【求学路】

[School road]

　　2006年从山东德州来京就读。

2006 from shandong Texas in Beijing.

　　升初中时，托人交择校费，进入海淀一所普通中学。

Rise junior high school,Into ZeJiaoFei subject,Enter the haidian a common middle schools.

　　在“返乡读书”和“继续留京”之间徘徊。

in"Home reading"and"Continue to leave Beijing"Hovering between.

　　2012年6月回山东参加当地中考，而后，参加北京中考。

June 2012 back to shandong to participate in local tests,then,Examination in Beijing.

　　在德州托人找学校。

Looking for a school subject in Texas.

　　返回德州老家读书。

Return to Texas home reading.

　　人物：蔓蔓（化名）

characters:ManMan(alias)

　　年龄：15岁

age:15 years old

　　就读情况：9岁从山东来京读小学，今年将回乡继续上高中

Studying situation:9 years old to Beijing from elementary school in shandong province,This year will continue to return home in high school

　　“纠结，超级纠结。”望着晴朗的天空，北漂创业者刘刚无奈地叹了口气。

"ravel,Super ravel."Looking at the clear sky,North drift entrepreneurs friend Mr Liu gang helplessly sigh.

　　6年前的暑假，刘刚（化名）将妻儿从山东德州老家接到北京团聚，那一年，女儿蔓蔓（化名）刚上四年级；6年后的暑假，刘刚和妻子开车把孩子送回山东德州老家，这一年，女儿即将上高中。

Six years ago summer vacation,Friend Mr Liu gang(alias)The wife and children from shandong Texas their hometown to Beijing together,That year,Daughter ManMan(alias)Just top grade four;Six years later summer vacation,Friend Mr Liu gang and his wife drive children back to shandong Texas home,This year,Daughter is in high school.

　　今年，结束了10年的租房史，刘刚在北京大兴买了房。不过，未来大部分时间，房中少了蔓蔓的欢笑，他们还要重新适应。

This year,Over 10 years history of rent,Friend Mr Liu gang in Beijing daxing bought a house.but,Most of the time in the future,Atrial ManMan less laughter,They also readjustment.

　　犹豫

hesitate

　　走or留？这是个问题

Go or stay?This is a question

　　刘刚一家的户口都在山东老家。女儿9岁那年，转来北京上学。升初中时，由于没有北京户口，不能参加电脑配位，刘刚托人交了一笔择校费，把孩子送到了海淀一所普通中学。因为成绩突出，女儿在分班测试后进入全年级最好的班。

Friend Mr Liu gang a registered permanent residence in shandong their hometown.Daughter 9 years old,Turn came to Beijing to go to school.Rise junior high school,Since there is no Beijing hukou,Can't join computer coordination,Friend Mr Liu gang subject made a ZeJiaoFei,Take the children to the haidian a common middle schools.Because the results highlight,Daughter in a placement test to the whole grade is the best class.

　　其实，自从女儿进入初中以后，“留”还是“走”就一直困扰着他们。初二时，女儿班上两位外地借读学生相继转走，刘刚就与女儿讨论过这个话题。“如果能留下，就尽量留下。”蔓蔓这样表态。小小年纪，她确实还不足够坚强，可以抛开父母和伙伴，到一个曾经熟悉如今却已陌生的地方独自求学。

In fact,Since daughter into the junior high school later,"leave"or"go"Has been bothering them.When there,Daughter class two foreign unwelcome students successively transferred,Friend Mr Liu gang with daughter discussed this topic."If can leave,As far as possible to leave."ManMan such comment.Small age,She really is not strong enough,Can put aside their parents and partners,To a once knew now has strange place to study alone.

　　之后，刘刚一有空就在网上与其他非京籍家长交流心得，但却并没有找到一个确定的方法。每一种选择都有风险，对孩子的伤害也在所难免，只是时间早晚问题。

after,Whenever you have a friend Mr Liu gang on the Internet and other non Beijing by parents exchange experience,But did not find a method of determining the.Each option has risk,To the child's injury also unavoidable,Is just a matter of time before.

　　试探

test

　　两次中考两重天

Two tests and flame

　　纠结中，刘刚最终决定让孩子在北京和山东德州两地参加两次中考，等成绩出来后，再做决定。

Entanglements in,Friend Mr Liu gang finally decided to let the child in Beijing and shandong Texas both take part in the two tests,Results after coming out, etc,To make a decision.

　　6月上旬，在爷爷的陪同下，蔓蔓先到山东参加了那里的中考，顺便熟悉当地的环境。

6 month,Accompanied by in grandpa's,ManMan before to shandong to participate in the examination,Familiar with local environment by the way.

　　“怎么那么破。”蔓蔓考试的地点是当地一所比较知名的学校，但硬件条件还是让她咋舌。“还是老式的黑板，我们学校都用上了白板，而且还有各种电子设备。”

"How so broken."ManMan test site is a local compare well-known school,But the hardware condition or let her be left speechless with wonder or fear."Or old-fashioned the blackboard,Our school is the use of white board,And there are various kinds of electronic equipment."

　　城市秩序也让蔓蔓感到难以适应，过去每隔半年她就会随同父母回德州一次，不过旅游和长期停留的感觉截然不同。“公交车从来不报站，电动车随便闯红灯。”

City order also let ManMan feel difficult to adapt to,In the past every half a year she will come along with parents to Texas a,But tourism and long stay feeling very different."The bus never stops,Electric cars to run a red light."

　　中考那天，蔓蔓发挥一般，成绩并不理想。拖后腿的主要是在北京中考不考的科目：历史、地理、政治和生物，这几科单科满分50分，但蔓蔓最高单科只考了二十多分，还有一科只考了十几分。而体育和生物实验由于回乡太晚无法补考，也只能记为零分。这样，蔓蔓的山东中考总分490多分，而成绩好的学生通常会到640分左右。

Tests that day,ManMan play general,Result is not ideal.Foot-draggers ask mainly in Beijing mid-term exam does not take an examination of course:history/geographic/Political and biological,This a few families specifies full score 50 points,But ManMan specifies the highest only got 20 points,A family only got ten somewhat.The physical and biological experiment due to return home too late to make-up,Also can only be recorded as zero.this,ManMan shandong tests the total score 490 points,And good student usually to about 640 points.

　　从山东回来之后，女儿立即投入了北京中考，最终成绩虽然不及平时，但总分也考到了510多分。

From shandong came back,Daughter immediately went to the Beijing tests,Final result although not as good as usual,But the total score also tested 510 points.

　　抉择

choice

　　回乡决定像赌博

Return home decided to like gambling

　　两地考试的差异，让刘刚开始偏向于将孩子送回老家。他开始更加积极地在德州当地托人帮孩子找学校。“尽管目前看来差了一些，但我相信在好的学习氛围带动下，孩子会进步的。”

The difference of the two test,Let friend Mr Liu gang began to be in the children back to their hometown.He began to more actively in Texas subject to help local children find the school."Although it seems sent some,But I believe in good learning atmosphere under the drive,The child will progress."

　　朝阳区一所外省引进学校在得知蔓蔓的情况后，很热情地邀请她去就读。不过，刘刚还是谢绝了。

Chaoyang district, a provincial school introduced that in ManMan the circumstances,Very warmly invited her to attend.but,Friend Mr Liu gang or declined.

　　“当地联系的学校也是一所很不错的学校，否则我也不会送她回去。”刘刚说，在去留问题上，最终是家长替孩子做了决定。

"Contact local school is also a very good school,Otherwise I wouldn't give her back."Friend Mr Liu gang said,In the future,Finally is the decision parents doing for children.

　　“至少以后不用再折腾了”。在与非京籍家长聊天时，很多家长会不约而同地提到这句话。女儿所在的初中班级，共有5位外地借读学生，其中2人在初二就已回乡。

"After at least no more about".With the Beijing in cadastral parents when chatting,Many parents will happen to coincide to mention this sentence.Daughter in the junior middle school class,There are five foreign students unwelcome,2 people in there is already return home.

　　“回去的决定是对还是错，我也不知道，像是赌博。”

"Go back to decision is right or wrong,I don't know,Like gambling."

　　担忧

concerns

　　最怕孩子会早恋

The most afraid of the child will love

　　德州距离北京，动车只需1个多小时，来往还算方便，刘刚和妻子准备以后常去看看孩子。从来没有寄宿过的蔓蔓，如今却要在异乡独立面对一切。蔓蔓说，她现在最担心的是到了新学校跟不上进度。

Texas distance Beijing,Moving car just more than one hour,With fairly convenient,Friend Mr Liu gang and his wife to see children often go after.Never boarding the ManMan,But now you have to in the foreign independent facing all.ManMan said,She is now most concerned about is the new school can pace.

　　不过在刘刚看来，孩子健康才是第一位的。与北京相比，德州的课业负担会成倍增加，在紧邻德州的河北衡水，当地学校有一句知名的标语：让学生学坏都没有时间。在最近一次与女儿的聊天中，刘刚再次重申了自己对女儿的要求：身体第一，学习第二。

But in friend Mr Liu gang looks,The child health is the first.Compared with Beijing,Texas schoolwork burden will increase exponentially,In the next Texas hebei hengshui,The local school has a famous slogan:Let the students ill have time.In a recent and daughter in the chat,Once again reiterated his friend Mr Liu gang to her daughter's request:Body first,Learning a second.

　　当然，他和妻子还有一个担心早恋。“我最怕的不是她谈恋爱，而是怕她被恋爱冲昏头脑。”刘刚说，离开父母的孤独以及学习的压力，对于刚刚独立生活的孩子而言是一个巨大的考验，孩子能否承受，他们心中完全没底。

Of course,He and his wife have a worry about puppy love."I am most afraid of not love her,But afraid she was in love go to one's head."Friend Mr Liu gang said,Leave your parents alone and learning pressure,For just independent life for a child is a big test,Children can withstand,Their hearts completely unavoidable.

　　昨日，刘刚一家踏上了去往德州的路程。“我的孩子已经回乡了，但我还是会继续呼吁解决非本地户籍人的本地高考问题。”刘刚说，蔓蔓也许享受不到这个政策，但他还是要为以后千千万万的孩子呼吁，希望这个问题早点解决。

yesterday,A friend Mr Liu gang embarked on a journey to Texas."My child has a home,But I will still continue to call for solve the non-native household register of local college entrance examination questions."Friend Mr Liu gang said,ManMan perhaps do not enjoy this policy,But he still want to millions of children for later called for,Hope this problem to solve earlier.

　　新京报记者 王佳琳

The Beijing news reporter WangJiaLin

　　刘刚：我跟孩子反复说：身体第一，学习第二。山东的高中最多两周休息一次，有时候甚至四周休息一次，我很担心孩子身体吃不消。

Friend Mr Liu gang:I told the children said over and over again:Body first,Learning a second.Shandong high school at most two weeks of rest for a time,Sometimes even a rest all around,I'm worried about the child's physical be unable to stand.