中新社兰州2月20日电 (记者 张道正)“上班啦，这次过年回家，看见父母的丝丝白发，真的很心疼，他们的日渐年迈和孤独，也让我远行的脚步越来越沉重……”名叫“淡蓝与深白”的网友近日在微博中这样写道。

China news agency February 20 (Reuters) in lanzhou (The reporter Zhang Daozheng)"Go to work!,The Chinese New Year back home,See parents strands of white hair,Really love dearly,Their growing old and lonely,Also let me travel steps more and more heavy……"named"Light blue and white"The net friend recently wrote in the weibo.

　　从正月初七开始，中国各地陆续开始春节后上班。许多返乡过年的上班族纷纷“返城”。在山东开往兰州的列车上，“80后”青年刘刚川有些伤感地对记者说：“天还不亮，爸妈就起床帮我收拾行李，吃的、穿的，塞了两个大行李包；离家的时候，又千叮咛万嘱咐，看着他们日渐苍老的容颜，我觉得自己很不孝。”

Starting from the 7th day,Across China have started to work after the Spring Festival.Many villages of the workers in succession"Back to the city".On the train for lanzhou in shandong,"After 80"Some youth LiuGangChuan wistfully told reporters:"It was not bright,My parents got up to help me pack up,To eat/Wear of the,Plug the two big bags;When away from home,QianDingNing than charged again,Watching them growing old appearance,I feel very unfilial."

　　快30岁的刘刚川从山东农村考入兰州一所大学，研究生毕业后供职于兰州某科研单位。“离家太远了，回去一趟要一天一夜还多，从上学开始，每年只能在春节这样的大节日里回家一趟。”刘刚川说，从农村到城市，从故乡到远方，他一直没有找准位置，感觉一直在漂泊。

Fast LiuGangChuan, 30, from shandong rural was admitted to a university in lanzhou,Graduate work after graduation from lanzhou some scientific research units."Too far away from home,Go back to a trip to a day and a night,Starting from the school,Only in such a big festival every year go home a visit."LiuGangChuan said,From rural to urban,Far away from home,He has not get the position,Feeling has been drifting.

　　在中国“80后”群体中，像刘刚川这样的“游子”很多。有人说，“80后”实际上是漂泊的一代，许多人在初中和高中时就要住校，更多的人读大学时在外省，毕业后独自在异乡打拼。算下来，很多人自从12岁读初一开始，就很少有时间陪伴父母了。

In China,"After 80"In the group,Like LiuGangChuan"Take you in"A lot of.Some people say that,"After 80"In fact is the drifting generation,Many people in residence at the junior and senior high school,More and more people in other provinces in the university,Alone in foreign land after graduation.Count down,A lot of people since 12 years old to read the first,Rarely have time to accompany their parents.

　　目前，这些只能在春节等重大传统节日才能和父母长辈团聚的外漂人群被社会称为“节孝族”。春节前，他们不畏劳累，跻身返乡大军；假期结束，他们又告别父母，重新踏上异乡谋生之路。

At present,These can only in the Spring Festival and other major traditional festivals to parents and elders together outside of the floating population are called by the society"Filial piety family section".Before the Spring Festival,They are not afraid of tired,Joined the army returning;The end of the holiday,They said goodbye to parents,Back on the road to a foreign land to make a living.

　　甚至有人这样测算：“假如你父母60岁，中国人均寿命72岁。如果你父母能活到80岁，你还能陪他们20年。如果你每年回家一次，每次陪父母6天，每天陪父母11小时，每年你能陪他们66小时。20年×66小时／年=1320小时，1320小时／24小时／天=55天。”

There is even such estimates:"If you parents to 60 years old,China's average life expectancy of 72 years old.If your parents can live to be 80,You can also accompany them for 20 years.If you go home once a year,Each time to accompany their parents 6 days,Accompany parents 11 hours a day,You can accompany them 66 hours a year.For 20 years x 66 / year = 66 hours,1320 hours = 55 days / 24 hours/day."

　　根据《中国统计年鉴》，出生于20世纪80年代的中国人口有2.04亿之多。这批人的成长也伴随着中国改革开放30多年的发展。随着城市化进程加快，“80后”一代人因为上学或工作的原因离开家乡成为“都市人”，但是他们的父母大多留在“乡土”。每到春节，这种“都市”儿女和“乡土”父母的重逢形成了独特的“中国式尽孝”。

According to the[China statistical yearbook],Born in the 1980 s as many as 204 million of the population of China.This batch of people grow up also with the development of China's reform and opening up 30 years.With the accelerating the urbanization process,"After 80"Generation for reasons to leave home to go to school or work become"City people",But most of their parents"local".Every Spring Festival,This kind of"The city"Their children and"local"Parents reunited to form a unique"Chinese filial".

　　网友“小时0708”在微博说：“天未明，便踏上南去的列车。我知道背后的黑暗中，有注视我的眼睛，目送我消失在路口的转角。而后这目光便随着距离与时间变为深深的思念与盼望。似乎从大学开始，便每年都有这样的道别。父母在，不远行。我自知有愧……”这些被称为“节孝族”的漂泊一代正面临“在离别中守望亲情”的窘境。

Net friend"0708 hours"In micro bo said:"Day is unknown,Set foot on the south to train.I know that behind the darkness,Have to look at my eyes,After my disappeared at the corner of intersection.Then the eyes was with distance and time into deep thoughts and hope.Seems to start university,Every year it farewell.Parents in the,Don't travel.I knew that he was guilty……"These are known as"Filial piety family section"The drifting generation is facing"Watch the family in the parting"The dilemma of.

　　甘肃省心理咨询师学会副会长兼秘书长莫兴邦说，“节孝族”的出现，是社会发展的必然规律，中国式大迁徙也无法回避。古语所谓“父母在，不远游”，这里的“远”是基于远古时期交通、信息极不发达的“远”，而如今，电话、电脑、微信等通讯手段的普及，“远”看似在天边，也可以说近在眼前。常打电话、常与父母沟通也是尽孝的一部分。

Psychological consultant, gansu province, vice President and secretary-general of Chinese said,"Filial piety family section"The emergence of,Is an inexorable law governing social development,Chinese migration is also unable to avoid.The old saying called"Parents in the,Not to travel",here"far"Is based on the traffic in ancient time/Information is highly developed"far",now,The phone/The computer/The popularity of communication means such as micro letter,"far"Appears to be in a corner of the sky,Is just around the corner.Often make a phone call/Often communicate with their parents is a part of filial.

　　莫兴邦认为，年轻人应化“难尽孝”为力量，在城乡一体化的进程中努力创造和父母团圆敬孝的条件。从某种角度说，这比起那些围在父母身边的“啃老族”，“远游”更让父母骄傲。

Don't Chinese think,Young people should be change"Difficult to filial"For the power,In the process of urban-rural integration efforts to create conditions of JingXiao reunion with my parents.In some ways,This compared to those around their parents"neets","travel"More let parents proud.

　　莫兴邦同时也建议，各方也应积极推进假日改革，使得休假不仅集中在春节和“十一”的两个七天，以避免出现“节孝族”的窘境。

　　莫兴邦At the same time也建议,All parties should also actively promote the reform of the holiday,Make vacation and not only focused on the Spring Festival"eleven"Two of the seven days,To avoid"Filial piety family section"The dilemma of.