“不让我出国留学我就……”中秋节前，一场出国留学的讲座让大连某重点中学高一女生小侨（化名）非常羡慕国外教育体制，动起了海外留学念头，为出国，她竟天天与经济并不宽裕的父母闹别扭，有时竟然不吃不喝相要挟。

"Don't let me go abroad to study abroad I will……"Before the Mid-Autumn festival,A study abroad lecture let dalian a key middle school a little girl overseas(alias)Very envy foreign education system,Moving up the overseas education idea,To go abroad,She was every day and economic poor parents be difficult with sb,Sometimes don't eat not to drink phase coerce.

　　今年9月份刚刚升入重点中学的高一女生小侨学习成绩不错，学校门前经常有留学中介机构发传单，小侨拿到宣传单后，都仔细研究一番，非常向往国外先进的教育制度，9月26日，大连某大学到小侨所在学校举办出国留学讲座，回家之后，小侨竟然茶饭不思，天天央求父母要出国。

In September this year just to key middle school a little girl overseas study result is good,The school door often have to study abroad intermediary fliers,Small overseas after get flyer,Have a careful study,Very yearning foreign advanced education system,On September 26,A university dalian to small in overseas by school study abroad lecture,Back home,Small unexpectedly the tea rice don't think overseas,Every day begged parents to go abroad.

　　小侨妈妈姜女士在接受记者采访时无奈地说，“女儿进入重点中学后，全家人为了她上学方便，特意在兴工街一带租房居住。 ”姜女士说，刚开学时，女儿就经常会收到一些留学中介发的宣传单，后来参加了一次由中介组织的模拟雅思考试，分数在7分以上，中介公司认为女儿英语底子不错，建议出国留学。

Small overseas mother ginger lady when accepting a reporter to interview helplessly said,"Daughter into the key middle school,The whole family to her to school is convenient,Especially in the XingGongJie area renting a house to live. "Ginger lady said,Just at the beginning of,Daughter was often will receive some study abroad intermediary hair of flyer,Later attended a intermediary organization by the simulation of ielts,Score in seven points,Intermediary company think daughter English backing good,Suggest studying abroad.

　　小侨妈妈姜女士说，小侨还没等出国就落下一堆“洋毛病”：吃面包需要烤面包机，嘲笑中国人的自来水不能直接饮用等等，姜女士苦恼地说，“现在女儿不好好学习，也不想参加本国的高考，还经常以如果不让出国，她就如何如何相要挟”。

Small overseas mother ginger woman says,Small overseas before go abroad will fall in a heap"The problem":Eat bread need to bake bread machine,Laugh at Chinese water cannot direct drinking and so on,Ginger lady distressly said,"Now his daughter don't study hard,Also don't want to take part in their college entrance examination,Also often with if you don't let go abroad,She is how phase coerce".

　　被女儿搅得心烦意乱的小侨父母经过多方打听得知，出国留学大约需要30万至40万元的费用，这笔高昂费用对一个工薪家庭来说是无法负担的，“可如果一下子拒绝女儿的要求，又怕女儿出什么意外”，弄得小侨父母六神无主，无所适从。

The daughter was shaken by the overseas small parents after much about that,Studying abroad is about 300000 to 400000 yuan fee,The high cost for a working families is unable to afford,"But if suddenly refused to her daughter's request,Again afraid daughter what accident",Make small parents went overseas,At loose ends.

　专家 experts

　　过早留学未必是好事 Early study abroad is not necessarily a good thing

　　有关专家杨瑞云建议，孩子出国留学因人而异，有些家长认为“早点出国的好处是锻炼了孩子”，但孩子毕竟是孩子，对很多事情的判断理解能力、处理问题的应变能力都有待提高，盲目出国会对孩子的心理造成不好的影响。 记者阎华

Experts YangRuiYun Suggestions,Children studying abroad vary from person to person,Some parents think"Earlier the benefits of going abroad is exercise the child",But the child after all are children,For many things judgment understanding ability/To deal with the strain capacity are expected to be improving,Blind to the congress child's psychological cause bad influence. Reporter YanHua