名人经常很忙碌，相信他的教育原则会给忙于工作的父母们一些启发。

Celebrities are often busy,Believe that principle of his education will give parents some busy.

一、教育女儿身教比言教更重要 a/Parenting is more important than to teaches education daughter

　　在女儿的教育问题上，小崔同志和爱人的意见和做法是一致的，基本上没发生什么矛盾，因为他俩受的教育差不多，从事的工作差不多，在教育女儿方面当然也就差不多。总的来说，他认为教育女儿身教比言教更重要。有时候，女儿画画，他坐在沙发上看书、看报纸，家里很安静，很温馨。

On her daughter's education problem,Small cui comrade and lover's opinions and practices are consistent,Basically what happened contradiction,Because the education about them,Engaged in the work,In the aspect of education daughter, of course, also almost.On the whole,Parenting is more important than say he thought education daughter.sometimes,Daughter to paint,He sat on the sofa reading a book/Read the newspaper,Home is very quiet,Is very sweet.

　　女儿画完画，画笔、画纸扔了一地，又去拿其它的玩具出来玩，他不会对她大喊大叫，只是用眼睛朝她望，一般情况下，女儿都能领会他的意思，乖乖地去收拾自己的画具。有时候她也会磨磨蹭蹭地不想收，他就索性帮她收，并要求女儿和他一起收，久而久之，孩子就养成了自己整理物品的习惯。行动是一种信仰。亚-鲁斯金曾说：“行动是最了不起的事，因为你如果做得对，我就会越来越喜欢你做的事。”对孩子的教育也是如此。

The pictures daughter,The brush/Paper thrown all over the floor,Come out to play and get other toys,He will not shout to her,Just looking at her with his eyes,Under normal circumstances,Daughter can understand his meaning,Obediently to pick up the art supplies.Sometimes she Dally didn't want to accept,He is just to help her,And for the daughter with him,The passage of time,Children will get into the habit of his pack up.Action is a kind of faith.- ruskin said:"Action is the most amazing thing,Because if you did the right thing,I will be more and more like you do."To the child's education also is such.

二、对女儿永远只有最低要求 (2)/Forever only the minimum requirements for daughter

　　崔永元说他不会刻意为女儿安排什么，他希望她能走自己想走的路。将来固然重要，但成长的过程和成长的快乐更重要，对女儿他永远只有最低要求，那就是健康、快乐和平安。

Cui always dollar said he would not deliberately for her daughter arrangement,He hopes she can walk the path you want to.It is important to have in the future,But the pleasure of growing up and growing more important,His daughter forever only to the minimum requirements,It is healthy/Happy and at peace.

三、家长和孩子相互体谅最重要 three/Mutual understanding is the most important. Parents and their children

　　崔永元说他一般不会轻易承诺，而一旦作出承诺就不会轻易改变。工作再忙如果答应星期六陪女儿出去玩，就一定努力做到，不得不违约时，就会对女儿说明情况，请求她原谅，表示下次会加倍地补偿她。女儿非常通情达理，他觉得家长和孩子之间应该是朋友关系，相互体谅最重要。

Cui always dollar said he won't promise easily,And once a commitment is not to change it.Work again busy if you promised to accompany my daughter go out to play on Saturday,Will try to do it,Had to default,Will show a case for her daughter,Asked her to forgive me,Says the next will double compensation to her.Daughter is very reasonable,He feels should be friend relationship between parents and children,Mutual understanding is the most important.

四、工作再忙双休日一定抽一天时间陪女儿 four/Work again busy weekends must draw a day time with daughter

　　崔永元说他的女儿很可爱，也很乖、很懂事，一点也不吵，也从来不无理取闹。他在电视台工作很忙，压力很大，只有到了家里才感到轻松一点。和女儿在一起是他最开心的事情，只是这个愿望常常无法实现。因为工作的缘故，他几乎每天都要到很晚才回家。有时下班后还要和工作上的朋友约会，回家就更晚，但是孩子是需要大人花时间多陪陪、多交流的，为了能和女儿有更多的时间相处、沟通，他规定自己每逢双休日一定要抽出一天的时间陪女儿。带她去划船、爬山、吃快餐，只要是她喜欢的事情，就尽量满足，让她开心。

Cui always dollar said his daughter is very lovely,Is also very good/Very sensible,Don't make so much noise,Never make trouble without a cause.He is very busy work in television,A lot of pressure,Only at home to feel at ease.And daughter together is his most happy things,Only this desire often cannot be achieved.Because of work,He was almost to go home very late every day.Sometimes after work and friends at work date,Come home later,But the child is the need to take the time to spend more time with adults/More communication,In order to can have more time to get along with her daughter/communication,He rules on weekends must take out the time of day with daughter.Take her to go boating/Climbing the mountain/Eat fast food,As long as she likes,Will try to satisfy,Make her happy.

　　在崔永元最忙的一段时间里，他半个月几乎每天的9：00-23：00都在办公室。他说，“我女儿每天都给我打电话，问我几点回去，因为我现在就和女儿一周见一次。每天我下班回家她已经睡觉了，我起床的时候她已经上学了，所以周末要是有时间，我会尽量陪陪孩子。”

In the cui always dollar is the most busy period of time,He almost half a month of nine every day:00-23:At all in the office.He said,"My daughter call me every day,Ask me what time to return,Because I now and daughter see once a week.Every day I came home from work she has to sleep,I got up, she has to go to school,So if I have time this weekend,I will try to play with children."

五、让孩子学好一种本领首先要让她喜欢 five/Let children learn a ability to let her like in the first place

　　小崔说女儿比他聪明。她喜欢画画，比他画得好、画得有思想。她画画从来不看画册，爱怎么画就怎么画，常常会画出许多意想不到的“经典”之作。他评价女儿的时候一般都持肯定态度。什么“长脑袋的桌子”“四条胳膊的人”，只要她能解释，能自圆其说，他都认可。他尊重女儿的意愿，也从来不去干涉她，或对她的画画技巧有什么高标准、严要求。我觉得要让孩子学好一种本领，首先要让她喜欢，要让她体验到学习的乐趣，这是最重要的。”

Small cui said her daughter is smarter than he.She likes painting,Better than his paintings/Picture have a thinking.Her painting never read books,I love how how,Often draw many unexpected"classic"work.He daughter are generally held positive attitude.what"Long head of the table""The four arms",As long as she can explain,Be justified,He is recognized.He respect the wishes of his daughter,Never to interfere with her,Or in her painting skills have what standards/weiwei.I think to let children learn a skill,First of all to let she likes,Want to let her to experience the fun of learning,This is the most important."

六、孩子也有他们自己的收视兴奋点 six/Children have their own viewing excitement

　　女儿最爱看《樱桃小丸子》了，爸爸曾给她推荐了《中国电影动画精选》，里面的《小蝌蚪》《三个和尚》《草原英雄小姐妹》，她都很喜欢，看了十几遍。其实孩子也有他们自己的收视兴奋点，她看《哪吒闹海》时，简直就和里面的主角同呼吸共命运，因为孩子是很有包容心的。小崔认为现在有些媒介在破坏孩子们的包容心。他们说现在的文化是多元的，要给人们更多选择的权利。可是现在传统文化已经很少了，游戏节目比比皆是，还有何选择呢？传统文化几乎没有立足之地。

A daughter love[Sakura momoko]the,Dad had recommended to her[China's animation movie selection],The inside of the[Little tadpoles][Three boys][Grassland hero little sister],She is very like,Watched a dozen times.In fact children also have their own viewing excitement,She see[Which zha make to the sea]when,Just the protagonist and the inside of the shard,Because the child is a tolerance of heart.Small cui that now some media in children's tolerance.They say now is multivariate culture,To give people more choice.But now is one of the few traditional culture,Game show everywhere,What choose?Almost no place traditional culture.

　　来源：强国社区教育论坛

source:Strong community education BBS