“父母放松的心，就是孩子的巴学园。”是在“李跃儿教育论坛”上频繁出现的一句话。这是因为，多年的教学经历使李跃儿发现：所有孩子的问题其实都是成人的问题。孩子不会从出生就带来问题，孩子的问题大都是由于成人不懂得孩子、不理解孩子、对孩子的帮助不当所造成的，背负这些问题走向成熟的孩子必定会成为有问题的成人。

"The heart of the parents to relax,Is the child's and educational park."Is in"LiYueEr education BBS"The frequent words.This is because,Years of teaching experience LiYueEr found:All the children's problem is the problem of adults.The child won't bring problems from birth,Children are mostly due to the adult children do not know/Don't understand children/To help children caused by the improper,Carry these problems the maturity of the child will become a problem of adults.

　　李跃儿总结了几种中国的家长类型： LiYueEr sums up some Chinese parents type:

　　“一，完美无误型，一些家长孩子犯一点错误就认为是孩子‘毛病’多，就开始指责、打骂，这样就造成了孩子紧张、焦虑，没有安全感，甚至造成心理障碍；二，过多干涉型，当孩子玩的时候，横加干涉，这样会造成孩子以后的‘专注性’不够，厌烦学习；三，过分呵护型，家长怕伤着孩子或吓着孩子就经常抱着，大一点的时候不让孩子出去玩，这就导致孩子不会使用自己的肢体，甚至不会大脑思维，出现交往困难等心理问题；四，望子成龙型，这样的家长是将自己没有实现的理想或成功欲望转嫁到孩子身上，孩子自己喜欢学的学不到，学到的全是自己不喜欢的，这样的孩子小的时候可能会优秀，长大之后就不爱学习，甚至会夜不归宿；五，拔苗助长型，早早让孩子学文字、算术，直接掠夺孩子的自然成长过程，结果破坏了孩子思维与精神的内在建构，可能造成孩子以后的极度厌学；六，经验衡量型，每一个人都是一个独特的艺术品，但许多家长总按照老人或周边人的经验来培养他，大大束缚了孩子的个性发展。”

"a,Perfect and correct type,Some parents children making a few mistakes that a child‘fault’more,Began to accuse/Beat and scold,That would give the children nervous/anxiety,No security,Even a psychological disorder;two,Too much interference type,When children play,Interfere wantonly,This will cause the child later‘Focus sex’enough,Tired of learning;three,Too care type,Parents afraid hurt children or scare children often hold,A bit bigger when do not let the child go out to play,This will lead to the child won't use your own body,Don't even mind,Difficulties in communication and psychological problems;four,Used type,This is his parents will not achieve ideal or success desire to pass on to their children,Children like to learn can't learn,Learn all you do not like,This little child might be good,After he grew up do not love learning,Even YeBuGuiSu;five,Haste makes waste type,Let the children learn early writing/arithmetic,Direct rob the child's natural growth process,Results the damage children thinking and spirit of the inner construction,May cause child later extremely was tired of learning;six,Experience measure type,Every man is a unique work of art,But many parents always according to the old man or surrounding human experience to cultivate him,Greatly bound the child's personality development."

　　中国的孩子学习负担重，这是不争的事实，所以我们才提倡“减负”，提倡“素质教育”。但“素质教育”在我们这里又成了一种面目全非的东西。它被直接去掉了内核——健全的人格状态、独立思考的能力、勇于探索的精神……而演化成了技能的培训，成了强迫孩子“多学东西”，“多学实惠的东西”的借口。“享受音乐”被“钢琴考级”所替换，“欣赏名画，获得心灵的滋养”被“画画获奖、参加展览”所替换。孩子是痛苦的孩子，所以李跃儿常说，“那一张满是痛苦的脸啊。”

Chinese children learn a heavy burden,It is an indisputable fact,So we don't advocate"Alleviate the burden on",advocate"Quality education".but"Quality education"In the us became a kind of something beyond recognition.It is direct to remove the kernel - sound personality state/The ability of independent thinking/Enterprising spirit……And evolution became skills training,Force children to become"Learn more things","Learn more affordable things"excuse."Enjoy music"was"Piano accomplishment"replaced,"Appreciate paintings,Get heart nourish"was"Drawing the/exhibition"replaced.Children are suffering children,So LiYueEr often said,"That one is full of pain face."

　　李跃儿巴学园的课程由蒙氏工作、大型建设、生存课程几个部分组成。在春季的大型建设课程中，孩子们要磨砖，盖真的房子，还要建超市、医院，等等，反正就是一个小社会。这期间，办超市的会和爹妈要20块钱，去真的超市购物；开农家院的，就去住农家院；办医院的则去医院参观。整个春天，孩子们全部都在外面玩。每天做过操唱过歌吃过早饭，就去工地，在工地吃过假装的早饭之后开始出工。下午是自由活动时间，但几乎也全在窝棚里忙。“孩子们一整天都在忙，所以身心特别舒畅，没有一点问题。”

LiYueEr and educational park course by monel work/Large construction/Survival course several parts.In the spring of large construction course,The children to grind brick,Cover really house,Also built the supermarket/hospital,etc,It is a small society.During this,Do the supermarket and the parents to twenty dollars,To really supermarket shopping;NongGuYuan open the,Went to live NongGuYuan;Do the hospital go to the hospital to visit.The spring,The children all play outside.Every day do fuck sing song to eat breakfast,Will go to the site,In the site had pretended to work after breakfast began.The afternoon is free time,But almost in all shack in busy."The children in the busy all day,So special and refreshed,No problem."

　　在规矩之内，孩子可以自由地进行一切探索 Within the rules,Children are free to explore for all

　　但刚把孩子送入巴学园的家长往往不能接受李跃儿的教育方式，认为她是在“放养”。所以她每年都要对家长进行培训，让他们了解她这种教育背后的东西，以求取得更好的配合。

But just take the children into the garden and parents often can't accept the LiYueEr education mode,Think she is in"stocking".So she every year training for parents,Let them know she this education behind the things,In order to achieve better fit.

　　往往一年之后，家长就和她配合得很好了。家里和幼儿园有统一的规矩，在规矩之内，孩子可以自由地进行一切探索。

Often after a year,Parents and she fit well.Home and kindergartens have unified rules,Within the rules,Children are free to explore for all.

　　父母放轻松了，孩子的巴学园也就真的来到了。

The parents take it easy,The child's and educational park is really came to.

　　采访之后，我随李跃儿去操场上看她的孩子们。几个孩子在等妈妈来接放学。他们灰头土脸，心满意足。有一个男孩的裤子上破了一个大大的口子，一看就破了有些日子了，但妈妈没有把它缝上。

Interview after,I go to the playground with LiYueEr see her children.Several children waiting for mom to meet after school.They totally embarassed,content.There is a boy trousers broke a big cut,A look at break some day,But mom didn't put it sew.

　　夕阳下，我和李跃儿抱了抱，然后心满意足地离开。(文/赵立)

The sunset,I and LiYueEr hug,Then leave contentedly.(Article/ZhaoLi)