本报北京1月7日电（记者董伟）中国社会科学院今天发布的《社会心态蓝皮书》指出，对覆盖全国各省区31345名网络征婚者的一项数据调查分析发现，“郎才（财）女貌”与“门当户对”仍然是当代中国青年人确立择偶标准的基本原则；随时间演化，征婚者的“性贞洁”观念和“传宗接代”的观念有所淡化。

Our newspaper Beijing on January 7,(The reporter DongWei)The Chinese academy of social sciences published today[Social mentality blue book]Pointed out that,To cover all over the country provinces 31345 network ZhengHunZhe a survey and analysis of data,"LangCai(wealth)The appearance"and"equal"Is still in contemporary China young people to establish the basic principles of the spouse;Evolve over time,The ZhengHunZhe"Sexual chaste"Ideas and"To breed"The concept of dilution.

　　网络择偶已成为互联网时代和多元社会寻找配偶的寻常方式。据统计，早在2009年，中国网络征婚的注册用户已经达到1.4亿。中国社科院的研究抽取了2005年～2010年使用百合网征婚的18～40岁的男女客户作为调查对象。

Network marriage has become the Internet age and pluralistic society the unusual way to mate.According to statistics,As early as in 2009,China network marriage registered users has reached 140 million.Research from the Chinese academy of social sciences from 2005 to 2010 using lily nets marriage proposal of 18 to 40 years old men and women of the customer as the object of investigation.

　　分析发现，女性对于配偶的社会经济状况（收入、学历、有无住房）有更严苛的要求，对自己的外貌评价更高，以吸引对方；男性征婚者则不太看重女性的社会经济地位，但倾向于选择比自己年龄小的配偶。其次，征婚者会根据自身条件确定和调整择偶标准。尽管存在上述“郎才（财）女貌”征婚标准的性别差异，但是相当比例的男女仍希望选择与自己收入、学历、年龄、身高等相当的配偶，即所谓“门当户对”。第三，征婚要求的性别差异也会随着社会变化而调整，从2005到2010年，男性征婚者希望配偶与自己社会经济状况（尤其是学历）相当的比例在增加。研究者预测预测，这一趋势会随着男女平等观念的深入和女性参与社会事务机会的均等化而增强。

The analysis found that,For female spouses of social and economic status(income/Record of formal schooling/Whether the housing)More rigorous requirements,Of his own appearance evaluation,To attract each other;ZhengHunZhe men, don't regard for the social status of women,But I tend to choose spouses of smaller than your age.The second,ZhengHunZhe will be determined according to their own conditions and adjust the spouse.Despite the above"LangCai(wealth)The appearance"Marriage proposal standards of gender differences,But quite a proportion of men and women still want choice and their income/Record of formal schooling/age/Height of a spouse,The so-called"equal".The third,Marriage proposal for gender differences will also along with the social change and adjustment,From 2005 to 2010,Male ZhengHunZhe hope spouses with their social and economic status(Especially in)Is on the increase in the proportion of.The researchers predict forecast,The trend with the deepening of the concept of equality between men and women and women equal opportunity to participate in social affairs and enhanced.

　　蓝皮书还从性爱观念、生育观念、经济观念、对家庭-社会角色的期待、人生追求、以及对关系的期望等6个方面对择偶价值观进行了分析。结果表明，在性爱观念方面，男性总体上对婚前性行为的接受度更高，但是对于伴侣的婚前性行为接受度较低。女性则正好相反，对于一般的婚前性行为接受度相对较低，但更容易接受未来伴侣的婚前性行为。

Blue from sex/Birth ideas/Economic concepts/To the family - social role expectations/The pursuit of life/And the relationship between the expectations of the six aspects of marriage values were analyzed.The results show that,In the concept of sex,Men in general acceptance of premarital sex is higher,But to partner of premarital sex low acceptance.Women are just the opposite,For general acceptance of premarital sex is relatively low,But easier to accept future partner of premarital sex.

　　在生育观念上，大部分征婚者希望婚后要孩子，但不希望马上要，可能与城市青年人社会工作压力大、传宗接代的观念淡化有关系。在经济观念上，大部分征婚者都倾向于“节俭”的生活方式。在对家庭-社会角色的期待上，大部分征婚者认同传统的家庭角色（男主外，女主内），但同时也接受有所调整；希望与原生家庭保持一定的或紧密的联系，以更平等的态度对待双方家庭。在人生追求上，大部分征婚者更看重家庭幸福而不是事业成就，其中，男性更重视精神生活和事业成功，更喜欢挑战和刺激，而女性则更看重家庭幸福，更重视和谐的家庭生活。在关系期待上，征婚者普遍非常在意与配偶在一起的时间，愿意与配偶分享内心世界，会与配偶进行多种形式的交流。

On the birth ideas,Most ZhengHunZhe hope after marriage to children,But don't want to right away,May work with urban youth social pressure/Breed of conception.In the economic concept,Most ZhengHunZhe tend to"thrifty"Way of life.In the family - the social role of look forward to,Most ZhengHunZhe recognition of traditional family roles(The men the Lord,女主 within),But at the same time also accept changed;Hope and native family maintain or close ties,In a more equal attitude towards both families.On the pursuit of life,Most ZhengHunZhe value family more happiness instead of career achievement,Among them,Men pay more attention to spiritual life and successful career,Like challenge and stimulation,While women value family more happiness,Pay more attention to the harmonious family life.On the relationship between looking forward to,ZhengHunZhe generally care deeply and spouse together of the time,Would like to share with your spouse inner world,Will a variety of forms of communication with their spouse.