提问： To ask questions:李天一的父母都是著名的歌唱家，李天一也从小随父母登台演出。您认为父母身上的光环对孩子是否会产生巨大的压力，有哪些影响？

Li's parents are famous singer,Li also performing with his parents at a young age.Do you think parents aura will produce a great pressure to the child,What are the effects?

孙云晓（中国青少年研究中心副主任、研究员） sun(Deputy director of the China youth and children research center/researcher)：父母要给孩子一个真实的环境，而不是一个失真的环境，有时候父母有名气，有地位，会让孩子感觉一切都来得很容易，这样对孩子的成长是不利的，应该要过一种普通的生活，名利圈对孩子是一种伤害，这种生活不适合孩子。

:Parents should give their children a real environment,Rather than a distortion of the environment,Sometimes parents have fame,Have a position,Make children feel everything comes easily,This is unfavorable for the development of children,Should want to live a normal life,Fame and fortune circle is a kind of harm to the child,This kind of life is not suitable for children.

李文道（首师大心理系副教授，北师大心理学博士） Li Wendao(ShouShiDa associate professor, department of psychology,Beijing normal university psychologist Dr)：这样巨大光环能可能造成压力，但更有可能给孩子带来一种虚幻感。因为父母的巨大名声，孩子到哪里都被鲜花掌声甚至阿谀之声包围着，没有机会认识真实的世界，导致他不知道自己的真实份量，不知道自己是谁而自我恶性膨胀。每次干了坏事也有老子摆平，他没有机会从错误后果中吸取教训从而变得日益飞扬跋扈、暴力行为逐步升级。

:Such a huge halo can may cause stress,But is more likely to give children a feeling of fantasy.The great reputation as parents,Where children are surrounded by flowers, applause sound even flattery,Didn't have a chance to know the real world,Cause he don't know your real quantity,Don't know who they are and self vicious inflation.Every time do the bad thing. Lao tzu,He didn't have a chance to learn from mistake consequences which are becoming increasingly bossiness/The violence escalated.

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