网友：溺爱是一种剥夺 Net friend:Dote on is a kind of deprivation

　　新闻源@都市快报：16日，大连74岁周奶奶收到一包快递，是刚上大学的孙女寄回来的大包衣服和7双袜子，让她帮着洗，洗完后再邮回去(距开学才8天)。近日，微博上接连出现几个关于大学新生对校园生活不适应的新闻，网友们或惊奇或感慨，或表示理解。但更多的网友质疑，是否家长的溺爱使孩子丧失了生存能力？有网友表示，最好的办法就是放手。

News source @ urban express:16,Dalian 74 - year - old grandma zhou received a pack of express,Just go to college granddaughter send back bale clothes and seven pairs of socks,Let her helping with the,After washing and mail back(Distance opening just eight days).recently,Micro blog for appear a few about university freshmen to campus life does not adapt to the news,Net friends or surprise or feeling,Or understands that.But more netizens question,If parents spoiling children lost their viability?Have net friend say,The best way is to let go.

自理能力还可以差到这地步？ Self-care ability can also sent this far?

　　@1212龙翔天下：怎么可能？@天才樱木同学：不至于吧，把衣服寄回家洗，自理能力还可以差到这地步？是太懒了吧。@历下之壬：学生适应能力是一方面，但是学校方面是不是该反思在后勤管理上毫无建树呢。几十年如一日满足不了学生的正常生活需求。@LOVE紫色小猪：记得昨天跟老公在家聊，孩子们吃苦耐劳的心理缺失了。@潴猪孩孓气：这也太娇生惯养了吧，现在都不能自理，以后毕业我想她要怎么生活呀？俺们那时候上初中都能自理了……

@ 1212 dragon world:How can?@ genius of cherry wood students:Not it,The clothes to wash send home,Self-care ability can also sent this far?Is too lazy!.@ the nonyl just:Students adapt to the ability is on one hand,But schools is the reflection in the logistics management? No achievements.Dozens of years like one day can't satisfy the students' normal life demand.@ LOVE purple pig:Remember yesterday with the husband talk at home,The children bear hardships and stand hard work psychological missing.@ lateritic red pig boy Jue gas:This is also too spoiled it,Now cannot provide for oneself,After graduation I think she how life?The ans the top junior high school can the self-care……

　　@庄万军：以后怎么生活，天啊！

@ ZhuangWanJun:How life after,oh!

　　@其实挺狠的：物竞天择，适者生存。

@ quite maliciously:selection,The survival of the fittest.

溺爱是一种剥夺 Dote on is a kind of deprivation

　　@wxyjudy：家长有责任，从小就要训练生活自理能力。@姬素颜：甭洗甭寄，裸奔三天保证无师自通学会洗衣服，洗得比立白还白！@宋小打：还是家长教育存在问题吧，我姑娘以后要把衣服寄家来洗，我真大嘴巴抽她！@嘟嘟_Seven：这都是家长宠的怪谁去。@老张笑：现在的孩子太娇气了，这个倒是家庭教育的问题，太溺爱了。@孙云晓： 溺爱是一种剥夺，是一种软暴力。@石家庄布奇乐乐园： 溺爱的后果就是长大后孩子丧失了生存能力。@鲁稚：我儿子从初中开始读寄宿，相当于半独立生活，几年了，从未听他为生活问题而抱怨，诸如饭菜啊，洗澡啊，脏衣服啊之类。周围的同学固然也有抱怨的，但终究都适应了。不适应的只是极少数，整体情况并不是想象的那样可怕，哪怕是圈养的动物，放归自然以后也能恢复大部分的生存能力。最好的办法就是放手！@拍卖师徐广东：多吃些苦，慢慢就成熟了。@笑少年轻：父母自省，社会自省，教育自省！(记者崔妮娜)

Wxyjudy @:Parents have the responsibility to,From childhood to independent living ability training.@ JiSuYan:Don't wash don't send,Streaking three days ensure self taught learn to wash his clothes,Wash better than made white also white!@ song small play:Or the parents education problems it,My girl to send home after clothes to wash,I really big mouth pumping her!@ doodle _Seven:This is all parents spoil strange who go to.@ Lao zhang smile:Now the children too effeminacy,This is the problem of family education,Too dote on the.@ SunYunXiao: Dote on is a kind of deprivation,Is a kind of soft violence.@ shijiazhuang butch lele garden: Doting result is after be brought up children lost their viability.@ LuZhi:My son from junior middle school start reading boarding,Half is equivalent to an independent life,years,Never listen to him for life issues and complain,Such as food ah,Bath ah,Dirty clothes ah and so on.Surrounding classmates is also have to complain about,But ultimately are adapted to the.Not to adapt to just a few,The overall situation is not imagine that terrible,Even in captivity in animals,Released after nature also can restore most of the survival ability.The best way is to let go!@ auctioneer XuGuangDong:Eat more bitter,Gradually mature.@ smile less young:Parents introspection,Social introspection,Education introspection!(Reporter CuiNiNa)