10000元到30000元 2.63%

10000 yuan to 30000 yuan by 2.63%

　　30000元到50000元 10.53%

30000 yuan to 50000 yuan by 10.53%

　　50000元以上 2.63%

50000 yuan of above 2.63%

　　5000元到10000元 26.32%

5000 yuan to 10000 yuan by 26.32%

　　5000元以下 57.89%

5000 yuan of the following 57.89%

　　新学期即将开始，就在舆论为大学生高企的开学成本咋舌时，很多中小学生家长也在忙着核算孩子的暑假账单。近日，徐州市一名家长在网上晒出账单，惊呼“吓了自己一跳”不到两个月时间里，不知不觉已为孩子花费了28200元。她的这份账单在网络上引起了网友共鸣，她所做的网上调查数据显示，暑期为孩子花费5000元以上的达到42%，最多的花费了5万余元。很多网友直呼“赶快把孩子送到学校吧”。

The new term is about to begin，In public opinion for college students' high school cost when be left speechless with wonder or fear，Many primary and high school students parents also busy accounting children summer vacation the bill。recently，Xuzhou a parents on the Internet the sun drying out the bill，exclaimed“Scared his jump”Less than two months，Unconsciously has spent 28200 yuan for the child。Her the bill on the Internet caused a net friend resonance，She has done online survey data show，Summer for the children spend 5000 yuan reach 42%，Most of the spent more than 50000 yuan。Many netizens call“Hurry up, to send their child to kindergartens, schools”。

核算账单 Accounting bill

暑假花费两万多，家长“吓了一跳” Summer vacation spending more than twenty thousand，parents“shocked”

　　网友“小鸟儿唱”的儿子即将六年级开学，最近她一边忙着替儿子“收心”，一边核算一下儿子的暑假账单，虽然感觉这个暑假花费不少，但是账单正式算好后，她还是吓了一跳。

Net friend“Birds sing”The son was the sixth grade，Recently while she was busy for son“retrieving”，While accounting son a summer vacation the bill，Although feeling this summer vacation cost a lot，But the bill is good after formal，She was shocked。

　　1、游学 7月初，听朋友说游学对孩子有好处，朋友非要拉着我们让孩子出去游学，说是做个伴，孩子听朋友说后非常开心，孩子爸爸怕影响孩子的积极性，觉得也能开拓眼界。就报名了：2万元，10天左右。

1、Studies in early July，Listen to the friend say to benefit children travel，Friends don't want to pull we let the children travel out，Say be a companion，The children listen to the friend say after very happy，The child father afraid of impact on the child's enthusiasm，Think can also develop the field of vision。Just sign up：20000 yuan，10 days or so。

　　2、辅导班7月底看到（孩子）玩心太重，做作业不够自觉，家里长辈太宠，我们也没时间辅导他，报了个一对一辅导：100元1小时，到现在为止大概花了3000元。

2、Remedial class the end of July to see（children）Play heart too heavy，Do my homework is not consciously，Home elders too pet，We have no time to help him，Quote a one-on-one coaching：100 yuan for 1 hour，Up to now probably spent 3000 yuan。

　　3、零食 因为（孩子）成天在家，零食比平时要多买很多。基本一个礼拜去一次超市，每次都先往食品柜台跑，去一次不低于200，用掉两张超市卡，1000来块钱。

3、Snacks for（children）At home all day，Snacks more than usual buy a lot of。Basic a week to a supermarket，Every time to run counter to food，Go to a not less than 200，Use off two supermarket card，1000 dollars。

　　4、日常开支 放假中午吃饭也在家里吃的，我妈中餐晚餐顿顿做好的，孩子不在家时肯定随便凑合了，我每个月多补贴了我妈一些家用。老人家比较省的，也不会一天到晚开空调的，小的在，基本空调是不关的，电费也是噌噌往上涨。这样算算一个月要比平日里多四五百的开销。

4、Daily spending holidays at noon to eat at home to eat，My mom Chinese dinner repeatedly do well，Children are not at home must manage casually，I every month subsidies for my mom some household。Old man's house is the province，Wouldn't a day to night of the open air conditioning，Small in，Basic air conditioning is none of the，Electricity is ChengCheng to rise。So have to calculate a month than in the normal more than the cost of the -。

　　5、玩具 晚上吃完饭天热就会逛下商场，衣服什么倒是不要的，玩具每次去都不肯放，我妈拗不过他的，零零碎碎也买了近千。其中有过生日的，狮子大开口，要个游戏机，XBOX360游戏机，价值至少2000元以上，我只懂PSP~作死作活好两天，他爸给他买了，看到价格吓了一跳，2K（2000）多元。

5、Toy evening meal hot day will stroll down market，What clothes is don't，Every time they go to a toy refused to put，My mother ao however his，Odds and ends also bought nearly。There are the birthday，Lion big openings，For a game，XBOX360 game，Worth at least 2000 yuan of above，I only know PSP to die for live good two days，His father bought him，See prices jumped out，2 k（2000）multiple。

　　6、游泳卡 为了让他多运动，办了张游泳卡，60次的，700块。

6、Swimming card in order to let him to take more exercise，Do a swimming card，60 times，700 pieces of。

　　“小鸟儿唱”最后计算出为儿子的这个暑假总开支：游学20000、辅导班3000、零食1000、日常500（只计算比平时多出来的开销）、玩具1000、生日礼物2000、游泳卡700，总计28200元。

“Birds sing”The accurate calculation of the son's this summer for the total expenditure：Travel 20000、Class 3000、Snacks 1000、Daily 500（Only calculation than usual out overhead）、Toy 1000、Birthday gift 2000、Swimming card 700，A total of 28200 yuan。

　　钱虽然花出去了，但是“小鸟儿唱”还有一肚子的苦水：“我也不是老板，每个月给人打工拿薪水的。孩子不知道赚钱有多不容易是正常的。（可是）我老公说，孩子这么小，总不可能让他暑期去打工，让他体会到赚钱很难。在孩子用钱这事上，我跟家人意见是有分歧的，我也根本说服不了他们。”

Although money spend out，but“Birds sing”There are plenty to bitter：“I'm not the boss，Each month work for someone take salary。Children don't know how to make money is not easy to is normal。（but）My husband said，Children so small，Total can't let him go to summer jobs，Let him realize it is difficult to make money。In the children use the money to this thing，I told the family opinion is divided，I also fundamental to convince them。”

调查显示：42%的暑期账单超过5000元 Investigation shows that：42% of the summer bill more than 5000 yuan

　　“小鸟儿唱”将自己的账单贴在徐州一家知名论坛里，并进行了一个网上调查。她的遭遇引发了网友们的共鸣，截至目前，已有2300多名网友点击，100多名网友参与调查。

“Birds sing”Will his bill put in xuzhou a well-known in the BBS，And an online survey。What happened to her triggered a net friends resonance，So far，More than 2300 users click，More than 100 net friend to participate in research。

　　调查显示，暑期为孩子花费5千元以下的占58%，也就是说42%的网友暑期账单超过了5千元，其中，花费5千—1万的占了26%,花费最多的达到了5万多元。记者采访了部分参与调查的网友发现，即便花费在5千以下的，大部分家庭的开支也在3千元以上。

Investigation shows that，Summer for the children spend 5000 yuan of the following accounts for 58%，That is 42% of the net friend bill summer more than 5000 yuan，the，Spend 5000-10000 account for 26%,Spend the most reached 50000 yuan。The reporter interviewed part of the participants in the survey found that net friend，Even if spend on below 5000，Most of the family expenses also is in 3000 yuan of above。

　　记者进一步调查发现，众多网友提供的暑期账单中，有几项开支已经成了必须为孩子开支的项目，包括旅游、辅导班（或学习班）、奖励等。而在这些费用中，很多人又倾向于抬高标准。比如，旅游开支中，不少网友选择了价格在万元以上的游学；在辅导班中，各种兴趣班、奥数班、衔接班、培训班，总花费从五六百元到六七千元不等。即便是对孩子进行的奖励开支中，从普通玩具、游戏机到IPAD、苹果电脑，费用也集中在千元以上。

Reporter found that further investigation，Many users to provide summer in the bill，There are several expenditure has become a must for the children spending projects，Including tourism、Remedial class（Or class）、award。And in these costs，A lot of people and tend to drive up standards。For example，Travel expenses，Not a few net friend chose the price is in ten thousand yuan of above studies；In the class，Various interest、Olympic math class、Cohesion class、training，From the total cost of after yuan to 67000 dollars。Even their children to be reward expenses，From common toys、Game to IPAD、Apple computer，Expenses are also concentrated in one thousand yuan of above。

　　值得一提的是，不少网友表示有些开支根本无法避免。网友“爱吃鱼的猫”告诉记者，她的孩子假期主要跟着爷爷奶奶住，老人一看孙子来了，平时舍不得开的空调一天不歇，为了让孩子不觉得闷，他们又花钱装上了宽带，平时吃饭时顿顿少不了鸡鸭鱼肉。除此之外，老人每隔两天就带着孙子去超市采购零食。“虽然我的孩子没有花高价旅游或报辅导班，但每个月家里正常开销都比平时超出1千元左右。”

Be worth what carry is，Not a few net friend said some expenses can't avoid。Net friend“Love to eat fish cat”Told reporters，Her children holiday main follow my grandparents live，The old man a look to the son，Usually won't open air conditioning, one day does not take，In order to let the children don't feel boring，They also spend money with broadband，When having a meal at ordinary times repeatedly without chicken duck fish。In addition，The old man every two days with the grandson to the supermarket procurement snacks。“Although my children did not spend high price for tourism or class，But each month home spending than usual normal more than 1000 yuan。”

专家建议家长：多花精力 少花钱 The experts advise parents to：Spend energy less money

　　“暑期账单高，很多都是家长们的虚荣心和攀比心理所致。”徐州市第34中学副校长、国家二级心理咨询师徐成宁告诉记者，随着生活条件提高，家长们也有能力负担一些费用较高的消费项目，比如旅游、辅导班等，有些家长为了照顾自己和孩子的“面子”，互相之间形成攀比之风，导致动辄为孩子一掷千金，“旅游就选择出国游学，辅导班就报高价的，奖励孩子也要选苹果三件套。这都是不正确的消费观的体现。”他认为，家长首先应该树立正确的消费观，如果孩子把钱花在学习特长和增长知识方面，开支再多也会全力支持，但一些仅仅用在吃喝玩乐上的高消费，就要保持克制，否则不仅会感到负担大，也不利于孩子树立正确的消费观念。

“Summer bill high，Many are parents vanity and bandwagon caused by psychological。”Xuzhou 34th middle school vice President、National secondary psychological consultants XuChengNing told reporters，With the development of the living conditions improve，Parents also can afford some higher cost consumption project，Such as tourism、Remedial class, etc，Some parents to take care of themselves and their children“face”，Formed between each other "keep up with the joneses" wind，Lead to frequently for children deal or no deal，“The choice of the tourism study Tours，Is remedial class for high，Reward children will choose apple three-piece suit。This is not a right view of consume reflect。”He thinks，Parents should set up a right view of consume，If the children spend in learning specialty knowledge and growth，Spending more and will support，But some only used in beer and skittles on the high consumption，Will restraint，Otherwise not only feel great burden，But also to the child establish a correct concept of consumption。

　　徐州青年路小学的省特级教师王小茜也认为，孩子暑假过得好不好，并不取决于消费多少，而是家长们花了多少精力。她认为，现在很多家长工作繁忙，平时没有多少时间陪着孩子，在暑假里，他们更应该珍惜时间，多和孩子在一起。“不少家长给孩子报学习班，送孩子出去游学，或者干脆扔在老人那儿，即便他们花的钱再多，也无法让孩子收获真正的快乐。”

Xuzhou qingnian road primary school province superfine teacher WangXiaoQian also think，Children summer vacation well，Does not depend on how much consumption，But parents how much energy。She thinks，Now many parents busy working，Usually don't have much time with their children，In the summer，They are more should cherish the time，Many children together。“Many parents give children to classes，Send children out studies，Or simply thrown into the old man there，Even if they spent more money，Can't let children gain true happiness。”

　　受访的两位专家都认为，暑假作为孩子们难得的放松调整时间，应当适度为孩子安排一些消费项目。记者比对他们提供的过好暑假活动清单和网友们提供的暑假账单，发现两者差别不小。

The surveyed two experts think，Summer vacation as children rare relax adjustment time，For the child shall be moderate arrange some consumption project。Reporter than they offer a good summer activities list and net friends provide summer vacation the bill，Find both difference not small。

　　专家建议暑假活动包括：购书、旅游、学习、体育锻炼、社交活动等。在网友们贴出的暑期账单中，很少有人列出为孩子购书的开支；旅游项目中，专家建议重要的是以亲子游形式，线路根据家庭经济实际状况，最好选择中短途休闲游，谨慎对待各种高价游学；学习项目中，专家建议家长辅导孩子学习最好的办法是形成互动，对于一般补习班，根据孩子实际情况少量选择，对于高价提高班，建议最好不要报；体育锻炼中，专家建议家长每天都要带着孩子走出家门，参加各种形式的锻炼，而不是买几张游泳票或健身卡，让孩子进行单一的体育锻炼。（扬子晚报记者 马志亚 实习生 杨庆庆）

Experts suggest summer activities include：acquisition、tourism、learning、Physical exercise、Social activities。In the net friends posted summer in the bill，Few people list for the children purchase expenses；Tourism project，Experts suggest important in parent-child swimming form，Line according to the family economic actual condition，Best choice ZhongDuanTu leisure，Careful with various high studies；Learning project，The experts advise parents to counseling children learn the best way is to form interaction，For general cram school，According to the actual situation a few children choose，High prices for intensive，The proposal had better don't quote；Physical training，The experts advise parents to everyday want to take their children out of the house，Take part in all kinds of forms of exercise，Rather than buy a few pieces of swimming ticket or fitness card，Let the child have a single physical exercise。（Yangzi evening news reporter MaZhiYa interns YangQingQing）

　　作者：马志亚 杨庆庆

The author：MaZhiYa YangQingQing