在学校，见到老师主动行礼，午餐主动收拾餐具……

In the school,See the teacher active salute,Lunch active clean up the table……

　　在家里，饭来张口衣来伸手。上学路上家长背书包，到了学校也不和家长说再见。

At home,YiLaiShenShou farther.The way to school parents back schoolbag,The school also parents don't say goodbye.

　　最近，宁波海曙中心小学开展“礼仪月”活动，要求孩子们补上家庭礼仪课，仅仅1个月，就让孩子们懂得了不少家庭礼仪。

recently,Ningbo haishu center in primary school"On etiquette"activities,Requiring children to catch up on family etiquette lesson,Only 1 month,Let the children know a lot of family etiquette.

　　有家长表示，其实不是孩子不讲家庭礼仪，而是家长平时没有教孩子重视这一点，“礼仪月”也给家长补上了这一课。

Have parents said,It is not the children do not speak family etiquette,But parents usually does not teach children to pay attention to this point,"On etiquette"Also give parents make up the lesson.

　　双手接物、帮家长盛饭、进出门打招呼

Hands pick things/Help parents put rice/Go out into the "hello"

　　

丁点小事感动父母 An ounce things parents moved

　　宁波海曙中心小学共有2100多名学生。“礼仪月”的2100多份家长反馈表，是最近才刚刚收上来的。

Ningbo haishu center primary school has more than 2100 students."On etiquette"Of the more than 2100 parents feedback form,Recently just charge up.

　　记者看到，除了对孩子在家里的礼仪表现进行打分外，家长也写了不少让他们比较欣慰的礼仪小故事。事情很小，却让她们感动！

The reporter sees,In addition to the child in the home of etiquette performance make particularly,Parents also wrote many make them more gratified etiquette small story.Small things,But let them moved!

　　唐嘉璐妈妈说，有一天，她在做报表，突然听到轻轻的敲门声，她当时非常惊讶，想是谁在家里敲门，没想到是宝贝女儿。她非常不解地问，为什么还要敲门呢？女儿的一番话让她内心涌起一股暖流：“您正在专心地工作，我突然推门而入，会吓你一跳的，而且也不礼貌！”

TangJiaLu mother said,One day,She is doing report,Suddenly I heard gently knock on the door,She was very surprised,Who is at home to knock at the door,Thought is the baby daughter.She is very don't understand ground to ask,Why knocking at the door?Her daughter's words let her heart comb a stream of warm current:"You are focus on work,I suddenly push the door and enter,Will frighten you jump,And it's not polite!"

　　路程妈妈说，有一天，她感冒发烧躺在床上休息，不一会儿，女儿轻轻敲门进来，手里端着一杯温热的水，走到我身边柔声地说道：“妈妈,您喝点水吧。多喝水，病就会好得快一点!”这一刻，她感动得不行。

Journey mother said,One day,She caught a cold have a fever lying in bed,Not and in a short while,Daughter gently knock at the door and enter,Hand holding a cup of warm water,Walk to me softly said:"mother,You drink some water.Drink more water,Disease will be good faster!"This moment,She moved to no.

　　胡茵楠妈妈说，有一次，晾干的衣服摆放在床上没来得及叠，茵楠看到了，马上开始叠，十几件大人的衣服，都被她叠得整整齐齐，把她感动了好久。

HuYin nan mother said,once,Dry clothes put on the bed not folded,Wormwood nan see,Immediately start to fold,Ten several adult clothes,Were she neatly folded,She moved for a long time.

　　还有的家长说，以前，大人还没吃饭，孩子就差不多把桌上东西一扫而空，现在，直到大人动了筷子，她才吃起来。

Other parents said,before,Adult haven't eat,The child was almost put the table things swept away,now,Until the adult move chopsticks,She didn't eat up.

　　其他让家长感动的小事还有：帮长辈盛饭、帮父母拎东西、出门回家和父母打招呼、双手接物，这些都让家长感动，和以前相比，有很大的变化。

Other parents moved to the small and:Help elders shengfan/Help parents carry things/Go home and parents say "hello"/Hands pick things,All of these let parents moved,Than ever before and,Much has changed.

　　

改造“小霸王” transformation"the"

　　

主要内容有6条 The main content with 6

　　“家长经常向老师诉苦，为什么孩子在校是乖孩子，在家里却是‘小霸王’？”

"Parents often ask the teacher complaining,Why do children in school is a good child,In the home is‘the’?"

　　海曙中心小学的大队辅导员邵琦老师说，每年11月，海曙中心小学都开展“礼仪月”的活动，不过都是针对学校以及社会上礼仪的，今年，学校特意加入了家庭礼仪。

Haishu center elementary school counselors of ShaoQi teacher said,In November,Haishu center primary school are carried out"On etiquette"activities,But is directed at the school and social etiquette,This year,Schools have joined the family etiquette.

　　11月初，海曙中心小学给2100多位学生的家长发了《告家长书》，邀请家长一起参与“礼仪月”活动。

Early November,Haishu center primary school to more than 2100 students' parents hair[Against parents books],Invite parents to participate in together"On etiquette"activities.

　　《告家长书》中列了6条非常简单的要求：

[Against parents books]Listed in the article 6 very simple requirements:

　　早上起来，跟父母问好；晚上睡觉前，和父母道晚安；离家前或回到家后，向家长打招呼。

The morning,With parents;Before he goes to bed at night,And their parents good night;Before or after back home away from home,Greet all.

　　虚心听父母教导，不顶嘴。父母或长辈赠予的礼物要双手接，并说谢谢！

With an open mind to listen to parents teach,Don't talk back to.Parents or elders given gifts to pick up his hands,And say thank you!

　　体贴父母，承担力所能及的家务劳动、学会料理个人生活。自己的用品收放整齐，不乱摆放。主动为父母服务，尽可能减轻他们的负担。

Thoughtful parents,Can undertake the housework/Learn to arrange personal life.Their products keep tidy,Not disorderly put.Active service for the parents,As far as possible to ease their burden.

　　生活节俭，不浪费、不摆阔气。不向父母提超越家庭经济条件的过分要求。

Frugal life,Don't waste/Don't show off.Not to mention parents beyond family economic condition demanding.

　　按时就餐，就餐中注意礼仪，不挑食。

Dinner on time,Pay attention to the dining etiquette,Don't be fastidious about food.

　　进父母房间要先敲门，经允许后方可进入。不得随意翻动父母的私人用品。

Parents want to knock at the door into the room,Allow the rear accessibility.Shall not be arbitrarily flipping parents' personal belongings.

　　

家长们说 Parents say

　　

这堂课也是给他们上的 This class is to give them

　　很多家长一开始并不知道礼仪月的事情，被某个小变化感动到以后，一问才知道是学校的安排。

Many parents do not know a start on etiquette things,Be a little change after moved to,Ask to know is the arrangement of the school.

　　有家长告诉记者，其实很多时候不是孩子不讲家庭礼仪，而是家长平时没有好好教育孩子，独生子女成了家里的“小皇帝”。这样的家庭礼仪本应该在家庭教育中完成的，现在却变成了要学校来帮孩子们补课，有点惭愧。这次给孩子上的礼仪课，也给家长提了个醒。

Parents had told reporters,Actually most of the time not children do not speak family etiquette,But parents usually don't take education child,Only children become home"Little emperors".Such family etiquette should have in the family education in order,But now I became to the school to help the children make up a missed lesson,A little ashamed.The child to the etiquette class,Also give parents carry a wake up.