对此，专家认为，高学历的人在婚恋面前，还应放低姿态，并勇于秀出自我，用心寻觅真爱。

this，Experts say，Highly educated people in front of marriage，Should also put a low profile，And the courage to show yourself，By looking for true love。

专场相亲会 他们也害羞 Special performance to will they also shy

　　25日，湖北首届硕博姻缘会拉开帷幕。参加活动的相亲者，都拥有硕士以上学历，其中不乏公务员、工程师、大学教师等白领精英。

25，The first hubei bosoar bo marriage will be unveiled。Participated in the activities QinZhe phase，Have a master's degree，There is no lack of among them civil servants、engineer、University teachers etc white-collar elite。

　　据介绍，报名时，不少报名者希望主办方能严格保守其个人资料。主办方考虑到相亲者的要求，在活动入场处准备了一些面具，没想到，真的有约三分之一的相亲者全程戴着面具。

According to introducing，When signing up，Many applicants hope host will strictly keep the personal data。Organizers considering the phase QinZhe requirements，In the activities in the prepared some mask，Didn't expect，Really approximately one third of the phase QinZhe wearing masks。

　　“事实证明，那些戴着面具、不愿上台展示的相亲者，相亲效果远不如那些勇敢摘下面具展示自我的人。”主办方一位负责人对记者说，“现场一位男博士当众朗诵英文诗，马上赢得不少女士青睐。”这位负责人说，一般的相亲会都不会有人戴面具，在为硕士博士举行的专场相亲会上，他们还戴面具，一方面说明他们自视甚高，不愿让人知道他们参加相亲活动，另一方面又说明他们内心自卑，不能正视自己面临的问题。

“Facts have proved，Those who wear masks、Don't want to show on the stage of QinZhe phase，Dear to effect than those brave took off mask display of himself。”Sponsor a person in charge told reporters，“Field a male doctor in public reading English poems，Immediately won a lot of women favour。”The person in charge said，General blind date will not someone mask，For dr. Master a special performance to the meeting，They also wear masks，On the one hand that they thought highly，Don't want to let people know that they attend a matchmaking party，On the other hand, shows that they heart inferiority，Can't face yourself are faced with the problem。

博士和硕士 都为结婚愁 Doctor and master's for wedding sorrow

　　高学历人群的婚恋难题一直是一个备受关注的话题。汉口一家知名婚介公司负责人告诉记者，今年在他们公司登记想找对象的未婚青年中，拥有硕士以上学历者超过了30%，几年来，这一比例在逐年增加。

Highly educated people's love and marriage problem has always been a controversial topic。Hankou a well-known dating service company controller told reporters，This year in their company registration want to find objects in unmarried youth，Have master's or higher degrees more than 30%，In the past few years，This proportion in increases year by year。

　　27岁的史小姐告诉记者，她刚考上研究生时，导师就劝她们女学生赶紧找男朋友，学历越高越难找。但她还是上学时忙学习，毕业了忙工作，至今一直单身。以前挑挑拣拣，总觉得没找到最好的，现在却不敢再挑，只想赶紧嫁掉。

The 27-year-old ms history told reporters，She just admitted to graduate school，They have advised them female students hurriedly looking for a boyfriend，The higher education is hard to find。But she still busy at school learning，Graduated from the busy work，Has single。Before pick and choose，Always feel didn't find the best，But now I can't pick again，Just want to hurry to marry off。

　　30岁的博士张先生则感叹，当年的大学同学都结婚甚至当爹了，他还在为对象发愁。

At the age of 30. Mr. Zhang is exclamation，The university students get married even when the father，He also in trouble for the object。

专家：摘下面具大胆去爱 experts：Take off the mask bold to love

　　关于高学历人群为何面临婚恋难题及如何解决，记者采访了高级婚姻咨询师左力羽和世纪佳缘创始人、情感专家龚海燕。

About why educated to face marriage problem and how to solve，The reporter interviewed senior marriage consultants left force feather and century better edge founder、Emotional GongHaiYan experts。

　　她们认为，硕士和博士虽然戴上高学历的帽子，收获了学业上的成就，但一不小心，恋爱的黄金季节已经过了。同时，因为他们学历高，对对方也抱有较高期望，一般人不入他们的眼，这又增加了他们择偶的难度。此外，不少高知分子，学历越高越矜持，总觉得以自己那么好的条件，可以坐等别人来发现自己的闪光点，无意间错失了很多良机。

They think，Master and Ph.D. Although wear the highly educated hat，Harvest the academic achievements，But he，Love the gold season that has passed。At the same time，Because of their high degree，On the other side also have higher expectations，People are not in their eyes，This increased the difficulty of their marriage。In addition，Many highly-educated molecular，Degree, the higher the reserved，Always felt himself so good conditions，Can wait for others to find their own shining point，Inadvertently missed a lot of opportunities。

　　她们建议，高学历者应该在学习和工作之余，放松身心，多与社会接触，为爱情创造条件。“酒香也怕巷子深”，硕士博士他们的优点往往要通过深入的了解才能充分展现，所以他们应该走出来，勇敢展示自己，而不是“戴面具”。“高学历人群找个阅历、地位等相当的爱人不容易，可选择的对象比别人少，所以更加不能‘端着’。”（楚天都市报 记者庞正）

They suggest，High educational level should be in the study and work more than the，Loosen body and mind，Many and social contact，For love to create conditions。“Bouquet of deep alley”，Dr. Master their advantages often through the deep understanding to show adequately，So they should walk out，Brave show their，not“mask”。“Educated to find a experience、Status is quite lover is not easy，Optional object less than other people，So more can't‘End the’。”（Chutian metropolis daily reporter PangZheng）