记者调查发现，时下大学生谈恋爱，男友要请女友的室友吃饭，几乎成了不成文的规矩。

Journalist survey found that,Nowadays, college students fall in love,Boyfriend to please his girlfriend roommate for dinner,Almost become unwritten rules.

上千元的爱情宴 Thousands of yuan of love feast

　　前不久，中南财经政法大学大三学生王孟东（化名），在学校附近的南湖村酒店大摆筵席，请女友全班30多位同学吃饭。记者正好也在该酒店用餐。

Not long ago,Three students Wang Mengdong at zhongnan university of economics and law(Not his real name),South lake village hotel near the school a great feast,Girlfriend, please eat more than 30 students in the class.Journalist is also in the hotel for dinner.

　　王孟东请女友陈雪（化名）班上的30多名同学吃饭，共同见证两人爱情的开端。在酒店一个能容纳三桌客人的大包间里，同学们用气球、鲜花将房间简单布置了一下。两名女生在包房外走廊里装点一个蛋糕，蛋糕中央插着一支“0”字样的蜡烛。“今天是他们两人正式开始谈恋爱的日子，爱情的道路从今天这个零点开始启程。”同学解释零的含义。

Wang Mengdong Chen Xue please his girlfriend(Not his real name)More than 30 students to eat in the class,Two people together the beginning of love.In the hotel a large private room can accommodate three tables,Students use the balloon/Flowers will decorate the room.Two girls in the corridor outside the room decorate a cake,A cake with a central"0"Wording of the candle."Today is the day when the two of them began to fall in love,The road from the zero start today of love."Explain the meaning of zero.

　　当两名女生推着蛋糕走进包房后，大家齐声喊起“在一起，在一起”，王孟东捧着一束鲜花，单膝跪地，向陈雪表达爱意，将气氛掀向高潮。当天的酒席，花费将近2000元。王孟东认为能让女友高兴，这点钱花得值。

When two girls after pushing cake into the room,We shouted in chorus"together,together",Wang Mengdong holding a bunch of flowers,Knelt to,Show your love to Chen Xue,Air lift to the climax.The day's banquet,Cost nearly 2000 yuan.Wang Mengdong think can let the girl happy,The money is well spent.

　　武汉工程大学大三男生汤林红（化名），去年也曾为女友大摆“爱情宴”，请女友班上的29名同学搓了一顿。不过，因为是在学校食堂“操办”的，汤林红只花了700多元。

Three boys Shang Lingong wuhan engineering university(Not his real name),Has made a great big girlfriend last year"Love feast",Please girlfriend to rub the 29 of the class.but,Because it is in the school canteen"Hold to"the,Shang Lingong only spent 700 multivariate.

　　汤林红认为，虽然当初是被几个同学撺掇着请的，但现在想来，也是一个美好的回忆，他还经常去看当初同学为他们录下的视频。视频中，汤林红单膝跪地，手捧鲜花，向女友吴玲玲（化名）说出爱的宣言：虽然我不能给你一个华丽的场景，但我有一颗真诚爱你的心。

Shang Lingong think,Although at the beginning is encouraged by several classmates, please,But now I want to come,Is also a wonderful memory,He also often go to see the classmate of recorded video for them.In the video,Shang Lingong knelt to,Flowers to,To his girlfriend Wu Lingling(Not his real name)Say the declaration of love:Even though I can't give you a magnificent scene,But I have a sincere love your heart.

饭桌上有场考验 There's a test on the table

　　中南财经政法大学武汉学院的大三学生陈雄（化名），将请女友室友吃饭，看成是“鸿门宴”。因为去之前，女友已经“警告”过，吃饭的时候，众闺蜜要挨个提些问题，考验一下自己。陈雄只好找来几个好哥们，陪自己去赴“鸿门宴”。男女生势均力敌，最后陈雄也没受到什么刁难。吃完饭，陈雄觉得有种“劫后余生”的感觉，一高兴，又请几个哥们撮了一顿。

Junior student at zhongnan university of economics and law wuhan college Chen Xiong(Not his real name),To please his girlfriend a roommate for dinner,As a"The hongmen banquet".Because before you go to,His girlfriend has been"warning"a,When you eat,The girlfriends will turn to ask questions,Test yourself.Chen Xiong had to find a few good elder brothers,Accompany oneself to"The hongmen banquet".Boys and girls very close,Finally Chen Xiong also didn't get what difficulties.After the meal,Chen Xiong feel a"survivors"The feeling of,A happy,Again please several elder brothers of a meal.

　　黄冈师范学院大一学生钟尧（化名），前不久也请女友宿舍的朋友撮了一顿。不过，为了缓解尴尬气氛，小钟特地找来自己的室友帮忙助阵。

Huanggang normal college freshman Zhong Yao(Not his real name),Shortly before the girlfriend also please pinch of dormitory friends.but,To alleviate the embarrassed atmosphere,Let go to their roommates for help.

　　即便如此，进餐过程依然显得有点尴尬。席间，很自然的就被分成两派，男方女方各一派，每一派里都有说有笑，讨论着同伴们感兴趣的话题，讲一阵之后便安静下来。饭局也草草收场。

Even so,Dining process still seem a bit awkward.During the dinner,Naturally, it is divided into two parties,The man the woman each one,Every faction in talking and laughing,Discuss topics of common interest with his companions,Speaking after a quiet.Dinner is also.

爱情是请客吃饭吗？ Love is a dinner party?

　　针对校园里的爱情宴，大学生情侣看法不一。赞成“爱情宴”的大有人在。“这也是自己考察男生的一项内容，请吃饭不是让男生只顾得掏钱就行，初次与女生室友的见面，也会考察男友的交际能力，还可以顺便让自己的好姐妹给自己把把关。”一名热恋中的女生说。

In view of the campus love feast,College students.In favor of"Love feast"Plenty of."It is also of its own investigation boys a content,Please eat didn't let the boy get the pay,First met the girl roommate's,Communicative ability will also examine boyfriend,Also can let oneself of good sisters, by the way to check for yourself."A lovestruck girl said.

　　不过，本文开头的罗兵就强烈反对举办爱情宴，“其实彼此都不认识，真不知道这默认的规矩怎么来的。”就算是作为情侣一方的女方，也有对爱情宴持不同意见的。“个人以为只需要和彼此的好朋友一起吃饭就好了，没必要全部请啊。”武大一名女生在BBS上说。当然,也有女生承认，让男友请自己室友吃饭，能或多或少满足一下自己的虚荣心。

but,The beginning of this article proposed is strongly opposed to hold the love feast,"Actually don't know each other,I don't know what the default rules come from."Even as couples party's wife,Also have to the love feast dissident."I think only need to have dinner with good friends to each other,Don't need to please all."Wu Dayi girl said in BBS.Of course,,Also have girls admitted,Let your roommate boyfriend for dinner,Can more or less meet their vanity.

　　武汉大学团委副书记李勤不提倡大学情侣请吃“爱情宴”，“如果情侣们都来请这个爱情宴，将会助长大家的攀比风；同时，大学生没有什么经济来源，爱情宴动辄上百元，有的高达上千元，对经济也造成负担，不宜提倡。”（楚天都市报 记者徐啸寒 大学生记者陈铭 吴嘉豪 实习生胡阳阳）

College youth corps committee, vice secretary of wuhan university Li Qin discouraged couples please eat"Love feast","If lovers have to please the love feast,Will encourage everyone unrealistical compare;At the same time,College students have no economy source,Love feast at hundreds of yuan,Some as high as thousands of yuan,The economic burden,Should not be advocated."(Chutian metropolis daily reporter reporter Ming Chen Wu Jiahao intern Hu Yangyang Xu Xiao cold college students)