礼服婚纱加身、牵手鱼贯入场、彼此交换戒指、亲吻倾诉爱意……如此场景，乍看恍若置身喜宴或教堂，细瞧竟然发生在河南郑州的一家幼儿园：证婚的是老师，观礼的是家长，主角是一群牙齿还没换完的半大孩童。据报道，参加这场“集体婚礼”的100多个孩子，全部是“自由恋爱”。用该幼儿园园长的话说，这是“给孩子灌输健康婚姻观的好机会”。

Wedding dress with the body/Filed in the/Each other exchange ring/Kiss pour out his love……So scene,At first glance as if place oneself wedding breakfast or church,XiQiao actually happened in henan zhengzhou a kindergarten:Marrying is the teacher,The ceremony is parents,The protagonist is a group of teeth haven't changing the window the children.According to the report,In this"Collective wedding ceremony"More than 100 children,Are all"Free love".With this the head of the kindergarten has such words,This is"Give children implants healthy marriage good opportunity".

　　3到6岁的年纪，正是烂漫无邪时，却和婚姻、爱情扯上关系，倒真映衬了当下流行的一部电视剧的名字天真遇到现实。在“幼儿婚礼”策划者看来，这堪称一种成长教育，用“性游戏”的形式，来化解欲说还休的敏感话题，有利于孩子心理的健康成长。听来似有道理，但引导儿童两性意识，非得用如此“催熟”的方式吗？男孩女孩之间，说句“喜欢”，只是童言无忌，何必透过婚礼的噱头人为放大呢？如此“成人化”的仪式，我们看不到孩子的天真与灵秀，而是同年龄不相称的违和与尴尬。

3 to 6 years old,It is brilliant when have no evil,But and marriage/Love is relationshiop between,Really set off the current popular a TV series name naive meet the reality.in"Infant wedding"Planners seems,This can be a growth education,with"Sex game"form,To solve the sensitive topic of shyly placed your eyes on me,Conducive to the healthy growth of children psychology.Sounds like a reasonable,But guide the children's gender consciousness,Have to use so"after-ripening"Way??Between boys and girls,speak"like",Just children,Why through the wedding stunt? For amplification?so"ChengRenHua"ceremony,We can't see the child's innocent and clever,But with age disproportionate acosmia and embarrassed.

　　在什么年龄做什么事这个最朴素的经验，应当是幼儿教育颠扑不破的真理。孩童的世界，白纸一张，你随意涂抹的一道色彩，对他而言却是生命的“第一次”痕迹。成熟的轨道，人人终究要走，但童真和稚嫩，却是不可逆转的时光。谁都有懵懂好奇的时候，欲告知孩子们两性的知识、爱情的内涵、婚姻的责任，有的是办法和途径，更要注重时机和方式。毕竟，幼儿教育不是“过家家”，须遵循天性、恪守规律，绝不可揠苗助长、肆意而为。

At what age do things the most simple experience,Should children education is incontrovertible truth.Children of the world,A blank sheet,You to blot out of a color,For him it is life"The first"trace.Mature orbit,Everybody all to go,But fairytales and immature,It is irreversible time.Who are ignorant of curiosity,To inform the children sexual knowledge/The connotation of love/The responsibility of the marriage,Have a plenty of measures and ways,Should notice more time and way.After all,Preschool education is not"Play house",Must follow the nature/Abide by the law,Never push them/Wanton and for.

　　可惜，很多家长和老师却不谙此道，总愿意以成人的思维选择教育模式，将孩子过早推向大人的世界。综艺节目中，不时可见浓妆艳抹的娃娃媚眼乱抛；日渐裸露的车展上，身着比基尼的女童车模让人跌碎一地眼镜。孩子们袒胸露背的衣着、矫揉造作的神情、“小大人式”的腔调，让人不禁慨叹童心沦落、童真不再。或许，有人会辩解，此举只为培养孩子的文艺才能或开朗性格，但早早失落弥足珍贵的童真和童趣，孩子的人生已然不再完整。

but,A lot of parents and teachers but not this way,The total would like to adult education mode choice of thinking,Will the children early to the adult world.Variety show in,From time to time being visible baby leer disorderly throw;Increasingly denuded auto show,Dressed in a bikini girls models make people fall, and be broken a glasses.The children TanXiongLouBei clothes/Precious expression/"Grownup type"tone,Let a person can't help sigh with regret childishness reduced/Fairytales no longer.maybe,Someone will excuse,For the child's literary talent or cheerful personality,But early lost precious fairytales and tong qu,The child's life is not complete.

　　让孩子真正成为孩子吧，这不应该成为一句空话。如今环境的改变、网络的侵袭，本就潜移默化地加速着儿童“性早熟”，岂能再以偏颇甚至荒唐的教育手段，给这些璞玉强行打上成人的烙印？一场“幼儿集体婚礼”的热闹过后，娱乐了大人，损害的却是一颗颗赤子之心。(郑轶)

Let the children become a real children it,It should become an empty talk.Now the environment change/Network attacks,The accelerating a child"Precocious puberty",He cannot even absurd to bias the education means,Give them our jade forced a adult's brand?a"Children collective wedding ceremony"After the busy,The adult entertainment,Damage is each pure heart.(ZhengYi)