男友的最低月收入要多少才够 Boyfriend's minimum monthly income to how much is enough

　　70后女性 5996元 After 70 female 5996 yuan

　　80后女性 5061元 After 80 female 5061 yuan

　　90后女性 4511元 After 90 female 4511 yuan

　　本报讯（记者 张萌）坚守10年的感情，终究抵不过现实的围剿……近日，网帖《与我长跑十年的女朋友就要嫁人了》热传，男女主角的无奈结局令不少人扼腕唏嘘。当爱情遭遇现实，男女有别。调查显示，66%的男性认为房和车都不是结婚的必要条件，但52%的女性认为房子是结婚的必要条件。在长沙，90后女生理想男友的最低月收入为4511元，80后女孩理想男友的最低月收入为5061元。

Report from our correspondent(Reporter ZhangMeng)Stick to the feelings of ten years,All over but realistic encirclement……recently,Network for[And I run ten years to marry the girl]Heat transfer,The main character of the men and women but end make many people sigh).When love encounter reality,Male and female have differences.Investigation shows that,66% of men think that room and cars were not married necessary condition,But 52% of women also think that houses are necessary conditions of marriage.In changsha,90 girls ideal boyfriend's minimum monthly income for 4511 yuan,After 80 girl ideal boyfriend's minimum monthly income for 5061 yuan.

网帖故事 Net post story

美好恋情与现实的抗争 Good relationship and the reality struggle

　　十六七岁的校园恋情，约定同一座城市读完大学，男孩毕业工作，女孩继续读研，坚定地守护一份纯粹美好的感情。直到一步步遭遇现实，物质、学历、甚至外貌都成为女孩家人反对这段感情的理由，一个门当户对的“金龟婿”顺势出现，一场艰辛漫长的抗争由此开始……

16 campus love,Agreed the same city university of reading,The boy graduated work,The girl to continue to go to graduate school,Firmly protect a pure good feelings.Step by step until with reality,material/degree/Even appearance have all become the girl family against the relationship of reason,One of equal status"Beetle '"There's,A long hard fight from then on……

　　“我们一直没有停止抗争，只是这艘船上载了太多的人，她搬不动船上的巨锚，而我无法阻止港口缓缓升起的闸。”男主人公声泪俱下的文字令人动容。无论故事是真是虚，依然揭示了爱情被现实围剿的无奈、痛心……

"We have never stop fighting,Just this ship carrying too many people,She can't carry on the anchor,But I can't stop port slowly rising brake."Hero in a tearful voice text is very moving.Whether the story is really virtual,Love is still reveals the reality of the encirclement and helpless/hurts……

网友评价 Net friend evaluation

眼泪基本没停过 The tears have basic didn't stop

　　长沙网友“砂之罗”看完帖子后感叹“拥有这样的感情是幸运，不得不错失却是要命。”知名影评人“暗夜骑士”在微博大赞该帖子讲述了一个好故事，“从头看到尾，眼泪基本没停过。在现实的围剿之下，我们每一个人都是一头困兽，这个故事唤醒了我们对苦涩青春的回忆以及对未来的珍视。”

Changsha net friend"Sand the ROM"After watching the post plaint"Have such feelings is lucky,Have to miss is desperately."Famous critic"Night rider"In micro and praise the son tells the story of a good story,"Watching from tail,The tears have basic didn't stop.In the reality under the encirclement,Each one of us is a head trapped beast,This story aroused our bitter memories of youth and the future value."

现实调查 Reality survey

女孩希望男友月薪5000左右 The girl want boyfriend about 5000 per month

　　再美好的爱情也要建立在一定现实条件上，很多人择偶时会用一些“硬指标”：收入、房、车、学历、年龄等都要拿来掂量一番。不久前，世纪佳缘网站联合国家人口与计生委发布《2012-2013年中国男女婚恋观调研报告》，面向全国进行了77045人次调研，其中长沙有1344人参与了调研。

Then good love will based on practical conditions,A lot of people will choose a spouse with some"yongda":income/room/car/degree/Age will bring a weigh.Not long ago,Century better edge website combined with the national population and family planning release[2012-2013 Chinese men and women and marriage research report],Facing the whole country in 77045 research,The changsha 1344 people involved in the investigation.

　　调查结果显示，在对理想的另一半收入要求上，男性明显低于女性，同时不同年龄段对收入的要求也不同。在长沙，无论是70后、80后、还是90后，男性对于理想女友的最低收入要求都是2000元多一点。而女性对理想男友的最低收入要求则高得多，其中90后女生希望男友的最低月收入是4511元，80后为5061元，70后女性要求男友最低月收入为5996元。

According to the results of the survey,In the ideal partner for income,The male was significantly lower than the female,At the same time, different age paragraph the income requirements are different.In changsha,Whether after 70/After 80/Or after 90,Men for ideal girlfriend's minimum income requirements are a little more than 2000 yuan.And women to ideal boyfriend's minimum income requirements are much higher,After 90 girls hope boyfriend's minimum salary is 4511 yuan per month,80 for 5061 yuan,After 70 female requirements boyfriend minimum monthly income for 5996 yuan.

　　车和房是不是结婚的必要条件？在长沙，62%的男性认为房和车都不是结婚的必要条件，不过，与全国其他二十几个城市相比，长沙男性认为房和车是结婚必要条件的比例最高。56%的女性认为房子是结婚的必要条件。年龄越大的女性认为房和车都不是必要条件的比例越高。

Car and house is a necessary condition of marriage?In changsha,62% of men think that room and cars were not married necessary condition,but,With the national more than other cities,Changsha men think room and car is to get married and necessary conditions of the highest proportion.56% of women think a house is a necessary condition of marriage.Older women think room and car are not necessary condition of the higher proportion.

专家分析 Expert analysis

沟通、理解更重要 communication/Understand more important

　　10年感情败于现实，物质究竟能在多大程度上保障婚姻的幸福？《小康》杂志社联合清华大学媒介调查实验室在全国范围内开展的“2012中国人婚恋幸福感”调查显示，影响婚姻幸福感的最大因素还是感情，选择“夫妻二人间的情感”(61.5%)的受访者比选择“收入”(37.2%)的高出了24.3个百分点，有情胜过有钱。而在前一年的调查结果中，影响婚姻幸福感的因素里，收入被排在了第一位，接下来才是夫妻二人间的情感。

Ten years with feelings in reality,What matter how much can guarantee the happiness of marriage?[well-off]Magazine joint tsinghua university media research laboratory in nationwide"2012 Chinese romantic happiness"Investigation shows that,The biggest factor that influence the marriage happiness or feelings,choose"The couple human emotion"(61.5%)Of the respondents than choice"income"(37.2%)A 24.3% higher,Sentient beings is better than money.And at last year's survey results,Influence factors of happiness in marriage,Income can be ranked in the first,The next is husband and wife two human emotion.

　　世纪佳缘的调查显示，无论恋爱还是结婚，两性关系中永恒不变的关键词是：包容、承诺、空间、理解、幸福、尊重。心理咨询师骆霞认为，沟通、理解的意愿和能力，相互忠诚、孩子、收入等，对于婚姻幸福感都会有较大的影响。物质会对婚姻有一定的影响，不过标准定在哪个位置，则是夫妻之间两个人的事情了。

Century better edge survey,Whether love or marriage,Sexual relations in eternal keywords is:tolerance/commitment/space/understand/happiness/respect.Psychological consultant LuoXia think,communication/The willingness and ability to understand,Mutual loyalty/children/Income and,For marriage happiness will have great influence.Material will have certain influence to the marriage,But standard set in which position,It is between a husband and wife two personal things.

　　“当初我们谈恋爱结婚家人也不是很支持，不过我们很坚持，而且两个人沟通没有问题，最终还是在一起了。”28岁的过来人小宁说，现在他和妻子在长沙过着幸福的小日子。

"At the beginning we fall in love marriage family is not very support,However, we are adhere to,And two personal communication is no problem,Finally together."And, like xiao ning said,Now he and his wife lived happily in changsha doing.