人民网北京9月4日电（记者 许博）9月迎来了开学季，人民网《对话教育》邀请了北京安博教育学校校长张永春和心理健康教育教师周霞做客人民网，与大家一同探讨，开学第一课：如何更好的适应新课堂。

People net Beijing on September 4 (Reuters)(Reporter XuBo)September ushered in the opening quarter,we[Dialogue education]Invited Beijing ember education school principal ZhangYongChun and mental health education teachers ZhouXia we visit,With everybody together,First class:How to better adapt to the new class.

　　刚刚脱离家庭的小朋友，“入托难”成了家里这一阶段的核心问题。面对这种情况，张永春说，孩子从经常和父母在一起的环境到一个陌生的环境，有安全感丧失的阶段，每一年期间都会有这样的情况，家长特别难受，看到孩子在哭特别难受。现在不断地和孩子进行交流，比如前期让孩子有一定的心理准备，可以帮他准备一些物品，牙刷、牙膏、小被子、小褥子，参与到这个过程中，这样孩子内心深处会有一个预期，这样再送到学校里去，然后再和老师进行充分的沟通，把孩子的特点、内心的喜好都和老师进行充分的沟通。告诉孩子什么时间来接你，有一个充分的交流，可能会好一些。

Just from the family of children,"Nursery difficult"Become home this phase of the core problem.Face this kind of situation,ZhangYongChun said,The child from often and parents together of the environment to a strange environment,Have safe feeling lost stage,Between every year there will be such a situation,Parents particularly uncomfortable,See their children crying particularly uncomfortable.Now constantly and children exchange,Such as prophase let children have certain mental preparation,Can help him to prepare some items,toothbrush/toothpaste/Small quilt/Small plate,Involved in the process,Such children will have a heart expected,It again to go to school,Then and teacher to sufficient communication,The characteristics of the child/The be fond of of heart and teacher to sufficient communication.Tell children about time to pick you up,There is a full exchange,Couldn't be better.

　　另外张永春强调，好孩子是夸出来的，不断地鼓励孩子，让孩子有成功的喜悦和体验。比如一个小男孩，说他是男子汉，真不错，第二天他可能会有一定的成就感，陪着大人就一起过去了。

In addition ZhangYongChun stressed,Good boy is out of the glory,Constantly encourage children,Let the child have the joy of success and experience.Such as a little boy,Said that he is a man,It's good,The next day he may have a certain sense of accomplishment,With adult went past.

　　心理健康教育教师周霞也表示，及时地给孩子一些奖励和鼓励特别重要，尤其对于年纪小的孩子。另外是帮助孩子熟悉新环境，不只是孩子，包括成年人，到了一个新环境里多少还是会有些许的害怕，可能也是人自我保护的能力。所以家长也要理解孩子这样一个状态，帮助孩子熟悉新环境，比如一起准备东西，和老师进行沟通，有条件的话可以带他提前去幼儿园，熟悉幼儿园的环境，甚至同班的小朋友能够有所接触，环境熟悉了，安全感就上升了，这样分离焦虑就会下降。

Mental health education teachers ZhouXia also said,Timely give children some reward and encouragement is especially important,Especially for young children.Another is to help the child be familiar with the new environment,Not only children,Including adults,To a new environment or how many there will be a little afraid,Also may be people to protect themselves.So parents also to understand children such a state,Help children familiar with the new environment,Such as ready to things together,And the teacher to communicate,Conditional word can take him to the kindergarten in advance,Familiar with the kindergarten environment,Even in the same class children can have contact,Environment familiar with the,Security is increased,This separation anxiety will fall.

　　同时，周霞表示“入托”不仅要做好孩子们的心里疏导，家长自身也要做充分的准备。对于孩子来说，和父母离开一段时间，对家长也是一样的，我们要提前有这样的预期，慢慢有一个适应的过程，总是要有一点时间的，开始不太好，会担心，慢慢随着对孩子的了解会下降，是需要有一个时间过程的。

At the same time,ZhouXia said"nursery"Not only do the children's heart counseling,Parents own also should make full preparation.For children,And parents to leave a period of time,For parents is the same,We want to advance have such expectations,Slowly have a process of orientation,Always want to have a little time,Began to not so good,Will worry about,Slowly along with to the child's understanding will decline,Is the need to have a time of the process.

　　在孩子初入幼儿园不适应时，周霞认为家长的态度一定要坚定，另外要结合自家孩子的特点来进行引导，应该让孩子上幼儿园，因为上幼儿园这个过程本身不只是去学文化、学知识，这只是一个很小的方面，最重要的是在幼儿园里面孩子开始学习集体生活，这是家庭生活不能代替的。这样的集体生活能够帮助他以后升小学或者更长时间会适应，他少了这个课，早晚都要补。每个孩子和家长的特点都不一样，所以要结合孩子的特点有一个逐渐的过程，但最终的目标还是要坚持，坚持让孩子上幼儿园。

The child started kindergarten is not in season,ZhouXia think parents attitude must be firm,In addition to combine the characteristics of their own children to guide,Should let their children in kindergarten,Because in the kindergarten this process itself not only to learn culture/Learn knowledge,This is only a small aspect,The most important thing is to the kindergarten children begin to learn in collective life,This is the family life can not substitute.Such a collective life can help him up after school or longer time will adapt to,He little this lesson,Sooner or later will fill.Every child and the characteristics of the parents are not the same,So want to combine the characteristics of the children there is a gradual process,But the final goal will keep on,Insist that their children in kindergarten.