,With two sons to begin their career of travel."I think,The child before the age of three,Parents should spare no effort to take the children to the nature,Like animals and nature close contact,Nature not only can cause children's curiosity,Enhance their imagination,More can inspire their creativity."

　　他们首先来到加拿大的温哥华，在市中心租了两居室，每天就是把去图书馆借回来的书阅读。陈宪生告诉记者，加拿大的图书馆一次只能借25本书，他和爱人基本上都是一人一本，其他都是帮孩子们借阅的儿童读物。“虽然书都是英文，我们在家都是用中文交流的，而且孩子们只有4岁和1岁多，但这丝毫没有影响到他们。毕竟6岁之前的孩子，学习能力是非常强的，很快他们就能大致读懂这些儿童读物了。”

They first came to Canada vancouver,In the heart of the city rented two bedrooms,Every day is to go to the library to borrow books to read back.ChenXianSheng told reporters,Canada's library one can only borrow 25 book,He and lover are basically one this,The other is to help the children of reading children's books."Although the books are in English,We are at home in Chinese communication,And the children only four years and more than 1 year old,But it didn't affect them.After all, before 6 years old children,Learning ability is very strong,Soon they can generally understand these children's book the."

　　

为了教育孩子和养家糊口 Education for children and family

　　

他多次辞职，又多次重出“江湖” He has resigned,And back many times"runescape"

　　8个月后，他们再次出发，这次他们选择了美国的硅谷。同样租了一个两居室的房子，每天就是把去图书馆借回来的书阅读。这次不同的是，美国的图书馆可以一次借200本书，而他则把儿子送进了学校。“我们觉得，把孩子送进学校和其他孩子一起学习，互相竞争，也是必须的。”9个月后，他们再次出发，这次他们选择了加拿大的多伦多。

Eight months later,They leave again,This time they chose the United States's silicon valley.Also rented a house of two bedrooms,Every day is to go to the library to borrow books to read back.This time is different,The United States library can borrow a 200 book,And he will send the son into the school."We think,Send their children to school and the other children to study together,Compete with each other,Is also necessary."Nine months later,They leave again,This time they chose to Toronto, Canada.

　　陈宪生告诉记者，他们之所以选择了多伦多，因为那里是加拿大的工业重镇，对他来说，工作机会较多。因为“经过几年的折腾，我出国前赚的钱基本已经花完了，必须要重新找个工作，养家糊口，继续儿子们的游学生涯。”2001年他再次回国，这次他的身份是杭州某外资通讯设备企业的总经理，税后年薪15万美金。不久，公司遭遇兼并重组，他成为世界500强某企业大中华区的总经理。

ChenXianSheng told reporters,They chose the Toronto,Because there is the Canadian industrial towns,For him,Jobs more.because"After a few years of flounder,I earn money before going abroad basic have spent,Must want to find a job,Support a family,Continue to sons studies career."In 2001 he returned again,This time he is the identity of a hangzhou foreign communication equipment enterprise general manager,After the annual salary of 150000 dollars.soon,With the merger and reorganization,He became the world's top 500 an enterprise general manager of greater China.

　　1年后，他再次辞职，并回到新西兰。因为“继续游学的费用赚到了，我自然就辞职了。”2005年，由于家庭经济问题，他不得不再次“出山”，来到昆山组建新公司，出任总经理。1年后，再次辞职。2007年，陈宪生举家来到苏州工业园区这个高档小区居住。

1 years,He resigned again,And back to New Zealand.because"Continue to the cost of travel made,Of course I quit."In 2005,,Because domestic economic problems,He had to once again"mountain",To set up the new company in kunshan,As general manager.1 years,Resigned again.In 2007,,ChenXianSheng family came to suzhou industrial park the high-grade residential district.

　　

在家自学的儿子很“牛” The son of study at home is"cattle"

　　

靠在家自学，只读过小学六年级的儿子 Study at home on,Read only after the son of 6 grade in elementary school

　　

16岁就被剑桥大学录取 16 years old was admitted to the university of Cambridge

　　陈宪生告诉记者，在多次出国游学、回国工作的期间，他的大儿子最后在新西兰读到了小学六年级，而小儿子读到了3年级。“其实孩子们在外国读书时，还是以在家博览群书为主。”

ChenXianSheng told reporters,After several study Tours/Come back to work period,His eldest son finally in New Zealand read primary school grade 6,And the younger son read 3 grade."In fact the children in foreign reading,At home or in the reading is given priority to."

　　据陈宪生的爱人李娟介绍，2005年，丈夫陈宪生来到昆山就任后，她也带着两个儿子来到昆山，但他们并没有将孩子送进当地学校和外国人办的国际学校，而是放在了家里。“我们给两个孩子买了苏教版的初高中教材，让他们在家自学。”这样一学就是四年。

According to ChenXianSheng love li Juan is introduced,In 2005,,Husband ChenXianSheng came to kunshan after office,She also took his two sons to kunshan,But they are not to send your daughter to a local school and foreigners do international school,But in the home."We give two children bought Sue the junior well-selected materials,Let them study at home."Such a study is one of the four years.

　　2009年7月，无意间，李娟路过苏州中学时，发现校门口有个“剑桥国际高中课程实验班”招生简章，李娟就进去帮大儿子陈元震报了名。“孩子们在家时间太长了，该让他们到学校里学习了。”另外，李娟坦承，他们报考这个班，因为这个班学的教材是剑桥大学的，成绩可以作为全球英语国家大学的录取凭证。没想到的是，最后，陈元震以名列前茅的成绩被录取。

In July 2009,inadvertently,Li Juan pass by suzhou middle school,Find a school"Cambridge international high school classes"Recruit students general rules,Li Juan went in for the first ChenYuanZhen applied."The children at home time is too long,Should let them to the school to study."In addition,Admitted li Juan,They enter oneself for an examination the class,Because the class learning materials is the university of Cambridge,Results can be used as a global English national university admissions documents.Thought is,finally,ChenYuanZhen to one of the top scores be accepted.

　　高中三年，陈元震的每门功课都保持在A。2010年，16岁的陈元震开始申请大学。陈元震告诉记者，当时他申请了十几家学校，最后收到7家学校的录取通知书。其中，就有剑桥大学录取通知书。“当时一共有30位同学去上海参加剑桥大学的面试，最后只有我被录取了。”言及此，陈元震依旧骄傲不已。

High school three years,Every ChenYuanZhen courses are kept in A.In 2010,,At the age of 16 ChenYuanZhen began to apply for university.ChenYuanZhen told reporters,When he applied for a dozen schools,Finally received seven home school admission notice.the,There is Cambridge university admission notice."At that time a total of 30 students go to Shanghai to participate in Cambridge university interview,In the end only I was admitted."Advert to the,ChenYuanZhen still be proud.

　　

学费高昂，全职在家“家教”的夫妻俩 High tuition,Full-time at home"tutor"Couple of

　　

只能忍痛让儿子放弃剑桥 Only reluctantly let the son to give up Cambridge

　　在采访中，扬子晚报记者意外地得知，虽然陈元震已被剑桥大学录取，但早在去年，陈宪生就去信校方，放弃去就读的机会。因为学费太贵，一年要四五十万元，而他们夫妻俩现在没工作，如果让陈元震去读，他们的负担实在太大。

In the interview,Yangzi evening news reporter accident to learn that,Although ChenYuanZhen has been admitted to the university of Cambridge,But as early as in last year,ChenXian are to believe the school,Give up to study opportunities.Because the tuition is too expensive,A year between ten thousand yuan,And they both the husband and wife now didn't work,If let ChenYuanZhen to read,Their burden is too great.

　　目前，他们已经让陈元震去申请澳大利亚的墨尔本大学和悉尼大学！因为这两所大学世界排名虽然不如剑桥，但也是世界名校，排名也在100名以内。“我们现在是新西兰国籍，如果我们申请这两所大学，每年学费只要四五万元。”

At present,They have let ChenYuanZhen to apply for Australia's university of Melbourne and university of Sydney!Because these two universities in the world ranking as though Cambridge,But it is also the world famous,The 100 is also ranked within."We are now New Zealand citizenship,If we apply these two universities,Tuition fee each year as long as four or five ten thousand yuan."

　　陈元震已经在澳大利亚找好了房子，并且已经定好了本月10日去澳大利亚的机票。“暂时先过去找份工作，等录取通知书下来，就去读。”陈宪生表示，大儿子今年已经18周岁了，现在该自己对自己负责了，不该再由父母为他安排了。另外，他认为，学校不是最重要的！因为一个有出息的人，就应该像金子一样，到哪里都能发光。“我对他有信心。”

ChenYuanZhen has been in Australia to find good house,And has set well this month 10 days to Australia ticket."A tentative the past to find a job,And admission notice down,Go to read."ChenXianSheng said,The first son this year already and the one full year of life,Now is the time to yourself is in charge,Shouldn't again by parents for he arranged.In addition,He thinks,The school is not the most important!Because a have ambition people,You should like gold,Where can shine."I have confidence in him."

　　陈宪生告诉记者，为了两个孩子的成长，这些年来，他们一直全世界到处跑，居无定所。自从把新西兰的房子卖了之后，他们一直到处租房子住。现在他们住的这个房子也是租来的。等孩子走了之后，他们可能要换个小一点的房子，这样租金就可以低一点。“如果还不行，我也不排除再次出去工作的可能！”

ChenXianSheng told reporters,In order to two children's growth,Over the years,They have been run around the world,without.Since the New Zealand house after sold,They have been renting an apartment everywhere.Now they live in this house is rented.When the child is left,They may want to change to a smaller house,This can be a bit lower rent."If not yet,I will not rule out the possibility of working out again!"

　　

教育方法 Education method

　　

是“放任自流” is"Let slide"

　　在采访中，记者得知，陈宪生在深圳工作的时候，他经常和近30年前一起去美国留学的那帮同学聚会。但最近几年，因为忙于“家教”的缘故，他们也已经断了联系。陈宪生告诉记者，在那帮同学中，他的年纪属于“中游”，现在应该有一半的人已经退休了。“我们那帮同学，后来多数都成为企业总经理等管理人员，好像比较成功的一位，曾担任过轻工业部下属企业的一位老总。”

In the interview,Reporters learned that,ChenXianSheng work in shenzhen,He often and nearly 30 years ago to go to study in the United States that help the students gathered.But in recent years,Because busy"tutor"'s sake,They also have broken links.ChenXianSheng told reporters,In the help of the students,His age belongs to"middle",Now there should be a half of the people have retired."We that helps the students,Then most have all become enterprise general manager management personnel,Seems to be a success,Once served as light industry department subordinate enterprise of a manager."

　　陈宪生告诉记者，他和爱人李娟平时只负责两个儿子的生活，以及尽可能为他们提供丰富多彩的生活和知识阅历，但在学习上，他们确实帮不上太多的忙。“我们只会给他们买一些教科书和参考书，其他都是放任自流。”据了解，上学期间，陈元震每天只学两三个小时，其他的时间，他会弹弹喜爱的钢琴，看自己喜欢的科普书，世界历史，还会和小自己三岁的弟弟玩。

ChenXianSheng told reporters,He and li Juan lover at ordinary times is responsible only for two son's life,As far as possible and provide them with colorful life and knowledge experience,But in the study,They really can't help too much busy."We will only give them buy some books and reference books,The other is easy."It is understood,During the school,Every day to learn ChenYuanZhen only two to three hours,The rest of the time,He will play like piano,See oneself to like science books,The history of the world,Will and small his three-year-old brother play.

　　“如果遇到不会的，那就先放在那儿，先去看别的，以后就能会了。”陈元震如是说。他认为各个学科都是相通的，不需要为了不会的问题而绞尽脑汁，而可以用触类旁通的方法进行启发式学习。昨天，依旧在家自学的陈艾黎告诉记者，目前他采用的也是这种学习方式。(记者 薛马义)

"If meet won't,That first put it there,To go to the other,Later can get it."ChenYuanZhen said.He thought that each subject is the same,Don't need to won't problem and rack one's brains,And can use comprehend by analogy method for heuristic learning.yesterday,Still study at home of the Chen rewi alley told reporters,Currently he is using this kind of study way.(Reporter: MaYi)