众家长：愤怒 反驳

All the parents:Angry retort

　　专家：这是一种嫉妒

experts:This is a kind of envy

扬子晚报 王亚男 制图 Yangzi evening news WangYaNan mapping

　　起因是这位家长自己上树人3+3班的孩子没考上南师附中2+1班，而“差学校”却有学生考上了；气愤之余，这位家长怀疑别人有“门路”

Cause is the parents on their ents 3 + 3 class children did not take an examination of south division attached middle school 2 + 1 class,and"Bad schools"But students admitted to the;Angry over the,The parents that they have"opportunities"
　　最近，南京西祠胡同上，有一条争论帖非常引人注目。一位来自树人3+3班学生的家长，自家孩子在考南师附中2+1班时落选，而另一位来自50中的孩子却通过笔试、面试考上了。这位家长怀疑这位来自“差学校”的学生有门路，他说：我不信，更不服！这一帖子引来众位家长的大讨论，成为近些天来西祠最热的帖子，大家都对这位家长提出批评。扬子晚报记者连线了南京教育方面的专家，专家说这是一种嫉妒心理。记者还了解到，50中这位考上南师附中2+1班的学生确实非常优秀， 学校老师说他考上2+1班一点不意外。

recently,Nanjing on XiCiHuTong,There is a debate 1 very conspicuous.A from ents 3 + 3 class students' parents,Their children in the school of south division 2 + 1 class when the election,And another comes from the 50 children but through the written examination/Passed the interview.The parents from the suspect"Bad schools"The students have a way out,He said:I don't believe,Refuses to accept more!This post draws a big discussion of the parents,In recent days XiCi become the hottest posts,All the parents criticized.Yangzi evening news reporter attachment to the nanjing education expert,Experts say this is a kind of envy psychology.Reporters also learned,50 the admitted to south division 2 + 1 attached to the students of class really very good, The school teacher said he admitted to 2 + 1 class no accident.

先看看这位家长怎么说 Look at the parents how to say

50中的学生竟能考上南师附中的2+1班？我不信，更不服 The 50 students could take an examination of south division in the attached 2 + 1 class?I don't believe,Refuses to accept more

　　网友tiger008008

Net friend tiger008008

　　“听孩子说，数学，物理题很难，有相当一部分题是竞赛题。孩子考得不太好，落选了。可没想到一个来自三流，差学校50中的孩子竟然能通过笔试，面试，最后考上了。大家知道参加考试的都是来自各个学校签了一类约的牛娃，难道树人3+3班，实验班，玄外，29中，科利华这些名校的牛娃考不过这个来自三流差学校50中的学生？我不信，更不服！这个学生肯定有门路！”

"Listen to the boy said,mathematics,Physics problem difficult to,There are quite a part of the problem is the contest questions.The children didn't do too well,Wasn't in the squad.However, from a third-rate,Poor school of 50 children unexpectedly can through the written examination,interview,Finally admitted to the.Everyone know to take an examination of is all from each school signed a NiuWa covenant,Don't ents 3 + 3 class,Experimental class,Xuan outside,29,KeLiHua these renown officer NiuWa exam but the grade difference from 50 students in the school?I don't believe,Refuses to accept more!The student must have a way out!"

　　在南京的西祠胡同上，这条网帖在发出后，已经有近1.5万的点击量。

In nanjing on XiCiHuTong,This article network post in issued,Nearly 15000 hits.

　　记者发现，这位名叫tiger008008的网友是临时注册了账号前来发帖的，他在回帖中说，从小学开始忙竞赛直到现在，牺牲了孩子和家长多少宝贵的时间，可是现在考试高考竞赛保送已取消，交大班又没考上，只能硬考了，白忙了，欲哭无泪！

Reporter discovery,The name of the tiger008008 net friend is temporary registered an account to the post,He said in reply,From elementary school began to busy race until now,At the expense of his children and parents how much precious time,But now test the university entrance exam competition walks has cancelled,Jiaotong university class and failed in the exam,Can only take the hard,White busy,Too deep for tears!

再看看网友们的反应 Look at the net friend of the reaction

有愤怒有鄙视，几乎是集体“围攻”发帖人 There is anger have despised,Is almost collective"siege"Post people

　　这样一条网帖在西祠上引起了轩然大波，也瞬间引来了众位网友的反驳。

In such a network for XiCi caused a storm in a teacup,Also instantly drew the netizen retort.

　　网友lakeplus说，每个学校都有好学生，如此看不起人，贬低一个学校太过分了，尽管有些学校现在很好，但是换个地方，没了好生源，还真不好说。非名校的学生就考不上名校？网友表示很愤怒，称：“为何不多从自己身上找原因，却在网上吐槽败坏人家学校的名声呢？”

Net friend lakeplus said,Each school has a good student,So look down on people,Detract from a school is too much,Although some schools now is very good,But a place,Not a good student,Return true not say.The school students will take an examination of the school?Net friend said very angry,says:"Why aren't more from yourself to blame,But in the online vomit tank destroyed the somebody else? The name of the university?"

　　这个帖子在网上存在已经二十多天了，但是至今仍然非常火热。ailleentang说，我身边也有朋友的孩子初中就是50中毕业的，他考上南师附中高中，三年后考上北大，现在是北大的硕博连读生，即将博士毕业。记得当年他中考前对家长说的一句话是，“只要南师附中招生，我就能考上。”和大家一起共勉吧！

This post on the Internet existence has more than 20 days,But still very hot.Ailleentang said,I also have friends around the child is in the junior middle school graduate from 50,He admitted to south division attached middle school high school,Three years later admitted to Peking University,Now is the north joins read was born,The doctor graduate.Remember that year he tests before parents say a word is,"As long as the south division attached middle school recruitment of students,I can take an examination of."And everybody's mutual encouragement!

　　盼子长大说，楼主真是井底之蛙，孤陋寡闻，五十中在南京教育圈一直是有底气的，06年的中考状元就出自这里。你看有这么多的学生为母校打抱不平，就知道这个学校的凝聚力有多大。请你不要小视五十中的家长、老师、学生。

Smaller said to,The original poster is really in the gutter,ignorant,Five ShiZhong in nanjing education circle has been have the bottom spirit,06 years first examination, come from here.As you can see there are so many students for Alma mater help victim of an injustice,Will know that this school cohesion have how old.Please don't inspects the parents fifty/The teacher/students.

事情真相是这样的 The truth is this

发帖人眼中那位有门路的“差校”学生 老师和同学们说他考上名校2+1班一点不意外 Post in the outlet of the"Poor school"Student teachers and students said he admitted to school 2 + 1 class no accident

　　那么，50中这位考上南师附中2+1班的同学，是否真的有门路呢？网友表示，真有门路的话，岂不在小升初时就直接去了树人国际？

so,50 the admitted to south division attached middle school 2 + 1 the classmate of class,Whether you really have a way out??Net friend said,True have opportunities word,Not another in when they went straight to the ents international?

　　在网友的回帖中，记者看到了一位妈妈的留言：理解楼主的心情，可你没见到这个孩子就不能随便评价他，我儿子面试完见到我就一路夸赞这个50中的孩子。说等面试时，几个孩子聊天，他的知识面非常广。说游戏他是高手，说最新手机的款和功能，他说的头头是道。看了老师放在桌上的分数册，他的笔试分数很高，排在前8名。第二天我们一到附中就见到了这个50中的孩子，他主动迎上来跟我和儿子打招呼，很有礼貌，很沉稳的一个帅小伙。

In the net friend post,The reporter sees a mother's message:Understand your mood,But you haven't seen the child can't literally evaluation he,I see my son after the interview of the praise the 50 of the children.Said, interview,Several children chat,His knowledge is very wide.Said the game he is superior,Said the latest mobile money and function,He said the clear and logical.See the teacher on the table score copies,His written examination score is high,The top eight.The next day we went to a school is to see the child in the 50,He offered to meet up with my son and say "hello",Good manners,Very composed a handsome boy.

　　记者联系到了50中今年毕业班的班主任，得知这位已经被附中2+1班录取的同学名叫韦一昌。三年以来他都担任班长，他的班主任李霞对记者说：“他是一个品学兼优的人，各方面素质都很优秀，三年来，考过几次年级第一名，并且，他的外语水平一直是他的优势。”李霞说，韦一昌在小学时就参加过央视九套举办的希望小学英语风采大赛，获得一等奖，同时前不久在全国的英语比赛中也获得了一等奖。英语是他的强项，而去附中，除了学习，他还有着英语方面的优势。

Reporter contact to 50 this year in the graduating class's teacher in charge,Learned that the has been attached middle school 2 + 1 class admission classmate named WeiYiChang.Three years he had served as a monitor,His teacher in charge LiXia told reporters:"He is an excellent person,The quality is very good,Three years,Pass a few times first grade,and,His foreign language level has been his advantage."LiXia said,WeiYiChang when in elementary school in nine sets of CCTV held hope primary school English talent competition,Won the first prize,At the same time, not long ago in the national English competition also won the first prize.English is his strong point,But go to school,In addition to learning,He also has the advantage of English.

　　50中另外一个毕业班的班主任顾立峰说，每年，50中能考到南京四大名校的有150多人，其中去附中的也不在少数，韦一昌能进入2+1班，我们一点都不觉得奇怪。“他成熟稳重，有明确目标，当年小升初他本来想去南外的，但是摇号没有摇上。今年中考状元是720分，而韦一昌的成绩也在700分以上。”

50 in another graduating class's teacher in charge GuLiFeng said,Every year,50 can take an examination of to nanjing four schools of more than 150 people,The attached to the is not in a few,WeiYiChang can enter 2 + 1 class,We don't feel strange."His mature,Have a clear goal,Another year he wanted to go to the south,But no wave wave number on.This year first examination is 720 points,And WeiYiChang results are also more than 700 points."

家长心态探讨 Parents' psychology to explore

家长 parents

从小进名校 孩子才更接近下一个名校 From childhood into school children is more close to the next school

　　从网帖争论中，可以看到，有很多家长会选择为孩子择校，尤其是在初中阶段。对很多家长而言，大家内心都存在着一种“名校情结”。那么，为何会出现这种情况呢？扬子晚报记者采访了一位有这种心理的家长。

From the net post debate,Can see,There are many parents choose to school children,Especially in the junior middle school stage.For many parents concerned,Everyone heart there are a"School complex".so,Why will appear this kind of circumstance?Yangzi evening news reporter interviewed a have this kind of psychological parents.

　　“现在社会竞争很激烈，不想让孩子输在起跑线上。”唐女士家的孩子今年11岁，在琅琊路小学上学，她对记者说，小孩从小学开始择校，马上还在准备择校让他上好的初中。“从幼儿园升小学时，我们就感到了很大的压力，所以想让孩子上好点的小学，接受更好的教育。”

"The competition is very fierce,Don't want to let the children lose in the starting line."Tang woman's child 11 years old this year,In 琅琊路 elementary school to go to school,She told reporters,From elementary school children start school,Immediately also in preparation for the school let him good junior middle school."From kindergarten rise elementary school,We will feel a lot of pressure,So I want to let the child good point of primary school,Get a better education."

　　唐女士认为，好的学校不仅仅表现在教育质量，还有人文氛围。“孩子在诸多优秀的孩子中间成长，对他自己也是个潜移默化的影响，毕竟我们家长与他在一起的时间不多。”而且，唐女士说，上了名小学，会更有把握去名初中、名高中甚至名牌大学。“进了重点名高中后，相当于一只脚已经迈进大学校门了！”

Tang women think,Good schools not only lies in the education quality,And humanistic atmosphere."Children in many excellent middle child growth,For he himself is a exerts a subtle influence on,After all, our parents with him don't have much time."and,Ms tang said,Primary school on the name,Will more be sure to name the junior middle school/High school or even a famous university."Into the key name after high school,Equivalent to have one foot into the university!"

　　此外，唐女士对记者说，现代社会中，生活圈子很重要，孩子从小认识的人，以后进入社会后都是一种资源，这样就可以让孩子赢在起跑线上。

In addition,Ms tang told reporters,Modern society,Life circle is very important,The child know,Later into the society after all is a kind of resource,This will make your child win on the starting line.

专家 experts

发帖家长有嫉妒心理 理智面对择校，适合的才最好 Post parents have envy and psychological reason will face,Suitable to the best

　　发帖以及网友的辩论，主要是针对当前的择校大背景。从另一个角度而言，这个网帖，也让不少家长们对择校问题有了深深的思考。

Post and net friend debate,Is mainly aimed at the current school background.From another perspective,The net post,Also let many parents will have to question the deep thinking.

　　扬子晚报记者联系到南京市白下区教师进修学校校长潘春雷。潘校长对记者说，看到其他人考了好成绩就质疑是否存在猫腻，那面对山区的孩子考上清华北大作何感想？这样的心态是一种嫉妒心理，本身就是不科学的。

Yangzi evening news reporter relates to nanjing BaiXiaOu the teacher training school principal PanChunLei.Pan the headmaster told reporters,See others got good grades is questioned whether there is something fishy going on,The face of the mountain children admitted to tsinghua Beijing university mark baard?This attitude is a kind of envy psychology,Itself is not scientific.

　　潘春雷校长对记者说，网帖所涉及的关键问题是大家对学校的评价，也就涉及到现在家长们普遍关心的择校问题。潘校长对记者说，现在教育部开会一直在强调教育均衡的问题。南京市经过这么多年的努力，学校的师资力量和办学的发展都比较均衡，现在所聘用的老师都经过高等教育，加上信息化教学等，教学资源互通共享，师资环境等方面的差异在慢慢消失。

PanChunLei the headmaster told reporters,Network involved for is the key problem of you for the evaluation of the school,Also involves now parents generally concerned question school.Pan the headmaster told reporters,Now the department of education at the meeting have been stressing education balanced question.Nanjing after so many years of efforts,School teachers and schools are more balanced,Now employ the teachers through higher education,Add information teaching and so on,Communication teaching resources sharing,The differences of teaching environment in slowly disappears.

　　潘校长说，任何一所学校都有好中差三种学生，“有的学生本身很优秀，可是进了名校后或许就成了凤尾，成为差生，这样的落差会让孩子有很大压力，并不是所有的人都会感到压力越大，动力越大，有人可能会被压力压垮，而与此同时压抑了潜能的发挥。只能导致孩子的自信心越来越小，这样的例子太多了！”

Pan said the principal,Any schools all have good bad in three students,"Some students itself is very good,But into the school may become after a lion,Become poor,Such a drop would let children have a lot of pressure,And not all of them will feel the pressure,The greater the power,Someone may be pressure overriding,And at the same time suppress potential play.Can only lead to the child's self-confidence more and more small,Examples of this too much!"

　　潘校长说，名校可能锻炼机会多，但是每一个机会都是靠竞争得来。而去了一所相对普通的学校，他可能会得到更自由的学习机会，各方面潜能更容易发挥出来，同时自信心也越来越大。“但是现在很多家长的心态都比较功利，有人甚至想不到，有些孩子去了好学校可能被淹没，甚至成为差生。”

Pan said the principal,Schools may exercise more opportunities,But every opportunity to come by competition.And go to a relatively ordinary school,He may be more free learning opportunities,The potential easier to play out,At the same time also more and more confidence."But now many parents attitude are utilitarian,Some have even unexpected,Some children to good schools may be submerged,Even become poor."

　　链接 杭州今年实行“零择校”

Links to hangzhou this year"Zero school"

　　据媒体报道，浙江2012年全面推行义务教育阶段中小学“阳光招生”，出重拳治理公办中小学乱收费顽疾。杭州市教育局随即出台了被称为“史上最严格的择校限制令”，表示义务教育阶段公办学校严格禁止收取择校费与捐资助学款，要按学区来招收学生，即“零择校”。

According to media reports,Zhejiang in 2012, the full implementation of the compulsory education stage primary and middle school"Sunshine recruit students",Punch out over public primary and secondary schools often collects fees in disorder.Hangzhou education bureau immediately issued a are called"In the history of the school strictly limiting",Compulsory education stage is business school said strictly prohibit ZeJiaoFei and donate money,According to school districts to recruit students,namely"Zero school".

　　2012年杭州市推行公办小学初中“零择校”，收回了学校的“自由裁量权”，同时杭州市教育局首次将各所小学的入学报名进行联网管理，以便监督和究责。市民表示，只有真正做到教育资源配置的公平，硬件软件的公平，“零择校”才是理智的，而不是强制的。（记者 李冲）

In 2012, hangzhou carrying out public elementary school junior middle school"Zero school",The withdrawal of the school"discretion",At the same time, hangzhou education bureau will be for the first time the school entrance sign up for networking management,In order to monitor and investigate responsibility.Residents said,Only truly education resource allocation of the fair,Hardware and software of the fair,"Zero school"Is rational,But not mandatory.(Reporter LiChong)