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       source:东北网 Northeast network

　　生活报12月5日讯 日前，大庆石油高级中学的一对男女学生因为在学校食堂内接吻，被校方开除。事情发生后，引起各方热议，学生称自己是在做游戏，家长认为开除的处罚过重，而校方则表示是按章办事。学校对于涉事学生的处罚是否过重，非义务教育阶段的未成年人能否被学校开除？4日，记者就此事对家长、校方和我省教育专家进行了采访。

ShengHuoBao December 5 dispatch a few days ago,Daqing petroleum senior middle school students for a couple in the school canteen kiss inside,Be expelled from the school.After things happen,Aroused hot discussion,Students said they were in the game,Parents think fire punishment is overweight,And the school, said is act in accordance with the regulations.School for students in things of punishment is overweight,Is not compulsory education stage of the minors can be kicked out of school?4,Reporters on the matter of parents/The school and our province education experts interviewed.

　　事件回放：食堂接吻 男女生均被开除 Event playback:The dining room kiss all men and women be fired

　　记者电话采访了涉事学生明明(化名)的父亲高先生，据他介绍，儿子明明今年15岁，在大庆石油高级中学读高一。11月27日中午，明明和几个同学在学校食堂吃饭，其中有一个同学正好过生日，吃完饭后包括明明在内的七名男女同学凑在一块玩游戏。游戏类似于“石头剪子布”，但是，输的人要听从赢的人的命令，如果让男女生接吻，就必须接吻。游戏中，一名女生输了，于是和明明进行了接吻。然而，这一切被学校食堂的监控录像拍下。当天下午，学校通知孩子的奶奶将明明领回家，等待处理结果。28日上午，他们得知学校对明明和那名女生作出了开除处理。

In a telephone interview in things students clearly(alias)Father Mr. Gao,According to he introduced,When the son 15 years old this year,In daqing oil high school was read.At noon on November 27,,Clearly and several students in the school dining hall,One of the students just birthday,After dinner, including clearly seven men and women students gather together in a play the game.The game is similar to"Stone scissors cloth",but,Whoever loses has to obey the orders of the win,If let men and women living kiss,We must kiss.The game,A girl lost,So clearly and a kiss.however,It was the school dining room surveillance video filmed.In the afternoon,The school informs the child's grandmother will clearly brought home,Waiting process results.And the morning,They know that school to clearly and the girls made fire treatment.

　　家长质疑：学校处罚过重应给改正机会 Parents question:School punishment overweight should give correct opportunity

　　“这么小的孩子说开除就开除了，作为教书育人的学校为什么不能给孩子一次改过自新的机会呢？”高先生痛苦的说，自从11月27号回家后，明明就一直把自己关在家里，不吃不喝的，最近，明明的情绪变得更加低落，总是问他什么时候可以上学。“这么小的孩子没学可上，流落到社会上，一辈子就完了。”

"So the little child said fire is fired,As a teaching school why not give the child a reformed chance?"Mr. Gao said pain,Since November 27 after coming home,Clearly has been put yourself at home,Don't eat not to drink,recently,Clearly emotions become more depressed,Always ask when he can go to school."Such a small children don't learn can go up,Went to the society,Lifetime finished the."

　　高先生认为，学校对孩子的处罚过重了，“一刀切”的做法让他们难以接受，“起码应该给孩子一次改正的机会，如果再犯，那时再开除也不迟。”高先生告诉记者，事情发生后，明明曾哭着说知道自己错了，以后一定好好读书，再也不会犯这样的错误了。

Mr. Gao think,School for children for the overweight,"One size fits all"Practice make them hard to accept,"At least should give the child a the chance to correct them,If you make,Then fire is not late."Mr. Gao told reporters,After things happen,Clearly had cried knows he was wrong,Will be a good reading,Never make such a mistake.

　　学校表态：按章办事建议转学 The school said:Act in accordance with the regulations suggest transfer

　　事发后，高先生曾多次去学校找相关领导，表达了自己的想法。但校方称，他们完全是按照规章制度办事。《大庆石油高中管理手册》明确规定，学生不许早恋，一经发现，将受到批评教育处理，情节严重的将被开除。明明和那名女生在学校食堂接吻时，对食堂管理人员的警告不予理睬，情节严重，因此开除二人是合乎规定的。

After the incident,Mr. Gao has repeatedly to school to find relevant leaders,Expressed their ideas.But school officials say,They are completely in accordance with the rules and regulations work.[Daqing petroleum high school management manual]specified,Students are not allowed to early love,Once found,Will be criticized education process,If the circumstances are serious will be dismissed.Clearly and the girls in the school canteen when kissing,In the dining room management ignored the warning,If the circumstances are serious,So fired two people according to the provisions.

　　据大庆当地媒体报道，监控录像还原了11月27日13时许大庆石油高中食堂发生的接吻一幕——一高挑女生坐在一男生大腿上，两人相互搂抱、贴脸、接吻，时间达数分钟，最长的接吻时间约有10秒钟。该校老师表示，学校早就发现明明和那名女生存在早恋问题。

According to the local media reports,Surveillance video reduction November 27 13 when XuDaQing oil high school canteen happen kiss scene -- a tall girl sat a boy on his thigh,Two people mutual cuddle/Stick a face/kiss,Time up to several minutes,The longest kiss time for about ten seconds.The school teacher said,The school would have found that clearly and the girls love existing problems.

　　4日16时30分，记者电话采访了大庆石油高级中学的腾副校长，腾副校长表示，从保护学生隐私和情感的角度，不方便与记者在电话中详谈此事的前因后果，对于开除明明是否就是学校最终处理结果，腾副校长并没有给出明确回答。

4 and 30 points,Reporter telephone interviews with senior middle school of daqing oil smoke vice President,Those who vice President said,Protect students from the point of view of privacy and feelings,It is not convenient to discuss with reporters in a telephone call in the cause and effect,For fire is clearly school final processing results,The vice President of the room and did not give a definite answer.

　　据高先生讲，经过他和学校反复沟通，学校方面终于答应，可以保留明明的学籍，但是孩子不能回原学校上课，建议转学。

According to Mr. Gao speak,After he and school repeated communication,Schools finally agreed to,Can keep students clearly,But the child not return to the school,Suggest transfer.

　　专家说法：学生应讲公德 学校不应太武断 Experts said:Students should speak public schools should not be too arbitrary

　　大庆石油高中对于明明等人的处罚是否过重，非义务教育阶段的未成年人能否被学校开除？记者就此采访了省教育厅基础教育二处处长李君明。他说，我省学生学籍管理对此类现象没有具体的规定，因此，学校在处理此类事件时，主要以各自的校规而定。李君明认为，如果明明的家长不接受学校的处理决定，可以向大庆市教育局进行申诉；如果对大庆市教育局的答复还不满意的话，还可以进一步向省教育厅申诉。

Daqing petroleum high school for clearly, punishment is overweight,Is not compulsory education stage of the minors can be kicked out of school?The reporter interviewed the guangdong provincial foundation education two marshal LiJunMing.He said,Students in school management to this kind of phenomenon no specific provisions,so,The school in the handling of the incident,Mainly by their rules and decide.LiJunMing think,If clearly parents not to accept the decision of the school,Can to daqing city education bureau to appeal;If the daqing city education bureau reply is not satisfied with words,Can also further to guangdong provincial appeal.

　　我省一位教育专家在接受记者采访时认为，未成年人在学校的公共场合接吻确实有违公德，但是学校因此就下“重刑”开除学生未免过于武断。为此，教育专家建议，学生们在公共场合应具备基本的公德心，不要做有损学生形象的事，同时面对未成年人早恋等事件时，学校与家长双方应保持理性，学校应该与家长及时协调，在尊重学生的前提下引导教育，动辄停课或开除等简单粗暴的做法有可能会影响孩子的一生，平日里，家长也应多留意孩子的变化，对孩子进行正确的教育和心理疏导。

Our province an education experts when accepting a reporter to interview think,Minors in the school public kissing really against morality,But the school therefore went down"looters"Fire students is too arbitrary.therefore,Education expert advice,The students in public places should have basic public spirit,Don't do anything harmful to the students' image,At the same time, in the face of the minors to early love when events such as,The school and parents both sides should be rational,Should schools and parents coordinate,In the premise of respecting the students guide education,Frequently closed or fire and curt practice probably can affect a child's life,daily,Parents should also pay more attention to the change of children,For children the right education and psychological counseling.