这辈子到底有没有出息，对于我们来说要做什么呢?最重要的还是要明白人生的过程是一个不断改变自己命运的过程。 In this life exactly have ambition,For us what to do?The most important still is to understand the process of life is a constantly changing process of his own fate.

　　第一，要相信自己能做事情，能改变自己的命运。为自己做出明确的人生选择，并且坚定不移地走下去。哪怕这条路再窄，只要路在前面，只要你能走得更远，就可以看到别人没有看到的风景。 The first,To believe that you can do things,Can change their own destiny.To make clear life choices,And unswervingly go on.Even if the road to narrow,As long as road in front,As long as you can go further,You can see nobody has to see the scenery.

　　第二，要记住你是来大学干什么的，不要把大学当成是混日子的地方。你可以混，但混日子有混日子不同的方式，大学混日子和你浑浑噩噩地混日子完全是两个概念。 The second,Remember you are doing to the university,Don't put the university as a dawdle place.You can mix,But muddle along a muddle along different ways,University muddle along and you ignorant to goof off completely are two concepts.

——俞敏洪寄语当代大学生 - Mr Yu message contemporary college students

　　亲爱的同学们：

Dear classmates:

　　大家晚上好!

Everybody good evening!

　　非常感谢大家在这么辛苦的军训期间，特别是从其他学校赶了很长时间的路来到上海交通大学体育馆，听我和钱文忠一起演讲。

Thank you very much everyone in so hard during military training,Especially from other school cast for a long time the road came to Shanghai jiaotong university gymnasium,Listen to me and QianWenZhong speech together.

　　刚才大家看了我跟钱文忠的PPT介绍，至少从我本人了解来说，钱文忠并没有像这上面说得那么好。在北京大学只有他一个人学梵文，怎么学考试都及格，而且没有比较。在一个没有竞争的舞台上就养成了他的悠闲心态，造就了今天的钱文忠。所以，他习惯一个人到自己的世界里为自己的生命打开一扇门。我说这个引言的概念是我们每一个人都有自己的生活，任何时候你去跟别人比较其实都是看不起自己的一种行为，因为每一个个体都是独特的，每一个人过日子都是一辈子的，不是一天的。

Just you looked at me with QianWenZhong introduced the PPT,At least I know from it,QianWenZhong and there is no one like it said so well.In the Beijing university only him a humanistic Sanskrit,How did you learn all pass the exam,And there is no comparison.In a no competition stage has formed his carefree state of mind,Contributed to today's QianWenZhong.so,He is used to a person to own world for his life to open a door.I said this introduction is the concept of each one of us has his own life,Any time you comparing yourself with others actually all is looked down upon his own a kind of behavior,Because each individual is unique,Each life is all one's life,Not a day.

　　我最不喜欢在进入大学以后还在跟同学比成绩的高低这样的行为。大学里很多同学现在不去比思想是不是独特，而去比一些没有意思的无聊的东西，比穿的名牌衣服哪个更好，比谁的家庭背景更好。如果我跟钱文忠比家庭背景，我会被他气死;从钱家的世代名人来说，如果钱文忠跟钱学森比，他也会一头撞死。但是，他不需要跟钱学森比，也不需要有钱学森的科学技术知识，他要的是人文哲学知识，两个人都用不同的方式为中国和中国文化、科技发展做出贡献。我跟钱文忠比，我也会气死。为什么呢?他的父母的父母的父母都是认字的，而我的父母是不认字的，他们都是农民。当我们走进大学以后，如果我们还在比较到底谁比谁的家庭背景好，谁比谁的成绩好，谁比谁的服装好，谁比谁的长相好，谁比谁的女朋友好，这是缺乏自信、看不起自己的行为。

I don't like the most in the university in later with students than the result the height such behavior.The university many students now not to than thought is unique,But to no meaning than some boring things,Than wear brand name clothes which is better,The family background better than anyone.If I told QianWenZhong than family background,I will be his grieve,Money from home for the generation of celebrities,If QianWenZhong than with qian xuesen,He also will be a head of bump dead.but,He doesn't need to than qian xuesen,Also do not need to have qian xuesen science and technology knowledge,He want is a humanistic philosophy knowledge,Both use different ways for China and Chinese culture/The development of science and technology to contribute.I told QianWenZhong ratio,I will grieve.why?His parents parents parents are the read,But my parents are not literate's,They are farmers.When we entered after university,If we are in more than anyone who the family background is good,Who is more well,Who is more dress well,Who is more looks good,Who is more girlfriend good,This is lack of confidence/Look down upon their own behavior.

　　在一个没有客观标准的时代，用一个所谓外在的客观标准是没有办法比较的。进入大学后的第一步，如果能摆脱这些比较心理的话，你就成功了一半。其他到底在哪些方面要比较呢?对于终身的理想要比较，这辈子你想把自己变成什么人，你想变成有钱人，变成像钱文忠这样有学问的人，还是变成像我这样办一个教育培训机构。你要想清楚的是自己喜欢不喜欢、要不要做这件事情。另外，你要比较的是今天和明天、明天和后天、今年和明年、明年和后天，在思想、独立意识上到底是不是有进步。你是不是从一个没有思想的人变成了一个有思想的人?从一个模仿别人思想的人变成一个有独立思想的人?

In an era of no objective standard,Use a so-called external objective standard there is no way to compare.After entering the university's first step,If you can get rid of these comparative psychological words,You are half the battle.Other exactly in what aspects? To compare?The ideal of the lifelong to compare,In this life you want to turn himself into what person,You want to become rich,Become like QianWenZhong such a learned man,Or become like I do it a education training institutions.You want to know is he like don't like/Don't do it.In addition,You have to compare is today and tomorrow/Tomorrow and the day after tomorrow/This year and next/The next year, and the day after tomorrow,In the ideological/Independent consciousness on it is progress.Are you from a thoughtless person become a thinking person?From a imitate others thought people become a independent thinking person?

　　所以，我们不要去跟别人比，你要跟自己比，树立自己的独立意识、思想和个体。你要做一个独立的人，同时又能融入到这个社会或者做引领这个社会的人，这是特别重要的，这是你改变自己的第一步。所以，不要按照世俗的标准判断你到底好还是坏，就像不要按照你拿工资多少来判断这个工作对你合适不合适。在我身边我就发现拿着每月两三万工资的人过着不愉快的生活，但是拿着两三千工资的人却过着很愉快的生活。当然，在愉快工作、愉快学习、愉快研究的前提下，工资拿得越多越好。当一件事情做到最后不管给你多少东西都不能使你感到愉快的时候，从深层意义来说，它已经剥夺了你思考、悠闲的余地，它就不是一份好工作。比如说，我认为十年前的新东方对我来说是一份很完美的工作，我走进教室上完课以后，可以带着学生一起喝啤酒，或者和新东方的老师聊天，和北京大学的同事聊天。但是，今天的新东方却不是我百分之百愿意要的生活。我发现做到今天，我反而越来越忙了。刚才在贵宾室，钱文忠说像你这样的俗人，学生才认为是成功的典型，我说这恰恰是现在中国学生不成熟的地方，他们认为做成一个事业、有了名声就变成了成功人士，这是不对的。当然，这可以是成功的标志之一。到现在为止，我认为我应该去过的生活其实是应该部分回归到比如说追随钱文忠这样的人身上，当然我说的追随是作为一个朋友来跟他有时间交往、聊天，包括跟他争论，通过思想的碰撞，让我自己进一步提升，这是我现在想要追求的生活。人的每个阶段都有不同的追求，这是一个人成长的必经之路。比如：贫困的时候追求财富是我的目标;在农村的时候追求进北京大学读书是我的目标;现在，摆脱财富的影响来创造自己的思想，创造自己立身立命的东西，就变成了我追求的目标。

so,We don't with others,You want to compare yourself,To set up their own independent consciousness/Thought and individual.Do you want to do an independent person,At the same time can into the social or lead the social people,This is particularly important,This is you to change your first step.so,Don't according to worldly standard judgment you exactly good or bad,Like don't according to you how much salary to judge the work best for you don't fit.In my side I find it with a monthly salary 230 thousand people lived not happy life,But with a 23000 wage people lead a very happy life.Of course,In the happy work/The pleasure of study/Happy under the precondition of research,Wage to take the more the better.When a thing do finally no matter how many things to you can make you feel happy time,From the deep sense,It has deprived you think/Leisurely room,It is not a good job.For example,I think that ten years ago new Oriental for me is a very beautiful work,I came into the classroom after after class,Can take together with students to drink beer,Or and new Oriental teacher chat,And Beijing university colleagues chat.but,Today's new Oriental is not I'm one hundred percent want life.I found that do today,But I more and more busy.Just in the VIP room,Like you QianWenZhong said the layman,The students think that it is a successful example,I should say that this rather is now Chinese students immature place,They think that make it a career/A reputation became successful,It is wrong.Of course,This can be a mark of success.So far,I think I should have been to life is actually part should return to for example to follow QianWenZhong such person,Of course I said follow as a friend to tell him the time to communication/chat,Including argue with him,Through the thought of collision,Let myself further ascension,This is my now want to the pursuit of life.Person's each stage has the different pursuits,This is a person grow only way.For example:In the pursuit of wealth is my goal;In the countryside when pursuing into Beijing university is my goal;now,Get rid of the influence of wealth to create your own thoughts,Create your own life foundation made things,Will become my pursuit of the goal.

　　我碰到学生问我最多的两个问题：一个是 “俞老师，我这辈子会有出息吗”;另一个是“俞老师，我应该怎么选择我的人生道路”。

I met students ask me most of the two problems:One is "Shu teacher,In the course of this life I will have ambition";The other is a"Shu teacher,What should I choose my life road".

　　我们先说第一个问题。其实，这个问题问得就有些荒谬，因为只有你自己知道，你这辈子有没有出息，你现在有出息不等于未来有出息，现在没出息不等于未来没出息。很多同学是学生会或者团体的负责人，学习第一、第二名，在学校风光一时，至少在我的大学同学和我认识的人中，一般来说在班里成绩保持在前几名的同学，未来在学术上和在社会上能取得重大成就的可能性反而是下降的。钱文忠在班里通常都是倒数几名。我在北大毕业的时候，平均成绩是我们班倒数第五名，但这并不意味着我们未来没有自己发展的余地。所以，不要把大学时候的风光看成你未来在社会上一辈子风光。很多大学成绩特别好的同学只会学习，在社会上受到打击以后，最后意志消沉，从此一落千丈;大学成绩不好的同学即使面对教授的指责和批判，依然能够“厚颜无耻”地进入社会。

We first said the first question.In fact,The question to ask is somewhat absurd,Because only you know,In this life you have ambition,You now have ambition is not equal to the future have ambition,Now losers is not equal to the future good for nothing.Many students are students or the person in charge of the group,Learning the first/The second,In the school the scenery,At least in my college classmates and of the liveliest people I know,Generally speaking in class in the first several keep scores of the students,In the future academic and in society can make great achievements instead of possibility is down.In the class QianWenZhong is usually reciprocal several.I graduated at Peking University,Average scores are our class fifth countdown,But this does not mean that our future no room for development.so,Don't put the university time scenery as your future life in society scenery.Many college grades special good students will only learning,In society after the hit,Finally depression,From now on nose dive;University bad grades of the students even in the face of the professor's criticism and criticism,Still can"effrontery"Into social.

　　这辈子到底有没有出息，对于我们来说要做什么呢?最重要的还是要明白人生的过程是一个不断改变自己命运的过程。有的时候我们的命是已经定的，比如说你的长相是固定的，不管这辈子怎么弄你的长相都是不会变的，即便美容也改变不了原来难看的本质。就像有一个故事讲的，一对夫妻，女的特别漂亮，结果生出来的孩子很难看，男的就琢磨，我们的孩子不应该这么难看，是不是她有外遇了?最后，女的承认结婚以前整了三次容。比如说男生常常会以自己的身高来决定自己的自信，如果这样的话，钱文忠在我面前不是要一头栽下去了?我比他高出一头。有同学跟我说：我站在男生中间看不见自己，站在女生中间还是看不见自己。其实这没有问题，鲁迅1.58米，邓小平1.57米，拿破仑1.56米，你如果是1.55米，会变成什么样的人不就一下子想明白了吗?不要以自己的外表判断自己的未来，不能改变的东西不要改变，要坦然地接受，只有坦然接受才会有安宁和自信，我就是我。

In this life exactly have ambition,For us what to do?The most important still is to understand the process of life is a constantly changing process of his own fate.Sometimes our life is already set,For example you face is fixed,No matter in this life how to do your face is not become,Even if beauty can't change the nature of the original ugly.As there is a story,A couple,Female special beautiful,Results born child is very ugly,Man figured,Our children should not be so ugly,Isn't she was having an affair?finally,Woman admitted that get married before the whole three capacity.For example the boy often to his height to decide their own self-confidence,If so,QianWenZhong in front of me not to a head of planted down?I am better than him more than a head.Some students say with me:I'm standing in the middle boy sees not itself,Standing in the middle or girl sees not itself.In fact, this is no problem,Lu xun's 1.58 meters,Deng xiaoping 1.57 meters,Napoleon 1.56 meters,If you is 1.55 meters,What will become of the people don't just suddenly want to understand?Don't make your own appearance to judge their own future,Can't change things don't change,To come to accept,Only accept just can have peace and confidence,I am who I am.

　　在坦然接受的基础上，我们来看这辈子到底能怎么样改变。比如说我命中注定出生在农民家庭，但以这个为起点我可以来改变自己，我把这个过程叫做“变命”，即让自己的命运慢慢转变。如果我不坚持高考三年，我到现在为止肯定就是我们村庄里十几个老农当中的一个，我们都是儿时的伙伴，肯定一辈子都走不出乡村。尽管我做新东方做得很苦，但至少我觉得这辈子过得很值，我走遍了世界上的山山水水，我认识了像钱文忠这样的人。所以，生活中你会发现，自己这一辈子到底走成什么样，由你自己决定。我从一个农民变成北京大学的学生，本来我在北京大学可以当一辈子老师，但毕竟我后来做了新东方，做新东方对我来说并不是给我带来了社会地位和财富，而是给了我一个巨大的平台，让我各方面去证明自己的能力和活力。这就是你选择改变自己的命运，需要你自己去改变。像我常常讲的守株待兔的故事。很多同学进了上海交通大学以后，觉得自己已经守到了一只兔子，在这样有名气的学校里坐着就会有机会，这就是守株待兔的心理，永远不会成功。从内心深处来说，没有一个人会一辈子只抓住一只兔子就会对自己生命的丰富性真正满足，如果真满足的话，钱文忠20年前就应该对自己的学术成就满足了，他也不会去中央电视台《百家讲坛》解读《玄奘西游记》和《三字经》了。对于同学们来说，你要做的是把被动的农夫变成主动的猎人。我非常庆幸，当我在90年代初发现教育培训行业有机会的时候，我没有继续留在北京大学教书，而是出来做一个个体户，事实证明是对的。即使我失败了也不会后悔，大不了最后身无分文，从头再来，就这么简单的一个道理。所以，选择改变自己的命运，这是一个漫长的不断去寻找的过程，即使我走到今天这个地步，也依然还在寻找如何让我这辈子活得比现在更加好。

On the basis of accept,We see in this life can exactly how to change.For example I meant to be born in a peasant family,But in this as a starting point I can to change yourself,I put this process is called"Change life",That let their own destiny slowly transforming.If I don't adhere to the college entrance examination three years,I so far is definitely our village ten several one of the old farmer,We are all his mates of boyhood,Must be a lifetime all could not walk out of the country.Although I do new Oriental do very bitter,But at least I think this life have a value,I went through all the world's mountains and rivers,I know QianWenZhong like such a man.so,Life you will find,His this lifetime exactly go into what kind of,It's up to you.I'm from a farmer into Beijing university students,Was I in Beijing university can be a lifetime teacher,But after all, I then made new Oriental,Do new Oriental to me and not bring me the social status and wealth,But gave me a huge platform,Let me all aspects to prove my ability and vitality.This is you choose to change their own destiny,Need you to change.As I have often told the story of spontaneously.Many students into the Shanghai jiaotong university later,Think you have to keep to a rabbit,In such a famous school will have the opportunity to sit,This is the psychological spontaneously,Never succeed.From deep inside it,No one will be lifetime catch a rabbit will to oneself the richness of life truly satisfy,If really meet the words,QianWenZhong 20 years ago to their own academic achievement should satisfy the,He also won't go to China central television[Lecture room]interpretation[7-12 journey to the west]and[Prblic places]the.For students,You have to do is take the passive farmer become active hunter.I'm very glad,When I was in the 90 s found that education and training industry have opportunities,I don't have to stay in Beijing university teaching,But come out to make a soho,The facts proved to be right.Even if I failed don't regret it,Big deal finally broke,Start all over again,So simple a truth.so,To change their own destiny,This is a long unceasingly to look for of the process,Even if I go to today this situation,Also still looking for how to make this life I live more than now.

　　下面说说另外一个问题。经常有人问我：“俞老师，我到底怎么样选择我的人生道路?当时你面对留在北京大学还是做新东方，你是怎么做出这个决策的?”学生问我最多的问题是：考研究生好还是出国好还是工作好?哪个对我的生命会有最佳的影响?我想说的是这个问题也只有你自己能够回答。美国诗人罗伯特 弗罗斯特曾经写过一首诗叫做《未选择的路》，其中一段的大意是：林子里出现两条道路，一条是平坦大道，还有一条是曲折小道，最后我选择了曲折的小道，从此我的人生与众不同。同学们，你所做的就是一辈子与众不同而已，永远没有比别人高或者别人比你低这个说法，世界上没有高低之分，只有你自己认为哪条路对你来说是最值得的、最有价值的，与其在选择中犹豫不决，还不如决而远行。道理很简单，就像两个女子A和B在你面前，原则上你应该马上就知道最热爱哪一个，如果你犹豫不决，那一定是A身上有B不可取代的优点，B身上有A不可取代的优点，在这种情况下，也只有在一张纸上写A，另一张纸上写B，抓到哪张就算哪张。当你在人生道路上出现困惑不可能选择的时候，比如出国留学好还是工作好还是考研究生好，什么都好、什么都不好时，你就采取这个方法，这就是老天告诉你应该走哪条路，抓到了就不要再犹豫，直接走下去。如果你犹豫，最后你的生命能走多远?举个简单例子，如果袁隆平研究了5年杂交水稻后发现这个太难了，就去研究土豆了，请问今天还有袁隆平吗?钱文忠在北京大学上学的时候，是中国大学生尤其是北京大学学生拼命学英语出国的时候，钱文忠发现自己学完梵文后连印度都去不了，懂梵文的就他的老师季羡林，如果他也跟风转学英语，现在也去美国留学了，他肯定没有现在对于中国文化研究、藏学以及佛教研究这么深刻的成果。

Below about another problem.I am often asked:"Shu teacher,What the hell am I choose my life road?When you face a stay in Beijing university or do new Oriental,How did you make the decision?"Students ask me most of the problem is:A graduate student good or go abroad good or work well?Which to my life will have the best effect?I want to say is this problem also only you can answer.American poet Robert frost once wrote a poem called[Did not choose the way of],One segment of the effect is:The woods appeared two road,Is a flat road,There is a zigzag path is,Finally, I chose the winding path,From now on my life different.The students,What you do is a lifetime difference,Never better than others high or low than others you this statement,Nothing in the world is the high and low points,Only you think which road for you is the most worth it/Most valuable,In the choice and indecision,Than never and trips.Reason is very simple,Just like two women A and B in front of you,In principle, you should now know the love which one,If you hesitate,That must be A body B irreplaceable advantages,B body have A irreplaceable advantages,In this case,Only when A piece of paper to write A,The other a piece of paper to write B,Caught which zhang even if which zhang.When you appear on the road in life confused impossible choice,Such as study abroad good or work well or take an examination of graduate student good,What all good/What is bad,You can take this method,This is god tell which way you should go,Caught don't hesitate,Go directly.If you hesitate,Finally you life can walk far?Give a simple example,If, yuan longping, studies the five years after the hybrid rice found this too hard,Study the potatoes,Excuse me today and when?QianWenZhong in Peking University school,Is China's college students especially Beijing university students try very hard to learn English when going abroad,QianWenZhong found himself learned after Sanskrit even India both can't go,Know Sanskrit is his teacher JiXianLin,If he also follow suit transfer English,Now also to the study in the United States,He must not now for Chinese cultural studies/Tibetan studies and buddhist studies so profound achievements.

　　人有的时候老天就注定了你只能干这个，既然如此你就干下去，一旦选择终身无悔。这和家庭生活是一样的，男人在选择自己的女人以前，如果真是想跟她一辈子过，就不能以恋爱的心情来选择。恋爱是一时的，婚姻是一世的。女孩选临时的男朋友找又高又帅的很好，但是选一辈子的老公的时候，又高又帅最多是占了10%的标准，有思想、有活力、有未来的人，才是真正的标准。当然这个就涉及到你的判断力。在大学里谈恋爱，你可以纯粹是心醉魂迷，一眼看上去喜欢就行，反正大学毕业了就分手。但是,如果你把对方放到终身伴侣对待的时候，标准就完全不一样了。女人除了美丽，要看看她是否贤惠，打扫卫生、洗衣服、叠被子等，生活是否有条不紊;看男人要看他是不是胸怀大志，是不是乐于助人，是不是广交朋友等，不管什么方式，这些东西都是一个男人可能未来有出息的标志，这也是一个判断力的问题。你选择了一个方向，就要往前走。

People sometimes god was doomed to you can only do this,So you go on,Once selected to life without regret.This and family life is the same,The man in the choose their own before the woman,If it is really want to talk to her lifetime lead,Cannot love mood to choose.Love is temporary,Marriage is a life.The girl choose temporary boyfriend for tall and handsome is very good,But to choose a lifetime of husband when,Tall and handsome most is accounted for 10% of the standard,Have the thought/dynamic/Have the person of the future,Is the real standard.Of course, this is involved your judgment.Fall in love in the university,You can is pure hypnotized,At first glance like will do,Anyway, graduated from university will break up.but,If you take each other in life partner treatment time,Standard is a whole new ballgame.A woman in addition to beautiful,To see if she is virtuous,cleaning/Wash his clothes/Fold the quilt, etc,Life whether in an orderly way;Look at the man to see whether he aim high,Is ready to help others,Isn't wide make friend, etc,No matter what way,These things are a man may have ambition sign of future,This is also a judgment problem.You choose a direction,Will go on.

　　现在我们许多同学都是机会主义者，为什么是机会主义者呢?有两个方面的原因：第一，我们从小在独生子女的家庭长大，以至于以个人为中心的思维很难改变。这个世界上任何以个人为中心的思维最后一定会受到重大的打击，因为你一旦离开父母走到社会，就要以社会为中心打造你自己的个人;第二，这个社会本身的机会主义很严重。比如我们同学一般来说都是以赚多少钱来判断要不要去干这个工作，而不是以这个工作是不是变成自己终身事业的一部分来判断，这样就会牺牲我们长远的目标和理想，让你不容易在一件事情上坚持下去。还有就是我们在大学时候很迷茫，现在的大学生比我们那一代要迷茫很多、分散注意力很多。分散注意力的原因是现在的大学除了读书气氛不浓，其他气氛都很浓，上网、打游戏、喝酒等。为什么呢?因为家里有钱。像我们那个时候一个月最多是喝一次酒，把生活费省下来，用热水瓶打一壶啤酒回来，买几叠小菜，大家一边喝一边交流思想，很有感情。当时喝酒是因为一个月的认真读书以后需要释放情绪，并且把读书的思想进行交流。我们既没有录音机也没有电脑，更没有iPad，我们惟一能做的就是读完几本书以后在宿舍里吹牛。现在不是这样了，我们连宿舍生活有的时候都不过了，大一刚报到就到外面租房子，把自己在大学四年最容易接受思想、最容易接受同学影响和互相交流的一个时刻丢掉了。到现在为止，如果让我谈论我这辈子生活当中哪四年的生活对我来说收获最大、养成好的生活习惯、培养个性、锻炼与人打交道的能力，毫无疑问就是大学四年集体宿舍的生活。在大学，为了生活的舒适而逃避集体宿舍的生活是一件非常愚蠢的事情，但现在很多同学都在逃避，忍受不了宿舍某个人的脚气，忍受不了宿舍某个人的呼噜。当时，我们宿舍有6个人，两个人打呼噜是交替的，但也正是有了这样的生活，当我再见到宿舍同学时亲如兄弟的感觉依然留在心中，这是生命中特别珍贵的一部分。

Now many of our students is opportunist,Why is opportunist?There are two reasons:The first,We grew up in the singleton female family grow up,So that individual as the center thought it is difficult to change.The world why his personal as the center thought finally certainly can be affected by a major blow,Because once you leave my parents went to the society,With social as the center to create your own personal;The second,The society itself opportunism is very serious.For example we students in general are to judge how much money do you want to do this work,Not in this work is a part of the lifelong career to judge,This will sacrifice our long term goal and ideal,Let you not easy in one thing stick to it.Also, we in college was very confused,Now college students than our generation will lost a lot/Divert attention from many.Distracting reason is now the university in addition to reading atmosphere is not strong,Other atmosphere is very strong,Internet/Dozen game/Drink, etc.why?Because home rich.As we that time a month at most a drink a wine,The cost of living province down,With thermos play a pot of beer,Buy a few fold dishes,We drink side exchange ideas,Have feelings.When drinking because a month to seriously study later need to release the mood,And the idea of reading to communicate.We had neither recorder also don't have a computer,No iPad more,The only thing we can do is to read a few books later in the dorm brag.It is not so,We even dormitory life sometimes all but the,Freshman report just to rent a house outside,Put yourself in the university four years the most receptive to ideas/The most easy to accept students communicate with each other and influence a time lost.So far,If let me talk about my life in this life which four years of life for me the biggest harvest/Develop good habits/Culture personality/Exercise the ability of dealing with people,There is no doubt that is the university four years collective dormitory life.In the university,In order to life comfortable and escape the collective dormitory life is a very stupid things,But now many students are in escape,Can't stand dormitory someone's beriberi,Can't stand dormitory someone shout.At that time,Our dormitory have six men,Two people snore is alternate,But it is such a life,When I meet again when the students are as close as brothers feeling still stay at heart,This is a special part of the precious in life.

　　在大学四年，我常常说三件事情最重要。第一，交朋友。就是交男朋友、女朋友，是真正地交朋友。有一批朋友能跟你谈天说地、心性相通，你能接受别人的思想并且别人的思想能够改变你，这是特别重要的;第二，如果有可能的话谈一场轰轰烈烈的恋爱，我觉得人做事情不需要特别崇高，但是不能破底线。我们很多同学是破底线的，比如作为一个大学生看见书就想吐就是破底线，因为你来就是读书的。如果你看到专业书籍就想吐，你要想办法换专业，如果看到了人文书籍就想吐这就是有问题，表明你拒绝思想、拒绝知识。还有刚才说到的谈恋爱，不是因为爱而谈恋爱，而是因为空虚而谈，那是破了底线的。你可以不止爱一次，但不能缺乏真爱情，如果像你们这么年轻就丢掉了真诚、纯洁、真心，这辈子生命想要伟大是不可能的，因为爱情的方式意味着你未来自己心灵的伟大。总之，做事情是有底线的，不要破了那个底线;第三，要读书。钱文忠他要不读书、不背书，他不可能有今天出口成章的本领。在大学我觉得成绩好不好真的不重要，但你要保持底线。不能说乔布斯没毕业，比尔 盖茨没毕业，你也不毕业了，这完全是两个概念。人家是因为有了创意、有了创新，并且认为自己学的知识已经高于课堂学的知识才辍学。在美国，大学没有毕业，过了10年你又想来上学了，原来的学分还算。所以，不要偷换概念。我在大学的时候也不喜欢课堂学习，所以我不学，但是我至少可以保持一份心情，我在外面读书，可以一本接一本的书读过去。读过的书即便是忘记了，但读书的感觉还在，这点特别重要。读书可以给你一种自信，也可以开创你的眼界和思想。如果在大学都不读书，这辈子想把自己变成有厚度、有深度、有事业的人几乎是不可能的，做大事没有广阔的思维是不可能的。所以，要认认真真地读上几百本书，认认真真地把人生的经验变成自己的智慧。

In the university four years,I often say the most important thing.The first,friends.Is a boyfriend/girlfriend,Is really friends.A group of friend can tell you chit chat/Interlinked mind,Can you accept other people's thought and the thoughts of others to change you,This is particularly important,The second,If possible to a magnificent and victorious in love,I think people do things do not need special lofty,But not broken the bottom line.A lot of classmates of ours is the bottom line,For example as a college students see book is keck is broken the bottom line,For you to be reading.If you see professional books, want to vomit,If you want to change major measures,If see humanity books, want to vomit this is a problem,Show that you refuse to thought/Refused to knowledge.And just said to fall in love,Not because of love and fall in love,But because of emptiness and talk about,That is the bottom line broken.You can love more than once,But not the lack of true love,If you so young like losing sincerely/pure/really,In this life to great life is impossible,Because love way means your future great own heart.In a word,Do things is the bottom line,Don't broken the bottom line;The third,To read.QianWenZhong he or reading/No endorsement,He could not have today have an outstanding eloquence ability.In college I feel grade well don't really important,But you must keep the bottom line.Can't say jobs didn't graduate,Bill Gates didn't graduate,You also don't graduate,This is totally two concepts.The somebody else because of the originality/To have the innovation,And think you learn knowledge has been higher than the classroom learning knowledge to drop out.In the United States,Never graduated from college,After 10 years and you want to go to school,The original credit still calculate.so,Don't concept than.When I was at university, I also don't like classroom learning,So I don't learn,But at least I can keep a mood,I am in the outside reading,Can a pick up a book to read the past.Read the book even forgotten,But the feeling of reading in,This is especially important.Reading books can give you a confidence,Also can create your vision and thoughts.If the university are not reading,In this life want to turn himself into a thickness/deep/A career is almost impossible,To do great things no broad thinking is impossible.so,Conscientious to read hundreds of books,Conscientious to life experience into their own wisdom.

　　我再回过来总结一下。第一，要相信自己能做事情，能改变自己的命运。为自己做出明确的人生选择，并且坚定不移地走下去。哪怕这条路再窄，只要路在前面，只要你能走得更远，就可以看到别人没有看到的风景。第二，要记住你是来大学干什么的，不要把大学当成是混日子的地方。你可以混，但混日子有混日子不同的方式，大学混日子和你浑浑噩噩地混日子完全是两个概念。如果大家把握了这些要点，同学们在大学的生活以至大学毕业以后坚持这些原则，都不会有错。生命中有些闪光点，并且回味的时候感到心灵和精神同样地丰富，即使最后哪怕是落魄也觉得自己还是一个有着内心充实和精神财富的人，我觉得这是人最终的归宿所诉求的。至于未来能不能挣钱，是否有朋友与你一起行走，是否有很多荣誉加给你，都当做是一路的缘分就好，用随缘的心态来对待。但是，所有这些东西都不妨碍你读书、交友、思考，把自己变成独立思考的人。

I'll go back to summarize.The first,To believe that you can do things,Can change their own destiny.To make clear life choices,And unswervingly go on.Even if the road to narrow,As long as road in front,As long as you can go further,You can see nobody has to see the scenery.The second,Remember you are doing to the university,Don't put the university as a dawdle place.You can mix,But muddle along a muddle along different ways,University muddle along and you ignorant to goof off completely are two concepts.If you mastered these points,Students in the college and university life after graduation adhere to these principles,Never be wrong.Life some flash point,And recollection of the time feel heart and spirit similarly rich,Even if the last even comedown also think oneself or with a full heart and spirit wealth people,I think this is the final home to return to of the appeal.As for the future can not earn money,If there is a friend walk with you,If there is a lot of honor given to you,As all is the fate is good,Use according to situation of point of view to treat.but,All these things are not hinder you reading/friends/thinking,Become a person of independent thinking.