在国人趋之若鹜地把不及弱冠的孩子送往美国接受教育的时候，一对跨国夫妇反其道而行之，为了让女儿接受中国的教育，举家移民中国。这是为什么呢？以下是他们耐人寻味的讨论：Kay的美国爸爸是斯坦福大学应用数学／计算机本科毕业，他说：“我不想让女儿在美国上学最大的顾虑还不是学校，是美国文化。”有三个最主要的原因：

In the scramble for people not coming of age at 20 children to the United States for the education,A pair of transnational couples do exactly the opposite,In order to let his daughter to accept China's education,Family immigration China.This is why?Here are they interesting discussion:Kay American father is Stanford university applied mathematics/computer undergraduate course graduation,He said:"I don't want to let her daughter go to school in the United States the biggest concern is not the school,Is American culture."There are three major reasons:

　　“一、美国文化中Anti-Intellectualism（反智主义）太严重，最明显的是在中小学。大家最想当的是cool kids（酷小孩），cool kids都是不爱学习的，如果你爱学习，大家都认为你是nerd（书呆子），如果你喜欢学习，一路要承受很多同辈的不认同。二、在美国从小就‘被接触’大量毒品和性。要从小就开始抵制，而且不断有peer pressure（同辈压力）迫使你尝试。三、男女非常不平等。我特别反感美国文化从小就宣传女生要hot（性感），要 slutty（风骚），作为女孩子在美国成长的社会氛围特别不好。”

"a/The American culture preview Intellectualism(anti-intellectualism)Too serious,The most obvious is in primary and secondary schools.You want to when is the cool kids(Cool kid),Cool kids are do not love learning,If you love learning,We all think that you're nerd(bookworm),If you like to learn,All the way to bear a lot of peer recognition.two/In the United States since the childhood‘Be contact’A large number of drugs and sex.Since childhood to boycott,There is growing and peer pressure(Peer pressure)Force you to try to.three/Men and women is not equal.I especially dislike American culture grew up publicity girls are hot(sexy),To slutty(coquettish),As a girl growing up in America social atmosphere very good."

　　Kay的中国妈妈是南加州大学东亚文学硕士，她说：“国内媒体倾向于宣传国外中小学作业少，下午三点放学，孩子多么多么快乐，已形成大趋势。其实在西方，上私校（一般私校教育水平高于公共学校）的中学生也是下午三点放学，然后开始上各种课外班，补课到晚上八九点，好学校的学生年级越高，压力越大，我先生回忆起高三时候每天晚上都12点后睡觉。”Kay的美国爸爸还说，美国教育这些年一大趋势是标准化考试越来越多，老师的自主选择越来越少。而且，美国学校里还有一种风气，“数学成为让人讨厌的学科。”

Kay Chinese mother is the university of southern California east Asian literature master,She said:"Domestic media tend to foreign propaganda work less primary and secondary schools,At three o 'clock in the afternoon after school,How happy children,Has formed the big trend.In fact in the west,Private school on(General private school education level than public schools)High school students and school at three o 'clock in the afternoon,Then start to all kinds of after-school classes,Make up a missed lesson to at o 'clock,Good school students in the higher grade,The more the pressure,Mr. I recall three time every night to sleep after 12 o 'clock."Kay American father said,The United States education years a big trend is more and more standardized tests,The teacher's choice less and less.and,American schools still have a kind of atmosphere,"Mathematics be unpleasant subject."

　　虽然以上说法只是Kay的父母一面之词，但无疑也给那些一心想把孩子送出国的中国家长们提了一个醒。的确，近年来，全国教育界都在高调地打出“改革”的旗号，纷纷把欧美教育当成模范样本来参考、模仿。更有各色各样的国外成功案例通过杂志、报章、电视进入中国家长视野。但无一例外的是，对中国教育的评价和描述，往往落在“刻板”、“说教”等负面字眼上，而对欧美教育则往往赋以“自由”、“人性”、“有趣”等溢美之词，长此以往，潜移默化地造成了一种“中国教育很糟，欧美教育很好”的错觉。其实，据记者所知，西方教育界近年来也在积极学习、吸取中式教育的合理、先进成分，因为按他们那种倾向“自由”的教育方法培养出来的学生同样有可能出现“自律性差、深度知识理解不到位”等缺陷。

Although the above view is Kay parents assertion,But will no doubt to those who wish to send children abroad Chinese parents asked a wake up.indeed,In recent years,The national education in high-profile out"reform"banner,The education in Europe and the United States as a model sample to reference/imitation.More a variety of foreign successful cases through the magazine/newspapers/TV into Chinese parents vision.But without exception is,China's education to the evaluation and description,Tend to fall in"stereotyped"/"sermon"Negative words such as on,But to Europe and the United States education tend to fu"free"/"human"/"interesting"And praising,In the long run,Create a subtly"China's education is very bad,Europe and the United States education is very good"illusion.In fact,According to the reporter know,Western education in recent years are also active learning/Chinese education from the reasonable/Advanced composition,Because according to their tendency to that"free"The education method trained students are also possible"Self-discipline difference/Depth knowledge understanding does not reach the designated position"Defects such as.

　　中美教育各有优劣，如果能够优势互补，不失为一种较为完美的教育方式。如何权衡优劣，将中西方教育方法有机结合，更好地应用于子女教育的过程中，这需要家长共同思考。(李琼)

China and the United States education each have advantages and disadvantages,If can have complementary advantages,Can yet be regarded as a kind of relatively perfect education mode.How to weigh the advantages and disadvantages,Will Chinese and western education methods organic combination,Better applied in the process of children education,This requires parents think together.(you)