冷默

Cold vision

　　9月，开学季。对于今年孩子将从幼儿园步入小学的家长来说不免有些紧张。最近，在各类育儿论坛上多了很多家长的求助帖子，主题大多是关于如何让孩子做好上小学的准备。那么，孩子进入小学一般会遇到哪些问题？家长在孩子开学后该做些什么才能让孩子尽快适应呢？

September,Opening season.This year for children from kindergarten into primary school for parents not nervous.recently,In all kinds of parenting BBS on a lot of parents for help posts,Theme is mostly about how to let the child well prepared in elementary school.so,Children enter primary school general will have what problem?Parents in the children after the start of what to do to let the child to as soon as possible?

　　家长博客

Parents blog

　　今日分享家长：张小瑜

Share parents today:ZhangXiaoYu

　　开学了,新生家长该做什么

begins,New parents do

　　开学了，孩子从幼儿园走向小学能适应吗？年轻的家长都有些困惑。想做个好家长，在开学前应做哪些有效的准备工作呢？

begins,Children from kindergarten to primary school can adapt?Young parents some confusion.Want to be a good parent,Before the start of what should be in effective preparation work??

　　心理：成为小学生很自豪

psychological:Become a pupil very proud

　　从幼儿园步入小学，是儿童身心发展的一次重大转折，对孩子和家长来说，都是一次考验。在心理方面，家长要让孩子觉得“做一名小学生是很自豪的事”。与孩子聊天时，家长要经常和孩子有意识地聊一聊小学生及小学校园的事情，告诉孩子上学的种种好处，比如可以认识很多新朋友，学到更多的知识等。

From kindergarten into primary school,Is children's physical and mental development of a major turning point,For children and parents speaking,Is a test.In the psychological aspect,Parents must let children feel"Be a pupil is very proud of matter".And children when chatting,Parents often and children consciously a chat primary school students and primary school campus things,Tell the children to go to school all kinds of benefits,For instance can know a lot of new friends,Learn more knowledge, etc.

　　另外，进入新的环境，如果能迅速地交到朋友，可以帮助孩子迅速融入新环境，因此帮助孩子加强表达能力储备合适的话题很重要。比如孩子叫什么名字，喜欢些什么，家里有几口人，住什么地方，家庭的一些基本情况孩子还是应该了解一下。还可以提前教给孩子一些初次见面的沟通方式，有了这些基本的谈资，孩子和老师、同学交流起来，不至于无话可说，尤其是可以让老师迅速地了解孩子，拉近彼此的距离。

In addition,Into the new environment,If you can quickly make new friends,Can help children quickly into the new environment,So help children to strengthen the ability of expression reserves the right topic is very important.Such as what is the child's name,Like what,Home a few mouth people,Live where,Family and some basic situation of children should know about.Can also teach a child in advance some first met means of communication,With these basic conversations,The child and the teacher/Exchange students,Not have nothing to say,Especially can let the teacher know children quickly,Close the distance of each other.

　　家长还要尝试着让孩子能静心地坐下来。孩子在幼儿园以游戏活动为主要的学习形式，到了小学，将被正规的分科课程代替，原来在游戏中学习，在学习中游戏变成了长达40分钟的课堂教学和每天必须完成的家庭作业。家长可以有意识地培养孩子能静心地坐下来，开始的时间可以是20分钟，以后再逐渐延长，不可操之过急。可以布置一些小“作业”，如让他看看画书、画些画等。做这些事时要养成一心一意不讲话，不时常站起来走动，认真做事的习惯。

Parents will try to let the child can meditation to sit down.The children in the kindergarten to game activities as the main form of learning,The primary school,Will be formal branch course instead,The original study in the game,In the study the game became for as long as 40 minutes of classroom teaching and daily must complete homework.Parents can consciously train children can meditation to sit down,Start time can be 20 minutes,Later extended gradually,Must not be too hasty.Can decorate a few small"homework",If let him look at picture books/Draw some painting, etc.Do these things to develop a mind don't talk,Don't often stood up and about,The habit of work seriously.

　　此外，父母还可与孩子坐下来开个“家庭座谈会”，认真地与孩子做一次交谈。告诉孩子从上学起，就要努力学会自己的事自己做，告诉孩子养成规定的学习习惯：放学回家做完作业后再玩；按时独立思考完成作业；学会预习明天将要教的内容；做作业前先复习老师讲课的内容；做作业时仔细读题目；作业完成后认真检查一遍；作业做错后及时订正等。

In addition,Parents and children can sit down and have a"Family forum",Carefully with children do a conversation.Tell the child from the school,And will work hard to learn to do their own things to do,Tell children to develop regulations study habits:Come home from school after we finished our homework again;Independent thinking finish the homework on time;Learn to prepare tomorrow will teach content;Do my homework before you review the content of the teacher;When you do your homework carefully read the topic;After completion of assignments seriously check it again;Homework after doing wrong timely correction etc.

　　生活：吃喝拉撒都要训练

life:Eat and drink pull scatter all want to training

　　每年的新生入学头几天，很多小学总会出现几个打瞌睡、尿裤子、不会吃饭的孩子。还有，新生第一节课，老师一说拿课本，稀里哗啦，孩子桌子上的东西掉得满地都是。所以，家长一定要利用暑假训练好孩子的生活自理能力。

The newborn matriculation first few days a year,A lot of primary school always appear a few doze off/Urine trousers/Not to eat children.and,New the first class,The teacher said, "take textbooks,Sparse inside hua,The child table things off all over the ground.so,Parents must use summer training good boy life self-care ability.

　　自己上厕所、提裤子、穿鞋子、吃饭……这些生活技能是孩子入校前一定要掌握的。有的小朋友不会自己褪裤子上厕所，又不好意思跟还不熟悉的老师求助，就特别容易尿裤子，如果因此别的孩子开始嘲笑他，孩子就特别容易产生挫败感，害怕上学面对同学老师。因此，这是家长尤其要注意的。另外，幼儿园一般都有午睡时间，而到了小学就没有午睡了，家长要提前调整孩子的生物钟。此外，家长最好提前了解小学的作息安排，并以此时间为标准，调整孩子的作息时间。

Himself in the toilet/Carry pants/Wear shoes/eat……The life skills of children in the door is the former must master.Some children won't faded pants toilets,And embarrassed and are still not familiar with the teacher for help,Is especially easy to urine trousers,If therefore other children began to laugh at him,The child is especially easy to produce frustration,Afraid to go to school in the face of his classmates and teachers.therefore,This is especially parents should pay attention to.In addition,Kindergarten usually have a nap time,By elementary school is not a siesta,The parents want to advance adjust the child's biological clock.In addition,Parents had better understand elementary school ahead of schedule,And this time as the standard,Adjust the child's work and rest time.

　　在饮食习惯上，家长要教会孩子吃饭的好习惯。每学期开学后，老师发现有的孩子自己不会吃饭，一顿饭会磨蹭很长时间，吃得地上桌上洒了很多饭，影响孩子的午休时间，老师特别提出，希望家长在假期中慢慢并适当缩短孩子吃饭的时间，培养孩子自己吃饭的良好习惯。

In eating habits,Parents should teach children the good habit of eating.After beginning of every semester,The teacher found that some children he won't eat,A meal will linger for a long time,Eat the ground the table spread a lot of rice,Impact on the child's lunch break,The teacher put forward special,Hope that parents in holiday slowly and shorten appropriately child meal time,Cultivate children eat their good habits.

　　最后，开学后，家长要培养孩子自己收拾东西的习惯，免得孩子上学时家长成为经常送学习用品的“钟点工”。要教会孩子每天按着课程表自己整理书包、收拾文具，以便能带齐学习用品。孩子自己整理书包和文具盒，开始会手忙脚乱，丢三落四，家长要有耐心，从旁多加指点，可先给孩子做示范，手把手地教他，再让他重复着做一做，孩子就不再依赖父母了。

finally,After the start of,Parents should cultivate children to clean up his mess things habits,So that when the children were at school parents become often send learning supplies"Part time employees".Want to teach children to their daily schedule according to pack my school bag/Tidy up stationery,In order to take JiXueXi supplies.The child himself finishing school bags and pencil case,Start helter skelter,forgetful,The parents want to have patience,From the side more advice,Can give children do demonstration,Used to hold your hands and teach him,Let he repeated do it,The child is no longer dependent on his parents.

　　物质：给孩子建立一个“小天地”

material:Give the child to establish a"microcosmos"

　　在家里，可以固定孩子摆放物品的位置。给孩子准备一个小柜子，有条件的家长可以准备一个小书橱，教会孩子将故事书、课本、练习本等能分类摆放，家长可以在柜子上方贴上一些动物小标示，营造出一个儿童小世界的氛围，吸引孩子喜爱和珍惜自己的“小天地”。

At home,Fixed child can put the position of the item.To prepare children for a small cupboard,Conditional parents can prepare a small bookcase,The church children will be story books/textbooks/Exercise book classification can be put,Parents can above the cabinet post some animal small mark,Create a children's small world atmosphere,To attract children love and cherish their own"microcosmos".

　　家长还可以准备一个小闹钟，并教会孩子看钟。父母要有意识地规划好孩子的作息时间，调整孩子的生活起居习惯及常规，养成孩子自己准时就寝，准时起床的习惯。家长最好能与孩子共同制作一张作息时间表，并贴在孩子看得到的地方，并要求孩子一定要按照时间表去做。

Parents can also prepare a small alarm clock,And the church children watch the clock.Parents will consciously planning boy schedules,Adjust the life of the child living habits and traditions,Develop children go to bed on time,The habit of getting up on time.Parents and children can best together make a timetable,And posted on the child see place,And ask the child must, in accordance with the schedule to do.

　　建议家长为孩子制作一张作业正确率统计表，将表贴在墙上。做完作业由孩子自己检查，全对的，给孩子画一颗星，不要养成家长代孩子检查作业的不良习惯。家长可以每周或每个月与孩子共同进行小结，并给予适当的奖励，这可以更好地激发孩子学习的兴趣。

Suggested that parents for children make a correct operation statistics,Will list posted on the wall.Finished my homework by children check yourself,All right,Give the child draw a star,Don't get into the parents and children inspection work of bad habits.Parents can weekly or monthly and children together carries on the summary,And give proper rewards,This can be better inspire children learning interest.

　　准备一个《记事本》。《记事本》是学生专门用来记当天的作业或第二天要带的物品，也可以作为草稿本用。

Prepare a[notepad].[notepad]Is dedicated to the students to remember the day's work or the next day to bring items,Also can be used as the draft with.

　　规则：培养学习习惯更重要

rules:Cultivating students' habits are more important

　　除了生活和心理方面的训练，家长还要给孩子制定规则，培养孩子的规则意识。在幼儿园时，许多家长并没有强迫孩子必须写作业。上了小学，就不一样了，要让孩子知道学习、写作业都是他的责任。此外，很多家长利用这个假期给孩子报了很多辅导班，希望孩子能够提前学习小学知识。很多孩子在学过一轮小学一年级上学期的知识后，处于一种似懂非懂的状况，上课可能就不会认真听讲，反而不利于孩子良好学习习惯的养成，这样的孩子往往开始冒头，后劲不足，到了下学期特别容易出现退步，这种一下子的落后比一点一点的落后，对孩子形成的打击会更大。因此，比起知识的学习，对于小学生而言，学习习惯的养成更加重要。

In addition to life and mental aspects of the training,Parents also give the child set rules,Develop the child's consciousness of rules.In kindergarten,Many parents and children must not force homework.On the primary school,Is not the same,Let the child know learning/Homework is his responsibility.In addition,Many parents use of this holiday to give children a lot of remedial class,Hope children can learn knowledge ahead of primary school.Many children in a primary school round a grade last semester after knowledge,In a not fully understand the situation,The class might not seriously listened to the lecture,But against the child good learning habits,Such children often start rail,Lack of staying power,Next semester to special prone to downgrade,At the backward than bit by bit behind,For the child to form blow will be more big.therefore,Compared with the knowledge learning,As for primary school students,Learning habits is more important.