领着微薄的工资，承担着强度较大的工作，为了追梦而苦苦拼搏……近日华中科大的一项暑期社会实践调查发现，超过2/3“蚁族”因为工作等原因情绪低落，还有人面临来自父母的压力，“谈婚色变”。

Took a small salary，Responsible for the work of strength is greater，In order to endeavor and work hard……Recently the central China university of a summer social practice survey found，More than two-thirds“Ant family”For reasons such as work down，And people are parental pressure，“Color change to talk about marriage”。

现象：父母频催“夜班男”找对象 phenomenon：Parents PinCui“Night shift male”Seek object

　　晚上6点，小何西村的出租屋内，刘雨（化名）接到单位发来的短信，上面列举了十几个地址，这是他当晚要去安装、调试网线的客户。28岁的刘雨两年前大学毕业，上夜班对他来说是家常便饭，因为晚上上班白天睡觉，他至今没有谈恋爱，业余也是与电脑为伴上网打发时间。近来，父母却频频催他找对象，他说自己“心理快崩溃了”。

At 6 o 'clock in the evening，In the west village, so XiaoHe article，However liu yu（aliases）The text messages sent from the unit，Ten several address listed above，This is that he will go to the installation、Commissioning of the cable customers。However liu yu 28 years of age two years ago graduate from the university，On the night shift for him is the norm，Because the work at sleep in the daytime，He has not yet had a fall in love，Amateur and computer company Internet kill time。recent，Parents are frequently find object push him，He said he“Psychological quick collapse”。

　　住在石牌岭石建村的女生小敏去年才大学毕业，目前在大型酒店工作的她常常要忙到凌晨才下班，根本没时间恋爱，更别说婚姻大事了。她说，自己回家的路上总是孤苦伶仃，就连晚上睡觉也要开着灯才心里踏实。

Live in the ling ling stone JianCun girl XiaoMin just graduated from the university last year，At present in large hotel work of she often busy finished work until the wee hours of the morning，No time for love，Don't even say marriage。She said，His way home his nephew coriolano always，Even the evening sleep to opening the lamp to heart steadfast。

专家：社会发展令毕业生面临新尴尬 experts：Social development make graduates face the new embarrassed

　　近期，华中科大经济学院大二学生孔营豪和他的队友们发放有效问卷288份，对小何西村、石牌岭石建村和东湖新村等“蚁族村”调查发现，超过2/3“蚁族”不满工资待遇，心理沮丧。孔营豪介绍，很多“蚁族”居住环境较差，同时由于收入较低，他们缺乏自信心，部分人也缺乏追求爱情的勇气。

recent，The central China university school of economics KongYing sophomore house and his teammates extend effective questionnaires，I XiaoHe to、Ling ling stone JianCun and east lake xincun, etc“Ant family village”The survey found，More than two-thirds“Ant family”Dissatisfaction salary，Psychological depression。KongYing house introduces，many“Ant family”Living environment is bad，And because the income is low，They lack of confidence，Some people also lack courage of the pursuit of love。

　　湖北大学教育学院叶显发教授认为，随着社会的高速发展，传统意义上大学毕业找工作然后结婚生子的规律被打破。对那些留在大城市奋斗的“蚁族”而言，由于经济条件等原因，暂时面临婚恋的一些尴尬情况，这需要他们的家人更多地体谅，并转变传统观念。他表示，“蚁族”中也有一些打拼成功的例子，他们应尽量对感情问题保持乐观心态。

Hubei university education college show hair, says professor，With the rapid development of society，The traditional university graduation looking for work and then marriage and rules are broken。For those who stay in big cities of struggle“Ant family”in，Because economic conditions, and other reasons，Temporary marriage of some embarrassed situation faced，This need their family more understanding，And change the traditional ideas。He said，“Ant family”There is also some beat up examples of success，They should try to emotional problem optimistic attitude。