“儿子今年秋季读小学，两三个星期下来，我发现我比他还要急。这个愣头愣脑的小家伙，真不知道读书该怎么读。”小田今年秋季读小学，他妈妈仿佛也随着进入了一级战备。

"Son read primary school this fall,Two or three weeks off,I found that I am better than him to hurry.The reckless little thing,I don't know how to read the reading."XiaoTian this fall primary school,His mother as if also with into the level of combat readiness.

　　据了解，小学一年级新生的家长普遍存在着对孩子上学的焦虑情绪，一位班主任说：“开学第一周我接到的家长电话，每天至少10多个。家长们说来说去，就是对孩子能否适应学习生活表现出极大的不安。很显然，他们都有一个很过分的期望孩子一到小学马上变成好学生。”

It is understood,Primary school a freshman there are generally parents to their children to school anxiety emotion,A teacher in charge said:"In the first week I received parents telephone,Every day at least, more than 10.Parents say,Can you adapt yourself to the children is to study life showed great unrest.obviously,They all have a very excessive expect a child to elementary school immediately become a good student."

焦虑之一：怕孩子跟不上学习进度 Anxiety of:Fear of the child couldn't keep up with learning progress

　　“你今天学得怎样”、“你今天学了几个字”，放学后的校门口，你总能听到接孩子的家长在急切地问话。今年接一年级新班的李老师说：“开学前几周，是我们上海小学的学习准备期，不会教很多内容。但家长碰到我们老师，几乎问的都是清一色学习问题，教了什么字啦，学了哪道算术题啦，在他们眼里，以为只有这些才是学习。”

"You learn today"/"You today to learn a few words",The school gate after school,You can always hear after the child's parents eagerly question.This year after year new class of miss li said:"A few weeks before the start of,Shanghai is our primary school learning chrysalis,Don't teach a lot of content.But parents met our teacher,Almost ask are uniformly learning problems,Taught what word,Learn which math la,In their eyes,Think only these is learning."

　　还有的家长见到班主任，就拿出事先准备好的纸和笔，请老师将当天学习的东西复述一下，记下来回去给孩子“补课”。

And parents see the teacher in charge,So he brought out cut-and-dried paper and pen,Please the teacher will learn the things a repeat,Write down back to the child"Make up a missed lesson".

　　看着新生家长的焦虑举动，上海市特级校长、浦东新区明珠小学校长倪中华指出，对小学一年级新生而言，开学几周，学习生活刚刚开始，没有家长想的这么复杂和前瞻，也没有多少学习进度的问题。他认为，与其关心孩子的学习进度，倒不如关注孩子的学习习惯。习惯的培养受益终身。况且单凭几周学习，就给学生扣上跟不上学习的帽子太轻率。家长的焦虑其实是对孩子的认知规律还缺少认知。

Look at new parents anxiety move,The Shanghai super the headmaster/Pudong new area bright phearl elementary school principal NiZhongHua pointed out,The elementary school for a freshman,Opening weeks,The learning of life has just started,No parents think so complicated and prospective,Also do not have how many learning schedule problem.He thinks,Instead of care for children learning progress,Might as well pay attention to children's learning habits.The habit of lifelong training benefit.Besides single by a few runs,Give students buckled couldn't keep up with learning hat is too hasty.Parents are anxious for the child's cognitive laws still lack cognitive.

焦虑之二：怕孩子输在所谓的起跑线上 Second anxiety:Afraid of children lose in the starting line

　　“我家孩子今年读小学，听人家说，要让孩子识点字，做点算术。可也有老师说，小孩进校时不会算术，反而学起来快。事实真的如此吗？”

"My home child elementary school this year,Listen to the somebody else say,To let the children learn some letters,Do arithmetic.But also has the teacher said,When they entered the child won't arithmetic,Instead, learn together quickly.Is this really the case?"

　　问这个问题的家长，听说班上有些同学识字上千，做数学题已会四则运算，为此十分焦急。她最害怕的是，自己的孩子输在所谓的起跑线上。

Ask this question of parents,Heard that the class some students read thousands of,Do math problem already will arithmetic,Therefore very anxious.Her fear most is,Their children lose in the starting line.

　　而过分纠缠于孩子同伴之间的比较，使一些家长从孩子上学一开始心态就被扭曲了。一位家长甚至要求自己的孩子对班上同学的表现排名次，从而进行赶超。

And too entangled in children between companion's comparison,Make some parents children to school from the beginning mentality will be distorted.A parents even want their children to the class performance order,To catch up.

　　对此，威海路第三小学校长罗燕强调，小学一年级新生开始义务教育阶段的学习，这并非是起跑线。如果光凭开学初的表现，就怀疑和焦虑孩子输在起跑线上，那么本身就“不战而退”，已经输在起跑线了。他指出，家长没有必要在所谓的宏观上受偏执的影响，而忽视微观上的细节。复旦大学社会发展与公共政策学院心理系副主任吴国宏认为，将孩子入学的学习定位在学业上，拔苗助长显然不符合孩子的身心发展规律。

this,Weihai road third primary school principals LuoYan stressed,Primary school freshmen began to obligation education stage of the study,It is not the starting line.If light by the beginning of the term performance,Will doubt and anxiety children lose in the starting line,So itself"Don't fight back",Have lost in the starting line.He pointed out that,Parents not necessary in the so-called on macroscopic by the influence of paranoia,And ignore the microscopic details.Fudan university social development and public policy institute, deputy director of the department of psychology WuGuoHong think,Will they enter school learning orientation in work,Spoil things by excessive enthusiasm obviously does not conform to the child's physical and mental development law.

焦虑之三：怕孩子被老师教育 Third anxiety:Children were afraid of teacher education

　　“在一个星期里，我的孩子放学后已经被老师留下来三次了！真担心这样下去，孩子会是什么样的状态。”一位家长在规定时间接不到孩子，显得十分忧虑。

"In a week,My children after school has been the teacher to stay three times!Really worried about this continues,Children will be what kind of state."A parent in the set time get the child,Appear very worry.

　　眼下，一年级新生家长对老师的“告状”，大多不能正确对待。一些家长听说孩子受到老师批评，往往在孩子到家后，不问缘由，不是训斥就是打骂，造成孩子心理的过度紧张，甚至厌恶学习。

the,A freshman to the teacher's parents"at",Most cannot treat correctly.Some parents heard children criticism by the teacher,Often in children after home,Ask the reason,Not scolded is beat and scold,Cause child psychological overstrain,Even repugnance learning.

　　“其实，学生有时被老师批评并不奇怪。一年级新生正是做规矩的时候，可能老师教育的成分会比幼儿园多一点，家长应当理性看待。说实在的，不是老师对家长说了一些孩子的情况，就是告状，也不能认为老师不说就是孩子的表现很好。孩子成长是一个过程，家长坦荡一点，大度一点，也许比一味焦虑更有用。”带了三届学生的班主任钱老师这样劝说家长。

"In fact,Students are sometimes teacher criticism is not surprising.A freshman to do when it is custom,May the teacher education composition will be a little more than the kindergarten,Parents should be a rational view.honestly,Is not a teacher for parents said some children's conditions,Is at,Can't think the teacher say that a child's performance is very good.Children to grow up is a process,Parents straight a little,Magnanimous point,Perhaps more useful than blindly anxiety."With three of the student teacher in charge teacher this money to persuade parents.

　　“家长对小学一年级新生表现出来的焦虑情绪，可能各个家庭情形不一，孩子情况不同，有着不同的焦虑点。但对小学教育不了解，对孩子期望过多，也许是通病。”上海市特级教师、特级校长、一师附小校长鲁慧茹强调，新生的学习刚刚开始，是无需过度焦虑的。相反，家长保持一个沉稳的心态，对孩子的状态就是一个“正能量”，反之就有可能影响到孩子。（记者 苏军）

"The elementary school parents a freshman to expression comes out of anxiety,Each family circumstances may differ,The child is quite different,Have different anxiety point.But for primary school education do not understand,For children expect too much,Perhaps is the common fault."The Shanghai super teacher/Superfine principal/Primary division President LuHuiRu stressed,The new study has just started,Is no excessive anxiety.instead,Parents keep a composed state of mind,To the child's condition is a"Positive energy",And it is possible to affect children.(Reporter the Soviet)