为父母松绑为孩子减压《天才进化论》之"大智若愚"上线 For the parents for the children easing pressure《Genius evolution》of"The wisest man often seems stupid"online

        送走了华丽涅槃的天才少年吴腾远，《天才进化论》第四集故事又迎来了机灵小学生翟晓杰。本集故事于7月26日在网络上播出，将剧情焦点聚集在父母对孩子的教育方式上，讲述了翟晓杰不堪父母期盼和压力，只能装弱智来逃避学习的爆笑故事。广大网友看过本集故事，纷纷在网络上留言交流，讲述自己身边类似的故事，并发起对科学教育孩子方式、方法的探讨。剧情不断触及贴近大众生活的教育热点话题，引发大众共鸣，也使得网友对《天才进化论》的关注度持续走高。

        Off the luxuriant nirvana's boy genius WuTeng far，《Genius evolution》The fourth set, welcome the clever story ZhaiXiaoJie elementary school students。This collection of stories on 26 July in network broadcast，The plot will be focused on the parents and children education on the way，About ZhaiXiaoJie unbearable parents look forward and pressure，Can only be equipped with weak-minded to avoid learning hilarious story。Internet users have seen this sets the story，In succession in network message on communication，Tell your side similar stories，Science education to children and launched way、This method。The plot to closer to the public life of constant touch education hot topics，Stimulate public resonance，Also make to net friend《Genius evolution》The attention of continued high。

中国父母望子成龙已成孩子无法承受之重 Chinese parents these into child cannot afford has weight

　　望子成龙、望女成凤，这是千百年来中国父母的普遍心态。进入新世纪后，社会竞争日益加剧。在许多独生子女家庭，孩子成为了父母唯一的期望。因此，在对孩子的教育上，很多父母便根据自己单方面的想法，将很多自己未完成的理想和心愿强加到孩子身上。

competitive、Looked female ChengFeng，This is one thousand years Chinese parents the general state of mind。Enter the new century，Social growing competition。In many one-child family，Children become parents only expectations。so，In the education of children，Many parents according to their own unilateral and ideas，Will a lot on their unfinished ideal and wish to impose to children。

　　一项调查显示，上海市区和郊区共有57.8%的父母要求孩子“样样争第一”，市区77.9%的父母希望自己的孩子达到大专及大专以上学历；对于孩子的职业，市区91.8%的父母希望自己的孩子从事脑力劳动。还有更多的家长虽然没有明确提出具体要求，但仍希望孩子出人头地，各领域拔尖。还有调查数据显示，在全国其他城市也存在同样的问题。可见，父母对孩子期望过高已成为一种很普遍的社会现象。过高的期待和压力让各方面都还稚嫩的孩子完全不堪重负，这样因期望过高引起的孩子叛逆和家庭矛盾问题在我们身边也时有出现。《天才进化论》第四集“大智若愚”就生动地讲述了一个不堪父母压力，最终选择装弱智来逃避学习的“笨小孩”的故事。

An investigation shows that，Shanghai urban and suburban a total of 57.8% of the parents want their children“Everything for the first”，The 77.9% of parents hope their children to college and the college degree or above；For a child's career，The 91.8% of parents hope their children engaged in mental work。There are more parents although no clear specific requirements，But still hope that the child to come to the top，Every field top。And survey data show，In the other city also has the same problem。visible，The parents and children expect too much has become a very common social phenomenon。High expectations and pressures let all aspects are still young children completely overwhelmed，So expect too much of the child caused by rebels and problems in our family conflicts around has also appeared。《Genius evolution》The fourth set“The wisest man often seems stupid”Is lively story about a unbearable parents pressure，Final choice outfit to escape the mentally handicapped learning“Stupid kid”story。

　　剧中，翟晓杰曾经因为一次考试退步而遭到父亲的体罚，心生恐惧的他从此开始了假装弱智的生活。不明就里的父母心急如焚，带着他来到了学大辅导中心，期望能借助学大老师的力量找到解决之道。老师们在机缘巧合之下，发现了晓杰假装弱智的原因，并决定和他共同守护这个秘密。最终，在麻辣老师们的悉心辅导下，晓杰成绩进步明显。以往要求尽善尽美的父母，面对晓杰刚刚及格的三张试卷，竟然也欣喜若狂。最后，在各种机缘巧合下，秘密被揭穿，父母明白了晓杰的苦衷，同时也反思了自己在教育方式上的失误。

the，ZhaiXiaoJie once for a test by the setback father corporal punishment，Mind fear he pretend to be the beginning of a retarded life。Uninformed parents worried，He came to learn with big counseling center，Expect to use the power of the big teacher to learn to find the solution。The teachers in under the chance occurrences，Find XiaoJie pretended to the cause of the mentally handicapped，And decided to protect the secret and he common。finally，A spicy teachers in raising the coach the，XiaoJie grades improved。Previous requirements of the perfect parents，XiaoJie just pass the face of three papers，Unexpectedly also was mad with joy。finally，In all kinds of chance occurrences，Secret was revealed，Parents understand XiaoJie difficulties，At the same time also reflects on her education in the errors in the way。

　　结局皆大欢喜，但很大观众看后都表示，这集剧情引发了他们对家庭教育的思考。我们的家庭教育究竟是哪里出了问题？其实，正是父母望子成龙之心太切，而让孩子无意中承受不可抗拒之巨大压力。

Happy ending，But after the audience sees a said，This sets the plot of family education caused their thinking。Our family education what is wrong？In fact，It is the heart of these parents cut too，And let the child accidentally under great pressure of force majeure。

因材施教为父母松绑为孩子减压 Teach students in accordance with their aptitude for the parents for the children easing pressure

　　故事中的晓杰在学大老师的帮助下，摆脱了沉重的压力，赢来了自由成长的权利。然而，现实生活中还有很多不堪重负的孩子和心力交瘁的父母，他们又该如何得到救赎呢？对此，教育专家表示，在尊重和了解孩子个体差异的前提下，设立积极恰当的期待，并尊重孩子的个性，给予孩子选择的权力，家长仅仅是作为家庭教育中的引导者和辅助者，是帮助孩子奋发向上，自由成长的好方法。

The story XiaoJie learning big the help of the teacher，Get rid of the heavy pressure，To win the right to grow up freely。however，Real life and many of the heavy burden of children and parents of burned out，And how should they have salvation？this，Education experts say，In the respect and understand children under the premise of individual differences，An active appropriate looking forward to，And respect the children's personality，Give children the right to choose，Parents is only as a family education of the guide and auxiliaries，Is to help children to go up，Freedom of the growth of the good method。

　　专家还特别强调：在小学和初中阶段，孩子心智尚未成熟，自我约束能力较差，因此需要父母为其设立目标并促进他们前进。父母要有平和的心态，可以根据实际情况和孩子一起制订合适的奋斗目标。如果孩子基础较差，父母前期设定的目标也要低一些，循序渐进。教育心理专家认为，恰当的期待和要求，能对孩子的成长产生“激励效应”，但千万不能操之过急。

The experts also special emphasis on：In elementary school and junior high school stage，The child has not yet mature mind，Self-discipline ability is bad，So parents need to set targets for each and promote them forward。Parent has a gentle state of mind，Can according to the actual conditions and children develop appropriate goal together。If the children foundation is bad，The parents to set goals also lower，Step by step。Education psychology experts say，Appropriate expectations and requirements，Can produce to children's growth“Incentive effect”，But do not to come on too strongly。

　　关于如何对孩子实施个性化教育，《天才进化论》出品人——学大教育CEO金鑫先生有着独到的看法。

About how to implement personalized education for children，《Genius evolution》Exhibitors--learn big education CEO Mr Jinxin has particular view。

　　他认为，教育的主体是学生，教育的本质是促进学生的全面发展。个性化教育就是将每个孩子作为关注的对象，对每个学生因材施教，为每个学生量身打造最适合他的学习方案。学大也在辅导过程中，最大程度地做到了以学生个性为本，不仅帮助学生掌握知识和技能，更帮助孩子建立良好的学习习惯、心态，以及正确的人生观。同时在对每个孩子进行个性化辅导时，都会邀请家长全程参与，倾听孩子的想法。学管师也会与家长保持密切的沟通，及时汇报孩子的学习情况。金鑫先生介绍，翟晓杰的故事在学大教育各地学习中心十分常见。而且剧集也只表现了众多案例的部分典型现象，教育是一个系统工程，个性化教育想要行之有效，还需要做到“家校互动”，家长教育也是个性化教育的一个延伸。很多问题孩子背后通常都有一个有问题的家庭或家长。学大也一直在致力于组织各种形式的“家长课堂”、“家长讲座”帮助家长们了解如何在家中进行个性化教育

He thinks，Education is the main body of the students，The essence of education is to promote the all-round development of students。Personalized education is to develop every child as the object of attention，For students in accordance with their aptitude，For each student's needs to make the most suitable for his study plan。Learn big also in counseling process，The greatest degree did to the student individuality as this，Not only help students to master the knowledge and skills，The more help children establish good habits of study、mentality，And the correct outlook on life。At the same time in every child to personalized coaching，Would invite parents to participate in，Listen to your child's idea。Learn tube division will also maintain close communication with parents，Report the child's learning。Xinhui introduce Mr.，ZhaiXiaoJie story in big education all learning center are very common。And show the numerous case only performance of some typical phenomenon，Education is a systems engineering，Individualized education want to be effective，Still need to do“Home school interaction”，Parents education is an extension of individualized education。Many problems behind children usually have a problem family or parents。Learn big also have been working to organize all kinds of“Parents' classes”、“Parental lecture”Help parents know how in home individualized education

　　深刻的教育话题加上《天才进化论》幽默、风趣的表现手法，更是让人在轻松、愉悦的同时有所收获。很多家长朋友看过本集故事，纷纷留言表示：“作为家长还是要好好和孩子沟通”、“家长要找对教育孩子的方法，不能操之过急。”

Profound education topic plus《Genius evolution》humor、Funny way of expression，It is to let person in easily、Pleasant and have gained。Many parents have seen this story with friends，Said in a message：“As parents or children to take and communication”、“Parents want to find the method of education for children，Cannot act too hastily。”

　　四集故事上线之后，《天才进化论》逐渐迎来播出高峰，广大网友对后续剧集的期待也空前强烈。据发行方介绍，余下六集故事将更加精彩，我们也提醒广大网友千万不要错过。

The four episodes online after the story，《Genius evolution》Gradually broadcast in peak，The net friend on subsequent to the show also stronger than before。According to the issuer is introduced，The remaining six episodes story will be even more exciting，We also remind Internet users don't miss。