许多家长都希望儿女能成龙、成凤。他们在养育孩子的过程中不断“加速”，总想尽早激发宝宝潜力，完成一些超过同龄人的事。其实，培养孩子的能力，必须讲究“在合适的年龄做合适的事”。如果违反了生长规律，不但会加重孩子的负担，甚至会影响他们的健康。

Many parents hope their children can Jackie chan/ChengFeng.They are constantly in the process of raising a child"acceleration",Always want to stimulate baby's potential as soon as possible,Complete some things more than their peers.In fact,The ability to raise children,Must pay attention to"In the right age to do the right things".If a violation of the law of growth,Not only can increase the burden of the children,Even affects their health.

　　1岁学走路。上海市儿童医院骨科副主任医师王隼介绍，太早要求孩子行走，由于其下肢负重大，腰背部的骨骼、肌肉发育不完善，无法有效支撑身体重量，会影响下肢骨骼发育，甚至导致儿童时期的“O形腿”。同时，婴儿出生后视力发育不健全，多是“近视眼”。过早学走路，小孩会因为看不清远处景物，而努力调整眼睛的屈光度和焦距，这样容易造成视疲劳损害，长此以往可能影响视力。

1 years learning to walk.The Shanghai children's hospital of doctor of vice director of orthopaedic WangSun is introduced,Too early for the child to walk,Because of its lower limb negative significant,The small of the back bone/Muscle growth is not perfect,Unable to effectively support the body weight,Will affect the development of the lower limbs bone,Even cause of childhood"O shape legs".At the same time,After the child is born vision development is not sound,is"nearsightedness".Early learning to walk,Because children can't see distant scenery,To adjust the eyes diopter and focal length,So easy to cause the visual fatigue damage,In the long run may affect vision.

　　2岁画直线。上海市教委教研室教研员王菁告诉记者，两三岁宝宝画画，是肌肉控制力、手眼协调能力、想象力和创造性的综合发展。25到30个月时，应该能自己画垂直线、水平线。到3岁时，宝宝应能模仿画圆、十字形。需要强调的是，宝宝开始握笔，在一张白纸上乱戳，已经是质的飞跃。父母应该保护其兴趣，不要过早提太多要求。否则，敏感的宝宝会因此拒绝涂画。

2 years old painting line.Shanghai municipal education commission, teaching and research section WangJing research staff told reporters,Two or three years old baby painting,Is muscle control/Hand-eye coordination/Imagination and creative comprehensive development.25 to 30 months,Should be able to draw their vertical line/horizon.To 3 years old,The baby should be able to imitate a circle/cross.Need to be emphasized,The baby began to hold pen,In a white paper about on the prod,Has been a qualitative leap.Parents should protect its interest,Don't ask for too much too early.otherwise,Sensitive baby will refuse occurs.

　　两三岁学外语。学习外语的时间，过早或过晚，效果都会显著下降。研究表明，两三岁儿童的舌头肌肉尚未成熟定型，是语言发展的重要时期，在语音辨别、语音模仿、词汇吸收等方面，具有成年人无法比拟的优势，更有利于其说出地道标准的外语。学习时要遵循语言的规律，首先是加强听力和表达，随后是读写。此外，对待儿童的语言错误要宽容和有耐心。只要不影响正常的教学、交际，就不要立即加以纠正。幼儿的注意力非常短暂，学习外语必须用游戏的方式，不停转移其注意力。死记硬背只会增加其心理压力和叛逆心。

Two or three years to learn a foreign language.The time of learning a foreign language,Too early or too late,Effect will be significantly.Research shows that,Two or three years old children's tongue muscle has not yet mature type,Language is an important period of development,In the speech discrimination/Speech imitation/Vocabulary absorption, etc,Has the incomparable advantages of adults,More conducive to its name tunnel standard language.Learning must follow the rules of language,The first is to strengthen listening and expression,The reading and writing.In addition,Treat children's language mistakes to tolerance and patience.As long as it does not affect the normal teaching/communication,Don't immediately corrected.Children's attention is very short,Learning a foreign language must be in the way,Keep transfer its attention.Memorization will only increase the psychological pressure and rebellious heart.

　　4岁能看电脑。电脑的电磁辐射会影响幼儿脑细胞发育，长时间注视电脑屏幕，对幼儿的眼睛也十分不利。一般，4岁宝宝可以少量接触电脑。如用电脑看照片、录影带，或使用一些幼儿“教育游戏”软件。但学龄前儿童玩电脑，必须有父母陪伴，每次不超过30分钟，每天不超过1小时。

4 years old can see computer.The computer electromagnetic radiation will affect children development of brain cells,Long time to look at the computer screen,In the eyes of the children is also harmful.general,4 years old baby can be a small amount of contact with the computer.If use the computer to see pictures/video,Or the use of some children"Education game"software.But preschool children playing computer,Must have parents to accompany,Every time not more than thirty minutes,No more than 1 hours every day.

　　5岁接触乐器。5岁后，系统的音乐知识学习能开发宝宝的潜能，强化眼、耳、手、脑的合用，是开发大脑的高级“游戏”。但如果催促三四岁的孩子学乐器，一方面会抹杀孩子的学习兴趣，甚至可能引起心理障碍。另一方面，王隼指出，5岁前，儿童骨骼、关节还未发育成熟，长时间练习乐器会影响手部骨关节、韧带的生长发育。

5 years old contact instruments.After 5 years,System of music knowledge can develop the potential of the baby,Strengthen eye/ear/hand/Brain for,Development of the brain is advanced"The game".But if urged three or four years old children to learn Musical Instruments,On the one hand will kill the child's interest in learning,Even may cause psychological disorder.On the other hand,WangSun pointed out that,Before the age of 5,Bones of children/Joint is not mature,Long time practice instrument affects the hands joint/The growth and development of ligament.

　　五六岁骑脚踏车。幼儿骨质较柔软有弹性，易于变形，再加上其肌肉力量弱，太早学骑自行车，容易造成腕部损伤，伤及盆骨。下肢过于用力，时间一长还容易形成“X”形腿，甚至有的孩子会变成内八字脚。因此，学骑车，宜晚不宜早。初期，可以从三轮童车学起。父母要注意调整车的高度，让宝宝坐得端正，以免引起脊柱畸形。

Five or six years old to ride a bicycle.Children are bone soft and elastic,Easy to deformation,Plus the muscle strength weak,Early learning to ride a bicycle,Easy to cause the wrist injury,Injury and pelvis.Lower limb too hard,A long time, also easy to form"x"Shape legs,Even some children will become trials in.so,Learns to ride a bicycle,Appropriate late shoulds not be early.initial,From the study of three children.Parents should pay attention to adjust the height of the car,Let the baby sitting still,Lest cause spinal deformity.

　　6岁分左右。分左右是认识空间方位的感知觉。根据国外相关资料显示，儿童应该在6岁，开始学一些分清左右的游戏。但我国儿童因要学拿筷子，差不多26个月，就能认识自己的右手。分清左右鞋，多数在33个月。若过早教孩子分左右，孩子只是机械记忆，过段时间就忘记了。

Six minutes or.Points is known about the spatial position of sensory perception.According to the foreign related data shows,Children should be in 6 years old,Began to learn some distinguish around the game.But our country for children to learn with chopsticks,About 26 months,Can know their right hand.Distinguish shoes around,Most in 33 months.If a child development about points,The child just mechanical memory,After a short time is forgotten.

　　7岁学轮滑。轮滑运动中，双腿受力不均，儿童骨骼发育易受影响。玩的时候，腰部、膝盖、脚踝需要用力支撑身体，一旦用力不当，这些部位极易受伤。因此，只有等孩子的骨骼够健壮，差不多六七岁后，才能让其接触轮滑。玩时要注意安全防护，戴好头盔和护具。

7 years old to learn roller skating.Roller skating movement,Legs uneven force,Children skeleton development affected.play,waist/knee/Ankle support you need to body,Once the force not,These parts easily injured.so,Only when the child is bones strong enough,Almost six years after,To make the contact roller skating.Playing should pay attention to safety,Wear a helmet and pad.