现在，他们很幸运：有一个温暖的家，有爸爸妈妈，有兄弟姐妹。

now,They were lucky:Have a warm home,A mom and dad,Have brothers and sisters.

　　这是一个组合很特别的家庭，爸爸、妈妈和两儿、两女，一家六口人，但彼此没有血缘关系，不过，这个家却处处洋溢着温馨。这就是重庆市儿童福利院为孤儿们组建的“模拟家庭”。

This is a combination of very special family,dad/Mother and two son/Two female,A six people,But each other without blood relationship,but,The house is permeated with the sweet.This is the chongqing children's welfare home for orphans formed"Simulation family".

　　昨日，记者走进了这个家，在感受到欢乐、关爱的同时，也给我们带来了一些思考。

yesterday,The reporter walks into the home,Feel the joy in/Love at the same time,Also brought us some thinking.

4孤儿有了爸妈有了家 4 orphans have parents have a family

　　在市儿童福利院里，有一栋楼叫“新和家园”，住着24户模拟家庭，每户面积超140平方米。

Child welfare courtyard in the city,There is a building that"New and homes",Lived 24 door simulation family,Every area of over 140 square meters.

　　记者敲开二楼一户模拟家庭，女主人叫李成红，男主人叫周华钢。走进家里，李成红拉过孩子一一介绍：大女儿叫宋玲玲，10岁，智力障碍；小女儿叫谭笑，6岁，患脑积水；大儿子叫李亚鹏，7岁，聋哑；小儿子叫徐适宜，6岁，聋哑，脑瘫。

Reporters on the second floor of the open a door simulation family,The hostess that LiChengGong,Male host is ZhouHuaGang.Into the home,LiChengGong pull the child introduced:The older daughter call SongLingLing,10 years old,Intelligence obstacle;Daughter called tan smile,6 years old,With hydrocephalus;The first son call li3 ya3 peng2,7 years old,deaf;The younger son called xu appropriate,6 years old,deaf,Cerebral palsy.

　　“我们夫妇将近50岁了，自己女儿大学毕业后已工作了，没什么大的负担。”李成红说，因为自己平时比较闲，总觉得该干点什么。

"We couple nearly 50 years old,His daughter since she graduated university work,There is not much to burden."LiChengGong said,Because they usually is idle,Always feel the dry point??????.

　　2009年底，李成红报名参加了市儿童福利院模拟家庭公开招募活动，经评审通过，2010年1月，她与这四个孩子组成了模拟家庭。周华钢每天正常外出上班，李成红则全职在家料理家务和照顾4个孩子。

By the end of 2009,LiChengGong sign up for the city's welfare homes simulation family public recruiting activities,Through the review,In January 2010,She and the four children the simulation of family.ZhouHuaGang every normal go out to work,LiChengGong is full time at home cooking household chores and take care of four children.

　　“这是我们的全家福，我有了爸爸妈妈，我还有了家！”宋玲玲抢过话，指着照片上的人一个个介绍：爸爸、妈妈、弟弟、妹妹。

"This is our family photo,I have a mom and dad,I have a house!"SongLingLing rob spoken,Pointed at the picture and the people one by one introduced:dad/mother/brother/sister.

　　“玲玲刚进入家里时，脾气古怪，不讲卫生，是个不乖的孩子。”李成红说，这两年玲玲有了家，有了爸妈的引导，变化很大，脾气好了，也讲卫生了，而且很有礼貌。

"Lingling just into the home,fantast,Don't speak hygiene,Is a good child."LiChengGong said,The two years lingling have a family,The parents' guidance,Changed a lot,Temper ok,Also speaks the health,And very polite.

孩子不是亲生胜似亲生 The child is not better than their own biological

　　“妈妈、妈妈……”孩子们一边喊一边往坐在木制沙发上的李成红的怀里扑去，十分调皮、可爱。

"mother/mother……"The children shouted side to sit on the sofa wooden LiChengGong arms robot to,Very naughty/lovely.

　　李成红说，“模拟家庭，在外人看来是一个假家庭，孩子都不是亲生的，但我不这么认为，能走进这个家就是缘分，他们就是我们的亲生娃。”

LiChengGong said,"Simulation family,In the stranger seems to be a fake family,Children is not one's own,But I don't think so,Can walk in the home is the fate,They are our own Eva."

　　与四个孩子在一起生活了近3年，有太多的酸甜苦辣。李成红说，刚刚组成这个家时，与孩子们相处并不容易：每个孩子性格都不一样，而且都有自己的思想，还有些叛逆。特别是相处的第一周，孩子们身上臭、口水臭，还不停地拉屎拉尿，整个屋子都充满臭味。

And four children living together for nearly three years,There are too many joys and sorrows of life.LiChengGong said,Just component in the home,Get along with children is not easy:Every child personality is different,And have their own thoughts,Still have some rebel.Especially with the first week,The children body smelly/Saliva smelly,Still kept shit pull urine,The whole room is full of stink.

　　“刚开始时，四个孩子中，三个小的都不会走路。”李成红说，尤其是两个儿子，不会说话，很难交流，其中小儿子吞咽功能有障碍，不会吃饭，不会吸牛奶，每顿吃饭时，要流很多口水。

"At the beginning,Four children in the,Three small will not walk."LiChengGong said,Especially the two sons,Can't talk,Hard to exchange,The younger son swallowing function disorder,Won't eat,Won't suck the milk,Eat every meal,A lot of saliva to flow.

　　“孩子的命运本来就很苦，一定要让他们得到健康的成长。”李妈妈说，她每天拿着吸管教小儿子吸牛奶，每吸一次伸出大拇指鼓励，锻炼他的吞咽功能。通过8个月的引导，小儿子终于能把牛奶吸进嘴里了。后来，他还学会了自己吃饭。

"The fate of their children was very bitter,Must let them get healthy growth."Mom said,Every day she took the pipette teach the younger son suck the milk,Each suction a thumb up encouraging,Exercise his swallowing function.Through the guidance of eight months,The younger son finally can put milk sucked into the mouth.later,He also learned his dinner.

笑着流泪只因心中有幸福 Smile tears because in the heart to have happiness

　　时至中午，李成红该去做饭了。

At noon,LiChengGong should go to cook the dinner.

　　“看到这几个孩子的成长，我们觉得付出一点很值得！”孩子的爸爸周华钢说：“每天下班回来，孩子们抢着拿拖鞋，让人感到很幸福”。

"See this a few a child's growth,We think it is worth to pay!"The child's father ZhouHuaGang said:"Everyday go off work to come back,The children scrambled take slippers,Let a person feel very happy".

　　有一件事情让李成红至今想起也会落泪。去年12月的一天，李成红感冒了，便叫玲玲带着弟弟妹妹玩耍，她想休息一会儿，结果睡着了。中午时分，玲玲叫醒李成红：“妈妈，快起来，吃午饭了！”李成红一进厨房，看到大女儿用糯米、豌豆、腊肉、火腿肠做的饭，眼泪顿时流了出来。

There is one thing that let LiChengGong now remember it will shed tears.Last December day,LiChengGong caught a cold,They called lingling with a brother and sister to play,She wants to have a rest,Results fell asleep.At midday,Lingling LiChengGong wake up:"mother,Fast up,Eat lunch!"LiCheng red into the kitchen,See the older daughter with glutinous rice/pea/bacon/Ham and egg cooking,Tears suddenly flow out.

　　“准备一下，要开饭了！”半个小时后，李成红一喊。玲玲赶紧擦桌子、搬椅子、拿筷子。

"To prepare,Want to have lunch!"Half an hour later,LiCheng 1 shout.Lingling to wipe the table/Move the chair/Take chopsticks.

　　饭桌上，孩子们不停地给爸爸妈妈夹菜，一家人其乐融融。

The table,The children kept to mom and dad clip vegetables,Harmony of the family.

　　李成红说，每周一至周五，她早上6时半起床，做早饭；7时，叫四个孩子起床，洗漱、吃早饭，出门送孩子们上学……周末，李成红夫妇则带着孩子爬山、逛商场、游公园等，爸爸肩上扛一个，手上牵一个，妈妈两只手一边牵一个，像个孩子王一样，让孩子们开开心心地出门。

LiChengGong said,From Monday to Friday,She early morning get up at 6 and a half,Do breakfast;7 when,Call get up four children,Wash gargle/Eat breakfast,Go out to send their children to school……The weekend,LiChengGong couples with children mountain climbing/shopping/Parks, etc,Dad a on his shoulder,Hands pulling a,Mother two hands while pulling a,Like a HaiZiWang as,Let the children happily go out.

　　“爸爸妈妈好不好？”面对记者的提问，两个女儿异口同声说：“好！”两个聋哑儿子伸出大拇指，连连点头。

"Mom and dad is good?"Facing journalists' questions,Two daughters in chorus said:"good!"Two deaf son thumb up,Repeatedly nod.

　　一旁的李成红夫妇笑了，笑着笑着，已泪流满面……

One side of LiChengGong couple laughed,Smile smile,Has tears streaming down the……

新闻纵深 News depth

为何组建“模拟家庭”？ Why a"Simulation family"?

只为了给孩子完整的爱 Just to give the child a complete love

　　“建立‘模拟家庭’，是为了给孩子完整的爱。”市儿童福利院夏洪英说，以前，福利院的孤残儿童都是由保育员照看和管理，每个保育员负责10多个孩子，缺少“家”的温暖，缺少“父母”的关爱。2010年元月，“新和家园”建成，设置了24户模拟家庭，96个孩子有了“家”。实践证明，孤残孩子们在模拟家庭中通过爸爸、妈妈近3年的呵护，变得坚强了，学会了与人相处。

"To establish‘Simulation family’,In order to give the child a complete love."City welfare home for children XiaHongYing said,before,The welfare of disabled children are made by the nurse care and management,Each nurse responsible for more than 10 children,Lack of"home"warm,Lack of"parents"care.In January 2010,"New and homes"built,Set up 24 door simulation family,96 children have"home".Practice has proved,Gu incomplete children in the family in the simulation by dad/Mother nearly 3 years of care,Become hardened,Learned to get along with people.

　　具体地说，“模拟家庭”是指具有部分家庭功能的近似家庭，它是集寄养、看护、教育于一体的、融入社区的、无“家”可归的儿童之“家”，是一种救助保护“福利院儿童”的新模式。

specifically,"Simulation family"It is to point to have some family function approximation family,It is the collection foster/care/Education in one of the/Into the community of/no"home"Can be the children"home",Is a kind of rescue protection"Children's welfare home"New mode.

　　“模拟家庭”的一个非常重要的功能，就是希望借此营造一种类似家庭的氛围以利于儿童心理的健康与成长。它的目标很明确，那便是让这些无家可归的儿童尽可能地享受到“家”的温馨和“亲情”的温暖。尽可能地重建或矫正这些儿童相对缺乏或扭曲的情感体验，完善他们的人格，学会表达和享受“家人”之爱，“手足”之情，习得如何进行正常的人际交往的能力，为他们今后更好地融入社会打好基础。

"Simulation family"A very important function,Is hoping to build a kind of similar family atmosphere for children's mental health and growth.Its goal is very clear,That is to let these homeless children to enjoy as much as possible"home"Warmth and"family"warm.As far as possible, reconstruction or rectify these children's relative lack of or distorted emotion experience,Perfect their personality,Learn to express and enjoy"family"love,"brothers"feeling,Learned how to carry out normal interpersonal skills,For their future better in social lay a good foundation.

　　“模拟家庭的‘父母’都是社会招聘的！”夏老师说，这些孩子们都很可爱，他们需要社会更多的阳光和关爱！

"Simulation family‘parents’Are social recruitment!"Summer the teacher said,These children are very lovely,They need the society more sunshine and love!