本报讯 为了从生活费里省出“恋爱经费”，武汉一高校大三男生在宿舍吃了一个月挂面！前天，网友“彭成龙的成龙”在微博上发帖诉说室友的“恋爱现状”：自从谈恋爱，大半的生活费变成恋爱费用，生活变得非常拮据，竟然吃了一个月面条。博主在帖子里呼吁“恋爱双方应相互体谅”，引起广泛转发，在网上引发“大学生谈恋爱是不是该由男生买单”的讨论。

Report from our correspondent for from life fuller provinces"Love money",Wuhan university three boys in a dormitory for a month of fine!The day before yesterday,The net friend"PengChengLong of Jackie chan"In micro blog post about roommate"Love situation":Since fall in love,More than half of the cost of living into love,Life has become very tight,Actually ate noodles for a month.Blogger in the post"Love both sides should be considerate of each other",Aroused widespread forwarding,On the Internet a"College students should fall in love by the boy"The discussion of the.

　　记者联系到网友“彭成龙的成龙”，他是湖北工业大学大三学生，就叫彭成龙，帖子所说情况属实。

The reporter contact net friend"PengChengLong of Jackie chan",He is a student in hubei university of technology,Just call PengChengLong,Post said conditions are correct.

　　“至少有两三个星期，每天就看他用清水煮面，只放一点油、盐。”彭成龙说，室友小周的女友在黄石，三个月前两人开始恋爱，每天课余时间，除了睡觉，总能看到小周在打电话，隔三差五在周末打车去黄石，一起逛街、吃饭。

"There are at least two to three weeks,Will he see boiled noodles every day,Just put a little oil/salt."PengChengLong said,Roommate xiao zhou's girlfriend in Yellowstone,Three months before the beginning be in love of two people,The time after class every day,In addition to go to bed,Can always see the week on the phone,Take a taxi from time at the weekend to Yellowstone,Go shopping together/To eat.

　　“我们宿舍住了6个人，都被他借遍了。”彭成龙说，因为跟小周关系比较铁，才敢在微博上调侃他。小周每月的生活费只有一千元，自从恋爱之后，明显不够用，除了跟朋友借钱，只能在生活上克扣自己。

"Our dormitory for six people,All been borrowing from him."PengChengLong said,Because relationship with xiao zhou is iron,Will dare to ridicule him in micro bo.Small weeks living cost only one thousand yuan per month,Since fall in love,Obviously not enough use,In addition to borrow money from friends,Only in the life of embezzle part of ourselves.

　　对于“吃面条省恋爱经费”的做法，除了被调侃“宁愿自己受苦，也不让自己的女人受苦，真是个值得托付的男人”，更多的网友却开始讨论起“大学生恋爱到底该谁买单”。网友“浓眉小妞”表示“还是AA制比较好。（但是）男女生扯到钱就有点伤感情。”网友“Wesley轶铭”则认为“谈恋爱，两个人一开始就要沟通好，为了谈恋爱苦了自己可不好……”。

for"Eat noodles of love"The practice of,In addition to be fun"Would rather their pain,Don't let his own woman,Is a man worthy of trust",But they're beginning to discussion more net friend"College students who love the pay".The net friend"The little girl combination"said"It's better for me to AA system.(but)Men and women born pull money a little hurt."The net friend"Wesley our Ming"Is that"Fall in love,Two personal communication from the beginning of a good,In order to fall in love bitter oneself can be bad……".

　　“大学生谈恋爱，主要花销是否由男生来买单”？昨天，记者在中南民族大学、武汉工程大学、湖北经济学院、湖北第二师范学院随机询问了50名学生，有28名女生和22名男生，其中有30人正在恋爱或恋爱过。

"College students fall in love,Major cost is pay by the boy"?yesterday,Reporter in central south university for nationalities/Wuhan university of engineering/Hubei economy academy/Hubei second normal college random asked 50 students,There is 28 girl and 22 boys,There are 30 people are in love or love.

九成女生赞同AA制 Ninety percent of girls with AA system

　　在全部受访者中，只有19人认为“应该由男生买单”；在28位女生当中，只有两人赞同“男生买单”，反对者多达26人。

In all respondents,Only 19 people think"Should pay by the boy";Among the 28 girl,Only two people agree with you"The boy pay the bill",Opponents as many as 26 people.

　　30位恋爱中或恋爱过的受访者表示，现实中大部分的花销还是由男生负责。

30 in love or love the respondents said,In reality, most of the cost or is in the charge of the boy.

　　武汉工程大学大三男生李筱祥说，自己接触的圈子都比较传统，按规矩是要照顾女生，如果跟女朋友一起外出，让对方买单显得很没有担当，男生不够有风度。

Wuhan engineering university three boys LiXiaoXiang said,You contact the circles are more traditional,According to the rules is to take care of the girl,If you go out with my girlfriend,Let them pay appear very not bear,The boy is not enough to have poise.

　　对此，女生却有自己的看法。“如果一直都是男生买单，我认为这样的关系肯定不会长久。”湖北经济学院的女生小祈说，在校谈恋爱，但大部分花销来自父母，如果理所当然地由男生买单，会给对方造成压力，反而不利于双方关系发展。她说自己和男友一直实行AA制，是由自己提出并坚持到现在。

this,Girls, have their own opinions."If have always been a boy,I think this relationship will not be long."Hubei economy academy girl little qi said,In the school fall in love,But most of the costs from their parents,If pay rightly by boys,Pressure will be caused to the other party,But not conducive to the advancement of our bilateral relations.She said she and her boyfriend have a AA system,Is put forward by itself and insist to now.

“面子”决定买单权 "face"Decided to buy the right

　　根据问卷，大部分女生并不赞同完全由男生负担恋爱花销，但不少人表示“担心自己买单会让男朋友觉得丢面子”。

According to the questionnaire,Most girls don't agree with you completely borne by boys love spending,But many people said"Worry about paying will make boyfriend feel lose face".

　　中南民族大学的女生王梦说，恋爱的时候，在经济上保持一定的独立，在心理上也能更平等一些。“什么都让他买单，反而觉得不自在，没尊严。”她认为，目前的氛围中，严格按照AA制来谈恋爱，大部分人难以接受，“但双方可以礼尚往来，有请有还，没必要在钱的数目上区分清楚。“大数额的请客，男朋友都不同意我买单，我会在其他小数目的地方出钱，作为回报。”

The girl of zhongnan university for nationalities WangMeng said,When you fall in love,Keep a certain amount of financially independent,In psychological also can be more equality."What all let him pay the bill,But don't feel at ease,No dignity."She thinks,At present in the atmosphere,In strict accordance with the AA system to fall in love,Most of the people to accept,"But both sides can be reciprocity,Please have also,There is no need to distinguish in the number of money."A large amount of treat,Boyfriend don't agree with me,I will pay in other small places,In return."

　　华中师范大学社会学家梅志罡表示，恋爱是涉及双方彼此的行为，应该共同承担花销。他认为，爱是一件让彼此产生幸福的事，而非钱和花钱多少的问题，仅仅让一方承担花销，对对方是不公平的，彼此的爱就缺少基础，为谈恋爱不得已吃挂面，更是有待商榷。

Central China normal university sociologist MeiZhiGang said,Love is involved in both each other's behavior,Should bear the cost together.He thought that,Love is a thing that make each other happy,Rather than how much money and spending money,Only let one party bear the costs,To the other party is not fair,Each other's love is without foundation,To fall in love to eat noodle,It is debatable.

　　(武汉晨报)

(Wuhan morning)

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