“是哪里出了问题，让孩子想不开？”

"是哪里出了The problem,Let the children took things too hard?"

　　《孩子，你不该走从呼市一位初一学生轻生看家长学校社会的教育观念误区》1月22日在本报头版头条位置刊出后，引发广大读者的热烈关注。

[The child,You shouldn't walk from Hohhot parent of a student suicide watch at the beginning of school social education idea erroneous zone]On January 22, after publication in the newspaper headlines position,Trigger a wide audience warm attention.

　　“真的很累”，记者就此事件继续采访时听到最频繁的就是这样一句话。学生说累，家长说累，老师、校长们说累。

"Really tired",Journalists to report on the issues when the hearing is the phrase most frequently.The student say tired,Parents said tired,The teacher/Principals said tired.

　　教育本该是阳光的事业、快乐的事业，而当下，我们的教育难道患上了“累病”？

教育本该是阳光的事业/Happy career,Right now,,Our education is developed"Tired disease"?

“只看分数，不看成长，暴露家庭教育极端功利化” "Look only at the score,Don't grow up,Exposure to extreme utilitarian education family"

　　郭怀恩是一位初三学生的家长，他说，平时我对孩子施加的压力也非常大。毕竟现在升学就业竞争激烈。分数高，就能进好学校，出来后就能进个好单位，有个高收入。现在孩子放寒假了，正在补课，好为明年中考留出更多总复习的冲刺时间。

郭怀恩是一位初三学生的家长,He said,平时我forThe child施加的压力也非常大.Now, after all, entrance employment competition is fierce.High scores,Can into a good school,After can be in a good unit,There is a high income.Children on holiday now,Is make up a missed lesson,Good for an examination next year to set aside more general review of the sprint time.

　　记者调查了解到，很多家长是瞄准高考进好大学、毕业找好工作的功利目标教育孩子的。

记者调查了解到,A lot of parents is to target the college entrance examination into the good university/Graduate to find a good job of utilitarian goals education child.

　　家长王刚说，为了孩子学习，除了辅导作业外，家里不看电视，不敢高声说话，专人接送、做饭，有的家长还租房陪读，特别是县城的孩子在呼市读书，有的公务员母亲，请3年长假两地分居来呼市陪读，直到孩子考上大学，他们才卸下千斤重担。从小学到高中，家庭生活可以说是围着孩子学习转，乐趣很少，回想起来，真的很累。

家长王刚说,In order to their children to study,In addition to the coaching job,Don't watch TV at home,Dare not to speak loudly,Will pick up/Cook a meal,Some parents still rent a house with,Especially from the county seat of children reading in Hohhot,Some civil servant's mother,Please come to Hohhot 3 years long separation with,Until the child to go to university,They didn't unload one thousand jins burden.From high school,Family life is around children learn,Little fun,In retrospect,,Really tired.

　　内蒙古师范大学教科所王友亮教授说，教育的本质是传授知识技能、思想情感、处世礼仪，是培育人的成长和发展。现在我们的家长，瞄准的是中考和高考的分数，“孩子除了学习什么也不做，只要考好做什么都行”，忽视了更加重要的思想品德、创新能力、身体素质的培养。只看分数，不看成长，暴露出家庭教育极端功利化。教育孩子诚实守信，做普普通通的劳动者也一样光荣，家长和社会必须有这样的平常心。现在孩子的压力很大，主要原因是家长的要求过高，有些家长不停地让孩子参加学习班，不想让孩子输在起跑线上，这样其实会给孩子造成很大的心理压力。以成绩作为唯一标准来认定孩子的表现好坏，其实是一大误区。

内蒙古师范大学教科所王友亮教授说,The essence of education is to teach knowledge and skills/Thought emotion/Social etiquette,是培育人的成长and发展.Now our parents,瞄准的是中考and高考的分数,"Children learn in addition to do nothing,As long as good to do anything",Overlooked the ideology and moral character is more important/The innovation ability/The development of physical quality.Look only at the score,Don't grow up,Extreme utilitarian exposed the family education.The honest code of honor education child,Do ordinary laborer glory as well,家长and社会必须有这样的平常心.Children under a lot of pressure right now,The main reason is that parents demand too high,Some parents constantly let the child to attend class,Don't want to let the child lose on the starting line,It actually did a lot of psychological pressure on children.To score as the only standard to the child's performance is good or bad,It is a big mistake.

“教育中弥漫的是分数、升学率，而不是道德、做人” "Education in the score/Graduation rates,而Is not a道德/To be"

　　家长抱怨累，实际上最累的是中国的孩子。“书包比人重”，调侃中有几多无奈。

家长抱怨累,In fact the most tired is one of China's children."Heavy bag than people",Have much helplessness in the fun.

　　今年初三的王泽成绩中游，他说，在这个城市，比我们起得早的只有环卫工人。我们每天都在题海里，老师训练我们如何取得高分，千遍万遍，不厌其烦。周末、假期也要上各种补习班，现在大人有玩的时间，睡觉的时间，反而我们没有。有的时候，我真想放弃。我觉得学习一点都不快乐。

今年初三的王泽成绩中游,He said,In this city,Only a sanitation worker got up earlier than us.We in the sea every day,Teacher training us how to get good grades,Again and again,Never tired.On the weekend/Also want to go to the all kinds of cram school holidays,Adults have play time now,The time you go to sleep,Instead, we have no.There are times when,I really want to give up.I feel that learning is not happy.

　　内蒙古农业大学附属中学的王葳是数学老师，她说，现在学校考核老师，就看班级成绩。为了提高孩子成绩，基础知识讲过后，还要讲拓展题，因为只有难题才能拉开与别人的成绩。有的难题要讲几十遍学生才能理解。作业也多，2个班每天120多本，批改完后可以说精疲力竭。

内蒙古农业大学附属中学的王葳是数学The teacher,She said,Assessment of school teacher now,Depending on the class.In order to improve the child,Basic knowledge about later on,Will speak to expand,Because only problem can open with others.Some problems to dozens of times students can understand.Work too much,Two classes a day more than 120 copies,After correcting exhausted, so to speak.

　　如此的累，是教育的属性吗？现在中国的教育有统一化的格式，统一化的命题，统一化的试卷，统一化的标准，为了标准，对学生进行艰苦的磨练。探求科学知识，学做圣贤之人，本该充满好奇与崇高，但应试把教育异化了。中国教育哲学专业委员会副主任、教育学博士、内蒙古师范大学刘文霞教授分析认为，教育主体异化为应试、升学的工具，成为分数的奴隶；教育的环境中弥漫的是分数、升学率，而不是道德、做人、生活、智慧；教育主体均以拼体力和时间，牺牲必要休息、娱乐和交往，进行着非正常的竞争。这是教育本质的迷失和智慧缺失。

如此的累,Is the attribute of education?Now China's education have a unified format,Unification proposition,Unification of the test paper,Unification of the standard,In order to standard,for学生进行艰苦的磨练.To search for scientific knowledge,Learn to do a sage,Should have full of curiosity and sublime,But the exam-oriented education alienation., deputy director of professional committee of China education philosophy/Dr Pedagogy/Inner Mongolia normal university professor LiuWenXia analysis,Education for examination subject alienation/Entrance of the tool,A slave to the score;Diffuse is mark in education environment/Graduation rates,而Is not a道德/To be/life/wisdom;教育主体均以拼体力and时间,Sacrifice needed rest/娱乐and交往,With an unusual competition.这是教育本质的迷失andwisdom缺失.

　　“是家长学校社会走出教育观念误区的时候了。”刘文霞急切地呼吁。

"Is society out of the parent school education idea erroneous zone."LiuWenXia is urgently called for.

　　（记者 高 平 光明网记者 侯 兵）

(High press flat kwangmyong reporter hou bing)