(记者 张瑜琨 通讯员 黄清峰 韩天伟)中学时不让早恋，大学却被父母催促找对象。近日，汉口学院的一项调查显示，六成在校大学生“被相亲”。

(Reporter ZhangYuKun correspondent HuangQingFeng HanTianWei)High school don't let puppy love,University was parents urged to seek object.recently,Hankou college according to a survey,Sixty percent of college students"Be dear to".

　　汉口学院的艺术设计学院大三女生李畅(化名)的父母，催促她明年带对象回家，弄得李畅哭笑不得。

Hankou college of art and design institute LiChang three girls(alias)parents,Urged her to go home with object next year,Get LiChang in distress situation.

　　日前，汉口学院大学生记者团在湖北工业大学、武汉工程大学、汉口学院、华中师范大学[微博]武汉传媒学院等几所院校，随机调查了220名大学生，其中男生占74人，女生146人。调查显示，近六成大学生有过“被相亲”的经历，三成大学生家中长辈有让他们“相亲”之意；仅一成大学生表示长辈们认为大学相亲太早了。

a,Hankou college students press corps in hubei university of technology/Wuhan university of engineering/Hankou college/Central China normal university wuhan media [micro bo] institute and so on several colleges and universities,Random survey 220 college students,The boy accounted for 74 people,The girl 146 people.Investigation shows that,About sixty percent of Chinese university students have"Be dear to"experience,Thirty percent of Chinese university students your elders have let them"to"meaning;Only ten percent said that a university students to the elders to early.

　　汉口学院大一女生胡灵认为，大学就找对象也太操之过急了，还应以学业为主，“找对象”应是毕业以后的事情。

Hankou college freshman girls HuLing think,University is looking for object is too jumped the gun,Should also give priority to with school,"Find object"What should be after graduation.

　　对此，华中师范大学生命科学院教授彭晓辉笑称，中学时家长[微博]们都忙着“防早恋”，到了大学家长们又忙着给孩子们“找对象”，这是自相矛盾，“其实家长们应该学会顺应个性化教育，初、高中的时候，当孩子们有比较亲密的异性朋友，家长们可以去做正确的引导，而不是勒令孩子们不许‘早恋’。”

this,Central China normal university professor of the college of life science PengXiaoHui smile said,Middle school parents [micro bo] are busy"Prevent early love",The university and busy parents to children"Find object",This is a contradiction,"Actually parents should learn to conform to the individualized education,initial/High school,When the children have a more intimate friends,The parents to do the right guidance,Not ordered no children‘Early love’."