早恋曝光全体受罚跑100圈 还原佛山问题少年培训学校现状 Early love all punished ran 100 laps exposure reduction foshan youth training school situation

“变成好孩子，还是不快乐” “Into a good boy，Is not happy”

　　培训分为3个月、6个月、1年三种周期，有人次第离去，也有人陆续进来。

Training is divided into 3 months、Six months、1 year three cycle，Someone left attached，Some have come in。

　　阿群说，习惯就是麻木了，只盼着时间一天一天过去。

O group said，Habit is numb，Just looking forward to the time of day when a day in the past。

　　小谢说，接受是唯一的出路，别无选择。

Embeds said，Accept is the only way out，Have no choice but。

　　小胖则说，习惯了挺好的，没有痛苦，自己也真的得到了改变。

Xiao pang is said，The habit of it，No pain，Oneself also really have changed。

　　“这就是我们想要的效果”，杜利辉分析，这些孩子在英思失去了自由，还得面临日复一日的枯燥培训，必然感到恐惧，这迫使他们不得不改变自己的叛逆，而这些改变恰是父母最想看到的。

“This is what we want to effect”，DuLiHui analysis，The children in the English thought lost their freedom，Still have to face the boring day after day training，Must feel fear，This forced them had to change his rebellious，And these parents want to see change just is。

　　杜利辉称，从2008年到现在，英思培训过的学生将近700人，培训成功率可达77%.“所谓成功，就是家长对孩子的变化感到满意。学生毕业半年内，我们会回访家长，从而判断培训成功还是失败。”

DuLiHui says，From 2008 to the present，The thought of training students to nearly 700，Training success rate can amount to 77%.“success，Is the change of the parents who feel satisfied。Students graduate and a half years，We will visit the parents，To judge training success or failure。”

　　我们随机回访了参加过英思培训的5个家庭，其中3个家长认为培训效果明显，孩子培训回家后懂得了尊敬父母，作息时间也规律了。另外2个家长认为自己的孩子有改变，但不多。对于培训失败的情况，杜利辉坦言学校、学生、家庭都有责任，而家庭的责任最大。“很多时候失败就是因为造成孩子叛逆的家庭因素根深蒂固，我们改变不了。举例来说，有个学生的父亲和其表姐搞在一起，这让孩子无法接受，学校无法改变这个家庭因素，孩子的培训就只能失败。”杜利辉认为，培训改变孩子很容易，但真正成功的关键还在于家庭充分配合，给孩子营造好的环境。

We randomly pays a return visit to the training of the best five families，3 of them their parents think that training effect is obvious，Children go home after the training to respect our parents，Work and rest time also rule。The other 2 parents think that their children have changed，But not much。For the training of failure，DuLiHui said school、students、Family has responsibility，And the responsibility of the family is the largest。“Many times failure is caused because of the rebellious children family factors entrenched，We can not change。For example，A student's father and its cousin make together，This let the child can't accept it，The school cannot change the family factors，The child's training can fail。”DuLiHui think，Training changed a child can easily，But really the key to success lies in the family fully cooperate，Give children build good environment。

　　“英思把我变成了父母眼中的好孩子，但我还是不快乐。”一个刚从英思毕业半年的清远男孩介绍，自己在英思戒掉了网瘾，改善了与父母的关系，同时还回到了正规学校上学，但总觉得自己心里少了些什么。“我很感激英思，在那里交到的朋友到现在仍有联系，那里的老师也很好，有时间我也想回去看望他们。但我很怕在那生活，再也不想回去培训了。”

“The English thought made me his parents' eyes boy，But I was not happy。”A just graduated from the thought of qingyuan boy introduces half a year，His best give up in the net addiction，To improve the relationship with my parents，Also returned to normal school，But in my heart always feel less what。“I'm very grateful to the English thinking，Where friends to now still communicate，There's also the teacher is very good，Have the time I also want to go back to see them。But I'm afraid in the life，Don't want to go back to training。”

　　我们就这个问题采访过正在英思培训的10多个学生，他们竟同样抱有上述毕业生的态度再也不愿回来培训。而且，几乎所有人都已设计好走出英思的那一天。有的说，出去那天自己要先吃顿好的。有的说，出去那天要好好洗个澡，然后找久未联系的朋友诉诉苦。还有的说，出去那天要先睡个懒觉……这成了他们训练生活中唯一的期待和梦想。

We will this problem is the best training for an interview of more than 10 students，They have the same with the above graduates attitude didn't want to come back training。and，Almost everyone has the best design the easy English of that day。Some said，Go out to eat first day at good。Some said，Out that day to take a bath，Then find long not contact friends SuSuGu。And say，On that day out to sleep in)……This became their training life, the only expect and dreams。

　　英思的培训分为3个月、6个月、1年三种周期，有人次第离去，也有人陆续进来。阿群、小谢、小胖是即将离开的一批，阿群和小谢9月就要回到正规学校上学，小胖则将到英国伦敦留学。在他们看来，自己在英思学到了尊敬父母、作息规律、好好学习等人生经验，但心里仍旧空落落的，不知道未来的路在何方。

The thought of training are divided into 3 months、Six months、1 year three cycle，Someone left attached，Some have come in。O group of、embeds、Small fat is due to leave a batch，O group and will return to normal embeds September school to go to school，Small fat will to London to study abroad。In their view，His best in the English learn respect our parents、Regular life、Good good study, life experience，But heart still empty，Don't know where the road in the future。

　　8月2日下午，我们结束探访。门“哐当”一下关上，然后是上锁的声音。透过铁门的缝隙，我们最后一次看到这些孩子的面容。

August 2 afternoon，We ended our visit。door“KuangDang”Shut a，Then the sound of locks。Through the gates of the aperture，Last time we saw these children face。

　　那一天，阳光明媚，透过树叶间隙跑进英思的高墙，打在这些孩子的脸上。但孩子没有笑容，因为他们正在军训。大队伍外，阿群和另外三个孩子因表现不佳，正在接受蛙跳的惩罚。教室门口，两个新生摇头晃脑地背着《弟子规》，眼角尚有泪痕。走廊上，一个学生头发太长，不符合校规，老师正给他剪发……

That day，sunny，Through the leaves gap ran into the kind of thinking，Play in these children face。But children without a smile，Because they are military training。Big team outside，O group and three other children for poor performance，Is accept the punishment of the leap forward。The door of the classroom，Two new on heads nodding《Disciple rules》，Canthus, there are traces。Corridor on，A student hair too long，Do not conform to the rules，The teacher is to cut him……

　　“集合。”军训老师一阵急促的哨响，孩子的脚步频频移动。不久后，我们又听到那些孩子整齐的口号：

“set。”Military training teacher a rush of whistle was blown，The child's footsteps moving again and again。soon，We also hear the children tidy slogan：

　　“1，2，3，4”

“1，2，3，4”

　　“磨砺意志，超越自我”

“Efforts will，The self”

　　“1，2，3，4”

“1，2，3，4”

　　“磨砺意志，超越自我”

“Efforts will，The self”

　　……

……

对话英思学校校长杜利辉 The school principal DuLiHui think dialogue

“没有哪个部门管我们” “No department tube us”

　　记者：事实上，除了这些“问题少年”，你们这个行业也让人感兴趣。有人说，这是个暴利行业。而按照你们“3个月1.5万元、6个月2.1万元、1年3.3万元”的标准，收费确实高啊。

reporter：In fact，In addition to these“youth”，You this industry also make people interested。Some say，This is a windfall industry。And according to your“3 months 15000 yuan、6 months 21000 yuan、1 year 33000 yuan”standard，Charges really high ah。

　　杜利辉：不可否认，这个行业的收费很高，但却没有暴利。因为高收费的同时也面临着高支出。我们的支出主要包括这几个方面：一是宣传费用，在电视、网络等平台做广告，一年得花七八十万，但不得不做，因为我们主要靠此招生；二是人工费用，英思现在有15个老师，每月平均工资3000元左右；三是租金及水电费用，每年租金10万元，水电也要三四万元；还包括办公、学生用品、交通等支出。我去年总收入160多万，但实际利润不到20万，与打工无异。

DuLiHui：undeniable，The industry's charge high fees，But no windfall profits。Because of the high fees also face higher spending。Our spending mainly includes the several aspects：One is the propaganda cost，On TV、Network advertising platform，Take a year 7.8 million，But had to do，Because we depend mainly on the recruit students；2 it is labor cost，The English thinking now has 15 teacher，Monthly average wage 3000 yuan；Three is the rental and water and electricity fee，Every year the rent is 100000 yuan，Water and electricity to three or four ten thousand yuan；Also includes office、School supplies、Transportation expenses such as。I total income last year more than 160，But the actual profit is less than 200000，And is working。

　　记者：近年来，行业内的暴力事件频频曝光，这是个例还是普遍现象？

reporter：In recent years，The violence in the industry frequent exposure，This is an or common phenomenon？

　　杜利辉：坦白说，这是行业普遍现象，是行业发展的积患。以珠三角的同类学校为例，大家当初都是模仿广州起航，或多或少都认为暴力对待学生是加速学生改变最有效的方法。但起航2009年爆出打死学生的事件后，行业内普遍有所改善，但仍然存在，只是程度较轻。

DuLiHui：frankly，This is a common phenomenon in the industry，Is the product of the development of the industry with suffering。In the pearl river delta, the same school as an example，Everyone had a mimicry guangzhou set sail，More or less all think violence against students is accelerated students change the most effective approach。But set sail in 2009 came after the events of the students killed，Within the industry generally improved，But there are still，Just to a lesser degree。

　　这一方面与办学者的理念和认识有关，另一方面也是因为家长的压力。说白了，这也可以看做是一场交易，家长给钱，我们提供服务，检测服务效果的唯一标准就是孩子的变化。所以，为了给家长一个交代，我们或多或少需要急功近利。

On the one hand, and the concept of the operators and know about，On the other hand also because the pressure of the parents。After all，This can also be seen as a deal，Parents give money，We provide service，Test the effect of service standards is the only child of change。so，In order to give parents a replacement，We more or less need to get rich quick。

　　但这两年我们也在思考行业的定位，对家长负责的同时，我们也要对孩子负责。所以我们现在几乎不再使用暴力，一旦发现老师打骂学生，就会处分或开除老师。前段时间，我刚开除一个呢。如今，我们把心理辅导课程放在比军训更重要的位置，希望让孩子有自我反思的过程。

But the two years we are also thinking about the positioning of the industry，To parents responsible for at the same time，We will be responsible for children。So we now almost no longer use violence，Once found that the teacher to abuse the students，Will or expel the student teacher。Some time ago，I had just fired a。now，We put the psychological counseling curriculum on more than military training important position，Want to let children have self reflection of process。

　　记者：你们的监管部门是谁？对于收费和暴力难道没有相应规范吗？

reporter：You who is the supervision department？For charges and violence is no corresponding specification？

　　杜利辉：没有哪个部门监管我们，我们没有教育局许可的办学资格，只能到工商局注册，像私营企业，整个行业都靠自律。

DuLiHui：No supervision department，We have no education bureau license running qualification，Only to the bureau of industry and commerce registration，Like the private enterprise，The industry will depend on the discipline。

　　记者：那你们不是很自由？

reporter：That you are not very free？

　　杜利辉：自由确实是有，但却不是我们想要的。我们这个行业目前还处于原始竞争阶段，缺乏监管，缺乏政府指导和支持。这样的生态下，就难免恶性竞争，暴利、暴力等词汇就始终困扰着我们。

DuLiHui：Freedom is really have，But it is not what we want。Our industry is still in the original competitive stage，Lack of supervision，The lack of government guidance and support。Such ecological，Unavoidably vicious competition，profits、Violence vocabulary will always with us。

　　就我个人而言，我希望政府介入监管，这样一方面可以让我们有一个正式的名头，能降低宣传成本，整体收费也能降低；另一方面也能提供一个收费、资质、管理等方面的行业标准，让同行更多把经历放到培训内容的改善上。现在青少年犯罪率正在飙升，我们这样的培训学校就是想消除一些隐患。

Personally，I hope the government intervention in regulation，On the one hand can let us have a formal name，Can reduce the cost of propaganda，Overall charge can also reduce；On the other hand can also provide a charge、qualification、Management of the industry standard，Let in on the more experience on the improvement of the training content。Now juvenile crime is soaring，We such training school is to eliminate some hidden trouble。

争议 dispute

　　把问题少年集中到一个封闭的空间，让他们与外界的诱惑隔绝，然后通过军训等行为疗法辅以心理辅导，确实能让孩子成长。这只改变了孩子的部分行为，是“治标”，并未“治本”，根本上还需家庭提供足够的关爱，社会也为他们的回归提供足够的平台。学校需要为他们留出学位，一些工厂也要试着接受他们去做工。

The youth to focus on a closed space，Let them and cut the temptation of the outside world，Then through the military training and behavioral therapy with the psychological counselling，Can really for children to grow up。The only change the child part of the act，is“Take temporary solution”，Did not“fundamental”，To provide enough fundamentally family's concern，Social also for their return to provide enough platform。Schools need to set aside for their degree，Some factory will try to accept they go to work。

国家级心理咨询师、佛山“黄手绢”心理中心负责人邓赞朋 National psychological consultant、foshan“Yellow handkerchief”Psychology DengZanPeng center director

　　这种剥夺个人自由、强制其改变的模式会留下后患，所谓的成功也只是短暂的。一方面这些孩子的心灵会受到伤害，另一方面还存在报复性反弹的可能。

This deprived of individual freedom、To enforce its will leave the change model for the future，The so-called success is only a short。On the one hand the children's minds will get hurt，On the other hand, there is the possibility of reprisal rebound。

佛山青少年发展中心副主任、佛科院副教授仇宇 Foshan vice director of youth development center、The Buddha, an associate professor QiuYu science institute

　　“到这里来的都是‘坏孩子"，阿群顿了顿，眼睛不自觉看向地上，声音变弱，“我也是”。阿群说，自己知道沉迷网络不好，但忍不住，“不上网心里就牵挂，总是痒痒的”。

“Here is all‘Bad boy"，O group of a beat，The eye is not consciously to see the ground，Voice become weak，“I also”。O group said，Know addict network is not good，But couldn't help，“Don't worry about the Internet in his mind，Always itch”。

　　阿群从小生活在一个组合家庭，因继母差别对待，他总觉得自己的生活没有“存在感”，“像纸飞机飘在空中，有时恐惧，有时无聊”。但在C S游戏中，他找到了“存在感”，有团队，有朋友，“比家温暖，让我快乐”。于是，他沉迷于此，无法自拔。

Since childhood, in a life of combination family，Because the stepmother different treatments，He always thought that I live without“presence”，“Like paper airplane floating in the sky，Sometimes fear，Sometimes boring”。But in C S in the game，He found the“presence”，Have the team，Have a friend，“Than house warm，Make me happy”。so，He hooked in，Cannot extricate oneself。

　　“大人没时间陪我，我只能上网找朋友玩。”英思另一个网瘾少年小谢比阿群开朗得多，他总是调侃自己：“我可没网瘾，只是一周上几个通宵罢了。”小谢说，其实上网也没什么事做，但不上网就更不知道该做什么了。

“Adults didn't time with me，I can only look on the Internet for friends to play。”The English think another addiction, young embeds o much more cheerful than group，He always make fun of yourself：“I can not addiction，Just a week on a few all night just。”Embeds said，In fact the Internet also have nothing to do，But the Internet is not more don't know what to do。

　　在他们眼中，青春“无聊”。一些人依赖网络逃避，一些人则向现实“宣战”，小谢的好友小胖属于后者。小胖不喜欢上网，但他在英思已培训两个多月，其问题是“脾气暴躁，打骂家人”。英思的心理辅导老师才大千介绍，家人甚至担心某一天被小胖拿刀追砍。

In their eyes，youth“boring”。Some people depend on the Internet escape，Some have to reality“Declared war on”，Xiaoxie's friends small fat belongs to the latter。Small fat don't like to surf the Internet，But he thought in the English training has more than two months，The problem is“grumpy，Beat and scold family”。The thought of the psychological counselling teacher's universe is introduced，Family even worry about a day is small fat knife to cut with。

　　小胖是富家子弟，老家在浙江嘉兴，母亲是深圳罗湖一家公司老总。父母很早离异，小胖从小由爷爷奶奶抚养。5岁后，小胖被妈妈接到深圳读幼儿园。妈妈忙于业务，他几乎每天都和保姆一起度过。小胖说，自己小时候最奢侈的事就是挨着妈妈睡觉，和妈妈说话。9岁后，小胖又回到老家，因爷爷奶奶溺爱，小胖养成了孤僻暴躁的性格。他在英思学校的日记中就记载着这样一件事：“那天，作业本找不到了，我不敢去上课，坐在沙发上看电视。爷爷奶奶费了很大劲帮我找到，急忙催促我去上学。我很生气，奶奶还在那啰嗦，好烦，我的火就上来了，拿起一个板子准备向奶奶扔过去……”

Small fat is a millionaire，Hometown of jiaxing in zhejiang province，Mother is shenzhen lo wu a company manager。Parents divorced early，Small fat by grandpa's grandmother raised from childhood。5 years after，Small fat is mother to shenzhen read the kindergarten。My mother is busy with business，He almost every day together and nannies。Xiao pang said，When they were children the most extravagant thing is sleeping next to the mother，Talk to mother。Nine years after，Small fat and return to their hometown，Because doting grandma and grandpa，Small fat into the gruffness have withdrawn。He thought of the school in the diary is recorded a such a thing：“That day，Exercise books can not find，I can't go to class，Sitting on the sofa watching TV。Grandpa's grandmother much trouble help me find，Quickly urged me to go to school。I was very angry，Grandma is still in the windbag，boss，My fire came up，Took a board ready to throw the past grandma……”

　　“伤害他们我也很难过，但有时候却喜欢这种难过，因为觉得有成就感。”小胖有些沮丧，他不喜欢以前的自己，更不知活着为了什么。

“I'm sorry to harm them，Sometimes, like this kind of sad，Because they feel a sense of achievement。”Small fat some frustrated，He doesn't like ourselves，Also don't know to live is to??????。

　　上述孩子的讲述并非孤例，英思学校60多个学生几乎都是为了找寻“存在感”而叛逆。有的说，是父母溺爱让自己迷失了方向。有的则说，因为在家里得不到关爱、在学校得不到认可，所以要“赌气变坏”。

The above the telling of the child is not isolated cases，The English thought the school more than 60 students are almost all in order to look for“presence”And rebellious。Some said，Is parents dote on let oneself got lost。Others say，Because in the home can't get care、In the school not recognized，So to“In anger go bad”。

　　对此，国家级心理咨询师、佛山“黄手绢”心理中心负责人邓赞朋分析，所有“问题孩子”背后都有一个“问题家庭”，孩子上网成瘾、早恋离家等都是表象，其根源在于家庭提供的生长环境出了问题。“他们找寻存在感，实际上是缺爱和关怀的表现。”

this，National psychological consultant、foshan“Yellow handkerchief”Psychological center director DengZanPeng analysis，all“Problem child”There are some one“Family problems”，Children Internet addiction、Love is the representation from home，The root is that the growth of families with environmental problems。“They look for existence move，In fact is lack of love and care performance。”

90%被骗入学 90% were tricked into entrance

　　被骗理由五花八门，有的说“是去见一个姨妈”，有的说“是去佛山最美的地方玩”，还有的说“是去野外放风筝”。

Be cheat reason is multifarious，Some said“Is to meet a aunt”，Some said“Is the most beautiful place to foshan play”，And say“Is to field a kite”。

　　“说实话，问题出在我们家长身上，因为忙于工作，给孩子的关心太少，沟通也太少。等到想弥补时，他们已经叛逆，来不及了。”家住张槎的杨女士曾把17岁的儿子送进英思培训3个月，她认为自己是被逼无奈，“我们管不了，只能让培训学校来管，如果还是没效果，我们就真的没办法了”。

“To tell you the truth，The problem is on our parents，For busy with work，Give the child's care too little，Communication is too little。Wait until to make up for，They have been rebellious，Too late。”Live Cha zhang of ms Yang was the 17-year-old son sent to the English thinking training 3 months，She thought that she is be compelled helpless，“We care，Only can let the training school to tube，If or not have the effect，We really can't”。

　　另一位英思家长罗女士也持同样的观点，“在家里，我们说任何事都引发争吵，只能让他到培训学校去吃吃苦头，才能明白生活的艰辛”。

Another British think parents ROM ladies also hold the same view，“At home，We say anything a quarrel，Can only let him to training school to eat it，To understand the hardships of life”。

　　然而，送孩子入学前，众多家长心中也有顾忌。因为诸如英思这类“问题少年”培训学校在社会上的名声并不好，教官暴打学生、学生跳楼自杀等负面新闻层出不穷。杨女士接触英思前曾对其展开两年的观察。

however，Send children before entering school，Many parents in mind also have scruples。Because such as the thought of this“youth”Training school in social fame is not good，Military instructor suddenly and violently dozen students、Students commit suicide, negative news emerged。Ms. Xiuzhu contact with the thought of its spread before he two years of observation。

　　“家长的担心很正常，我们办学初期确实也有打骂学生的情况，当时觉得这是加速学生改变最有效的手段。”英思校长杜利辉坦言，暴力对待学生是这个行业的积患，“但广州‘起航’教官打死学生事件被曝光后，我们迅速调整了教学方法，再无打骂”。

“Parents worry about are normal，We did have the early education beat and scold the conditions of the students，At that time feel this is to help students change is the most effective means。”The President thinks DuLiHui said，And, violence against the industry is the product of students with suffering，“But guangzhou‘Set sail’Military instructor killed after exposure events are students，We quickly adjust the teaching method，There is no beat and scold”。

　　如今，英思将心理课的地位凌驾于军训课之上，辅以国学、手工等课程。学生犯错依旧会受罚，但“跑100圈”、“做100个俯卧撑”等手段代替了打骂。家长对此感到满意，但学生仍旧排斥。杜利辉说：“没有学生自己真正愿意进来，90%都是被家长骗进来的。”

now，The thought of the status of psychological class over the YuJunXun above classes，Complementary with national studies、Manual course such as。Students will still make mistakes to be punished，but“Run 100 laps”、“Do 100 push-ups”Instead of the means of abuse。Parents have been satisfied，But students still rejection。DuLiHui said：“No student really willing to come in，90% of them are parents cheat in。”

　　小胖到现在仍清楚记得自己被骗入学的那天，2012年5月22日，“是个黑色的日子”。那天中午，英思4名老师驾车到深圳接小胖到佛山“玩”。因为有公司的秘书陪同，小胖一开始并没在意，“还以为是妈妈的客户巴结我呢”。车从高速路转向县道，又从县道走入乡间小路，小胖愈发觉得不对劲，几番嚷嚷未果。下午3点多，车到学校，小胖被告知这是一所“减肥”学校，自己需在此呆上几个月“我知道被骗了，心里很害怕，一直哭。”

Small fat to now still clearly remember were lied on the day of admission，May 22, 2012，“Is a black day”。At noon，The English think four teachers driving to shenzhen by small fat to foshan“play”。Because there is a company secretary accompanied，Small fat a start and didn't care，“Thought is the mother of the customer to butter me up”。Car from highway to county roads，And from county roads into country road，Small fat increasingly felt something was wrong，How many times rang rang not if really。At 3 PM，Bus to school，Small fat is told that this is a“Lose weight”The school，His stay in the need for several months“I know that to be cheated，scared，cried。”

　　然而，无人理会。不一会，小胖就被要求背熟校规，14条300多字，然后沿操场跑50圈，约有4000米。杜利辉解释，这是每个孩子入学当天的“例牌菜”，目的是稳定学生情绪，并给他们一个下马威。

however，objections。soon，Small fat he was asked to recite the school rules，Article 14 more than 300 words，And then ran along the playground 50 circle，About 4000 m。DuLiHui explain，This is the entrance of the day every child“An example brand food”，Purpose is stable mood students，And give them a run。

　　小胖硬着头皮做着，但还是一直哭。其心理辅导老师才大千回忆，直到晚上10点半，小胖的眼里还擎着泪水。那一夜，小胖一直站在窗边，透过密密麻麻的铁丝网看南星村那些若隐若现的灯火。“我像被关进了监狱，好想逃离，好想妈妈。”

Small fat to bite the bullet and do，But was still crying。The psychological counselling teacher to recall boundless universe，Until half past ten at night，Small fat eyes still qing with tears。That night，Small fat has been standing by the window，Through the dense star who see barbed wire south village concealed in the lamp。“I like thrown into prison，Really want to escape from，Really want to mother。”

　　小胖的故事稍作修改就能讲述任何一个英思学生的入学。他们被骗的理由五花八门，有的说“是去见一个姨妈”，有的说“是去佛山最美的地方玩”，还有的说“是去野外放风筝”。而在第一夜，被骗的孩子都感觉自己进了一所监狱，根本无法入眠。他们畏惧陌生的老师，心中恨着“狠心”的父母。有学生甚至在自己的入学日记中写道：“我一直在想，为什么老师要弄这样一个学校？我将来也要办一个学校，专门培养家长的学校……”

Small fat story make a little change can tell any a British think of their entrance。They were tricked into reason is multifarious，Some said“Is to meet a aunt”，Some said“Is the most beautiful place to foshan play”，And say“Is to field a kite”。And in the first night，Being lied to the children feel yourself into a prison，Couldn't sleep。They fear strange teacher，Heart hate“cruel”parents。Have students in their school even existed：“I've been thinking，A: why is the teacher should make such a school？I will want to do a school，The parents of the special training school……”

江湖 River's lake

　　最大规矩就是“连坐”，一人犯错，全组或全班受罚；其次就是“老生掌权”。

Rules is the largest“pants”，A people make mistakes，The group or the class be unpunished；secondly“Old living power”。

　　第一夜，小胖等到天边泛白才睡下。他做了个梦，梦见妈妈来接自己回家。梦未完，小胖就被一阵急促的铃声响起凌晨6点半，起床时间到了。众多学生感慨，从第一次听到起床铃声开始，生活就被劈成了两半，一半是过去的种种，一半是英思的培训。

The first night，Small fat wait until you can't have them BaiCai under the bed。He had a dream，Dream of mother come to pick up their home。Dream unfinished，Small fat is a rush of the bell ring ring out at half past six，Up time to。Many students regrets，From the first time I heard the bell began to get up，Life is being cut in half，Half the past，Half of the training is best。

　　小胖说，这里的生活每天都一样，单调，累。从凌晨6点半到晚上10点半，生活被排得满满，一分钟空隙也没留下。上午8点开始上课前的1个半小时，学生们必须完成起床、早操、洗漱卫生、早餐4项任务。尔后，进入上午的室内课时间，从周一到周五分别将进行团体辅导（心理课程）、男女孩课堂（青春期教育）、道德与法（主要讲述《弟子规》和历史故事）等课程。每节课50分钟，课间休息10分钟。

Xiao pang said，The life here every day，drab，tired。From morning to evening at half past six at half past ten，Life is full of exhaust，A minute gap didn't leave。Start at 8 in the morning before class 1 and a half hours，The students must finish up、Morning exercises、Wash gargle health、Breakfast 4 task。then，In the morning of indoor class time，From Monday to Friday group counseling respectively（Psychological course）、Male girl class（Adolescent education）、Morality and law（Basically tells《Disciple rules》And historical stories）Course such as。Each lesson 50 minutes，A break for 10 minutes。

　　中午11点50分，下课铃响，学生们先排队洗手，然后按顺序到食堂自己的位置坐好，一动不动。开始吃饭前，老师会询问“哪些同学需要加饭”，然后排队进行。等到一切备齐，老师下令“开动”，学生们方可动筷。他们狼吞虎咽，一是因为饿，二则因为吃饭连同洗碗的时间只有半小时，超时会被罚。

11 o 'clock noon 50 points，The bell rang，First the students queue to wash your hands，And then in order to dining room oneself of position and sit down，motionless。Began to eat before，The teacher asked“What students need to add rice”，Then line up for。Wait until it gets ready，The teacher ordered“start”，The students can move chopsticks。They voracious，A hungry because，Did they eat together with washing the dishes of time only half an hour，Overtime will be sent。

　　中午12点半至下午2点半是午休时间，各班军训老师一般都会到宿舍陪着学生休息。老师和学生都必须养足精神，因为他们即将应对下午3个多小时的室外军训课程。站军姿、跑步、队伍行进……学生们一次次抬腿，一次次放下。

At 12 noon to at 2:30 p.m. is lunch break，Each class teacher will generally to the dorm military training with the students have a rest。The teacher and students must keep sufficient spirit，Because they are about to deal with more than three hours in the afternoon outdoor military training course。Stand JunZi、running、procession……The students carried leg again，Down again。

　　到了晚上，老师会安排学生看新闻、写日记。心理老师才大千称，这是学生总结一天收获的时候，他们把反思和心得写入日记，老师会根据日记内容安排心理辅导。

In the evening，The teacher will arrange students to look at the news、Write a diary。Psychological teacher to whole says，This is the student to summarize the day harvest time，They put the reflection and insights into the log，The teacher will be according to the diary content counseling。

　　每天，英思的时间都被如此切割，看似平淡，却也暗潮涌动。英思一位毕业生透露“培训之外还有另一个复杂的世界，那是个江湖。”

Every day，The thought of time are so cutting，Seemingly insipid，But also AnChao surging。The thought that a graduate“Training, there is another complex world，That's a river's lake。”

　　有人的地方就有江湖，而说起江湖，就不得不提到江湖规矩。“这里最大的规矩就是‘连坐’，一人犯错，全组或全班受罚”，小谢的话得到了其他学生以及老师的证实。一位不愿具名的学生讲述，有一次，一对学生恋情曝光，英思全体学生因此受罚。从楼上打包被子放到背上，然后到操场跑100圈、做100个俯卧撑、做100个仰卧起坐、做100个蛙跳……那一夜，英思的灯直到凌晨3点多才熄灭。

Someone, there have river's lake，And speaking of river's lake，Have to mention river's lake rules。“Here is the largest rules‘pants’，A people make mistakes，The group or the class be unpunished”，Embeds words by other students and the teacher's confirmed。An anonymous students describe，once，A pair of students love exposure，The English thought all students therefore punished。From the upstairs quilt on pack back，And then to the playground to run 100 laps、Do 100 push-ups、Do 100 sit-ups、Do 100 leap forward……That night，The thought of the lamp until 3 a.m. to be put out。

　　“我们是有意识这样要求的”，杜利辉解释，“连坐”最主要是增进学生间的团结，也让学生彼此监督，让他们不敢再犯错。对此，有的学生认为很合理，也有学生很反感，但受访学生都表示，自己不想被罚。

“We are conscious of this requirement”，DuLiHui explain，“pants”What is the most important increase students' the unity between，Also let students each other supervision，Let them not to make mistakes。this，Some students think is reasonable，Also has the student is very antipathetic，But students surveyed said，He didn't want to be fined。

　　英思第二条江湖规矩是“老生掌权”。按照规定，入学超过两月即是老生，老生有义务指导新生熟悉校规和完成训练。如新生完成不好，老生有权惩罚。杜利辉的原意是让老生带动新生融入学校，也让老生回顾自己的训练历程。然而，这在现实中却演变为新生的噩梦。

The river is the second best article rules“Old living power”。According to the regulation，More than two months namely is an old school，Old living have the obligation to guide the school rules and to complete the training new familiar with。Such as new bad finish，Old living has the right to punish。DuLiHui intent is to let old living drive new into schools，Also let old living back on my training course。however，This in the reality but the evolution of new nightmare。

　　小谢在英思待了4个多月了，从新生变成老生。他说：“新生被欺负时很委屈，但变成老生后，去欺负下一批新生就很爽了。”小谢介绍，老生们自主制定了很多惩罚措施来“招待”新生，一旦新生训练没跟上，“挂腊肠”（双手倒立在床边）、蹲马步、“交叉蛙跳”等招数就派上用场。“当然，这些得避开老师，不然我们也会被罚。”这些场景，与电影《肖申克的救赎》里的桥段何其相似。只不过电影里讲的是监狱，我们这里讲的是一所培训学校。

In the British think for embeds for more than four months，From new into old age。He said：“When new students be bullied very grievance，But become old，To humiliate the next batch is very cool new......。”Introduced embeds，The old living independently work out a lot of punishment“served”new，Once the new training didn't keep up with them，“Hang sausages”（Handstand in bed）、Do your squat、“Cross leap forward”Etc way will come in handy。“Of course，These have to avoid the teacher，Otherwise we will be fined。”These scenes，And film《XiaoShenKe redemption》The bridge in how similar。Only in the movie is about a prison，We're dealing with here is a training school。

　　“说实话，我们老师对此睁一只眼闭一只眼。”心理老师才大千表示，自己此前认为“问题少年”需要的是纠正，但接触两年后才发现，他们最需要的是体验。“新生被老生欺负，这确实不公平，但这个社会就是不公平的，你得让他自己体验，才能真正适应社会、重归社会。他们是犯了错误进来的，在这里吃些苦头也算是成长的代价。”

“To tell you the truth，Our teacher turns a blind eye to eye。”Psychological teacher to whole said，Himself had thought“youth”Need is correct，But two years later found that contact，They need most is experience。“Freshman was an old bullying，That's really not fair，But the society is not fair，You have to let his own experience，Can we truly adapt to the society、Return to society。They made a mistake in，Eat here some of the growth is also suffered from price。”

　　然而，新生们显然不能适应这样的“代价”，他们会不约而同想到“越狱”。我们在探访期间曾问过10多个孩子，他们均表示自己有过逃跑的想法或行为。小胖也逃跑过，且“计划周详”。他回忆，自己进来一周后就开始琢磨逃跑的事了，“我白天观察学校环境，夜里就偷偷画下来”。有一天，小胖发现学校食堂背后一扇窗户年久失修，很容易拆掉。于是，他计划从窗户爬出去，然后从鱼塘游到对岸。但因为爬窗户需要帮手，小胖又联系了两个同学，准备一起逃出去。行动的日子就要到了，小胖莫名兴奋。然而，一个胆小的同伴临阵退缩，将小胖的“越狱”计划全盘告诉老师，小胖只能接受100个俯卧撑的惩罚。从此，小胖断了逃跑的念头，开始“空着脑袋混日子”。

however，The new students obviously can't adapt to this“price”，They will think of happen to coincide“Prison break”。We in the visit was asked during more than 10 children，They all said he had fled ideas or behavior。Small fat also fled，and“well-planned”。He recalled，After a week in their flight begin to consider，“During the day I observe the school environment，The night is secretly painting down”。One day，Small fat found that the school dining room behind a window of disrepair，Very easy to pull down。so，He plans to get out from the window，Then from fish ponds swim to the other side。But because climb the Windows need a hand，Small fat and contact the two classmates，Ready to get out together。The day of action is coming，Small fat inexplicably excited。however，A timid partner of holding back down，Will small fat“Prison break”Tell the teacher overall plan，Small fat can only accept 100 push-ups punishment。From then on，Small fat broke the notion of running away，Began to“Empty head along”。

　　阿群初到时，也有“越狱”的想法，但最终妥协了。他用了一句网络语言来解释：“生活就是这样，被强暴的时候与其反抗，不如享受吧。”听他讲完，我们笑了，阿群却满脸惆怅。

Then, at the beginning of the group of，Also have“Prison break”ideas，But the final compromise。He spent a network language to explain：“Such is life，The violence was its resistance，Enjoy it as。”He finished listen to，We laughed，But o face of sadness。

　　实际上，这样的挣扎会发生在每一个新生身上。我们探访期间，还有两个刚进来不到10天的女生受不了英思的江湖规矩，一起逃跑。她们剪开三楼的铁丝网，然后用床单挂着窗户往下爬，但最终被老师抓回，然后遣送回家。对此，杜利辉并不感到意外。“他们习惯了外面的花花世界，突然失去自由，总会想着逃离，但大部分人最终都会习惯。”

In fact，This struggle will happen to every a new body。We visit during，There are two just came in less than 10 days of girls can't stand the thought of the river's lake rules，Fled together。They cut open the barbed wire on the third floor，And then the sheet hung climbed down the window，But was finally grabbed the teacher，And then sent home。this，DuLiHui not surprised。“They used to the outside world，Suddenly lose their freedom，Always thinking of escape from，But most people will finally habit。”