这对夫妻虽然还是离婚了，但楼爸爸说，给孩子们的爱不会因此减少

The couple divorced though,But the father said floor,Give children love won't so reduce

　　尊敬的婺城区人民法院院长：

Respect of wu of city people's court:

　　我们是来自金华市婺城、金东、上海和丽水市景宁畲族自治县的33个在读大学生。我们在“楼爸爸”的全力资助下，顺利进入大学学习。

We are from jinhua city wu/JinDong/Shanghai and lishui she autonomous county building 33 students reading.We are"Floor dad"Full support,Successful study in a university.

　　2010年8月，我们这些寒门学子在拿到录取通知书欣喜之余，也因家境困难无钱上学而陷入了困境。这时，在上海经商的楼先生爱心出击，决定无偿资助我们完成4年大学学业。

In August 2010,Those of us in the admission notice was originally poor students get more than pleased,Also due to the family's difficult without money to go to school and was in trouble.At this time,In the Shanghai business floor Sir Love attack,Decided to free sponsorship we completed four years college.

　　当年年底，第一批23位受助学生受邀到楼先生家过春节。楼先生、楼太太亲切地招呼我们这些孩子，楼太太还给我们每人派发了2000元压岁钱，让我们感受了大家庭的温暖和幸福。他们像关心自家孩子一样关心我们的生活，鼓励我们勤学上进，自此，我们开始亲切地称楼先生为“楼爸爸”，喊楼太太“楼妈妈”。

By the end of the,The first batch of 23 a recipient students was invited to the building's Mr. The Spring Festival.Floor Sir/Mrs. Building affectionately called we these children,Floor wife also distributed each 2000 yuan New Year's money,Let us feel the warmth and happiness of the family.They like care about their child care about our life,Encourage us study progress,Since then,We began to affectionately said Mr Floor"Floor dad",Called Mrs Floor"Floor mother".

　　2011年，又有10位寒门学子加入这个大家庭，我们聚集在金华，但这次，我们没有见到热情的楼妈妈，只见到憔悴的楼爸爸。后来经打听，才得知他们感情出现了问题。

In 2011,,And ten was originally poor students to join this big family,We gathered in jinhua,But this time,We haven't seen warm floor mother,See only the gaunt floor dad.Then ask the,Just when they learned that their emotional problems.

　　昨天上午，我们再次参加家庭大聚会，但我们依旧没有看到楼妈妈的身影。在我们的追问下，楼爸爸伤心地告诉我们，夫妻的感情出了问题。

Yesterday morning,Once again we attend family party,But we still didn't see the floor mother's figure.In our ask next,Floor dad sadly tell us,The feelings of the husband and wife out of the question.

　　得知这个消息后，我们这些孩子非常难受！在这个温暖的大家庭里，失去了楼妈妈的关爱，我们就像失去母亲的孩子一样，顿感失去了方向，再也找不回之前大家庭的完美与温馨，更为楼爸爸的境遇揪心不已。

Know the news,We these children very uncomfortable!In this warm family,Lost floor mother's love,We like losing a mother's child,Meal feeling lost direction,Can not find back to the perfect family and warmth,More floor father's situation was due.

　　情急之下，我们想到了尊敬的法院院长，真诚地请您出面劝劝楼妈妈，劝她回到楼爸爸的怀抱，回到我们这个温暖的大家庭。“在我们的成长路上，我们不仅需要楼爸爸，更需要楼妈妈！”

unaided,We think the respect of the court,Sincerely please you to advise floor mother,Advised her back to the floor of the father's arms,Back to our warm family."On our way to grow,We not only need to floor dad,Need more floor mother!"

老板离婚 学生劝和 The boss divorce students try to make peace

　　33个受他资助的贫困生给法官写联名信，希望“楼爸爸楼妈妈”重归于好

33 affected by his aid to poor students write the signatories,hope"Floor building father mother"Able to

　　这对夫妻虽然还是离婚了，但楼爸爸说，给孩子们的爱不会因此减少

The couple divorced though,But the father said floor,Give children love won't so reduce

　　王莺是婺城区人民法院民事庭的法官，办过许许多多的离婚案。去年7月，法院受理了一桩离婚案，不久，她就收到了这封由33个大学生联名写来的求助信。“我办离婚案也不少了，这种孩子集体写信劝和的事还没遇到过。”这件事引起了王莺的格外关注，她决定，把这个事情详详细细地了解清楚，看看能不能帮助孩子们达成心愿。

WangYing is wu city people's court civil court judge,Done lots of divorce.In July last year,A court in a messy pile,soon,She received a letter from 33 students joint to write the letters requesting assistance."I have also a lot of the divorce,The children write the collective mediate haven't met."This caused the WangYing focus,She decided to,Put the things at full length understand clearly,See if you can help children's wishes come true.

　　短短两年，成为33个贫困学子的“楼爸爸”

Just two years,Be 33 poor students"Floor dad"

　　孩子们信中提到的“楼爸爸”，全名楼有德，今年58岁，义乌人，是一家物流公司的董事长。

The children mentioned in the letter"Floor dad",'s renowned towers have all,Fifty-eight years old this year,Yiwu people,A logistics company's chairman of the board of directors.

　　2010年8月，一次偶然的机会，楼有德了解到金华、上海等地有多名孩子，拿到了大学录取通知书，却因家庭贫困为学费发愁。他决定，助这些孩子一臂之力。

In August 2010,A pure chance,LouYouDe understand to jinhua/Shanghai has more than children,Got the admission to the university,However because of family poverty for tuition worry.He decided to,To help these children a helping hand.

　　通过相关机构，楼有德一次性捐助了23名贫困学生。

Through the relevant organizations,LouYouDe one-time contributed 23 poor students.

　　“我小时家境贫寒，三天两头吃不饱饭，只念了两年小学就辍学回家了。现在看到一些贫困学生，心里就特别同情，也想以自己的绵薄之力，帮助这些寒门学子实现大学梦想。”楼有德回忆说。

"My poor hours,Every two or three days do not have enough to eat rice,Read only two years of school school to go home.Now see some poor students,My heart is special sympathy,Also want to in their own meagre strength,To help the students achieve was originally poor university dream."LouYouDe recalls.

　　他和每一个资助生都签订了“爱心助学协议”，根据协议，每年资助每位学生6000元学费，直至大学毕业。

He and every funding students signed"Love student agreement",According to the agreement,Every year 6000 yuan for each student tuition fees,Until graduation from university.

　　受助生在校期间成绩优异、表现突出或家中有突发性困难，他还将酌情给予补助，作为支持和鼓励。如果受助生在校表现不佳，存在学习态度不端正、违规、违纪等问题的，将终止资助。

ShouZhuSheng during the period of school result is outstanding/Distinguishing or home have unexpected difficulties,He will also take into consideration the subsidies,As a support and encouragement.If ShouZhuSheng poor performance in school,Have a learning attitude is not correct/illegal/The problems such as discipline,Will end funding for.

　　2011年，楼有德又通过助理了解到，丽水市景宁畲族自治县有10名贫困大学生，他再次慷慨解囊。就这样，短短两年，他成为了33个孩子的“楼爸爸”。

In 2011,,LouYouDe and through the assistant to know,Lishui she jingning county 10 poor college students,He again generosity.so,Just two years,He became 33 children"Floor dad".

每年两次家庭聚会，他和孩子就像一家人 And two times a year family party,He was like family and children

　　有空的时候，“楼爸爸”会到受助生家里去探访，看到条件困难的学生，他当场就又拿出钱来资助。其中一位严同学是位孤儿，爷爷奶奶艰难地把他抚养大，并举债让他读完高中，看到孩子的实际困难后，“楼爸爸”还特别资助他1万元。

When you are free,"Floor dad"To ShouZhuSheng home to visit,See conditions difficult students,He is on the spot and take out money to fund.One of the students is a strict orphans,Grandpa's grandmother hard brought him up big,And debt let him finish high school,See the children after practical difficulties,"Floor dad"Also special aid him 10000 yuan.

　　楼有德不仅给孩子们提供了金钱上的资助，更把他们当做自己的儿女，过去的几年里，他们夫妇二人和这33个孩子，组建了一个“爱心大家庭”。

LouYouDe not only to provide children with the financial aid,The more of them as their own children,The past few years,The couple two people and a child,Has formed a"Love family".

　　每年寒暑假，孩子们都会受邀到“楼爸爸”家，参加“家庭聚会”，“楼爸爸”和孩子们聊心事，“楼妈妈”为孩子们做饭。

Summer and winter vacation every year,The children will be invited to"Floor dad"home,to"Family party","Floor dad"And the children talk about heart,"Floor mother"Cook for the children.

　　一个受助的孩子说：“我们就像一家人一样，吃饭、聊天，说说各自的学习情况，讨论遇到的新鲜事。”

A recipient of the boy said:"We would like a family,eat/chat,Talk about their learning,To discuss the new met."

　　他们建了个“一家人”QQ群，在不能相聚的日子里，这个大家庭的成员就在QQ群里交流、联系。

They built a"family"QQ group,In not together day,The family members in the QQ group communication/contact.

　　孩子们还常常给“楼爸爸”和“楼妈妈”写信，汇报自己的学习生活情况。

The children often give"Floor dad"and"Floor mother"write,Report their learning life.

小家庭破碎了，大家庭还会一如既往 Family broken,Family will, as always

　　去年暑假，孩子们再次相聚在“楼爸爸”家，但“楼妈妈”没有出现，追问之下，“楼爸爸”才说，夫妻俩正在办离婚。

Last summer,The children meet in again"Floor dad"home,but"Floor mother"There is no,Ask under,"Floor dad"Just said,Both the husband and wife is divorcing.

　　楼有德夫妇相识于1996年，2001年结婚，“楼妈妈”比“楼爸爸”小22岁，两人育有一子。

LouYouDe couple met in 1996,Got married in 2001,"Floor mother"than"Floor dad"Small 22 years old,Two people had a son.

　　据知情人说，2009年之前，夫妻俩感情一直很好，之后反反复复地吵。从2010年到去年7月，“楼妈妈”三次向法院提出离婚请求。

According to the insider said,2009 years ago,Both the husband and wife feelings have been very good,After repeatedly to noisy.From 2010 to July of last year,"Floor mother"Three times to court for divorce.

　　她告诉黄莺法官，夫妻俩年龄相差较大，在人生观、价值观及教育子女的方式上差距悬殊，而且无法很好沟通，导致矛盾产生。

She told the judge songbirds,A couple age are large,In the view of life/Values and education of children in the way gap,And can't communicate very well,Lead to conflicts.

　　尽管“楼爸爸”一直不想离婚，黄法官也反复劝说，但“楼妈妈”心意已决。不久前，婺城区人民法院二审判决：准许离婚。

although"Floor dad"Always don't want to divorce,Yellow the judge also repeated persuasion,but"Floor mother"Mind has never.Not long ago,Wu second city people's court ruling:Allow divorce.

　　“楼爸爸”和“楼妈妈”离婚的消息，让孩子们感到很难过。不过，“楼爸爸”说，那个家不在了，和孩子们的大家庭还在，对他们的资助也不会改变。

"Floor dad"and"Floor mother"Divorce news,Let the children feel very sad.but,"Floor dad"said,That's not,And the children of the family is still in,For their funding won't change.

　　2月2日，孩子们又将迎来今年第一次家庭聚会，这次，他们不会看到“楼妈妈”，但孩子们希望，用大家庭的团圆，宽慰他们的“楼爸爸”。（通讯员 吴宇丛 本报特约记者 吕艺真）

On February 2,The children and for the first time this year will have family party,the,They won't see"Floor mother",But the children wanted,With the family reunion,Relief their"Floor dad".(Reporter WuYuCong our stringer LvYiZhen)

　　作者：吕艺真 (来源：钱江晚报)

The author:LvYiZhen (source:Qianjiang evening news)