节假日经常与父母共度、亲自给父母做饭、每周给父母打个电话……8月13日，全国妇联老龄工作协调办、全国老龄办、全国心系系列活动组委会共同发布新版“24孝”行动标准。（《新京报》8月14日）

Holidays with my parents often spend、Personally to parents cook、To her parents once a week to make a phone call......On August 13,，The all-china women's federation old-age work coordination to do、The elderly do、The national heart series the organizing committee jointly issued new edition“24 filial piety”Action standard。（《The Beijing news》On August 14,）

　　对照一下，13亿国人估计99%达不到新标准如此之高的要求。“百善孝为先，孝为百行首。”何况，中国人的“孝”往往与“忠”连在一起，也因此，“举孝悌”是历朝历代难得的官民共倡的价值操守。

Comparison of them，1.3 billion people estimated 99% to less than the new standard of such high requirements。“Hundred good filial first，Filial piety for one hundred line first。”How much more，The Chinese“Filial piety”Often and“loyal”together，so，“Show filial piety for”Different dynasties is a rare official people during the total value integrity。

　　一面是“重孝”情结，一面是“不孝”或“难孝”的现实，种种失衡与断裂常常在某些公共事件上发酵或升腾譬如今年6月，《老年人权益保障法》修订草案首次提交全国人大常委来审议，修订草案中新增一条“常回家看看”，引起社会巨大争论；其后，北大校长跪母祝寿事件再次将现代“孝道”之争升格为公共话题。眼下，孝道已然是社会的一抹隐痛。

Side is“Deep mourning”complex，Side is“unfilial”or“Difficult filial piety”reality，A variety of unbalance and fracture often in some public events fermentation or rise for example in June this year，《Protection of the rights and interests of the elders》The first draft submitted to the National People's Congress standing committee to review，The amendments to the new one“Often home to see”，Cause social great debate；subsequently，Pku President knelt mother birthday again event modern“Filial piety”Rivalry upgraded to public topic。the，Filial piety has is the social with a dull pain。

　　与传统的“24孝”相比，新版“24孝”简洁易懂，朗朗上口；不仅包括“教父母学会上网”、“为父母购买合适的保险”等与现代生活紧密结合的行动准则，还包括“支持单身父母再婚”、“仔细聆听父母的往事”等观念突破和对老年人的心理关怀，对于弘扬孝道、构建新式家庭道德关系确有裨益。

And traditional“24 filial piety”Compared with，The new“24 filial piety”Concise and easy to，Rhyming two-syllable；Includes not only“Teach parents learn to surf the Internet”、“For parents to buy the appropriate insurance”With modern life closely action rule，Also includes“Support for single parents remarried”、“Listen carefully to the parents of the past”For the old concept such as breakthrough and psychological care，To promote filial piety、Constructing the new family moral relationship is good。

　　但这份用心良苦的新“24孝”标准，仍然难逃两层追问：一者，这样的“孝道”果真是全国老人心向往之的天年图景？譬如其中提到要“带父母一起出席重要的活动”、“教父母学会上网”、“经常为父母拍照”、“为父母建立关爱卡”、“为父母举办生日宴会”等，此类占据新标准四分之一的要求，对于最广大的农村父母来说，显然无异于天方夜谭，即便对于城市父母，恐怕也未必是他们最想要的。老人们要的关心，更多的是细节是细水长流，而不是宏大的形式与热烈的仪式。拍照也好、宴会也罢，或者一起出席重要活动，老人们真的觉得这是最“孝”的事情吗？

But the diligent new“24 filial piety”standard，Still not two layer cross-examine：darling，this“Filial piety”If is the old man ambition life picture？For example the mentioned to“With his parents to attend important activities”、“Teach parents learn to surf the Internet”、“Often take pictures for the parents”、“For parents to establish close AiKa”、“For parents have a birthday party”, etc，Such occupy a quarter of the new standard requirements，For the vast countryside for parents，Obviously is Arabian nights，Even for the city parents，I'm afraid is also unnecessarily they want to。Old people to concern，More details are waste not, want not，Rather than grand form and warm ceremony。Photos or、Party or，Or attend the same important activities，Old people really think this is the most“Filial piety”Things?？

　　二者，要实现这些孝道新标准，最重要的是要给儿女留下“看风景”的时间和心情。在房子、教育、医疗的高压大道上，有的是“低头赶路”的匆忙，有的是近乡情怯的慌张，有的是看淡未来的迷茫……“经常带着爱人、子女回家”、“节假日尽量与父母共度”、“亲自给父母做饭”等要求，无疑奢侈而残酷。别说“经常”，就是领着爱人、子女偶尔回家转一转无偿加班的劳资关系会“放行”吗？单位的带薪假肯“点头”吗？层层设卡的高速公路肯“优惠”吗？在户籍制度尚未及时转身之际，“家”动辄就是千百公里外的一个港湾，路程辗转、成本高企，如果城市的这头不能让我们的父母顺利“进城”，而老家的那头又不能以广阔的发展空间吸引子女“返乡”，那要想实现新“24孝”标准中的大多数条款，基本上仍是“难于上青天”。

both，In order to realize the new standard of filial piety，The most important thing is to give their children leave“To look at the scenery”Time and mood。In the house、education、Medical high-pressure avenue，Have a plenty of“Down on”haste，Have a plenty of near the timid of panic，Have a plenty of see light future confusion...“Often with love、Children home”、“Holidays as far as possible with our mother and father”、“Personally to parents cook”Requirements for，No doubt luxury and cruel。Don't say“often”，Which brought to her love、Children occasionally home one revolution to do unpaid overtime labor relations will“release”?？Unit paid vacation Ken“nod”?？Layer upon layer set up checked posts of highway Ken“preferential”?？In the household registration system has not been timely the turn，“home”Frequently is hundreds of miles away in a harbor，Journey toss、Cost high，If city this head can't let our parents well“Into the city”，And the home of the head and not in the broad development space to attract children“home”，That want to realize new“24 filial piety”Most of the standard terms，Basically is still“It devilishly hard to”。

　　老吾老以及人之老。我们常反思新时期社会道德的重整与建构，其实，眼下诸多社会道德症结，何尝不是因为家庭道德层面“氧气稀薄”所致？当公民不能尽心尽孝，体恤老人、关爱弱者的传统心理就会日渐麻木，而别人的父母不过就是马路上跌倒的老太太或迷路在都市的老大爷，于己何干？新“24孝”标准有了，心想还得事能成，给子女们一份尽孝的心情与能力，这是社会鼓励子女尽孝的当务之急。邓海建

Expand the love of the old man。We often reflect society in the new period of moral reforming and construction，In fact，At present many social moral sticking point，Not because how family moral level“Oxygen thin”Caused by？When citizens are not allowed to hoping with all your heart，Show solicitude for the old man、Care for the weak traditional psychological will increasingly numb，Others parents but is the road fall the old lady or get lost in the city old man，In what has？The new“24 filial piety”Standard had，Thought still have to things could be，To give their children a hoping mood and ability，This is the society encourages children urgent hoping。DengHaiJian