2月28日10:09，胡大姐来电：我儿子25岁，去年从医学院毕业的，到现在还没找到正式工作。昨天去网吧上网，钱包被人家偷走了，钱包里有三四百元钱，还有银行卡、身份证什么的。回到家里他就开始哭哭哭，哭得我烦死了……

On February 28, 10:09,Hu Dajie calls:My son is 25 years old,Last year out of medical school,To now also didn't find a proper job.Yesterday to go to Internet cafes,Wallet is stolen by somebody else,Wallet three or yuan,There is a bank card/What id card.Return to a home he began to cry cry cry,Cry I'm tired……

　　见习记者 殷军领

Trainee reporter YanJun collar

　　胡大姐老家在湖州南浔，现在杭州某高档小区给人做保姆。

Hu Dajie hometown in huzhou nanxun,Now hangzhou a high-grade residential area to do nanny.

　　见到她时，正推着婴儿车接东家宝宝回来。宝宝是个男孩，两岁半，大老远看见胡大姐，就“阿姨阿姨”地喊着扑过来。胡大姐问他乖不乖，牛奶有没有喝完？又摸摸他额头，掏出纸巾，给他擦了擦鼻涕，换上带来的衣服，抱上婴儿车……

When you see her,Is pushing a stroller after club baby come back.The baby is a boy,Two and a half years old,See Hu Dajie the distance,it"Aunt aunt"Came to shout.Been naughty or nice Hu Dajie asked him,If milk drink?And touched his forehead,Take out a paper towel,He wiped to wipe your nose,Change of clothes,Hold on baby stroller……

　　看着东家的宝宝长得健康，胡大姐很喜欢，可是一提起自己正待业的大学生儿子，她的话语里，又充满了苦恼——

Looking at club baby grow healthy,Hu Dajie like,But a son they are unemployment of college students,In the words of her,And full of distress --

　　

为了供儿子读完大学 In order to for your son finish college

　　我从老家跑到杭州来做保姆 I ran to hangzhou from their hometown to do nanny

　　他从小就内向，不爱说话，但是成绩特别好，小学到初中每学期都得奖，家里墙上都贴满了奖状。

He was introverted,Don't love to talk,But result very well,Elementary school to junior high school a prize every semester,The walls are plastered with testimonials at home.

　　初中毕业，儿子考上了重点高中。不过到高中不知道怎么搞的，成绩就下降了。2008年高考，分数不理想，他就报了一所三本医学类院校的心理学专业，专业是他自己选的，也没有跟我们商量。

Junior high school graduation,Son admitted to a key high school.But don't know how to get to high school,Results has decreased.In 2008 the college entrance examination,Score is not ideal,He was a three medical colleges of professional psychology,Professional is his own choice,Also does not have to discuss with us.

　　后来通知书下来了，学费一年一万五，那时候我在镇上的手套厂上班，一个月就挣1100块。我老公在跑运输，就是给人家拉石子，正好那年自家的小货车又被偷了……

Later a letter arrived,Tuition, fifteen thousand a year,When I go to work in the town of jin,Will earn $1100 a month.My husband in the run,Is to give people with stones,Just when their minivan was stolen again……

　　我老公没有其他手艺，就会跑运输，后来东一家西一家借了8万块，又买一辆小货车。家里房子是木结构的，两层，住了20年了，晃晃悠悠的，已经不能住了。我看镇上蜜饯厂的宿舍蛮好，但要十多万，没钱买。

My husband don't have any other skills,Would run transport,East a west a borrowed $80000 later,And buy a van.Home house is wooden,Two layers of,Live for twenty years,wobbly,Already can't live.I see the town MiJianChang dormitory pretty well,But for more than ten,Have no money to buy.

　　老公挣的钱，都用来还账了，但是儿子读大学，一年算上住宿费生活费要2万多，怎么办？

The husband earn money,Is used for debt repayment,But the son to college,More than a year on accommodation cost of living to 20000,What to do?

　　手套厂我就不做了，杭州工资高，我就来了。

Jin I am not going to do,Hangzhou high wages,I will come.

　　我也是啥也不会。开始就做钟点工，一天跑两三家，那时候一个月挣1800块，不花一分也不够他上学用的。

I also is what also not.Begin to do part-time,Running two or three a day,Then earn $1800 a month,Don't take a minute and he used to go to school.

　　做了两年，我换到现在这家，带小孩，从7个月大开始带，住家陪睡，一直带到现在。我48岁了，本来腰、脊椎就不好，这几年快被折腾死了。本来想儿子毕业能当个医生，工作稳定了，我也就松口气了，没想到现在……

For two years,I change to this now,With children,From the start with 7 months old,Homes with sleep,Has been to now.I'm 48 years old,Originally the waist/The spine is not good,Over the years for dead.Originally want to son's graduation can when a doctor,The stable work,I'll breathe again,I didn't think now……

　　

网吧回来发现钱包丢了 Internet cafes back found the wallet

　　他就一直哭一直哭…… He has been crying has been crying……

　　你都不知道，我这个儿子有多烦心。

You don't know,I have much bother this son.

　　他从来不主动和别人说话。还不知道管自己的东西，上大学的时候钱包乱放就丢过，兼职也没做过，什么经验都没有。我们镇上去年跟他一起毕业的同学，都找到工作了，就他找不到。

He never take the initiative to talk to someone else.Also don't know myself,At university wallet lying is lost,Didn't do part-time,What experience have no.In our town last year and graduated with his classmates,Find a job,He can't find.

　　年前，儿子好不容易在老家一所私立小学当了老师，教英语、科学，一个月有2500块吧。不过没有教师资格证，留不下来，寒假就不做了。他说一边工作一边准备考教师资格证，但是也不知道什么时候报名，怎么报名，叫他问也不问，做事拖拖拉拉的，以后工作怎么办？我都担心他要饿死的啦！

Years ago,,Very not easy in their hometown son a private elementary school as a teacher,To teach English/science,A month 2500 piece.But no teacher certification,Don't leave,Winter holiday is not done.He said while working for teacher certification,But also don't know when to sign up,How to sign up,Is he also don't ask, don't ask,A procrastinator,What to do after work?I worry he will starve to death!

　　过完年，我就给他在教工路上租了一间房，一个月500块。他不会烧饭，就天天出去吃……

Over the years,I give him on the way staff rented a room,500 pieces a month.He can't cook,Just go out to eat every day……

　　昨天晚上，儿子给我打电话，说去网吧上网，半夜回家发现钱包找不到了。问他怎么丢的他也记不得，就一直哭一直哭，哭得我都烦死了……

Yesterday evening,The son call me,Said to go to Internet cafes,Home in the middle of the night to find can't find my wallet.Ask him how he also don't remember,I have been crying has been crying,I'm tired cry……

　　我说，你心理这么脆弱？还不如那些没上过大学，十几岁就出来打工的人，太幼稚了！

And I said,Psychological you so vulnerable?Is not as good as those who didn't attend college,Teenage went out, and the people who work for others,Too naive!

　　今天早上他到我这边来，我给他150块钱，叫他回家补办身份证。

He come to my side this morning,I gave him 150 dollars,Tell him to go home fill do id card.

　　从他到杭州就开始找工作，前天在报纸上看到一个销售经理的职位，年薪8万，过去一看，是推销保险的，觉得不靠谱，打了退堂鼓。

To find a job in hangzhou started from him,The day before yesterday in the newspaper to see a sales manager position,Annual salary of 80000,A look at the past,Is selling insurance,Feel insecure,Backed out.

　　我跟他说，哪有那么多办公室给你坐的？开始总归要辛苦点的，别要求太高，他就是不听。

I told him that,There are so many of the office for you?Began to always hard points,Don't ask too much,He wouldn't listen.

　　现在一跟他说工作的事，我们就吵架。我老公也骂我自找的。我老公原本想让他去技校学门技术，做厨师、兽医，给别人修车什么的。我想嘛，学历高点总归好的，就坚持让他念了大学，现在我是两头受气，也不知道跟谁说。

Now tell him work,We can quarrel with each other.My husband also scold I asked for it.My husband had to let him go to technical school learn a technique,Do the cook/The vet,Car to others.I want to!,Degree high it ok,Adhere to let him read university,Now I am suffer indignities,Don't know and who said.

　　

儿子说—— The son said --

　　现在最希望能养活自己，不让妈妈担心 Now the most hope to be able to feed themselves,Don't let mother worry

　　胡大姐的东家陈先生说，胡大姐到他家两年多了，很勤快，工作也仔细，跟他的宝宝感情很好，宝宝很黏她的。

Hu Dajie owner, Mr. Chen said,Hu Dajie to his house for more than two years,Are very hard-working,Work carefully,On very good terms with his baby,Baby very stick to her.

　　陈先生每年给胡大姐涨工资，今年涨到了3000块，过年还给了她2000元红包，“听她说儿子刚念完大学，平时很少见她花钱。”

Mr. Chen to Hu Dajie get a raise every year,Rose to $3000 this year,Chinese New Year red envelopes also gave her 2000 yuan,"Listen to her son just finished university,At ordinary times is very rare to see her to spend money."

　　3月1日晚上，胡大姐的儿子小涛回老家补办完身份证回到杭州，胡大姐抽空给儿子做了顿饭。

On March 1 night,Hu Dajie son after small tao go home fill do id card back to hangzhou,Hu Dajie took time off to give son do dinner.

　　“不指望其他的，就希望他能快点长大，成熟起来，像个男人一样撑起这个家，毕竟我跟他爸都老了。”胡大姐哽咽着说。

"Don't count on others,Hope he can grow up quickly,mature,Like a man hold up this home,My father is old with him, after all."Hu Dajie SOB to say.

　　小涛大学里学的是应用心理学专业，还考出了心理咨询师三级证书。

Small tao I majored in applied psychology in the university,Also test certificate of psychological consultant level 3.

　　小涛说，那天上网吧是为了找招聘信息、投简历。他也知道自己性格内向，不善于交流，但是一直在努力改变。“很想让我妈放心，找不到工作，我心里也很急……”

Small tao said,Internet cafes are hired to find information on that day/Have a resume.He also knows his introverted,Not good at communication,But has been trying to change."Really want to let my mother rest assured,Can't find a job,My in the mind also very urgent……"

　　丢钱包之前，小涛在一家培训机构找了份临时的工作，推销课程，月薪2000元加提成。他说，现在他也很想稳定下来，自己养活自己，不让妈妈担心，慢慢积累经验，再找更好的工作。

Before losing his wallet,Small tao found a temporary job in a training institutions,Marketing course,2000 yuan a month plus commission.He said,Now he is also very want to settle down,To feed themselves,Don't let mother worry,Slowly accumulate experience,Looking for better work.