独生子女太胆小怎么办？一名家长竟然逼孩子虐待兔子，以此练胆量。近日，武汉某教育论坛上的这则帖子引来不少网友炮轰。

Only children too timid to do？A parent should force their child abuse the rabbit，Practice courage to。recently，Wuhan education BBS a on the post is not a few net friend from work。

网帖：小孩手掐拳打兔子 Nets for：The child his hands on his punch the rabbit

　　网友“常趣败家”发帖陈述自己的见闻：在小区里溜达时，他看见一个小孩用手掐、用拳头打小兔子，很是残忍。他上前询问原因，小孩答：“妈妈让我打的，我也不想打。”他跟孩子妈妈聊天得知，这位母亲觉得儿子胆子太小，就想到用这个方法来锻炼他的胆量。

the“Often dull spends”Present their post informed：Strolling in the community，He saw a child with his hands on his stomach、Punching, little rabbit，Is very cruel。He came and asked why，Kid a：“My mother asked me a taxi，I also don't want to play。”His mother with children learned that chat，The mother felt son courage is too small，Thought of using this method to exercise his courage。

　　此帖一发，立刻引来网友们炮轰，不少人认为这位家长的做法荒唐、极端、可怕。

This post at，Immediately draws net friends cannon，Many people think that the parents of the practice of the absurd、extreme、terrible。

调查：练胆方式五花八门 survey：Lian bravery way is multifarious

　　记者采访中发现，家长让孩子练胆的方式五花八门。

The reporter interviews found，Parents let children practice of bravery way is multifarious。

　　武昌刘先生介绍，他见过让孩子“虐待”金鱼练胆量的。“我的一个朋友嫌孩子太内向、怕事，便买金鱼让他使劲捏，有好多鱼被玩死了。”刘先生说，这个孩子后来胆量虽然大了，但喜欢与别的小朋友打架，非常暴力。

Wuchang George liu，He had seen let children“abuse”Goldfish practice of nerve。“One of my friends too children too shy、PaShi，And he tried to buy the goldfish let knead，There is a lot of fish are played dead。”Mr Liu said，The child later courage though，But like other children and fight，Very violent。

　　记者在网上搜索看到，还有去游乐场看“妖魔鬼怪”、“与狼同笼”等令人咂舌的练胆量法。一位父亲让3岁的孩子站在摩托车踏板上，自己驾车“东摇西晃”四处穿梭，孩子被吓得哇哇大哭这位父亲称“在给孩子练胆”。

Reporter in online search to see，And going to an amusement park to see“Evil spirits”、“And Wolf with cage”Such disturbing sucks the tongue of the training method of courage。A father let 3 years old children stood in the motorcycle pedal，driving“East west shake wave”Shuttle around，The child was frightened into his father says the“For children in practice bravery”。

专家：勇敢不能“速成” experts：Brave can't“crash”

　　眼下，部分独生子女确实存在胆量小的问题。对此，省特级教师、武昌解放桥小学校长孙民说，小孩子的胆量应在生活中逐步积累，随年龄阶段的不同而循序渐进。如在小学一、二年级时让孩子尝试着不怕黑、自己睡。“衡量胆量的大小并不是看你敢去干什么。这位家长的做法容易让孩子产生暴力倾向、形成对生命不尊重等负面性格。”

For now，Part of the single children do exist courage small problems。this，Province grade teacher、XieFangQiao wuchang school ChangSunMin said，Children should be the courage of life in accumulating，Along with the age of different and it step by step。As in a primary school、Second grade let children try to afraid of the dark、Their sleep。“To measure the size of the courage and not see you dare to do。The parents of the practice of the easy let children become violent、The formation of life not respect and negative character。”

　　省特级教师、武昌实验小学校长张基广认为“逼伢虐待兔子练胆”的做法不可思议。“教育孩子应从真善美三个方面去引导。这种极端扭曲的教育方法，不但不能提高孩子的胆量，反而会给孩子造成伤害、留下心理阴影，使孩子变得残酷冷漠无情。”他说，勇敢不能速成，不要刻意去练。应该让孩子在自然环境中磨练毅力，放手让孩子独立处理问题，在社会交往的过程中胆量自然就会提高。(楚天都市报讯 记者 罗欣 实习生 邹红 陈楠 周书粲)

Province grade teacher、Experimental primary school principals ZhangJiGuang think wuchang“Force Ya abuse the rabbit practice bravery”Practice is incredible。“Education child should three aspects to guide the beauty。This extreme distorted education method，Not only can improve the children of nerve，It will cause harm to children、Leave psychological shadow，Make the child be cruel indifference。”He said，Brave can't crash，Do not try to practice。Should let their children in the natural environment, develop perseverance，Let children deal with problems，In social contacts in the process of courage will naturally grow。(Hunan day metropolis daily reporter LuoXin interns ZouGong ChenNan week ruled book)