计策二：顺水推舟。见招拆招，如果你的确有这方面的需求，无妨说：“你介绍一个给我吧”。无论怎样，都记得点头称是，“对对对，我会努力找对象的。”

Strategy 2:Logical conclusion.See following for,If you have a demand in this field,Just as well say:"You introduce me to a".No matter what,Remember to nod,"The rightness,I will try to find objects."

　　找到一个爱我的姑娘并不难，但我择偶最重要的标准是要孝顺我爸妈。因为这个今年我拒了不少追我的姑娘...

It's not difficult to find a love my girl,But my mate is the most important standard to filial piety my parents.Because this year I turned down a lot of girls chasing me...

　　我其实一直在犹豫：尽管那个投资公司总裁的家境尚好，他也很爱我 他那辆阿斯顿马丁RAPID真的很漂亮，但我还是打算再给上周开始追求我的美国金融博士一个机会，因为我觉得共同语言比金钱更重要。

I actually have been hesitant:Although the investment company CEO's family circumstances is good,He also loves me, his aston Martin RAPID is really very beautiful,But I still want to give last week began to pursue my Dr. U.S. financial a chance,Because I think the common language is more important than money.

　　越快越好，我已经迫不及待要娶她进门了。（此时切忌犹豫扭捏，否则你女朋友绝对心里结梁子，因此分手也并不意外）

The sooner the better,I have already can't wait to marry her in the door.(Don't hesitate to wriggle at this time,Or your girlfriend absolutely knot languishing in heart,So break up is also not accidental)

　　做娇羞状，笑而不语，让男方应对。

Do little shyness,Smiling without a word,Let the man to deal with.

　　此事不能操之过急，我觉得还需要再多考察。

It cannot be rushed,I thought they needed more investigation.

　　眼看着距离回家的日期越来越近，众多网友的心情从买火车票的紧张忐忑到暂时欣喜，目前，大家又陷入到了另一轮的“焦虑”中。最近，一份亲戚聚会发言图在网上热传，结合去年流传但是尚未“解决”问题的“亲戚聚会发言大纲”列表，众人感叹，年关将至，各种直戳痛处的大拷问令人胆战心惊。昨天，扬子晚报记者惊喜地发现，竟然有网友整理出来了一份应答攻略，给一筹莫展的网友们带来莫大的福音，瞬间受到众人热捧。

Watching the distance date getting closer and closer to home,Many buy train ticket from nervous mood uneasy to temporarily,At present,Everyone again into another round of"anxiety"In the.recently,A relative party spokesman figure heat transfer on the Internet,But has not yet been combined with last year"To solve"The problem of the"Relative party speech outline"list,All sigh,Year end will come,All kinds of straight chuo pain torture, frightening.yesterday,Yangzi evening news reporter surprised to find that,Unexpectedly some sorting out a response strategy,Bring to the netizens who had a great deal of the Gospel,Instantly by the people.

亲友春节大拷问 婚姻问题层层“逼问” Friends and relatives during the Spring Festival big torture layers of marriage problems"The coercive"

　　“近乡情更怯”这样的心情恐怕很多在外工作的人都会有的吧！然而，最近几年，亲戚们之间流传的春节大拷问，让很多网友感到很受伤。从去年开始，网上流传一份有十来个问题的《亲戚聚会发言大纲》列表，网友列举了过年时亲戚聚会可能会问及的问题，包括恋爱、学习、工作以及买房、考研等诸多问题。这一个发言大纲令诸多人感到难以回答。然而今年，一张《亲戚聚会发言图》作为这些问题的加强版强势出击。

"Close to the countryside more afraid"Such a mood I'm afraid it's going to have a lot of people who work outside!however,In recent years,Relatives during the Spring Festival of the spread between the torture,Make a lot of net friend is hurt.Since last year,A circulated on the Internet have a dozen questions[Relative party speech outline]list,Net friend lists you might be asked relatives at New Year party,Including love/learning/Work and buy a house/One's deceased father grind, and many other problems.The outline of a speech to so many people find it difficult to answer.But this year,A piece of[Relative party to speak]As these issues enhanced strong attack.

　　且先看一下这个图是如何层层递进的吧：过年走亲戚，长辈们经常会问到很多问题。这张发言图总结了诸多问题，相互寒暄后，长辈们很热情地来句：“不认识我了吗？小时候还抱过你呢，一转眼长这么大了（其实平时从不往来）”，据列表分析，平时这些亲戚相互之间走动不多，问问题一般直接切入主题：“结婚了吗？”如果结了，就要详细交代另一半的资料，重点是收入，之后，紧接着问，生孩子了吗？生了的，就喊过来看看，要求各种表演，唱歌跳舞说笑话，而没有生的话，就是一顿苦口婆心的一堆劝说：“为什么不生？早点生对身体好……”

And take a look at this first graph is how to walk:New Year's day relatives,Elders are often asked a lot of problems.This Zhang Fayan figure summarizes the problems,After greeting each other,Elders very warmly to words:"Don't know me?When I was a child also hugged you,Now is so big(Never do)",According to the list of analysis,These relative move between each other is not much at ordinary times,Ask questions directly cut into the topic in general:"To get married??"If married,Need detailed directions the other half of the information,The focus is on income,after,And then ask,Have a baby??Gave birth to the,Come and see us will shout,Request all kinds of performance,Singing and dancing to tell jokes,Born without it,Is a well-meaning persuade:"Why don't you have?Early good for health……"

　　而直入主题的另一个答案是，没有结，之后便继续问有无对象。如果有了，就问为什么还不结婚，苦口婆心表示早结婚好，只差没让你明天就赶紧去领证。而如果没有对象，则又是另一番答复，告诫你快点找对象，不然大家都不放心，要不就干脆当场表示要当媒人给介绍一个。

And straight into the theme is another answer,No knot,After the continued presence of the object.If you have,Ask why not get married,Hook said early get married,Only poor didn't let you go to get card tomorrow.And if there is no object,Is another answer,Warned you hurry up looking for object,Otherwise we all don't rest assured,Or simply said to when the matchmaker to introduce an on the spot.

　　各种苦口婆心扑面而来，网友告饶，那些人的心情，比我妈还要着急！

All kinds of them every day,Net friend to beg for mercy,The person's mood,Better than my mother worry!

妙招来了！巧用三十六计回答问题 Tips to the!Use opportunely 36 plan to answer the question

　　在这众人惆怅的时刻，话说，网上一份“紧急问题解决方案”给很多人带来了福音。在方案开始，答题的网友故作玄虚地来了句：朋友，你还在为过年亲戚提问而烦恼吗？在此我们为你设计了屡试不爽的解决方案，记住一句话：进攻是最好的防御。

At this time of the people disappointed,words,Online a"Emergency solutions to problems"Has brought a lot of people the Gospel.At the beginning of the program,The answer of cause therefore to a sentence:A friend,Are you still worry about relative question to the Chinese New Year?Here we designed for you to test solutions,Remember a word:The best defense is a good offense.

　　比如，对于“现在做什么工作”的问题，表示计策之一是要演化成高端学术，强烈建议一定要记着将工作往宏观领域上升一个层次，顺便无限制地添加学术词语及English。而当几种句式都不合适时，还可以用一个万能句型：本应该和您说的，但是由于我的工作性质比较机密。令人直接不敢继续问下去。而计策之二则是金蝉脱壳，用“我接个电话”来回答。

Such as the,for"What kind of work do now"The problem of,Said one of the tricks is to evolve into high-end academic,It is strongly recommended that must remember to work up a level to macro areas,Unlimited add academic words and English, by the way.When several sentence patterns are inappropriate,Can also use a universal patterns:Should have and what you have said,But because of the nature of my work is confidential.Can't continue to ask directly.The second strategy is might,use"I connect a telephone"To answer.

　　不仅这些问题回答的很精彩，就连有无谈对象的事情，在这位网友眼中，都可以运用三十六计来“见招拆招”比如，借刀杀人，反客为主，反问提问者家的小孩处对象没，还可以用顺水推舟的方法，表示“你介绍一个给我吧！”各种解答令人欣喜，总算找到答案了！

Not only these questions, the answer is wonderful,Even things without talking about objects,In the eyes of the net friend,Can use 36 plan to"See following for"Such as the,impeded,Going to,Asked the questioner object no home child,Can also use the method of logical conclusion,said"You introduce me to a!"Various answers to happy,Managed to find the answer!

答题者是百度员工 根据网友提问撰写 Write an exam is baidu employees, according to online question

　　以前那份神奇的问卷竟然找到了解答！网友奔走相告，表示膜拜并学习。扬子晚报记者在网上遍寻这位不具姓名的答题者。最终问到了“百度知道”的工作人员，才知道，原来这份答案是他们内容运营部的同事做的。

Before the magic of questionnaires are actually found the answer!Net friends about,Said worship, and study.Yangzi evening news reporter searched on the Internet the name of an exam.Finally ask to"Baidu knows"The staff,Don't know,The answer turns out to be their content operations colleagues do.

　　这位工作人员对记者说，每到年底，总会有网友在知道上提问类似的问题，但是总也苦于找不到合适的解答。于是内容运营部的人就顺势做了一个三十六计版的解答方案。“其实他们自己并没有遇到这样的追问，只是身边很多朋友、同事有过这样类似的苦恼，而在网络上，也有很多网友有这方面的需求，于是，内容运营部两位同事便做了这样的一份解答。”

The staff, told reporters,Every arrive the end of the year,There will always be a net friend in the know ask similar questions,But also suffer from cannot find the right answer.So conveniently made a content operations are 36 plan version of the solution scheme."They did not encounter such inquiry,Just a lot of friends around you/Colleagues have such similar distress,And on the Internet,Also has a lot of net friend has this aspect demand,so,Content operations two colleagues did such an answer."

　　“问题的解答并不太难，但是如何写的有实质性、有指导意义就非常有难度了。”这位工作人员表示，为了使得问题具有更大的普遍性，两位同事将网友的提问进行了筛选、整理，最终呈献给大家这样一份答卷。百度知道的工作人员笑侃，其实从根本上解决问题的方法是，提高自己的成绩与工作，找到合适的伴侣，祝愿大家能过一个有意义的新年。

"Answer is not too difficult,But how to write the substantial/Has guiding significance is very difficult."The officials said,In order to make more universality,Two colleagues to net friend's question has carried on the screen/Tidy up,Eventually present everyone such a paper.Baidu know that the staff to joke,To fundamentally solve the problem is actually,Work and improve their grades,To find the right partner,Wish you can have a meaningful New Year.