人民网北京8月28日电日前，北京师范大学教授沃建忠做客人民网《对话教育》高端访谈节目，他表示，美国和中国家长的教育观念不一样。

People net Beijing on August 28 -- recently，Professor of Beijing normal university WoJianZhong we visit《Dialogue education》High-end interview program，He said，The United States and Chinese parents' education concept is not the same。

　　沃建忠说：我的理解是这样的，可能美国和中国不一样，不一样在哪里呢？我们觉得可以从几个方面来做比较。第一，从人格发展上，我们从内在的人格发展上来做比较，这个比较在哪里呢？美国人是比较独立，敢于冒险，敢于承担责任。而中国人不是，中国人是比较谦虚，比较内涵，内敛型。这个教育的方式是不一样的。

WoJianZhong said：I understand it is this，Could the United States and China is not the same，Not the same in where？We think we can from several aspects to do comparison。The first，From the personality development，From our inner personality development up to compare，This is where？Americans are more independent，adventurous，Dares to undertake the responsibility。And Chinese is not，Chinese are modest，Comparative connotation，Inside collect type。The education way is not the same。

　　譬如说我们举一个情景，孩子刚刚会走路，不小心被旁边凳子给绊倒了，你想想我们的家长会怎么做？

For example we lift a scene，The child has just learnt to walk，Don't be careful next to be tripped stool，Do you think our parents do？

　　马上扶起来。下一个动作，打这个凳子，打它，打它，讨厌，你把他绊倒了，无形当中影响孩子，这不是我的问题，是凳子的问题，推卸责任。这不是我的事情，我电话打过了，他没有来参加会议不是我的事情，是对方没有听明白，是对方没有回，从小培养推卸责任。美国人怎么做的？孩子摔倒了，首先看看，站起来，流血了，没有关系，我们一流血，紧张的不得了，骂来骂去，责怪谁，而他们是重新站起来，重新走一遍，再走一遍，走到不会摔倒为止。他从小培养孩子，一个是独立、勇敢，敢于冒险，敢于承担责任。所以你会看到，孩子很小的时候，自己背着一个包包去旅游了，哪有那么多复杂的事情，家长给他服务那么多，这是完全不一样的。这是一个点。

Immediately up.where。Next action，Call this stool，Hit it，Hit it，hate，You put him down the，Invisible among affect children，It's not my problem，Is the problem of stool，Shirk responsibility。It's not my thing，I had the phone call，He didn't come to the meeting is not my thing，Is the other party didn't listen to understand，Is the other party didn't answer，From childhood culture shirk responsibility。Americans how to do？The child fell down，Take a look first at，Stand up，bleeding，No matter，We a blood，Strain of impending，Scold to scold to，Blame who，And they are to stand up，To go again，Go again，Walk to won't fall so far。He was a child，A is independent、brave，adventurous，Dares to undertake the responsibility。So you will see，Children at a very young age，Their carrying a bag to travel，Where there are so many complex things，Parents give serve him so much，This is completely different。This is a point。

　　第二，美国教育模式一个非常大的特点，它首先把标准不是定在现在，是定在未来，将来这个孩子长成年成为大人以后，他要承担的是什么，他要具备的是什么样的素质，这是最重要的。我们会发现很多大学生或者大学毕业生会讲，我的孩子读完以后很多课程是没有用的，学完以后都没有什么用，一辈子也不会用到，所以没有把这个课程进行实用性的转化，而我们人最重要的是一辈子，我们想想要干吗，让自己能够生存的更好、更幸福、更快乐、更自由。这是每个人共同所追求的东西。而不是说仅仅我为了让自己生存。所以，在这个时候，人的一生当中，他不仅仅是学习是一个方面，工作是一个方面，娱乐也是一个重要的方面。

The second，The United States education mode a very big characteristics，It first turn on the standard is not fixed in the present，Is fixed in the future，In the future the child grow up an adult years later，He has to assume what is it，He will have what kind of quality，This is the most important。We will find many college students or university graduates can speak，My child after reading it a lot of course is useless，After learning have what use，Life won't use，So did not see this curriculum practical transformation，And we are the most important thing is for a lifetime，We think of doing，So they can live better、More happiness、More happy、More freedom。This is the common pursuit of things。Not only I said in order to make its own survival。so，At this time，In one's life，He is not only a learning is a aspects，Work is a aspects，Entertainment is also an important aspect。