10岁男孩偷拿家里39元钱

10岁男孩偷拿家里39元钱

　　妈妈带他到派出所“投案自首”

妈妈带他到派出所"Midnight,"

　　妈妈偷偷跟民警说，想用这种方法给孩子一个教训

妈妈偷偷跟民警说,Want to give their children a lesson in this way

　　专家说，“不问自取”是孩子必经阶段，及时指出错误最重

专家说,"Don't ask, don't come undone"Is a key phase the child,Most pointed out the mistake in time

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　　本报金华婺城公安分局站前派出所的王警官，接到了一个让人挠头的“报警”报案人是个妈妈，带着自己10岁的儿子。

本报金华婺城公安分局站前派出所的王警官,Got a let people scratching his head"Call the police"Found free is a mother,With his 10-year-old son.

　　妈妈说，儿子拿了家里39元钱，她要带儿子自首。

Mother said that,Son took home $39,Want to take her son surrendered.

　　转过头，她又偷偷跟警察说，她是想让民警帮忙，“吓唬吓唬”儿子，教育他一下。

转过头,She secretly told the police,She is to want to let the police for help,"scare"son,Education him.

　　教育犯罪嫌疑人，王警官不在话下。可面对一个10岁的孩子，他真有些手足无措。这话，该怎么说？

教育犯罪嫌疑人,Wang Sir.Can be in the face of a 10-year-old children,He really has some unprepared.This words,How to say?

　　这个1989年出生的未婚大小伙，头皮都快抓破了。

这个1989年出生的unmarried大小伙,Scalp is scratched.

　　儿子偷拿钱买玩具，妈妈怒了：

son偷拿钱买玩具,The mother anger:

　　跟我到派出所自首去

跟我到派出所自首去

　　3月2日晚上，王警官正在派出所值班。

3月2日晚上,King of police officers are on duty police station.

　　晚饭后不久，一个30多岁的女人板着脸走了进来。

晚饭后不久,A 30 - year - old woman came in with a straight face.

　　她扎着长辫，穿一身黑西服，身后不远处还跟着个男孩，耷拉着头，慢吞吞地拖着腿，踱着步子。

她扎着长辫,Dressed in a black suit,Also not far behind with a boy,Hang his head,Slowly dragged leg,Walk up and down the steps.

　　“警察同志，我发现我儿子偷了家里的钱，我说了他可能不会听，想请你们帮忙教育一下他。”走进大厅，妈妈走到王警官身边，小声地说。

"Police comrade,I found my son stole home money,I said he may not listen to them,Would like to invite you to help him to education."Walked into the hall,Mother went to the police officer wang,whispered.

　　王警官一愣，下意识看了眼那小男孩。刚挪到大厅门口的孩子，转身就想走了。

王警官一愣,The little boy subconsciously looked at the eyes.Children just move into the hall to the door,Turn round and then want to go.

　　“站着别动！”妈妈一转身，声音大了起来，语气挺严厉。

"To stand still!"Mom turned around,Sound big,Tone is quite tough.

　　孩子低着头不动了。

孩子低着头不动the.

　　妈妈继续向王警官“介绍案情”：过年的时候她给了儿子100元压岁钱，但几天过去了，钱分文未动，儿子却多了个新玩具。

妈妈继续向王警官"Introduction to the case":She gave her son 100 yuan during Chinese New Year lucky money,But a few days in the past,Money is nothing to move,Son has a new toy.

　　“我就觉得奇怪，问他哪来的钱。那时有个阿姨借住在我家的，没想到他说，他是拿了阿姨的钱。”说着，妈妈情绪又上来了，“儿子今年才10岁，小小年纪就会偷钱了，长大了还了得？”

"I feel strange,Ask him which come of money.There was a aunt borrow live in my house,I didn't think he said,He is aunt took the money."Said the,Mother mood came up again,"Son is only 10 years old this year,At an early age would steal money,Grow up also get?"

　　小男孩偷拿了多少钱？妈妈小声说，钱不多，就几十块，但这个事情不是钱多少的问题。

小男孩偷拿the多少钱?Mama whispered,Money is not much,For dozens of pieces,But this thing is not how much money problem.

　　“我要带他自首！”她喉咙又响起来。

"I want to take his surrender!"Her throat and rings.

　　民警审了这个“案值”最小的案子：

民警审the这个"An estimate"The smallest case:

　　我就想告诉孩子，偷偷拿钱是不对的

我就想告诉孩子,It's wrong to secretly take money

　　妈妈说完，该王警官上场了。

Mother said that完,The officer on the king.

　　虽然审讯过不少嫌疑人，但面对一个10岁的孩子，王警官吭吭哧哧半天，也没想好怎么说。

虽然审讯过不少嫌疑人,But in the face of a 10-year-old children,Officer wang word chi bursts half a day,How do you say is not ready yet.

　　这里，我们要介绍一下王警官的个人情况：他1989年生人，未婚，准备今年5月份当新郎。教孩子，他完全没经验。

这里,We want to introduce officer wang's personal situation:He born in 1989,unmarried,Ready in May this year when the groom.To teach children,He has no experience.

　　“说轻了怕孩子不听，说重了又怕他有心理阴影。”王警官头皮都麻了。他低声问这位妈妈，要是话说重了，孩子以后“恨警察”了，怎么办？

"Don't listen to said light afraid of children,Heavy again afraid said he had the psychological shadow."Officer wang scalp hemp.He asked the mother in a low voice,If only saying,After the children"Hate the police"the,What to do?

　　“不会，你就说。”这位妈妈倒很直爽。

"Won't be,You just said."The mother fell very candid.

　　再看看小男孩，10岁的孩子，个子已经有点高了，看起来挺老实的，面对穿着警服的民警，更是吓得头也不敢抬，说话都细声细气的。

再看看小男孩,Children under the age of ten,The child has a little high,Seems pretty honest,In the face of wearing police uniforms,More scared also dare not lift,Speak softly fine gas.

　　王警官走到小男孩身边，清清嗓子：

王警官走到小男孩身边,Cleared his throat:

　　“这次你拿了多少钱？”

"How much money do you have this time?"

　　“35块钱……”

"35 dollars..."

　　“到底拿了多少？”一旁的妈妈声音又大起来。

"Exactly how many?"One side of the mother and loud.

　　看样子没说实话。王警官又加了一句：“到底拿了多少钱？如果说谎的话，就会被关起来，到时候见不到爸爸妈妈，也没有人再买肯德基给你吃了。”

看样子没说实话.The king's officer added:"Exactly how much money?If you lie,Will be locked up,When the time comes to see mom and dad,No one buy KFC for you again."

　　男孩有些无助，眨巴着眼睛，抬头看了一眼站在一旁的妈妈：“一共拿了39块钱，现在还剩25块。第一次9块，第二次10块，第三次20块……我趁中午阿姨在客厅的时候偷偷进卧室拿的。”

男孩有些无助,- blinked,Looked up and looked at mom standing to the side:"Took 39 dollars altogether,Now and then there were 25 pieces.9 for the first time,The second ten pieces,The third time 20...At noon I took advantage of the aunt in the sitting room secretly into the bedroom to take."

　　男孩头又低下去了，声音也轻到不能再轻。他说自己用这些钱买了玩具。

男孩头又低下去the,Sound and light that can't light.He said he used the money to buy toys.

　　“接下来该怎么办？”

"What to do next?"

　　男孩其实挺懂事，说自己要知错能改，把钱还给阿姨，还要跟她道歉。

男孩其实挺懂事,Say to say can change it,Return the money to aunt,To apologize to her.

　　听了这话，妈妈的表情缓和了下来。

听theThis words,Mother's facial expression eased down.

　　离开派出所的时候，妈妈低声对王警官说：“谢谢。”

离开派出所的时候,Mom whispered the officer said to the king:"thank you."

　　专家支招

专家支招

　　“不问自取”的经历，每个孩子都会有

"Don't ask, don't come undone"The experience of,Each child will get there

　　别太紧张，及时指出错误就好

别太紧张,It is good to point out mistakes in time

　　听了这件事，我忽然想起自己的小时候。那时，妈妈总是把零钱随意放在抽屉里。有时候我会偷偷拿一个5分钱的硬币买话梅，自以为神不知鬼不觉。

听the这件事,I suddenly think of my childhood.At that time,Mother is always to change at will in the drawer.Sometimes I secretly take a 5 cents coin for plum,Thinking that go unnoticed.

　　直到有一次吃饭，妈妈说：“抽屉里的钱虽然乱放，但少了一分钱我都心里有数，小偷来了也不怕。”

直到有一次吃饭,Mother said that:"The drawer of the money while the place,But I know a penny less,The thief come also not afraid."

　　从那以后，我再也不敢随便拿钱了。

从那以后,I never take money.

　　现在想来，这可能是我妈妈的一种“战术”。而这位妈妈，选择了另一种方法，只是这办法，有点麻烦我们的民警同志了。

现在想来,This may be one of my mother"tactical".And the mother,Chose another way,Just the way,The police of our comrades have a little bit of a problem.

　　我专门咨询了金华市心悦心理咨询主任咨询师孙玮。

我专门咨询the金华市心悦心理咨询主任咨询师孙玮.

　　“当孩子开始对有价值东西有概念时，就会发生偷或者不问自取的情况。基本上，每个孩子都会经历这个阶段，作为家长，一定要用正确心态去面对。”

"When children began to have a concept of valuable things,Stealing occurs or don't ask, don't come undone.Basically,,Each child will get through this stage,As a parent,Must use the correct attitude to face."

　　孙玮说，对初犯的孩子，像这位妈妈把他拉去派出所的行为，可能有点过了。

孙玮说,For young children,As the mother pulled him to police station,May be a bit.

　　“碰到这种事，家长心态一定要稳定。金钱、性……这种敏感的话题，都是孩子人生必须要经历的。”孙玮建议，家长平时要多和孩子沟通，如果孩子做了“坏事”，要及时指出“这是不对的”，但应该少一些惩罚，“最多就告诫孩子，如果以后再犯这样的错，就可能要去派出所了。”(通讯员 王旭升 记者 朱丽珍 张姮 实习生 马敬伦)

"Encountered such a thing,Parents mentality must be stable.money/Sex...This sensitive topic,Are children have to experience life."Wei sun christianson advice,Parents usually want more communication with children,If the children did"A bad thing",To point out"This is not right",But should be less punishment,"Most will warn a kid,If such mistake later,May is going to go to the police station."(Reporter correspondent Wang Xusheng Zhu Lizhen Ma Jinglun Heng intern)