今年5岁的浩浩是圭塘小区简易幼儿园的小朋友，最近，才上学前班的他却再也不愿去学校了。6日下午，他告诉来接他的妈妈，老师用椅子打了他。因为左尺骨鹰嘴骨折，现在浩浩的左手还绑着石膏。

5 years old this year is the guitang plot summary kindergarten children,recently,Just go to preschool classes of but he didn't want to go to school.On the afternoon of December 6,He told to meet his mother,The teacher hit him with a chair.Because left ulna olecranon fracture,The left hand is now tied with gypsum.

　　老师小琴今年刚毕业，是位90后，她说本来只想拿凳子吓唬一下打架的浩浩，没想到造成了这样的后果。而在幼儿园邵园长印象中，小琴是个性格内向的姑娘。

The teacher XiaoQin just graduated this year,Is a 90,She said that was just want to take the stool scare the fight,Didn't think caused such consequences.In kindergarten shao calls the impression,XiaoQin is an introverted girl.

孩子的手肘肿了，“好疼” The child's elbow is swollen,"It hurts"

　　圭塘小区简易幼儿园在雨花区圭塘一小区里。12月6日下午5点左右，龙沛清像往常一样来幼儿园门口接儿子浩浩放学，但左等右等都不见儿子的踪影。一会儿，幼儿园的门开了，浩浩的班主任小琴走出来。

Guitang plot summary kindergarten in yuhua district guitang a small area.On December 6, 5 o 'clock in the afternoon,LongPeiQing as usual to kindergarten the door after the son after school,But left and right are no sight of the son.For a while,Kindergarten the door opened,The teacher in charge XiaoQin go out.

　　小琴告诉龙沛清，自己下午可能不小心用椅子撞了一下浩浩，龙沛清当时以为并无大碍。过了一会儿，浩浩从幼儿园里走出来龙沛清照常去牵儿子的左手，却被浩浩龇牙咧嘴地推开了。“我手好痛！”浩浩说。

XiaoQin tell LongPeiQing,His afternoon may not be hit with a chair in it,LongPeiQing thought there were no serious problems.After a while,From the kindergarten LongPeiQing come out as usual to lead son left hand,Was vastly rictus to opened."My hand so!"Said the.

　　龙沛清大吃一惊，挽起浩浩的袖子，发现更加令她揪心的一幕儿子的手肘处肿了起来。“这是怎么回事？”不解的龙沛清又回到教室，向其他小朋友询问“浩浩手上的伤是怎么来的”。但小朋友的回答让她无法接受，“是小琴老师用凳子打的”。

LongPeiQing shocked,Rolled up the sleeves,Find more come back to her son's elbow scene in swollen up."This is how to return a responsibility?"Don't understand of LongPeiQing went back to the classroom,To ask the other kids"How is the hand injury".But the kid's answer let her can't accept it,"The teacher is XiaoQin with bench played".

　　小琴立马向龙沛清解释，下午是由于浩浩和别的小朋友打架，自己原本只想吓唬他一下。“没想到出了这样的事。”

XiaoQin immediately to LongPeiQing interpretation,Afternoon is due to the other children and fight,Their original just want to scare him up."Didn't think out of such a thing."

　　随后，浩浩被家人送往省儿童医院小儿外科急诊检查。医生告诉家属，浩浩“左尺骨鹰嘴骨折”，所幸的是，骨头断端未见明显分离错位征象。

then,The family was to save the children's hospital pediatric surgical emergency inspection.The doctor told the patient's family,vastly"Left ulna olecranon fracture",The good news is that,Bones broken end did not see clear separation dislocation sign.

园长说老师是个特别老实的女生 The principal said the teacher is a special honest girl

　　让龙沛清很不解的是，孩子犯了什么错，需要这样被惩罚？与她同样不解的还有该幼儿园的邵园长。

Let LongPeiQing very surprising is,Children making what wrong,Need to be punished?And she also don't understand and the kindergarten shao the principal.

　　据邵园长介绍，小琴是个90后，今年才毕业，读的就是幼师专业。邵园长回忆，当时在招聘老师时，邵园长在小琴和另一名应聘者间犹豫了半天。当时小琴刚毕业，没有什么职业经验；另外一名应聘者经验丰富，却没有幼师资格证。思来想去，邵园长还是选择了有幼师资格证的小琴。工作一周后，邵园长发现，小琴是个特别老实的女生。“性格也比较内向”。

According to the principal shao is introduced,XiaoQin is after 90,This year just graduated,Reading is fine professional.Shao the principal memories,At that time in the recruitment of teachers,Shao in XiaoQin calls and another applicant hesitated between half a day.At that time XiaoQin just graduated,No career experience;In addition a candidate experience,But no fine certificate.reasoning,Shao the principal or choose a fine of XiaoQin certificate.After a week's work,Shao the principal found,XiaoQin is a special honest girl."Character is introverted".

　　12月12日下午，在幼儿园门口，记者见到了小琴。她一个人站在花坛边，显得很害怕。

On December 12th afternoon,In the kindergarten,Reporter saw XiaoQin.She is a person standing in the flower bed side,Appears very afraid.

　　小琴回忆，6日当天，浩浩上午和中午分别与同班同学打过架。到了下午，趁她在黑板上写字时不注意，两人又打上了。

XiaoQin memories,6 day,The morning and noon respectively with the classmate a fight.In the afternoon,While she is on the blackboard writing do not pay attention to,Two people and play on.

　　“我当时有点暴躁。”小琴告诉记者，平时遇到孩子吵闹的，调皮的，她都会让他们自己意识到错误，然后相互道歉来解决。“我都没有想到我会那样做。”

"I was a little angry."XiaoQin told reporters,Usually meet the noisy children,naughty,She can make their own consciousness to error,Then mutual apology to solve."I never thought I would do that."

　　目前，小琴已被幼儿园停职。

At present,XiaoQin kindergarten has been suspended.

问愿意再上幼儿园不，浩浩摇摇头 Ask want to kindergarten don't,Shook his head in

　　12月12日下午，记者在幼儿园门口见到了浩浩。他左手绑着石膏，害羞地躲在母亲身后。

On December 12th afternoon,Reporter in the kindergarten to see the king.He left hand tied with gypsum,Shyly hid behind in the mother.

　　龙沛清告诉记者，从6日之后浩浩再也没去过幼儿园。当天晚上还做了噩梦。龙沛清回忆，浩浩从梦里吓醒来，“大喊我要妈妈”。龙沛清哽咽。

LongPeiQing told reporters,From 6 in after never been to kindergarten.That night, do a nightmare.LongPeiQing memories,From the dream to wake up scared,"I want to mother shouted".LongPeiQing SOB.

　　“提到上学就怕。”龙沛清说，10日早上自己带浩浩来幼儿园，浩浩站在门口死活不肯进去。就连早上带他去吃早饭，浩浩也蹲在地上不肯起来，“以为我们要带他去学校”。

"They were afraid to go to school."LongPeiQing said,10, with the morning to kindergarten,The stood in the doorway life and death would not go in.Even take him to eat breakfast in the morning,Also the squatted on the ground not up,"Thought we were going to take him to the school".

　　小浩浩告诉记者，当时老师打他的时候，他只顾着哭。当记者问起他还愿不愿意来上幼儿园的时候，小浩浩摇摇头不再答话。

The small told reporters,When the teacher hit him,He was a cry.When a reporter asked him to want the same in kindergarten when,The small shook his head no longer answer.

[对话] [dialogue]

进了这个行业才发现也许耐心不够 Into this industry found that perhaps not enough patience

　　小琴目前一个人在长沙工作，父母都不在身边。当记者询问，她会不会将此事告诉父母时，小琴摇头。但她很肯定地告诉记者，该承担的责任自己一定会承担。

XiaoQin at present a person working in changsha,Parents are not around.When a reporter asked,She will not to tell parents,XiaoQin shook his head.But she is sure to tell reporter,This the responsibility you will bear.

　　潇湘晨报：这个事情对你以后择业有影响吗？还会选择幼师吗？

Xiaoxiang morning:This thing to you later careers have affected?Also choose fine?

　　小琴：可能会选择转行。我进了这个行业才发现，自己也许耐心不够。潇湘晨报：平时遇到小朋友犯错是怎么教育的？

XiaoQin:May choose turned.I went into the industry to find,Maybe his patience is not enough.Xiaoxiang morning:Usually meet children to make mistakes is how education?

　　小琴：我一般会引导他们自己认识到错误，然后道歉。潇湘晨报：你觉得幼师这个职业压力大吗？

XiaoQin:I usually will guide them to the wrong understanding,Then apologize.Xiaoxiang morning:Do you think this fine professional pressure big?

　　小琴：压力肯定有。家长把孩子交给我们管，我们有责任教育好。但孩子平时也会调皮吵闹，我也会有烦躁的时候。

XiaoQin:Pressure must be.Parents send children to our tube,We have a responsibility to education better.But children usually will be mischievous noisy,I will also have of fidgety of time.

　　潇湘晨报：你烦躁的时候会怎么办？

Xiaoxiang morning:You will be agitated?

　　小琴：我会让闹事的孩子站在我看不见的地方自省。一来，他们能够发现自己的错误。二来，我也可以平复一下心情。

XiaoQin:I'll let the children stood in my trouble out of sight introspection.way,They will be able to find his own mistake.secondly,I can also remove the mood.

[专家说法] [experts saying]

父母要有积极的情绪才能帮助孩子 Parents will have positive emotions can help children

　　国家二级心理咨询师何群群：由于孩子受了不小的心理创伤，不愿意去学校是正常的。首先浩浩应该接受专业的心理辅导，同时父母也要对他进行积极的引导和教育。例如，父母自己不要总是提起孩子挨打的事情，不要让他总是去回忆当天发生的事情经过和细节。首先父母要有积极的情绪，才能帮助孩子。其次，父母可以渐渐地告诉孩子，学校里还有一些什么新鲜好玩的事情，刺激孩子好奇心，让他重新产生想回校园的心理。然后在父母的陪同下，孩子可以先去校园周边熟悉一下环境，让他重新建立起信心，不再惧怕。最后，孩子可以独自试着重返校园。父母应当给予孩子时间，毕竟恢复心理创伤需要一个过程。现在不要逼迫他去学校，免得适得其反。

National secondary psychological consultant QunQun what:Because the child received a lot of psychological trauma,Don't want to go back to school is normal.The first should accept professional psychological counseling,At the same time, parents also to his positive guidance and education.Such as,Their parents don't always mention children defeated things,Don't let him always to remember what happened on the day after and details.First of all parents will have a positive mood,Can help children.secondly,Parents can tell the children gradually,School and some fun things to do anything new,Stimulate children curiosity,Let him to produce want to go back to the campus psychological.Then, accompanied by their parents,Children can go to school with the surrounding environment,Let him to build up confidence,No longer fear.finally,Children can try to return to school alone.Parents should give children time,After all, restore psychological trauma need a process.Now don't force him to go to school,Lest backfire.

　　四五岁的孩子正是爱动爱玩的年纪，犯错误是相当正常的。例如很多小男孩喜欢和同伴打闹，万一不小心推到对方，或者使对方受伤，家长这时应该主动采取帮助孩子认识错误、解决错误的行为。首先，要让孩子意识到错误并不可怕。拿打架来说，如果孩子主动和别人打架，首先倾听他为什么会和别人打架的原因。然后告诉他，打架是不对的，同伴之间应该相互关爱。随后，告诉他和同伴玩耍打闹可以，但是凡事不要过度。让孩子意识到打闹和打架的差异。最后，让孩子自己总结经验教训。

Four or five years old love is still love to play with age,Make a mistake is quite normal.Such as a lot of small boys like and companions pillow fight,All carelessly push to each other,Or make the other side injury,Parents should be active at this time to help children know wrong/To solve the wrong behavior.First of all,Let the child realize error is not terrible.And fight for,If the children active fight with others,First listen to why he will fight with others reason.Then tell him,Fight is wrong,Between companion should love each other.then,Tell he and fellow play pillow fight can,But all things not too much.Let your child to be aware of the differences between scenes and fight.finally,Let your child sum up lessons.