安女士的女儿常在家打游戏，视力下降明显。 Ms Ann the daughter of playing games often，Vision loss obviously。

　　网络、电子产品的发展普及，改变了人们的生活方式，闭门不出便能“知”天下，催生宅男、宅女一族。追逐这种“时髦”的还有孩子们，他们看电视看不够，迷恋电子游戏，成为“宅童”。缺乏锻炼，体质变差；不与外界接触，性格变得孤僻……“宅童”现象令人担忧。 这个暑假你的孩子宅在家里了吗？

network、The development of the electronic product popularization，Change the way people live，Can walk out the door and“know”The world，Ecbolic home guy、Curtilage female gens。Chasing the“fashionable”Are the children，They watch TV watching is not enough，Infatuated with electronic game，become“Curtilage child”。Lack of exercise，Constitution becomes poor；No contact with the outside world，Personality become withdrawn……“Curtilage child”Phenomenon worrying。 This summer vacation your child at home in the home？

　　

一儿一女都宅在家里 A son and daughter are curtilage at home

　　杨文梅，全职家庭主妇。作为两个孩子的妈妈，曾经是老师的她，在教育孩子的问题上颇有感触。

YangWenMei，Full-time housewife。As the mother of two children，Once she is a teacher，In the education of children there is quite a different experience。

　　“应该说，男孩比较难管一点。”杨女士的儿子小伟今年8岁，上小学一年级。每到寒暑假期，喜欢看动画片的小伟就会宅在家中抱着电脑不放。《喜羊羊与灰太狼》、《海绵宝宝》、《蓝精灵》……由于在网上观看动画片不受时间和剧集的限制，小伟经常一看就是两三个小时，即便是杨文梅叫他吃饭也是充耳不闻。

“Should say，The boy is hard to manage a little。”Ms. Xiuzhu son small wei 8 years old this year，The elementary school in grade one。Each to continual holiday，Like watching cartoon little wei will house hold in the home computer doesn't put。《Pleasant goat and grey Wolf too》、《spongebob》、《blue》……Due to watch the cartoon with time and the show restrictions，Small wei often a see be two to three hours，Even YangWenMei that he may eat bread is deaf。

　　而年龄稍长的姐姐小洋，则更偏爱读书。每每到了假期，小洋都会拿着妈妈给办的借书卡到省会图书大厦借书看。一个暑假下来，小洋通常会读二三十本书。由于长时间的近距离看书，12岁的小洋已经戴上了眼镜。

And a little sister long age，The preference for reading。Often arrive the holidays，Little will take mom give do library CARDS to the provincial capital book building borrow books look。A summer break down，Little usually read twenty or thirty book。Because of the long time close reading，12 years old little has been put on the glasses。

　　

孩子撒谎偷着玩游戏 Children lie steal to play the game

　　安军丽与老公都在公交公司工作，平时工作十分忙。这个暑假安军丽所在的路队要实施6s管理系统，连周末都要加班更无暇照顾6岁的女儿乐乐（化名）。

AnJunLi and husband are in transit company，Work at ordinary times is very busy。This summer in the way AnJunLi teams to implement 6 s management system，Even the weekend all want to work overtime no more care six-year-old daughter lele（aliases）。

　　安军丽介绍，女儿被奶奶带着，奶奶又要忙活家务，平常根本没时间带孙女出去玩。乐乐除了每周上7个小时的辅导课之外，其余时间都在家里用电脑、手机玩游戏。

AnJunLi introduced，Daughter was grandma with，Grandma and to get busy living the housework，Common didn't time to bring granddaughter go out to play。Lele except for a week 7 hours outside a tutorial，The rest of the time all in the home to use the computer、Mobile phones play games。

　　通过笔记本电脑，她玩一种跑步比赛的游戏。玩起来什么都忘了，连奶奶叫她吃饭都听不见。只好连哄带骗，她才上餐桌。没吃几口又去玩了。无奈，安女士只好将笔记本电脑藏起来，但乐乐拿起手机玩“连连看”、“水果忍者”等游戏。有一次，奶奶见孙女玩得又不吃饭了，就强行没收了手机。没过一会儿，孩子向奶奶撒谎，说给妈妈打个电话。没想到，孩子拿到手机又偷偷地去玩了。

Through the notebook computer，She play a running game。Play what all forget，Even the grandma called her to hear。Had to even bring into cheat，She was at the table。Didn't eat a few mouth and to play。but，Ms Ann had to laptop computers and hide，But lele pick up the phone to play“See repeatedly”、“Fruit ninja”Game such as。once，Grandma see granddaughter had again not to eat，It forced confiscated the mobile phone。After a few minutes，The child to grandma lying，Mother said to make a phone call。Didn't expect，Children get cell phone and secretly to play。

　　

“宅童”现象令人忧 “Curtilage child”Phenomena are sorrow

　　近日，比如世界与艾索儿童研究咨询公司联合发布《2012年城市儿童快乐指数报告》。该报告的形成历时近两个月，在北京、上海、广州、沈阳等十个城市进行随机抽样调查。报告指出，儿童成长环境一个明显特征是线上娱乐吞食线下娱乐。现在随着网络、电子产品的发展，孩子除了看电视，又迷恋电子游戏，让很多孩子成为“宅童”。

recently，Such as the world--and the children's research and consulting company jointly issued《2012 cities children happy index report》。The report form lasted nearly two months，In Beijing、Shanghai、guangzhou、Shenyang ten cities such as random sampling。The report points out that，Children's growth environment an obvious character is online entertainment swallowed offline entertainment。Now, with the network、The development of electronic products，Children in addition to watch TV，And infatuated with electronic games，Let many children become“Curtilage child”。

　　研究显示，儿童看电视、看动漫、上网玩游戏的比例非常高。对孩子拥有产品或使用过服务的研究显示， 7岁以上的儿童，有63.7%使用QQ，17.9%拥有Ipad，网络和电子产品对孩子的影响非常明显。

Research shows that，Children watch TV、Watch anime、The proportion of online gaming is very high。Children have to use a product or service research shows， 7 years old children，63.7% use QQ，17.9% have Ipad，Network and electronic products to the child the influence is very obvious。

　　线下娱乐活动的严重缺失，是儿童运动能力下降、肥胖症、近视比例增长及低龄化趋势的罪魁祸首。而对网络及电子产品的过多接触甚至导致儿童焦虑、自闭的心理不健康。

Offline entertainment serious lack，Is children's sports ability、obesity、Myopia proportion and DiLingHua trend growth of the culprit。And for Internet and electronic products and even cause too much contact child anxiety、Since closed psychology did not healthy。

　　无独有偶。一项针对北京、上海等五个城市5400名小学生的户外活动调查显示，上海儿童户外活动时间仅为0.74小时，远低于5个城市的平均水平1.06小时。写作业时间却最长，平均为2.24小时。上海孩子被媒体称为“最宅儿童”。

similarly。According to Beijing、Shanghai five cities in 5400 pupils of outdoor activity survey，Shanghai children's outdoor activities for only 0.74 hours，Far below the average level of the five city 1.06 hours。Writing assignments have the longest time，An average of 2.24 hours。Shanghai media called children“The most curtilage children”。

　　

长时间玩游戏视力明显下降 Long time to play the game had significantly reduced vision

　　在记者的调查中，很多“宅童”极容易孤独、自闭，缺少抗挫力、意志力，不知如何合作如何竞争，太自我。相反，让孩子参与到同伴的游戏中，更能学到合作精神及竞争意识。

With the reporter's investigation，many“Curtilage child”Extremely easy to lonely、close，Amid the lack of resistance force、will，Don't know how to cooperation how to competition，Too much ego。instead，Let the child in the game to partner，More can learn cooperation spirit and sense of competition。

　　跆拳道班、拉丁舞班、游泳班……杨文梅根据孩子们的爱好，在假期中分别为两个孩子报了不同的兴趣班。在不去上课的时候，杨文梅则会带着孩子们到省会各大公园去游玩，去写生，让他们感受美丽的风景。

Kickboxing class、Latin dance class、Swimming class……YangWenMei according to the children's interests，In holiday respectively for two children called the different interest class。In not to the class，YangWenMei will take the children to the park to play provincial capital，Go to the pictures，Let them feel the beauty of the landscape。

　　随着今年暑假的来临，杨文梅又有了新动作。老家在沈阳的她，从放假伊始就把两个孩子带回老家农村居住。“在城市里生活久了，一定要让孩子们看看田园风光的美丽。”杨文梅表示，孩子们对于这次远行非常兴奋，认识了很多平常根本无暇触及的农作物和家畜。看着儿女每天跟着老人在农田里跑来跑去，杨文梅很是开心。“想让孩子们不宅在家中，我可谓是煞费苦心啊！”

With the advent of this summer，YangWenMei has a new movement。In her hometown of shenyang，From the start of the holiday the two children back to their hometown rural living。“In the city life long，Must let the kids to see the beauty of the countryside。”YangWenMei said，The children for that trip very exciting，Know many common touch it is not the crops and livestock。Children with the old man looked at every day in the farmland ran，YangWenMei is very happy。“Want to let the children house in the home，I it is painstakingly ah！”

　　但安军丽就有些犯愁了，她说，孩子这么疯狂地玩，视力明显下降，“晚上回家，我让跟我出去散步，她还不愿意。好说歹说她才放下游戏。”最后，安军丽说，女儿马上就要上小学了，但现在这状态让她伤透了脑筋，“又不能放下工作，可不管孩子又不行！该咋办啊！”

But AnJunLi is some anxious，She said，Children so crazy to play，Had significantly reduced vision，“Go home at night，I let go out with me for a walk，She is not willing to。Persuasion she just let go of the game。”finally，AnJunLi said，Soon the daughter in elementary school，But now the state let her break of brains，“And can't leave work，But whether children and not！Do ah！”

　　

追因 Chase for

　　

主客观原因同时造就了“宅童” At the same time makes the subjective and objective reasons“Curtilage child”

　　河北师范大学教育学院心理系教授牧新义认为，所谓“宅童”，是指喜欢“猫”在家里，整天沉迷于网络的青少年，这些孩子不喜欢运动，没有其他爱好，更没有时间学习，他们把所有最美好的时光都交给了虚拟的网络。“宅童”的产生，跟家庭教育、孩子本身以及周围环境都有重要关系。

Hebei normal university education college professor of psychology priest that new meanings，The so-called“Curtilage child”，Refers to like“The cat”At home，Internet addiction among all day of teenagers，These children don't like sports，No other interest，More don't have the time to study，They put all the best days are to the virtual network。“Curtilage child”generation，And family education、The child itself and the surrounding environment all have important relationship。

　　牧新义说，对刚刚上小学的孩子来说，家长们会从安全性及消费能力等多个方面有所顾虑，一般会期待孩子能够在假期中宅在家里，这么做会比较“省心”。但随着时间的推移，孩子们会自然而然地形成习惯，一到假期就不愿出门了。

Shepherd said the new meanings，To just primary school children speaking，Parents may from safety and consumption ability to worry, etc，Generally expect children can in holiday home at home，To do so would be“Save worry”。But with the passage of time，The children will naturally formed a habit，A vacation is to won't go out。

　　通过网络，孩子们在家中所接触到的信息越来越丰富，从其中享受到的快乐也越来越多。这对于自我控制能力稍差的孩子来说，很容易沉溺于其中不能自拔。尤其是诸如丢手绢、滚铁环这类传统游戏的逐渐消失，让孩子们越发开始从虚拟世界中寻找快乐。此外，家中的舒适性和自由性，也会让孩子们喜欢宅在家中。

Through the network，The children in the home of the contact with the information more and more colorful，From which enjoy the happiness also more and more。This ability to self control is a bit poor children speaking，Very easy to indulge in which can't from pull out。Especially handkerchief such as lost、This kind of traditional game rolling iron rings of gradually disappear，Let the children start from the more virtual world looking for happiness。In addition，The home comfort and freedom，Also can make the children like curtilage in the home。

　　当家长们感觉孩子应该多出去走走时，却经常会让孩子去参与大人之间的活动，这类活动很多孩子会感觉到隔膜，不愿去参加。即便是家长为孩子选择了一些兴趣课程，孩子也会因不喜欢而拒绝参与。

When the parents feel children should be to get out，But often leave the children to participate in the activities between adults，This kind of activity many children may feel the diaphragm，Don't want to go to。Even if the parents for the children choose some interest in the course，Children will also because don't like and refused to participate in。

　　宅在家中看电视、上网玩游戏、不与他人说话……牧新义认为，如果长此以往，对孩子的性格及身心发育都会造成一定的影响。

House at TV at home、On the Internet to play the game、Don't talk with others……Priest that new meanings，If in the long run，The character of the child and body and mind development will produce certain effect。

　　

让孩子到户外参加有益的活动 Let the child to outdoor to useful activities

　　“走出去，参加适合孩子并且有益的活动！”同很多家长一样，牧新义认为，家长们应该学会和孩子沟通交流，并鼓励孩子到户外去参加有益的活动，多培养孩子的兴趣。如果能多与外界接触，和同龄的孩子经常交流，减少面对电脑电视的时间，对于正在发育的孩子来说非常有利。

“Go out，For children to attend and beneficial activities！”As with many parents，Priest that new meanings，Parents should learn to communicate and children，And encourage children to go outside to attend useful activities，Many a child's interest。If can contact with the more，And the children of the same age often exchange，Reduce face computer TV time，For growing children it's very favorable。

　　牧新义说，在感兴趣的基础上，培养孩子积极向上的特长，以特长的发展带动孩子自信心的成长，便可以带动孩子的健康成长。与此同时，孩子的爱好也会更加广泛。爱好多了，孩子在电脑电视上的注意力自然会有所分散。此外，有了共同的兴趣爱好，也会认识更多的同龄人，这样的成长环境，是孩子成长不能缺少的一部分。

Shepherd said the new meanings，On the basis of interest，Train the children to positive specialty，With the development of specialty drive the growth of the children self-confidence，He can promote the healthy growth of children。At the same time，The child's interest will be a more extensive。Hobby much，Children in the computer on TV attention wandered will naturally。In addition，Have a common interest，Know more peers，That growth environment，Is not part of the growth of children。

　　牧新义指出，合适的活动场所、积极向上的公益活动，都是社会及成人应该多为孩子考虑的。激发儿童智力和兴趣的游戏、看望孤寡老人的爱心行动、各类公益善举……这些对孩子身心健康非常有促进性的活动，都需要大人去组织协调。牧新义希望，在繁忙的工作之余，家长们应该多从孩子的角度出发，去积极为孩子们创造最合适的户外环境。

Shepherd pointed out that the new meanings，The activities of the right places、Positive public welfare activity，Is society, adult should consider for the child。Inspire children's intelligence and interested in the game、Visit the childless old love action、All kinds of public good deeds……The physical and mental health of children is very promote sex activity，All need adult to organization and coordination。Shepherd new meanings of hope，In the busy of work，Parents should be more from the point of view of children，To actively for children to create the most appropriate outdoor environment。

　　

建议 suggest

　　

如此应对“宅童”的形成 So deal with“Curtilage child”formation

　　相关儿童教育专家也表示，把“宅童”从虚拟世界拉回到现实世界中，并不是件容易的事儿。一味的管教，处理不好还会激起他们的反感和愤怒。其实，孩子们也知道自己这样做不对，只是父母缺少一些正确的方法来帮助他们下决心远离电脑，应对“宅童”，有以下几招：

Related education experts also said children，the“Curtilage child”From the virtual world back to the real world，And is not easy。Blindly discipline，Processing not still will arouse their disgust and anger。In fact，The children also know yourself to do this right，Only parents lacking some proper ways to help them is determined to far away from the computer，Deal with“Curtilage child”，Have the following a few action：

　　1、召开家庭会。与孩子平等地讨论课余时间使用的方式和方法；“坚持-修改-再坚持”，最终找到适合于自己家的方法。

1、Family held。And children equal and discuss the use of spare time way and method；“Insist on-modified-hold on”，Eventually find suitable for home method。

　　2、制定假期计划或作息时间安排计划。通过计划来保证孩子完成自己应该完成的工作，也就是“守住底线”。

2、Make vacation plans or calendar arrangement plan。Through the plans to ensure to finish their children should be completed work，Also is“Keep the bottom line”。

　　3、培养孩子积极向上的特长。以特长的发展带动孩子自信心的成长，以点带面，带动孩子健康成长。一个积极向上的特长能够使人受益终生。

3、Train the children to positive specialty。With the development of specialty drive the growth of the children self-confidence，From point to area，Drive the healthy growth of children。A positive specialty can make the person for a lifetime。

　　4、培养孩子广泛的爱好。广泛的爱好能分散孩子的注意力，避免孩子沉迷于某项单一的事件中，避免上瘾。

4、Cultivate the child widely hobby。Extensive hobbies can spread the child's attention，Avoid children indulge in a single incident，Avoid addictive。

　　5、为孩子寻找伙伴。同龄人的陪伴是孩子不能缺少的成长环境，积极健康的同伴关系就是孩子健康成长的灵丹妙药。

5、Looking for a partner for the child。The company of peers is children cannot lack growing environment，Positive health peer relationship is the healthy growth of children, "he said。

　　

支招 support

　　

你的孩子是“宅童”吗？ Your child is“Curtilage child”?？

　　相关专家表示，如你的孩子有下列行为之一，或许就有“宅童”的趋势了。您要和孩子好好交流一下。

Related experts say，If your child has one of following action，probably“Curtilage child”Trend of the。You want to and children a good exchange。

　　1、只要孩子在家，除了吃饭几乎都在玩电脑、玩手机、看电视。

1、As long as children at home，In addition to eat in almost all playing on the computer、cellphone、Watching TV。

　　2、除了玩以上的东西，几乎没有其他的兴趣爱好。

2、In addition to playing the above things，Almost no other interests。

　　3、玩电脑时，家长要求停止，会大发脾气。

3、When playing computer，Parents' request to stop，NLL。

　　4、不愿意参加任何社交活动，包括和父母一起去爷爷奶奶家。

4、Do not wish to participate in any social activities，Including parents and grandparents'。

　　5、不完成作业、逃学甚至到网吧中玩。

5、Don't finish the homework、Even to the Internet bar in playing truant。

　　6、半夜时还爬起来偷偷玩电脑、手机。

6、Midnight when still get up secretly computers、Mobile phone。