“出去”后，他们盼望更多的关爱

"out"after,They look forward to more love

　　新春探访少教所的孩子们

New Year visit less teach the children

　　新华报业网讯 大年初四，记者来到全省唯一的收容教养犯罪少年的机构省句东少教所。这里收教的是一个特殊的人群：最大不超过16岁，最小的也不过十一二岁。

Xinhua press webex having reunion dinner,The reporter comes to the province only holding breeding crime young institutions province other east house of correction.Here the teaching is a special crowd:The biggest not more than 16 years old,The smallest also but his preteens.

　　小李个头不高，一脸腼腆，让人难以把他和一桩凶杀案联系起来。两年前，刚刚13岁的他把一个路过的女孩拖进房间，女孩惊恐尖叫让他慌张失措，他一把捂住女孩的嘴巴，一条生命就此消逝。未满14岁的他，以故意杀人罪被送到少教所。

Xiao li is not high,A face of shy,Let a person hard to put him and a pile connected murder.Two years ago,Just 13 years old he put a passing girl dragged into the room,The girl screamed in let him lose one's head,He a cover girl's mouth,A life fade.Employee under the age of 14, he,To intentional homicide was sent to the house of correction.

　　“当时没想到会成这样。”提起过去，小李低头沉默了。幼年的他曾跟着父母外出打工，后来回到老家跟着奶奶生活。这个离开了父母管束的孩子，被老人惯得饭来张口、衣来伸手，而每到逢年过节他都分外思念父母，却无人倾诉。进了少管所的他，一想起自己的罪行就满心恐惧，常常做恶梦，挂在宿舍外的“心情晴雨表”上，他的牌子总是显示“阴”。“幸好这里有心理咨询师，经常跟我聊天，慢慢地就好了。”

"At that time I didn't know I would become so."Mention in the past,Xiao li silent bow.Young he had followed my parents work out,Then return home with grandma's life.This left the parents over children,The old man was used to dance/YiLaiShenShou,And every holiday he especially miss my parents,But there was none to talk.He went into the juvenile prison,At the thought of his crimes were filled with fear,Often nightmares,Hanging in the dormitory"Mood barometer"on,He always display the brand"Yin"."Fortunately, there are psychological consultant,Often with my chat,Slowly good."

　　提到将来，小李充满希望。因为表现良好，他获得不少加分，原本三年的收教期减到两年七个月。“出去后，我会跟父母去云南，一家团聚，继续读书，重新开始生活。”

Mentioned in the future,Xiao li is full of hope.Because of good performance,He won a lot of points,Had three years of the teaching period reduced to two years and seven months."out,I will go to yunnan with their parents,A reunion,To continue to read,Start life."

　　“出去”后能继续上学并且有家庭关爱，这样的孩子恐怕不多。少教所工作人员王国儿说，大部分学员的家庭残缺。单亲，离婚，留守……失去关爱的孩子很容易走上邪路。每一个进入少教所的孩子背后，都有一个不同的故事，而走出少教所的他们，却最怕面临同样的处境：无处可去。

"out"After can continue to go to school and family care,Such children I'm afraid not.Less teaching by the staff WangGuoEr said,Most of the students' family incomplete.single,divorce,Left-behind...Lose love child is very easy to astray.Each into the house of correction children behind,There is a different story,And out of the house of correction of them,But the most afraid of facing the same situation:Nowhere to go.

　　今年2月6日，王国儿送一名解教的学员回老家。刚走出高墙的孩子一脸兴奋，然而车子离家越来越近，他的脸却越来越苦。父亲去世，母亲改嫁，他早就没了家。到了村里，一连找了大伯、二伯、三伯，三家都没人在。抱着最后一线希望，车子开到堂兄家。堂兄拍着他的肩膀说：过年就在我家吧！这个孩子一下子就露出了笑脸。可是过完年后，他该何去何从呢？王国儿忧心忡忡。

On February 6,,WangGuoEr send a XieJiao students go home.Just out of the walls of the children a face of excited,However the car more and more closer to home,His face is more and more bitter.His father died,His mother remarried,He would have gone home.Into the village,For looking for the brother-in-law/2"/SanBo,Three nobody in.Hold the last line of hope,The car drove up to cousin home.Cousin clap his shoulder to say:New Year's day in my house it!The child was smiles.But over the years,He this what course to follow it?WangGuoEr worried.

　　已在少教所工作多年的高利民告诉记者，这些孩子的所作所为令人痛恨，但想到他们的未来又格外痛心。“别看干出的事可恨，但他们都只是孩子。”有的孩子刚进来时还尿床，有的不会洗澡，有的前一分钟还在闹矛盾，一转眼又玩到一起。

Has set up a file in the house of correction for many years GaoLiMin told reporters,These children did a hate,But think of their future and especially hurts."Don't do the things which are hateful,But they are only children."Some children just came in also wet the bed,Others don't take a shower,Some one minute is still in the contradiction,In an instant and playing together.

　　不少孩子因为家庭不完整缺少关爱，对陌生人充满戒备，只有靠一个“情”字把心暖过来。有个小家伙，两岁时父亲高位截瘫，母亲改嫁，6岁就在火车站流浪盗窃，刚满12岁就被送到少教所。“当时他一尿床就傻傻地蹲在一边不说话，民警发现后也不讲他，安慰他说不要紧，换一个垫子吧。每天凌晨两三点钟，值班民警去喊醒他上厕所，这样才慢慢地矫治过来。”

Many children because the family is not complete lack of care,Full of alert to strangers,Only by a"feeling"The word heart warmed up.There is a little,Two years old father high paraplegia,His mother remarried,6 years old in the railway station stray theft,Just over 12 years, and he was sent to the house of correction."He was a wet the bed is silly to squat down on one side not to talk,Police discovered also don't tell him,Comfort he said it doesn't matter,In a mat it.At three o 'clock in the morning every day two,Police on duty to shout woke up he go to the toilet,So just slowly correctional come over."

　　还有个学员，父亲去世，母亲因长期婆媳矛盾掐死了奶奶，事发时让儿子上前帮了一把。解教后，这孩子无家可归。少教所和当地检察院一起去做他的姑姑工作，让姑姑放下“杀母之仇”接纳了侄儿，之后又共同资助他在所外试学，最终考上了大学。

There is a student,His father died,Mother and her mother-in-law for long-term contradictions device dead grandma,When the son to come forward to help a handful.After XieJiao,The child homeless.House of correction and local procuratorate together to do his aunt work,Let her down"Kill the enmity between mother"Accepted nephew,Then common aid him in the try to learn,Finally admitted to the university.

　　“孩子本身可塑性很强，在所里的3年，我们帮他们培养良好的生活习惯和言行规范。但走出去后，他们更加需要社会的关爱。”高利民说。本报记者郁 芬

"The child itself plasticity is very strong,In place of 3 years of,We help them develop good habits and behavior norms.But walked out,They need more social care."GaoLiMin said.Our reporter yu Finn