睡觉的时候，亮亮(右)和涛涛头靠着头。一天中的大多数时间，他们都待在床上打发时间。 Sleeping of time,A seaside(right)And out head against the head.Most of the time of day,They all stay in bed to kill time.

　　浙江在线02月05日讯 在永康市腾龙学校5层教学楼的楼顶上，有一间特殊的教室。一共有15孩子，最大的18岁，最小的8岁。他们或多或少都有残疾，要么智障，要么精神或身体有些问题。父母要赚钱养家，顾不过来，就把他们交给学校代为照顾。楼顶100来平方米的地方，就是他们全部的世界。

Zhejiang online on 02. 05-5 layer in yongkang tenglong school teaching building on the roof,There is a special classroom.A total of 15 children,The biggest 18 years of age,Minimum of 8 years old.They are more or less has a disability,Or intellectual disabilities,There are some problems with either mental or physical.Parents want to make money for the family,Gu not to come over,To the school to take care of them.The roof to 100 square meters,Is all the world.

　　有的孩子慢慢长大，已不太适合继续待在学校。可是，他们能去哪里？对于孩子们的未来，无人能给出确切的答案。

Some children grow up slowly,Have not suitable for to stay in the school.but,Can they go?In the future for our children,No one can give a definite answer.

　　

15岁男孩生活无法自理，家人把他寄养在敬老院 15 years old boy life cannot provide for oneself,Family foster care in nursing homes

　　上次提到一个叫亮亮的孩子，他今年15岁，曾在腾龙学校上过一段时间学。学校搬了新校区后，亮亮就再也没有来过。

Last time, there has been a bright child,He is 15 years old this year,Once on the tenglong school over a period of time to learn.Moved from school after the new campus,Have never been to.

　　亮亮四肢无力行动不便，上厕所都要老师抱着去，校长胡瑶琴因此对他印象深刻。后来才知道，亮亮的父母因为做生意要到处跑，放在家里又不放心，2011年5月，他们通过残联的帮助，把亮亮送到了永康一家养老服务中心(敬老院)。

A seaside limbs weakness action inconvenience,Toilet is the teacher hold to,The principal Hu Yaoqin so impressed him.Afterwards just know,Bright parents for doing business around,Put in the home and not be at ease,In May 2011,They help by disabled persons' federation,Liang liang to an endowment service center in yongkang(Nursing homes).

　　两年过去，亮亮已经养成了老年人的作息习惯：天刚黑就睡觉了。

In the past two years,Liang liang have formed the habit of the elderly:Day just black went to sleep.

　　他说，以前在家，经常吃不上饭。而在敬老院，老人们对他很好，经常给他好吃的。他因此觉得，自己在敬老院的生活，是“幸福的”。

He said,Previously at home,Often eat dinner.In nursing homes,Old people are very nice to him,Often give him a delicious.He felt so,Her life in nursing homes,is"happy".

　　他真的幸福吗？

He really happy?

　　

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　　亮亮是这家敬老院接收的第一个孩子。

Liang liang is the first child of the nursing homes receiving.

　　他来后没几个月，又来了一个叫小佳的女生，患有智障，语言障碍也比亮亮要严重得多，基本不会说话。

After he came to a few months,Here comes a little beautiful girl,With intellectual disabilities,The language barrier was much more serious than a seaside,Basic can't talk.

　　好长一段时间，两个孩子几乎没有什么交流，更别说做朋友了。

A long time,Two children almost have no contact,Let alone be friends.

　　情况在2012年秋天的时候，有所好转。那天，亮亮看到服务中心工作人员牵着一个叫涛涛的男孩走进了他的房间。两个孩子年纪相仿，床靠着床，睡觉的时候，头挨着头。他们很快就聊到了一起。

At the time of the fall of 2012,improved.On that day,A seaside see service center staff took a call out of the boy went into his room.Two children of similar age,The bed on the bed,Sleeping of time,Head to head.They talk together soon.

　　虽然在外人看来，他们的之间的“聊天”，跟听外语差不多，很难懂。

Although to outsiders,Between them"chat",Just like listening to a foreign language,Is hard to understand.

　　两个人都不会走路，大多数时间都只能呆在床上。涛涛躺着，亮亮喜欢趴着。他们的话题，无非是刚刚看过的动画片之类，乏善可陈。

Both of them can't walk,Most of the time just stay in bed.Lay out,Look like lying down.Their topic,Is nothing but just watched cartoons and so on,A lackluster.

　　不过，对于近乎无聊的敬老院生活，涛涛的出现，无疑就是一抹阳光。

but,For almost like boring life,Out of there,Would have to be a sunshine.

　　涛涛语言能力非常不好，说的话别人都听不懂，但亮亮能听明白。

Tao tao language ability is very bad,Said all listen to not to understand others,But liang liang can understand him.

　　有时候，涛涛想叫阿姨帮忙，支支吾吾半天，亮亮很快就弄明白了，扯开嗓门叫来了工作人员。

sometimes,Aunt tao tao wanted to call for help,Faltered out half a day,Liang liang will understand soon,Tore open his voice called to the staff.

　　在一起久了，难免会发生些矛盾，偶尔会吵架。前几天，亮亮生气抓破了涛涛的脸，但是现在涛涛已经不生气了，亮亮也保证，以后再也不弄伤涛涛。

Together for a long time,Will inevitably happen some contradictions,Occasionally will quarrel with each other.A few days ago,Liang liang clawed out angry face,But tao tao has not angry now,Liang liang is guaranteed,Later any further not broke out.

　　14岁的阿梅喜欢戏曲。在采访的时候，她翘起手指有模有样地给我们表演了一曲。她说，等长大学好了黄梅戏，就去找妈妈。

14, ah mui likes opera.In an interview,Tilted her finger was properly performed a song for us.She said,Grew up well the huangmei opera,Went to my mother.

这个叫小佳的孩子平时不喜欢出门，不开心的时候，他就冲着窗外嘶吼几声。 This is called small children don't like to go out at ordinary times,When not happy,He shouted at the roar a few sound outside the window.

　　

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　　涛涛的父母几乎每周都会来看望涛涛，但是亮亮的爸爸妈妈很少来。

Tao tao's parents almost every week to see out,But few bright mom and dad to.

　　亮亮刚来敬老院的时候，亮亮的爸爸妈妈每个月会来看他一次，但是时间久了，他们来的次数就少了。最长的一次，隔了半年之久。

Liang liang came to nursing homes,And on mom and dad came to see him once every month,But time is long,The number of them is less.The longest,After half a year at a time.

　　“他们太忙，没空啊，要卖菜。”父母是做蔬菜生意的，懂事的亮亮总是为他们的“疏忽”开脱。

"They are too busy,Won't be free ah,To sell food."Parents do business of vegetables,Sensible look always for them"negligence"excuse.

　　其实，亮亮很希望能和爸爸妈妈多呆一会儿。他总是安慰自己，爸爸妈妈很快就来了。可大多数时间，迎接他的，都是失望。

In fact,And I hope I can stay a little longer. My father and mother.He always comfort myself,Mom and dad is coming soon.But most of the time,Meet him,Are disappointed.

　　亮亮说，“把心放下来，把心放肚子里。”这是从大人那里学来的。如果不这样想，他晚上会睡不着。

Liang liang said,"Put the heart down,Put the heart the belly."Learned from the adults.If you don't think so,He will can't sleep at night.

　　亮亮的爸爸妈妈每次来，都会带来一些小玩具。前几天，爸爸送了他一个“打地鼠”玩具，亮亮视若珍宝，每天都放在枕边，别人不准碰。

Bright mom and dad each time,Will bring a small toy.A few days ago,Dad gave him a"whack-a-mole"The toy,Liang liang as a treasure,Every day in bed,Other people are not allowed to touch.

　　现在，他自称“打地鼠高手”。实际上，他玩得并不好，只是偶尔才玩一次。他生怕玩得太频繁，还没等到爸爸妈妈再来看他，玩具就没电了。

now,He said he"Master of whack-a-mole".In fact,He had not good,Only occasionally play only once.He's afraid to play too often,Haven't wait until mom and dad to see him again,Toys, the power went out.

　　他没钱给自己买电池。

He had no money to buy the battery.

　　

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　　快要过年了，爸爸妈妈说好，会接他回家过年。但是，亮亮说，他只准备在家住两天，因为“爸爸妈妈没空，要卖菜。”

Is going to New Year's day,Mom and dad say good,Will pick him up home New Year's day.but,Liang liang said,He is ready to live only two days,Because of the"Mom and dad won't be free,To sell food."

　　以前，养老服务中心的护工都是女的，亮亮和涛涛来了以后，养老服务中心只能又招了一个男护工。因为两个孩子都开始发育了，而且越来越重，女护工抱不动。

before,The pension service center worker are female,Liang liang and out came later,Endowment service center can only hire a male nurse.Because the two children are starting to develop,And more and more heavy,Female workers hold still.

　　那么，亮亮是否真的如他所说的那样，喜欢住在敬老院呢？

then,If really as what he said,Like to live in nursing homes?

　　他努力地想要掩饰自己的沮丧情绪，跟我们说起了以前在学校的事情。在腾龙学校，他只待了两年。

His efforts to hide his depression,Tell us about the school before.Tenglong school,He only stayed for two years.

　　亮亮已经不记得街上是什么样子，也不怎么记得学校，但是他想回到学校去，因为学校可以认识很多字。他以前在学校学会了很多字，现在全忘了。

Has not remember what is the street,Also don't remember the school,But he wants to go back to school,Because the school can know many words.He had learned in school a lot of words,Now forget all.

　　“我应该很想去，但是我不会走路，学校不会要我。”亮亮很在意自己不会走路。

"Should I really want to,But I can't walk,The school does not want me."You don't care much about walk.

　　他想去逛街，但是他不会走路；他想呆在父母身边，但是他不会走路；他想回到学校，还是不会走路啊！

He wants to go shopping,But he can't walk;He wants to stay in their parents,But he can't walk;He want to go back to school,Still can't walk!

有时候，孩子和老人能够和睦相处，但难免也会有意外发生。 sometimes,Children and old people can live in harmony,But hard to avoid can have an accident.

　　说起敬老院里的孩子，服务中心负责人成玲娇只能叹气。

Speaking of nursing homes in children,Service center director ChengLing jiao can only sigh.

　　“敬老院是老人养老的地方，小孩子住在这里，我们很多设施、条件都跟不上，对他们的成长来说，未必是好事。”成玲娇说，毕竟，敬老院不是专业的残障儿童护理机构，比如孩子最需要的游戏和娱乐，敬老院肯定就无法满足他们，“我们这里，只有电视。”

"Nursing homes is the place where the elderly,Young children live here,Many of our facilities/Conditions are to keep up with,For their growth,Is not necessarily a good thing."ChengLing jiao said,After all,,Nursing homes is not professional care for the disabled,Such as children need most games and entertainment,Yixian certainly won't be able to meet them,"We are here,Only the TV."

　　成玲娇更担心的是，怕孩子出意外，“我把剪刀、打火机、绳子之类的东西都收起来了。几个小孩年纪越来越大，心理也在发生变化，我怕他们做傻事。”

ChengLing jiao were more worried about,Afraid of children accident,"I put the scissors/A cigarette lighter/The rope away, things like that.Several children get older,Psychology is changing,I'm afraid they do silly things."

　　每隔几天，成玲娇就会找几个孩子聊天，“有时候，我感觉他们想父母了，就会打电话让他家人过来看看他，也算是一种安慰。”

Every few days,ChengLing jiao will find a few children to chat,"sometimes,I feel they want to their parents,Will make a phone call to his family came to see him,Is a kind of comfort."

　　敬老院有130多张床位，现在已经满员了，“很多老人来申请，根本进不来。”

Nursing homes are more than 130 beds,Is full now,"Many old people to apply for,Can not get in to."

　　成玲娇打算找亮亮父母谈谈，作为父母，他们有抚养孩子的义务，“如果他们愿意，最好把孩子领回去，把床位让出来。但他们如果不愿意，我们也没有办法，只能让孩子继续住下去。”

ChengLing liang liang jiao looking for parents to talk about,As a parent,They have the duty to raise a child,"If they are willing to,Best bring the child back,Let out bed.But if they don't want to,We have no way,Can only let children continue to live."

　　“如果永康能有一个专门的机构，收养像亮亮这样的孩子，那就好了。”成玲娇说。

"Yongkang, if can have a special agencies,Adoption of children like seaside,It would be nice."ChengLing jiao said.

　　

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　　永康全市一共有8家公立敬老院，另外还有两家民营养老机构。这几天，记者走访位于市区附近的7家，发现像亮亮这样的孩子，并不是个案。在其中的三家敬老院，记者找到了7个被寄养在这里的孩子，他们都是残障儿童。

Yongkang city a total of eight public nursing homes,There are two private pension institutions.This a few days,Reporter visited the seven near downtown,Found that children like seaside,Is not the case.In one of the three nursing homes,Reporters found seven foster children here,They are all disabled children.

　　这些残障儿童被寄养到养老院，除了政府每月发放的残疾人补助外，家人还在额外支出一部分钱。比如亮亮属于一级残疾，每月补助1000元。另外，他的父母每年还要支付2000多元给敬老院，作为抚养费。

These disabled children in foster care to the nursing home,In addition to government issued monthly disability payments,Part of family will be extra spending money.Such as blade belongs to the level of disability,Monthly allowance of 1000 yuan.In addition,His parents also pay 2000 yuan each year to nursing homes,As a support.

　　实际上，记者通过调查发现，这些孩子过得并不如意。有一个14岁的女孩，甚至遭到了来自男性老人的猥亵。而对于敬老院来说，额外多出来的孩子，无疑加重了他们的工作量和责任。谁都不知道，如果出了问题，谁来负责？而这些孩子的未来，又在哪里？

In fact,Reporter through the survey found,These children are not satisfied.There is a 14 year old girl,Even the obscene suffered from men's.For nursing homes,Extra extra child,Undoubtedly increased their workload and responsibilities.Who all don't know,If out of the question,Who was responsible for?And the children's future,And where is?

　　在永康，全市一共有一万两千多名持证残疾人，其中包括精神残疾、肢体残疾、智力残疾、盲人、聋哑人等几个大类。残障儿童毕业后，根据实际情况进行安置。“有劳动技能或能力的，根据个人情况安排就业，并进行相关扶持。”永康市残疾人联合会的楼兴东说。

In yongkang,The holder of a total of more than twelve thousand disabled people in the city,Including mental disability/Physical disabilities/Mental disabilities/The blind man/Deaf people wait for a few broad categories.Disabled children after graduation,According to the actual situation in place."Labor skill or ability,According to the personal situation arranged employment,And related support."Yongkang disabled persons' federation building hing tung said.

　　没有劳动能力、能够自理的，会根据残疾等级不同发放补助，以保证他们的基本生活要求。无法自理的，政府采取集中托养、居家安养、社区照料等方式进行安置，同样也有相应的安养补助。

No ability to work/Able to provide for oneself,,Depending on the level of disability to subsidise,To ensure that their basic living requirements.The cannot provide for oneself,Government to foster/Home nursing/In the form of community care and placement,Also have the corresponding nursing.

　　“集中托养主要是安置在敬老院、福利院、托养中心等机构。”楼兴东说，永康目前有两类集中托养的方式，一类是重度精神残疾的残疾人，主要安养在永康市第三人民医院的永康阳光庇护中心。另外一类是重度的智力残疾或者肢体残疾的，主要安置到敬老院、福利院。

"Foster main concentration is placed in nursing homes/Welfare homes/Foster centre etc."Floor xingdong said,Yongkang now there are two types of concentrated foster way,One kind is severe mental disability of the disabled,The main nursing in yongkang, yongkang, the third people's hospital of sun shelter.Another kind is a severe mental or physical disabilities,Mainly to nursing homes/Welfare homes.

　　但是，对于像亮亮这样有监护人的残障儿童，并没有政策规定可以进行托养。

but,For there are like seaside guardians of disabled children,No policy can foster.

　　“如果能够和家人生活在一起，对他们来说会更好。”楼兴东说。但是，由于各种各样的原因，才会出现一些有监护人的残障儿童住进了敬老院。

"If we can live together with my family,It would be better for them."Floor xingdong said.but,For a variety of reasons,Some guardians of disabled children can only be seen in nursing homes.

　　最好的办法，就是有专门的机构收养这些孩子。

The best way to,Is to have special agencies to adopt these children.

　　记者了解到，永康正在筹划建设重度残疾人托养中心。在规划材料上，记者看到，这个托养中心专门设置了儿童楼。等建好后，这些住在敬老院的孩子，就不用再成天和老年人为伴了。

The reporter understands,Yongkang is planning construction severely disabled foster centre.On the planning materials,The reporter sees,The foster children center specially set up building.After built,These children live in nursing homes,Don't have all day and the old company again.

　　“就在今年，我们还要在3～5个乡镇设立阳光小康庇护中心，让那些虽然重度残疾但是能进行简单劳动的人在那里工作和生活。”永康市残疾人联合会教育就业科科长施春蕾说。

"In this year,We also need to set up sunlight in 3 ~ 5 villages and towns of well-off shelter,Who is severely disabled but can perform a simple labor of the people live and work there."Yongkang federation of the disabled employment education coco long ShiChunLei said.