9岁男孩离家出走五天 9 years old boy run away from home five days

母子相见时，孩子管妈叫“阿姨” When mother and see each other again,The children call mom"aunt"

　　9岁男孩浩浩，喜欢上网，常常一人去网吧，玩到很晚才回家，挨了父母不少打骂。前些天，浩浩又去上网了，因为害怕太晚回家又挨父母打骂，他决定离家出走。

Mingei 9 year old boy,Like the Internet,Often a person go to Internet cafe,Play very late to go home,Parents got a lot of abuse.The other day,Vastly and go on the Internet again,Because be afraid too late to go home and get parents beat and scold,He decided to run away from home.

　　这一出走，就是5天，一边是父母着急寻找，一边浩浩自己也越来越害怕。

The runaway,Is five days,One side is hurry for their parents,Side of mingei myself more and more afraid of.

　　26日晚上，萧山新湾派出所民警终于找到了在外多天的浩浩。

26, in the evening,Xiaoshan new bay police station police finally found out many days of vastly.

　　然而，期待中母子重逢相拥而泣的画面并没有出现，取而代之的是浩浩冰冷的一句：阿姨，你认错人了！

However,,Looking forward to meet the mother hug to each other and cry in the picture did not appear,Instead, the huge cold one:aunt,You mistook one for another!

　　浩浩的反应，让在场的所有人都感到惊讶。离家出走多日后，他为什么不认自己的妈妈呢？

Join the response of the,Let all the people present were surprised.Run away from home more in the future,Why doesn't he know your mom?

9岁男孩自称迷路，不愿说出自己身份 9 years old boy lost himself,Don't want to say his identity

　　12月26日晚上9点多，萧山511公交车司机张师傅如往常一样开着末班车。

On December 26, more than nine in the evening,Xiaoshan 511 bus driver zhang teacher open the last bus as usual.

　　到了终点站新湾站，张师傅发现车上还有一个八九岁的小男孩。

The new bay terminal station,Zhang teacher found the car there is a boy of eight or nine years old.

　　车外下着大雨，孩子穿得不多，缩在温暖的车厢里怎么都不愿下车。

Outside of the heavy rain,Children wear very much,Shrinkage in the warm carriage how all don't want to get off.

　　张师傅问他去哪里，孩子怎么都不愿说。张师傅觉得，这孩子可能是离家出走的，于是打了“110”。

A teacher asked him where to go,Children how all don't want to say.Zhang teacher think,The child is likely to be away from home,Then beat"110".

　　新湾派出所值班民警赶到现场，把孩子接回到所里。

New bay police station on duty police arrived on the scene,Take the child back to the place.

　　“我叫浩浩，广西人，9岁，上四年级，住在萧山城区。”

"My name is huge,Guangxi people,9 years old,On the fourth grade,Live in xiaoshan city."

　　面对民警的询问，浩浩稍稍放松了些。但民警根据他提供的线索，却没有查到他的家人。

In the face of the police,Huge relax a little.But according to his police provide clues,Did not find his family.

　　孩子说，他是迷路乘车才到了这里。

The boy said,He is lost to here by bus.

　　最终，民警从浩浩身上找到了一块校牌。

In the end,Police found a JiaoPai from huge body.

　　原来，这个浩浩，就是5天前，北干派出所发布寻人启事，正在寻找的离家出走的孩子。这两天，孩子的父母也在着急寻找。

The original,This huge,Is five days ago,North dry police station issued without notice,The children ran away from home is looking for.This two days,The child's parents are also worried.

　　但令人意外的是，当民警将浩浩父母的照片给他看时，浩浩居然不肯承认，还说校牌是从一个流浪儿那里要来的。

But it is surprising,When the police will be vastly and parents when to show him the photos,Mingei actually refused to admit it,Also said JiaoPai from a waif to come there.

妈妈赶到派出所，孩子管她叫“阿姨” Mother arrived at the station,The children call her"aunt"

　　这究竟是怎么回事？新湾派出所再次和北干派出所确认了孩子信息，并通知孩子的母亲赶来。

Whether it is how to return a responsibility?New bay police station again and north dry police station confirmed children information,And inform the mother of the child.

　　晚上10点多，一名30多岁的女子赶到了新湾派出所，可娘儿俩见面后的一番对话，让在场的民警陈峰大吃一惊。

More at 10 o 'clock in the evening,A woman more than 30 years to get a new bay police station,Can meet girl both after a dialogue,Let the presence of police ChenFeng by surprise.

　　“儿子，你出走几天了？妈想你啊！”

"son,You run away for a few days?Mama miss you!!"

　　“阿姨，你搞错了，我不是你儿子。”

"aunt,You made a mistake,I'm not your son."

　　“你昏了，怎么叫我阿姨，我是你妈呀！”

"You feed me,How to call my aunt,I am your mama ah!"

　　“你不是我妈，我自己有妈，她今天上中班呢。”

"You are not my mother,I have my own mother,She on today night."

　　“快，别这样了，跟我回家。”

"fast,Don't be so the,Go home with me."

　　“我刚才说过了，我不是你儿子，你儿子还在外面流浪呢。”

"I said just now,I'm not your son,Your son is still in stray outside."

　　“我知道你爸打了你，你感到委屈，可你爸也很想你呀。”

"I know your father beat you,You feel injustice,Can your father is also very think you ah."

　　“我爸从来不打我，我爸好着呢。”

"My father never hit me,My dad fine."

　　“儿子，妈求你了，回去吧！”

"son,Mom please,Go back!"

　　“阿姨，你是否想儿子想疯啦，自己儿子丢了，竟把别人的当自己的儿子。警察叔叔，不要让她带走我，她不是我妈。”

"aunt,Do you want to son want to crazy,His son lost,Put others when his own son.Police's uncle,Don't let her take me away,She is not my mother."

民警耐心相劝，母子相拥而泣 Police counsel patience,Mother's arms and cry

　　面对这种情况，陈峰犯难了。

In the face of this situation,ChenFeng conundrum.

　　虽然浩浩这话说得逼真，但他知道孩子在撒谎。

Although vastly this said too realistic,But he perceived that the child was lying.

　　陈峰让浩浩妈妈暂时回避一下，留他单独和浩浩聊起天来。

Mingei ChenFeng let mother temporary withdrawal,Leave him alone and chat the day to join.

　　“他妈妈走出去以后，虽然浩浩还是咬定自己不认识她，但语气较先前软了许多。”陈峰说，浩浩还不断向外张望，小声问他：“她走了没？”

"His mother go out later,Although vastly still convinced that you don't know her,But the tone is soft a lot earlier."ChenFeng said,Join also constantly look outside,Ask him in a low voice:"She didn't go?"

　　觉察到孩子的矛盾心理，陈峰问浩浩：“这几天你一个人在外面，肯定挨冻受饿了吧。爸爸妈妈即使有什么不对的地方，但他们供你吃供你穿供你读书，总是为你好的。”

Aware of the contradictory psychology of the children,Mingei ChenFeng asked:"You a person in the outside these days,Sure AiDong is hungry.What's wrong with mom and dad even place,But they are for you to eat for you to wear for your reading,Always good for you."

　　见浩浩盯着自己不出声，他又劝：“现在外面天寒地冻，怎么也没有家庭温暖。你那么聪明，该怎么选择？虽然刚才你对你妈妈那么绝情、无礼，但她还在外面等着接你回去呢。”

See huge staring at myself don't make any noise,He advised:"It's freezing out there,What also have no a warm family.You are so clever,How to choose?Although you so unique feeling to your mother just now/rude,But she is still in the outside waiting to meet you back."

　　说到这里，浩浩跑了出去，和妈妈相拥而泣，儿子抹着妈妈的泪眼说：“妈，我也好想你。”

here,Huge ran out,And the mother's arms and cry,Son on the mother's eyes said:"mom,I may think you."

　　此时，民警买来了夜宵，孩子显然是饿了，一盒米饭下去，露出了笑脸。

At this time,Police bought food taken late at night,Child is hungry,A packet of rice,Reveal the smiling face.

恨铁不成钢，孩子爸爸“棍棒教育” Don't hate iron rewinded into,Children dad"Sticks education"

　　浩浩的家庭究竟出了什么问题？使得一个年仅9岁的孩子选择离家出走，还不认自己的妈妈。

Join the family what exactly is the problem?Make annual only 9 years old children choose to run away from home,Don't recognize your own mother.

　　浩浩一家姓潘，老家广西。平日里，潘氏夫妇靠打工养家糊口，浩浩则在萧山北干一民工子弟学校读书，今年上小学四年级。

Join a name is pan,Their hometown in guangxi.On weekdays in,11 couple working families,Join in xiaoshan north dry a migrant schools,This year on the fourth grade.

　　浩浩的爸爸妈妈，干的是最底层的活，平时很少有时间和孩子交流。时间一长，以前读书还不错的浩浩，成绩很快跌了下去。

Join the mom and dad,Doing is living at the bottom,Seldom have time to communicate with children.A long time,Reading is good mingei before,Results soon fell down.

　　潘先生说，浩浩读三年级的时候，去过几次黑网吧，接着迷上了网络游戏。

Mr.ban said,Huge when we read three grade,Have been to several times the black bar,And then to get a crush on network game.

　　“因为家里不让他玩电脑，他经常去网吧通宵不回家。我们讲他他不听，后来还顶嘴。”

"Because wouldn't let him play computer at home,He often go to Internet bar all night don't go home.We told him that he wouldn't listen,Then talk back."

　　潘先生没有太多办法，最后实在气不过，就对浩浩施以拳脚。

Mr. Pan without too much,At last she QiBuGuo,To join impose fist.

　　而每当此时，妈妈也只能在一边埋怨儿子不争气。

And every time this time,Mom can only on one side complain son disappointing.

　　这让9岁的孩子觉得很郁闷。

It's 9 years old children feel very depressed.

　　前些天，浩浩溜去网吧玩，等想回家时，发现已是晚上6点了。

The other day,Huge slip away to go to Internet cafes to play,When want to go home,That is already 6 o 'clock in the evening.

　　一天没回家，他觉得回去肯定又要挨打，于是决定，干脆离家出走。

One day didn't come home,He thought back to must want to suffer beating again,Decided to,Just run away from home.

　　听完了整件事，平时就非常关注不良少年情况的民警老徐深有感触。

After hearing the whole thing,At ordinary times is very concern of juvenile delinquent police xu.

　　“孩子叛逆性那么强，如果家人不好好疏导，这样发展下去后果很严重。我们遇到过很多类似的案例。”徐警官给浩浩的父母提出建议：平时要跟孩子多沟通，如果发现孩子有什么纠结的事情，要及时问明。关键是要重新建立起正常的、温馨的亲子关系，让孩子感到有个可亲可爱的父母，有个爱他怜他的家。

"Rebellious children so strong,If your family not good guidance,Such development down the consequences is very serious.We met a lot of similar cases."Xu police officers to join the parents put forward some Suggestions:At ordinary times to communicate with him,If discover the child what kink things,To inquire.The key is to establish the normal again/Warmth of parent-child relationship,Let the children feel a loving parents,There is a love he frets his home.

　　通讯员 徐瑞金 张科顶 本报记者 朱寅

Correspondent XuRuiJin ZhangKe top our reporter ZhuYin