暑假过半，原以为漫长的暑假可以增进亲子间的感情，没想到不少亲子关系却在此时亮起了“红灯”。跟这酷热的天气一样，火气甚旺。“哎，父母开始看我不顺眼，我也开始心烦他们了……”近日，有放假在家心烦气躁的学生在微博上发牢骚。记者调查采访发现，原来暑假亲子间关系紧张甚至引爆冲突的并不少见。

Summer more than half，Thought the long summer holidays can improve parent-child relationship of feeling，Didn't expect many parent-child relationship but light up at this time“Red light”。With this hot weather，Very popular anger。“ah，Parents began to see me not pleasing to the eye，I also began to upset them……”recently，A holiday at home QiZao upset the students in micro blog whining。A survey found that interview，The original tension between parent summer detonated the conflict is not a rare even。

烦恼 trouble

孩子的烦恼 The child's troubles

家长一厢情愿报班报营 Parents BanBao camp for wishful thinking

　　暑假长达近两个月，如果能好好安排，那可以是很丰富多彩的。不过，问题就出在“安排”上，到底谁来执行？采访中发现，很多小学生和中学生的暑假安排权，几乎都牢牢掌控在家长手里。

Summer vacation for nearly two months，If can arranged well，That can be very rich and colorful。but，The main problem is that“arrangement”on，Exactly who to execute？Found in an interview with，Many elementary and high school summer vacation arrangement rights，Almost all firmly in control of the parents hand。

　　“暑假对我来说就是去另外一个学校上课。”某重点小学五年级学生陶陶说，为了明年迎战竞争激烈的“小升初”考试，妈妈早在放假前就帮他报名参加补习班，语数英一科不少，每天的时间被排得满满的。“我身边很多同学也有同样遭遇，心里很不爽，但又不敢反抗。”陶陶说，他和同学曾有策划联合逃课，但又怕引起家长更严格的盯梢，所以最终还是放弃了。

“Summer vacation to me is to go to another school。”Some key primary school grade five students some ceramic said，In order to play the fierce competition in the next year“after”exam，Mother in the holiday early before they help him signing up for cram school，A number of the English language, a few，Every day of the time have a full。“I have the same side many students experience，In the mind is very uncomfortable，But can't resist。”Said some ceramic，He and his students had planned joint cut class，But again afraid cause parents more strict Shadowed，So eventually gave up。

　　“孩子平时都在学校住宿，放假了我还真不知怎么跟他相处。”家长肖女士说，儿子向来性格孤僻，连自己都很难跟他沟通，所以决定暑假帮他报一个夏令营。为了给儿子一个惊喜，肖女士亲自到各大教育机构咨询夏令营的线路和内容，最后帮他报了个到北京的科技夏令营，7天的花费近万元。没想到儿子夏令营回来后并不开心，反而责怪肖女士打乱了他的计划，“我对科技并不感兴趣，原想着利用暑假在家写小说，一下思绪完全被打乱了。”而对于儿子的兴趣和计划，肖女士和丈夫却一点都不知晓。

“The child usual in school all accommodation，Had a holiday I really don't know how to get along with him。”Parents shaw lady said，Son always is withdrawn，Even oneself all difficult to communicate with him，So I decided to help his summer vacation for a summer camp。In order to give son a surprise，Ms shaw himself to each big education institutions consultation of the summer camp lines and content，Finally help his report a to Beijing science and technology of the summer camp，Seven days to spend nearly ten thousand yuan。Didn't expect son after come back not happy summer camp，But blame shaw lady upset his plan，“I'm not interested in science and technology，The original thinking about in summer vacation at home writing novels，The feeling was completely disrupted。”For the son interest and plan，Ms shaw and her husband is generally don't know。

家长的烦恼 The parents worry

不惯环境转换闹着回家 Unaccustomed to convert make and home environment

　　采访发现，有些亲子冲突也是在潜移默化中爆发的。林女士的女儿娇娇今年7岁，以前每年暑假，林女士都会送娇娇到河南老家陪爷爷奶奶住一段，今年也不例外，他们全家早早策划好回老家的事情。上个星期，林女士请假陪娇娇到了老家，看起来孩子在那里过得挺开心的，三天后林女士自己回广州，临别前娇娇情绪也无异样。但林女士前脚刚踏进广州家门，娇娇的电话就来了，“妈妈，在这里好无聊，没人陪我玩，我想回去！”这是林女士意想不到的，以前都好好的，怎么今年会这样？

Interview found，Some parent-child conflicts in imperceptible also broke out。Ms Lin daughter jiao jiao 7 years old this year，Before every summer，Ms Lin can send a charming charming to henan home with grandpa's grandmother lived a，This year will be no exception，The family planning early good back to the things。Last week，Ms Lin with charming is charming to leave home，Look where children's had a happy，Three days after ms Lin himself back to guangzhou，Jiao jiao mood before leaving no different。But ms Lin your front foot just step into guangzhou home，Jiao jiao of phone call，“mother，Here is so boring，No one play with me，I'd like to go back to！”This is ms Lin unexpected，Well before，How this year will be like this？

　　后来，林女士自己仔细分析，明白女儿自从上了小学后自我意识强了很多，老人那种单纯的陪伴式照顾，已经无法满足娇娇的需求，“她现在需要有共同语言的人一起交流，一起玩耍。”在离开爸妈的两天里，娇娇吃不香，睡不着，动不动就哭鼻子。林女士怕娇娇这种情绪给老人造成太大的压力，最终还是把娇娇接回了广州。

later，Ms Lin own careful analysis，Understand that the primary school since daughter after a strong sense of self，The old man that simple with type of care，Can not meet jiao jiao of demand，“She now need to have the common language of communication with people，Play together。”In the two days away from parents，Jiao jiao eat not sweet，Can't sleep，Always snivel。Ms Lin afraid of jiao jiao this mood to old people cause too much pressure，Eventually the jiao jiao take back to guangzhou。