可怜天下父母心，望子成龙是父母共同的心愿。现代社会物质生活日益丰富，加之不少孩子都是独生子女，在家备受宠爱，以至于不少“90后”“00后”特别是在城市里长大的孩子，基本未受过苦。对于部分孩子来说，饭来张口、衣来伸手，并非什么稀奇事。

Pitiful world parents heart,Long is the common wish of the parents.Modern society increasingly rich material life,And many children are only children,The pet at home,So much so that many"After 90""00 after"Especially the child growing up in the city,Basic has not suffered.For some children,No worries/YiLaiShenShou,Is not what strange things.

　　没吃过苦的孩子，很难想象会真懂得什么是甜。适当让在温室里长大的孩子体验下“苦为何物”并非坏事，许多父母希望孩子能在吃苦体验中，获得几分耕耘几分收获、美好生活来之不易等感悟。

Didn't eat any bitter child,It is hard to imagine that will really know what is sweet.Appropriate for children growing up in a greenhouse under the experience"What is a pain for"Is not a bad thing,Many parents want their children to bear hardships experience,For a few minutes till harvest/The good life hard-won, etc.

　　事实证明，吃苦教育许多时候是有效的。记者曾看过多期电视真实体验类节目，一些在城市里长大的非常顽劣的孩子交换生活来到西部偏远落后的农村，在震惊中、对比中、自我感悟中，逐渐改变了态度，开始关心他人，逐渐懂得了感恩，开始以积极的态度面对学习、父母的关心等。

The fact proved that,When bear many education is effective.Journalists who watch too much TV real experience class,Some grew up in the city is very badly behaved children came to the remote and backward rural western exchange life,In shock/In the comparison/Self perception,Gradually change the attitude,Began to care about others,Gradually understand the gratitude,Start with a positive attitude towards learning/Parents' care, etc.

　　让孩子沿街乞讨，孩子的父亲初衷无疑是好的，这也许是无奈之后的不得已之举。然而以乞讨这种方式来体验，记者不敢苟同。对于孩子来说，身体上虽然体悟到了什么是苦，却是在自卑、反感中体悟，未必能起到激励作用，相反可能产生不自信等长期心理阴影，这实际也是对孩子权益的侵犯。

Let the child begging along the street,The father of the child original intention is good,This perhaps is helpless to after.But to beg to experience this way,Reporters can't agree.For a child,Although physically connect to the what is,Is in the inferiority/Connect in disgust,May not play an incentive role,Instead of insecurity may be produced and other long-term psychological shadows,It is also for children's rights infringed.

　　吃苦教育可行，但应有度，偶尔的吃苦体验是必要的，但用心良苦的父母更应注意细水长流，让孩子在日常耳濡目染和身体力行中养成吃苦耐劳和坚忍不拔的优秀品质，毕竟罗马不是一日建成的！

Bear education possible,But should have a degree,It is necessary to occasionally suffering experience,But well-meaning parents more should pay attention to maintenance,Let the child in the daily narrative and physically getting into the excellent quality of bears hardships and stands hard work and perseverance,After all, Rome was not built in a day!